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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 1:15pm On Aug 22, 2023
Miracood2:

What's Allan teaching?

Read his books titled "Mode One: let the woman know what you're really thinking" and "The Possibility of Sex."

He wrote other books too. Read those two first.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 4:45am On Aug 22, 2023
heartofcity12:
Wtf 😯. I hope this boy doesn’t fall into depression with this..

May the soul of Alan Roger rest in peace. He was the best thing to happen to me since I swallowed the red pill.

I wish I can contact the guy in this screenshot. Alan's books are the best solutions to this guy's problem. In less than 6 months of practicing Alan's teachings, he will be a completely changed man that no female can ever disrespect in this manner again.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 8:37pm On Jul 19, 2023
luminouz:


You know him so well. We also know him here on NL as a male-feminist...who later became redpilled as a result of that girl messing him up. I'm glad he is out. Watch how his narrative about women go change. He will be redpilled as fuq

He has no choice if he want to live his remaining days on Earth in peace. I will welcome him to the red pill family, although, I think he will go the silent path and stay away from limelight.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 7:10pm On Jul 19, 2023
richkal:
After three years of suffering

Good for him that he was exonerated.

Some months before he was falsely accused of rape by the witch he sponsored to the UK, the guy supported a female who falsely accused a guy of rape. He attacked those that tried to defend the innocence of the guy that was falsely accused.

He was a male-feminist who thinks women are innocent and all their accusations against men should always be believed first.

Some months later, karma caught up with him when a bastard falsely accused him of rape.

The incident was comical.

He sponsored the lady to UK with his money and helped process her Visa. He housed the lady and took care of her bills while they were together. At some point, he noticed the lady has some terrible characters he couldn't tolerate in a partner. He decided to end the relationship.

The lady couldn't take the ending of the relationship.

In retaliation, she reported to the police that she was raped. The lady even tried to completely destroy his career by reporting to the medical association to withdraw his practicing license.

All because of what? The guy said he was no longer interested in the relationship.

As we have said several times here, if you refuse to accept the red pill the easy way, women will force you to, though it might be too late to make amends.

Women still remain the best teachers of the red pill, especially for stubborn men who refuse to accept the truth about the opposite sex.

As for me, I prefer to learn from reading red pill books and learning from the experiences of simps like that doctor.

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Romance / Re: Why Are Girls Like This by Ketapu: 8:49pm On Jul 03, 2023
Lurdd:

God bless u bro
U seem to understand very well

I was initially feeling sorry for you because you are just another victim of the matrix. You behaved exactly how you have been conditioned to behave.

However, my sympathy for you vanished after seeing your message I quoted. I see you are still not ready to learn.

Well, I still hate seeing guys getting hurt like you did. I've been there before and I won't allow any such disrespect to me again. Due to that, I will still give you an advice.

Read Alan Roger Currie book titled The Possibility of Sex.

That's the solution to your problem.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 9:07pm On May 24, 2023
Beta Buck finally realized that he is indeed a Beta Buck.

https://www.nairaland.com/7700304/not-feel-loved-wife-enough

He has been well-groomed by religion and society to be the perfect beta. I almost feel sorry for him but I can't because if you give such men the perfect solution to their problem, they will see you in bad light.

There is no greater agency for a woman than to know beyond doubt that she is the only source of a man’s need for sex and intimacy.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 7:09pm On Apr 06, 2023
They always find God when they are done enjoying their party years.

This is what society want you to do. To be ready to save her when she has hit the wall.

Religion is one of the avenues they use to set men up for this.

Don't be like this man.

Link to thread:
https://twitter.com/bornagainsteph/status/1641521074566209537

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 2:32pm On Mar 29, 2023
I was away from this thread for some days. I was surprised to see the unusual rapid increase in the number of pages. Having gone through the pages, I understand why now.

A society is either gynocentric (women rule over men) or androcentric (men rule over women). There has never been a time in history in which both sexes rule each other equally.

Someone once said: To determine the true rulers of any society, all you must do is ask yourself this question: Who is it that I am not permitted to criticize?".

