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some Nigerian ladies are useless n shameless God forgive me... what kind if mentality do our ladies have about been entitled to a guyz money in a relationship .... just relationship ooooo not even marriage. , how has she become his responsibility pls becos he is in a relationship with her.. for Christ sake we are not even sure he is d only guy DT she is seeing and she is claiming take care of me... many ladies will remain old in there fathers house cos of useless entitlement mentality. pls can't a Nigerian lady be solely responsible for her upkeep in a relationship n allow d guy do for her at his will. some will even be demanding like no tomorrow, some will even go on to scam d guy. when he has no cash she changes act cold, create drama to weary d guy relationship ends and she move in with another guy.... anytime I see a Nigerian lady I don't have desire or marriage ... cos most of dem Na money money money and money and material things. if no benefit she has gone ... we really have few wife materials in Nigeria the rest Na girls wey wan escape poverty looking for a guy to throw d whole load on... d main reason for all dis looking good is just to attract a Mumu rich guy... most of dem out wigs on empty brain.. selfish, greedy and no plan for a guyz future...
imagine my ex was threatening me cos of money me with my own money... all this girls DT will give 100 naira n want to take 100k scammers... ladies guyz have wisen up no need for scam love again, if u can't take care of urself no need of been in a relationship u are a liability..... a liability is what takes money from u and adds nothing of value to u.... I wont be deceived by have u eaten, have u taken ur bath, etc... d prove of love is ur sacrifice if it exclude ur finance and includes mine only Na scam.... guyz make we wise oo before we sell our future to some girls DT won't marry us at d end....
Nigerian girls have terrible financial. mindset in relationship . Kudos to those who are responsible Na Una type we dey find with d right. mindset.

bro... run for ur life... don't allow emotions to rule ur logical reasoning. what ur babe did was d same my ex did.... I have to conclude this person does not love me. someone who loves you will insult u, throw tantrums, get angry at u, use words I mean bad word on you. u even said ur sis blood sis had operation and d money was meant for DT yet dis jazebel made u to send her d money. bro be wise dis lady will dump u, can't you see she is not empathetic about ur sis health. this kind of ladies will sell you n dump u and ur heart break will land u in psychaitric hospital. bro run no love hear forget that saying she loves Na lie.... money is more of a priority to her and akdy DT makes u wanna do things and put u under pressure. bro... abeg run leave this mumu love u claim...

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HMMM, op as I read this my eyes filled with tears as this is d same stuff that happened to me except for d fact DT I did not get married to her. I almost did in fact we were doing church premarital counseling already. I am a pastor as well, but all the character she exhibited made me know I am in trouble God kept warning me, but I felt love was strong enough until she dumped me, discovers she was cheating, exploited me financially, insulted me, reducled me and made me loss all my cash. it's a long story I was constantly under attack like my mind was not acting straight.... but I thank God she left. I am at peace now trying to bounce back financially its not easy but God has been faithful and I tried him for my own wife. pls guy never ignore red flags... never never, a lot of ladies are not interested in ur destiny but money and to destroy u. her mum had real influence on her, her friends as well. well I was not perfect but I gave my all to someone who was busy exploiting me and insulting me. God help us find good wives

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bro,.. DT lady dies not love u... dis same stuff happened to me and my so called fiance. she was giving threat and ultimatum. I just over looked it and went further to go on in the relationship. we even went to pastor for premarital counseling... both families are aware. but people in my trying times my girl who claim to love me left me and decided to end d relationship, not knowing she was seeing another guy. pls save ur life and save ur money she loves ur money and not u... well I feel hurt and pained but I have moved on and karma will visit her painfully.

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me I have done all this for my girl yet she chose to throw it away. no heart for love now.

pls guy... quit d relationship.. its not worth it don't allow emotions to take hold on u beyond logical reasoning. I did same u did for ur girl for my own girl but at d end she ended d relationship its over, I love her but I can not go back to her never, never. wisdom demands DT when a girl start giving u headache in relationship cos of money pls bro u have not found a wife. u need a partners not someone to sponsor, relationship is like testing d waters before u go deep. pls quit d relationship and let her her go for good. get a woman who truly loves you beyond money. in marriage there will be storms and financial storm is one of them.. so what happens if financial storm arises in marriage she all bail out on u. today marriages are crashing because mist ladies are not ready and prepared and are not willing to make sacrifices and commit to marital vows. the chances if a guy finding a good wife to marry now is very slim, we have eligible guys even with money but dey keep attracting pretenders and hypocrites. very few are willing to see a future in you and go for d process. many don't marry for love but for benefit. pls decide if this is d life if frustration u want to live in and get tensed because u are unable to provide. stop funding laziness in a girl she will wreck u and dump u in her on mind. pls quit before she quits she is already showing the quitting signal bro. be wise and let logic be stronger Dan emotions, God will give u a woman who loves and adores you, values and want to spend d rest if her life with you with or without cash, who will stand by u through d thick and d tin bro. just pray to God. I am heart broken now but I leave all to God cos he knows better... our ladies are not contented with what u have to offer their eyes are on the wealth of another man, who took time to pay d price, while dey are not willing to do d same.
QUIT BRO QUIT.

I am so touched by this story.... lord were is my wife. all this money mongering ladies of our generation.

well for me the reverse is the case my relationship ended this last DEC my babe finding fault and picking fight and quarells here and there. I have to admit it and move on with my life I give to her do all things for her but she is greedy and never satisfied. she found another man she will milk so disposing our relationship was the best, she exited from church whatsapp group and even our own group. I love her but at this point my logic has to be stronger than my emotions. i trust God to bring someone who will respect and value me. when I needed her most was when she left all because I had a financial challange. my dear pls excuses end relationship, gather yourself and move on don't fight for what is not yours, if its yours it will come. my girlfriend even made me behave like a kid in relationship seriously but I have to let go and let God. Sure he has a better plan for me.

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pls move on bro... mine too ended on 31st Dec, 2017. mine was just after my cash if I tell dis story here now u won't believe this. but try and get ur life together she has met another guy. ladies do this a lot. but she may come back but don't be in a haste to take her back. allow God to help u get a new girl. my own case we have even involved church, both families and the likes, but she just came up with nonsense arguments and fight every now and then to frustrate me to give up on the relationship, when she saw I was not she quarrelled and insulted me and d everything till she said it won't work she said so in my house and dash out of my room. I left her and til now we have to spoken to each other or called or sent SMS. but trust God has something for you bro. look forward to better stuff. pls don't ever give a girl money to make her hair u are joking with liability. let ur next relationship be the one a girl can fix her life before u come in to support not to sponsor.
God heal me and u and give us a new relationship were we shall be valued.