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LadyAimy:
Exactly. See his dp

ibietela2:
When he is 50?

BadBullet:
in response to this thread www-nairaland-com.0.freebasics.com/3526396/what-girl-did-me-just">https://http-www-nairaland-com.0.freebasics.com/3526396/what-girl-did-me-just
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Softbamboo:
Lol um... Hmmm I can't tell you about marriage... I don't have the experience yet

But logic tells me that u do not want to try this method with your wife... Coz u technically bought her (or each other) so supply n demand has no impact coz it's too late they married u

I'm not saying be an asshole ... I'm saying be distant and emotionless... It creates mystery... She will come to u to find out if u still care

Softbamboo:
How old are u...

Softbamboo:
It's a mystery...

Ok think about supply and demand... If a lot of people want a thing but there's limited supply... You can charge more as that thing has value

So if no one wants that thing why should I pay money or also want it

So if u give your GF too much attention she gets bored coz it's oversupply... It implies no one else wants you... Ie she doesn't have anything special ( yawn)

So Imagen that bad guy who doesn't even the time of day for u... U are busy thinking he has an oversupply of girl and you are so lucky to have his attention and as a woman who is insecure your value is validated (sadly)

Softbamboo:
Sorry... You seem very sweet but never show that to any woman....

They will walk all over u...

Advice just ignore her... She will come back to you and offer u more than you hoped to get...

It's called reverse rejection... It hurts... When the one you didn't want doesn't want you

Softbamboo:
Mxm... Empty threats

U are gonna tell me I'll die alone or something... I'll be Soooo desperate I'll go for any guy like the OP ( no offence)

FreeSpirited:
She's not serious.... forget about her..or better still, don't ever take her serious again. That's the beginning of excuse for her and it will never end. It's a bad attitude to be flaky. So she expected you to be around by 8pm...

Tobechuckwu:
Bro u just got to calm down nd check out ursef first!U wan a long term relationship, it'll surely take tym to get a good gurl.So many out dere aren't good enough for wife material.
Relax ur mind cuz if u rush too much u gonna end up with d wrong gurl.
Thank goodness d oda gurl showed dat wen u wanna meet a gurl u don't av to be too happy cuz d tendency dat she has a guy is also high.Kip calm,a good gurl will come.Thx be God u are financially okay

Divay22:
yes

majorbravo:
Believe me, such guys aren't dating 8s. Unless they are 9s themselves. Probably their girls are 4s.
Now why don't you try those things first? What makes you an 8 without an interesting life? There is something those guys have that you don't seem to project. Quality of life experience is what the girls love about them, even if they aren't cute or rich, they have a certain appeal girls aren't immune to.

Girls don't rate a pretty boy as even a 6 if he presents himself as geeky or has an uneventful life, and its not always just the money, money is just the fastest way for a girl meeting guys on first impression to determine who's got an interesting life, cos chances are, men with a lot of money are highly connected and have an interesting social life too, so you need to understand that women rate men differently from how you rate them. Visit my profile and check the video I posted in my 2nd thread on Briffault's law.

Divay22:
I guess you live in Delta state...(Warri precisely)
Don't ask me how i got to know....

majorbravo:
Like seriously dude, how do you really get them to lose interest so quick? cos I cant really think straight with all the girls flocking around me.

Okay, on a more serious note, what would you rate yourself if you were a girl looking for a guy on a scale of 1-10?
And what do you rate the girls you go after on a scale of 1-10?

Now this is the man-thematics= If she's a 9 and you are a 4, it wont work. If You are a 7 and she's a 8, still wont work. But if you are 9 and she's 8, then you stand a chance. You either have to go up the scale or change your preference to those girls far lower on the scale (Which if you are anything like me, is not an option).

Now how do you climb up a few more stories on the Ladder? Your swag must be Lit. She's gotta want to fall for you, merely asking a girl out is not enough. A cute face and pocket change aint gonna cut it.
How is your sense of Humor? How Organised are you? How interesting is your life? What is the quality of your social circle? How many dinners do you get invited to? How many exclusive places do you have access to that she and her friends would love to go? How many connections can you establish to help her sort her little affairs out once in a while?(like her little bro's just graduated and needs a job, she needs a guy to sort him out, are you that guy?).

These are the little things girls drool over, they don't need a boyfriend if all he can offer them is sex, at least they don't see how good you are in bed before they decide they would date you or not. What they see is what I posted in the previous paragraph or the lack thereof.

Get yourself fixed before inviting a girl into your life. Then ensure its easy for them to see what your life is about. I'm not saying you fake it, Simply Be it (and it won't even cost you money). No girl can reject you after being given a glimpse of heaven(your world). Thank me later.

CorGier:
Grow a pair and stop being so pathetic.
You keep complaining about what you deserve, and things you feel you're entitled to, and I start to wonder if it's pūssy you want or pity.
Stop trying to force things, value your time and learn to be outcome independent.
So what if some girl stood you up? We've all been there before.
You get to spend Christmas alone and so? Ain't you got family?
Like someone said, you need to work on yourself. True happiness and fulfillment comes from within, not some warm body close to elbow.
It's not girls you hate, you're just attaching too much importance to relationships

ILuvGummyBearz:
[color=hotpink]See now that yer problem "i couldnt wait 2 see her beautiful face"
.....u 2 concerned with apperance ,u are shutting off good women because they arent yer "type"[/color]

Gariki:
Whatsapp me and I will teach I what to do and girls will be chase you not u chasing them even if u don't have money or u are ugly
Its inborn in every male but only the alfa male can discover it
100/% garantee

atilla:
OP seems this stuff is getting to u so making u more sensitive.
I think you should give her another chance cause she might be telling the truth.
Don't take it to P Even if u don't then just take it Ez and decide to make friends with girls instead. What harm will it to if u take this advice?

Divay22:
Hahahaha (I'm sorry for laughing...)


Back to the matter....





For now,i'll say just concentrate on being a better you,don't search no further,the right one will come when you least expect it.
Learn how to be happy all by yourself,it like you are becoming too desperate,don't be,love will meet you someday,But most especially i pray you recognize the TRUE one when you see or meet her......

Zero your mind from it,and watch it come.

Alsini6:
ur own beta mine stole my phone

Talk2Bella:
I no even fit vex sef

Psittacus:
I feel your pain my brother, cos I was in a similar situation. At least you just met this one a few days ago. This girl I have known for ova 6 month, I asked out 4 days ago and she said she was cool, since then, she never pick my call talkless of replying my instant messages.
But I have found peace and rest of mind in other things. So my brother, these feelings doesn't make you less a man, let go of apathy and live well. A lady who wil appreciate d man you are will surely come around, but know that she won't fall for a depressed man. So get up your saddle and live free and protect yourself from emotional breakdown.

Adeinfo:
op don't take it too far..pleading with you not to take rash decision whenever it is ladies matter
Her acknowledging and apologizing really shows she has your interest @ heart
Don't judge her using this..give her a second opportunity to prove herself since her excuse is tenable
don't listen to those saying dump her. I have been in your shoes and me and the lady have been enjoying a healthy relationship.
Lastly, dont be quick to judge. else you look insecure and desperate

princessayesha:
God will see u throught...u shall find a good one soon

tchimatic:
;Gud for u

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HIRAETH:
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