Men or women?

Your answer is the ruler.

The U.S. and its western allies and the nations they exert their power on are either already gynocentric or already tending towards gynocentrism. Say anything that expose the manipulative nature of women in those countries and you will be in danger.

Nations that always fight against or oppose the rulership of the US and the western world are almost always androcentric. This is one of the major reasons the US and their western allies will always be against them. The Taliban of Afghanistan and many other Islamic countries are prime examples of androcentric nations.

Nigeria is already being influenced by the western rulership. Even though our leaders still uphold a large chunk of the androcentric nature of our African fore-fathers, the gynocentrism of the Western world is gradually creeping in.

Also, Nigerian women will never be happy with this red pill thread as the truths being exposed here is too revealing of their manipulative nature. The more men see this thread, the lesser the number of men that women will be able to manipulate. They will never allow that to happen. Red pill removes their power over men.

This can be explain with one of the cardinal rules of relationship which states, for one gender's sexual strategy to succeed, the other gender must compromise or abandon their own.

In other words, for women to have the upper hand in relationship with men, everything that gives men an upper hand over women must be compromised or abandoned.

This is why women and their blue-pill men will continue to advocate for the suppression or deletion of this thread.

I'm very sure the days of this thread are numbered. It might be in the next few days, weeks, months, or even some years. That day will surely come when this thread will either be deleted or locked from further contributions.

As I've said before, red pill books are still the best way to learn and equip yourself against this blue-pill world.

The blue-pill agents can delete this thread and other internet red pill articles BUT they can't delete a book, though they can suppress their spread just like they have been deleting some red pill books from Amazon.com.

Get red pill books and read.

Also, there are other websites more dedicated to red pill content.

Sosuave.net is one I like. The website has topics as old as the late 1990 to 2000s. I'm always amazed to read similar experiences of guys who post content more than 20 years ago.

Nothing we discuss here is new. Some men have had similar experiences before and shared their knowledge and the solutions they used to address their challenges. Read and gain from them.

In the meantime, let's enjoy this thread while it last.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 11:31am On Mar 19, 2023
UppaZakum:


Good point. I appreciate your feedback.

But aren't we setting a dangerous precedence if men refuse to voice out against stance like that at workplace? There is now a high momentum about Gender equity (No longer equality) which I think may not benefit the men in the long run. According to statistics, men work longer hours, take more risks, men are more aggressive about accomplishing stuff etc. They are rewarded for it which explains why you see men in a lot of senior positions at work based on merits. The female population is trying to change this. They're advocating for a system that has equal number of men and female in senior positions regardless of their level of accomplishments. What this mean for men in the long run is a reduced population of men in senior management positions throwing all their hardwork into the bin just to satisfy some woke ideology.
Proponents of this ideology are unapologetically selfish. They are very vocal about their agenda. They target areas where men are excelling and start propagating gender equity. Yes, a man still me to step back for a lady and ask her to sit first before I do..Honestly, allowing this to pass just doesn't sit well with me at all.
I appreciate your feedback and will consider it. But when we do we say enough is enough and push for our own interest as men? Are we just gonna remain silent till we become extinct or no longer have a voice in the workplace just like it's happening in the western society where a vast majority of their male population have been feminised?


Well, your argument is mostly correct. However, we are living in a grossly blue-pill society. My estimate is that more than 90 percent of the world is blue-pilled.

If you decide to openly force out your grievances (as a result of your red pill awareness) in the society like you did against your boss, you may end up being martyred or suffer something close to that.

A recent example of two guys who are on their way to being martyred is Andrew Tate and his brother. Some popular red pillers have also died or suffered some things that are mysterious to explain. My suspicion is that it is the blue pillers fighting back to shut those guys up.

You may think you are doing a great thing exposing the maltreatments of men in our society. However, you will later learn that you are making a big mistake, one that can seriously harm you.

In fact, another law of the "48 laws of power" addresses your concerns.

According to law 38, "Think As You Like But Behave Like Others."

An excerpt from that law is below:

"If you make a show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch. Share your originality only with tolerant friends and those who are sure to appreciate your uniqueness."

What this law means in your case is that you may know all the red pills in this world. However, if you go about displaying your red pill knowledge openly in the society, people will eventually hate you for that. The price for that can be serious.

Only share your red pill knowledge with people who you are very sure are willing to learn, just like we have on this thread.

Your workplace is not a place you preach red pill, well, unless you want to create problems for yourself.

Equip yourself with red pill knowledge and use them for your benefits.

However, also know where you MUST act like a blue-piller for your safety.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 11:04pm On Mar 18, 2023
UppaZakum:
Fellow Redpillers, I greet you all. I would like to seek your thoughts about something that happened between my supervisor (boss) and me. A female colleague of mine beckoned on me that my boss would like to see both of us. We went straight to my boss' office. I stood in front and engaged my supervisor to know why he wanted to see us. There were two seats in front but I chose to stand; the other lady stood too but behind me. The following conversations ensued:

Supervisor: You two can seat but it is ladies first!

*I was in the front so naturally I would sit first if I wanted to and there were two chairs side by side* So he expected me to go behind the lady so she could come in front and sit first*

Me: Anyone could seat in front regardless of their gender.

Supervisor: (smile) No, Mike (fake name). It is ladies first.
Female Colleague: *interjected* No, I'm okay to stand
Me: It shouldn't matter who sit first unless we have elderly ones or disabled.

Supervisor: It is gentlemanly to offer a seat to a lady first Mike go and read about being a gentleman.

Me: smiled.
* then we started the main conversation while I and the female colleague stood.

So this was a spontaneous conversation that happened. Me be in front wasn't based on any superiority feeling; it just happened by chance or my Redpilled nature subconsciously made me to be in front - leadership (possible, I don't know).

Now, I understand that OG Redpillers have warned against having conversations that suggest one is Redpilled. I fully agree with this view knowing fully well that it is a blue-pilled world. I don't know if my boss or the female colleague knows about the Redpill but I wanted to ask if you were in my shoes, what would you have done?

Was I wrong to have displayed those attributes that may have suggested I'm redpilled? If yes, how could I have managed it? I'm open to getting fellow Redpillers' perspectives on this.

P:S: It is unlikely that this event will strain the relationship between me and my boss. He holds me in high esteem. He's a nice person and gives me good performance appraisal becuase I'm naturally a hard worker! However, never say never. Any thing can happen but very unlikely.

Been a guest reader but decided to register today.
Respect to all the Redpillers in the house. Stay Taliban.

For your job security and to avoid severing your relationship with your boss, don't repeat what you did at your work place.

What you did was a violation of the first law of the "48 laws of power," which states that Never Outshine the Master.

Never try to appear smarter than your boss, EVEN IF YOU ARE SMARTER THAN HIM BY MANY FOLDS. Even if you want to appear smarter, do it in a way to give credit to your boss and not make him look lesser than you.

Outshining your master as you did will only bring out his insecurities and machiavellianism, making him to look forward to or work towards your downfall.

You may have escaped any consequences this time but if you continue to try to outshine him in the future, you will soon learn a painful lesson like those in history who outshined their master.

Read that law to understand it better.

We are living in a machiavellian jungle. Every single person in this world, including your parents, siblings, religious leaders, etc, is naturally machiavellic. It's just that some people are more efficient at suppressing their machiavellianism than others.

Disobey any of the "48 laws of power" at your own peril.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 9:42am On Jan 31, 2023
Femzaremz:
On January 30th,2022(a year ago) news started filtering out that Manchester united's promising young star, Mason greenwood had been accused of attempted rape and violence! This revelation was like a bomb, having devastating consequences for the accused! He was villified far and near as everyone seemed to agree he was guilty even without a trial,he was unfollowed on social media by his colleagues, kicked out of the Manchester first training team and declared persona non grata! All because of unfounded allegations! Last I heard about him,he is still awaiting trial sometimes this year but the deed has been done! His star has been cut short! One thing I've learnt in this life is to be very wary of the opposite gender,to me they are nothing but trouble and those who wish to associate with them should do so with the mindset of dining with the devil with a long spoon thanks!

This is why it is very important to be red-pill aware. I can't prove if the allegations against him were true or made up. However, if the voice recording I listen to about him abusing his girlfriend is true, he deserves everything that comes his way. Just listen to it below.

https://m.facebook.com/watch/?v=473514307753107

If I were him, I will never force the lady for sex. Immediately she says she's not interested in having sex with me, I will end my relationship with her that same moment, go out that same day, and find one or more attractive ladies that will fucck me to stupor all night. For God sake, he had the fame and money. He can pull up any ladies of any caliber for sexual satisfaction. I'm sure there are many ladies willing to be with him but his blue-pill conditioning made him stick with that life-destroyer of a girlfriend. The girl perfectly set him up for destruction and he willingly walked into her trap. Why would a lady who claim to love you set you up for destruction?

Why did he lower himself to trying to force her to have sex with him? That's scarcity mentality.

This is why I will always preach having abundance mindset. There are many ladies in the world. Woo as many of them as possible. Surely, you will get a lot of rejections but you will also get ladies that will be very much interested in doing everything you want to do with them. Those are the ladies you should have around you.

Why do guys always destroy their lives with their scarcity mindset?

I still feel sad for Greenwood because he wouldn't be in that situation if he was red-pill aware.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 12:46pm On Jan 25, 2023
Lordfranklin:
Good morning brothers of the red pill!
I went to visit a female friend yesterday. While we were conversing, I noticed a change in her tonality, her body language and my instinct kept telling me to make a move.


While I was a bit skeptical initially was because she's made it point blank that I am not godly and I am a bloody Casanova; she's attempted to invite me to her church and fellowship countlessly which I always cockily decline.

And then I remembered the golden lessons I've learned from here about women having dual sexuality (the Madonna-LovePeddler Complex), their predisposition to gratify body desires even if goes against their core principles, belief and upbringing. I learned never to judge them by what they said, but by their actions and body language.


It didn't take long for me to surmount my doubts and I put my hands to work almost immediately. She resisted at first but it was in a faint manner so I continued. We romanced and kissed, it was a very intimate session.


I didn't have condoms with me so there was no way we could continue plus she paused; maybe she was waiting for me to start telling her those pointless declarations of love all to woo my commitment. I maintained silence and her face was awash with guilt and regret.

She'd suddenly realized she let her guard down and I, being the one they refer to as the "Silent Devil" struck.

She just couldn't bare the guilt and I had to excuse her to get a hold of herself. I've got this stone-cold aura, albeit wearing the face of a pastor. People often mistake me for an innocent soul.


I left her place and never bothered to call or text her until this morning. She's a student actually and she's writing an exam today.
Checked her Whatsapp updates this morning and she's literally begging God for forgiveness after going "astray". Lol


I texted her this morning and here are the screenshots.
Thing is, I really don't want to engage her in any conversation about what happened between us yesterday.
I'm confused right now and I really do not know my next line of action.


How should I handle this?


@Ubunja @Pukkalolo @JESHAL

Amongst others that have affected me positively in various lights.
I look forward to your wise inputs.


One of the best ways to know if a lady consider you her best option for intimacy is to ask yourself this question.

Is she making rules for you or breaking her rules for you?

If she is making rules for you, she doesn't rate you well on her option list. You are just another beta or orbiter to be exploited for attentions and any other nonsexual things.

If she's breaking her rules for you, she considers you as one of her best options, a.k.a an alpha. She will do anything to ensure she doesn't lose you. That include bombarding you will sex.

Base on this explanation, I'm sure you know the category you belong to in this lady's rating.

I actually commend you for not forcing your way into her. You let her go once you realize she's not interested. She could have accused you of rape if you had force your way to have sex with her. Never force or manipulate a lady to have sex with you. The little enjoyment you get can end up being your doom either now or in the far future. There are many stories of men whose lives were destroyed based on that.

I also like that you didn't back down during your chat with her. You maintained your frame.

My Recommendations

1. Move on from this lady. She already made the rule that she's not interested to chat or be with you anytime soon. Turn that anytime soon to forever. Don't lodge around or stalk her while you wait for when her "anytime soon" will be over. That's just scarcity mentality. There is nothing special about her. You will meet many more ladies within the time left for you to live on Earth. Explore your options. Relate with more ladies. Let this lady become history to you.

2. Read the 36th law of the "48 laws of power" which states that "Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring Them is the Best Revenge."

This law is one of my favorite laws in dealing with ladies not sharing similar interests with me. Such ladies literally become dead to me and I don't acknowledge their existence again once they make it clear they won't give me what I want. It's always amusing to me when I later see them doing their best to get my attention. I just chuckle or even laugh and let them continue to work to get my attention which I still won't give them. There is nothing special about any vagiina. I've had sex with multiple ladies. Apart from some vagiina being wider than others, there is nothing special about sex with any lady. It still baffles me why some guys will always go the extra mile just to get laid.

For God sake, block that lady on all medium of communication and move on with your life. Most likely when she realizes that you no longer give a fucck about her and that you have another lady you now relate with, she will likely try to get back with you or she will also not care.

In either case, you win because you didn't waste your time trying to persuade a lady with low interest in you.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 8:45pm On Jan 13, 2023
Donnie835:
Hi Redpillers, Thank you so much for this thread so far. Thank you for liberating men from their shackles of ignorance.
I've been in a serious relationship for one year hoping to lead to marriage this year.
My babe went on a date last week Saturday, she uploaded her pictures only on her WhatsApp status, then I asked her where did she go to and she said she went out with her female friends. My intuition told me immediately that she lied and that she went out on a date with a guy, I then requested for pictures she took with her friends, She promised to send it as a prove that she was saying the truth. Till now, she hasn't sent it because I'm so sure there is nothing to send.
When I discovered that this girl is manipulative, I decided to lock up on the issue, no calls or messages from my end, guess what? This girl did the same. She gave me the silent treatment for days now.
Guys, I need your advise on what to do
Ubunja, cave, Martinez, Jeshal and others
Thank you guys.

Lol. grin Another one.

The medium is the message. With ladies, actions always speak louder than words.

This is why red pill encourages guys to spin plates. Spinning plates mean you have more than one options in regard to romance and you are willing to let one of the plates fall and irreparably break if she starts misbehaving.

Spinning plates also mean if you have just one option and she starts misbehaving, you are always ready to leave her and look for another lady.

You will not tolerate any form of disrespect just so you won't lose her.

From your write-up, you obviously don't have another plate and you are scared to let the one you have fall and break.

Her going on a date with another guy is the message.

She has already checked out of the relationship. You are just wilfully turning blind eyes to that.

Read the article below to understand better.

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/

I was reading a red pill book recently and came across the article below.


The Two Most Powerful Weapons In A Man's Relationship Arsenal

1. Stepping Out: If she's not giving you sex, you can go get it from someone else.

2. Walking Away: If she's treating you like shit, you can leave her and never come back.

These are your two most powerful weapons.

Her weapon of withholding sex is only powerful if you won't get your needs met elsewhere.

Her weapon of disrespecting and biitching is only powerful if you won't ever leave her.

Marriage is the surrender of these supreme male powers...

These are your nuclear options, and it's better if you never have to use them, but it's foolish to give them away without very careful consideration.

Credit: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1mqhhn/the_two_most_powerful_weapons_in_a_mans/


Read this post several times to fully digest the message. You may also need to read the book titled "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi.

All the best.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 10:59pm On Dec 29, 2022
Zarzah:



She kept her pvssy I kept money, I see no mistake here, do you even know if I found her Attractive enough to bang her, or you think I'll just drive in and bang because she has a pvssy that millions of girls in Nigeria have of which I have tasted quite a few. Immediately she made that statement, I just wanted her to leave my house. No point in convincing her, to what end, just so I could fvck?

Common bruh....Your whole point boils down to smashing, and like I said, I have Options so missing a pvssy is not missing a golden opportunity.

Don't mind the guy. You did the right thing. Their only measure of success is if you bang a girl. If you don't, because of reasons best known to you, they believe you failed.

That's why I don't pity guys that get themselves into trouble after romancing crazy ladies.

Never ever insert your dicck in crazy ladies. You will likely regret it.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 10:44pm On Dec 29, 2022
Pukkalolo:
Let's play with a hypothetical scenario involving two Men: Remy and James.

You are one of the few people on this thread I still enjoy reading their posts.

Based on my experience, your illustration described my experience cold approaching ladies, especially using "Mode One" as taught by Alan Roger Currie (rip cry).

I will never forget the first time Mode One worked for me. The lady was surprised I told her my romantic interest during our first conversation. She was surprised a guy would be bold enough to say such a thing but she agreed and the rest is history. Prior to that day, I have had some sad rejections but I never gave up. The other ladies I have encountered since then have also expressed similar surprise.

As a guy that want romantic success with as many ladies as he wants, you will get a lot of rejections from ladies especially if they don't instantly see you as a high value man. However, if you don't give up and approach other ladies that interest you, you will overcome your fear of rejections and eventually meet ladies that will share similar interests with you. Those are the ladies you should spend your time, money, and resources on.

This lesson also apply to any other profitable endeavors one embarks on.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 7:43pm On Dec 17, 2022
luvyaself95:
I can't afford it.
And Z-lib is seized by US government and Pdfdrive don't have it.
If you have it kindly send for me i can send you pm if needed.

I'm sure it's on Pdfdrive. Search the author's name or select exact title option.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 2:13pm On Dec 17, 2022
luvyaself95:


Where can i see the "The Possibility of Sex" book download or can you send me if you still have it.

If you have the money, I will advice you get it from Amazon so as to support Alan's family. He died recently.

If you can't afford it, Zlibrary or Pdfdrive should have it.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 9:52pm On Dec 16, 2022
watermelon098:
boss please I....

How do many of you guys tolerate this type of ladies? angry

This reeks of scarcity mentality. undecided

Before I swallowed the red pill, I was like you. Nowadays, the maximum I can wait for a lady to play her shenanigans "I can't have sex with you" is probably one week, and that's me being considerate. In fact, within our first 3 conversations, usually within 2 to 3 days, she will already know loud and clear that I want to have sex with her.

If she's interested, she will be welcomed into my life. If not, she's history. I don't waste my energy persuading a lady for sex.

You radiate too much blue pill energy in your chats. You stated she told you "she don have sex before" but it is you, her current boyfriend that she doesn't want to have sex with. Make sense of that. You have even been with her since April. cheesy

I salute some of you guys. undecided Upon all the messages you read here daily, you still simps for women. I think you deserve what you are passing through. Experience teaches better though the lessons can be very painful.

If I were you, this is what I will do right now.

1. Tell her you are no longer interested in the relationship since she can't give you what you want. She has been getting the relationship she wants from you but she's not interested in giving you what you want.

2. Block her on all medium of communication and GENUINELY move on with your life.

3. Talk to more ladies. Go out in the evening or any other time convenient for you. Meet new ladies. Woo them. This is one of the most interesting activities I started doing after taking the red pill. Nowadays, I just go out in the evening just for the fun of talking to new ladies. This will help you have that abundance mentality. Seriously, you guys should just stop punishing yourself with this scarcity mindset. angry

For the love of God, read all of Alan Currie books. The one titled "The Possibility of Sex" is very useful for your current situation.

I really hope you take this advice seriously. sad

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 10:44am On Dec 05, 2022
Tonnyray:
You said it all bro.
I couldn't have said it better.
Another sound one.

Yeah. That's what we are here for. To help one another.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 9:32am On Dec 05, 2022
tepes:


I meant we have been friends for 7 years before attempting relationship last year. I have no intentions of playing along with her just because of sex cux I really had good plans for her..I've been with ladies bro..it's not much of big deal..it's just that I actually wanted to do everything with one person but she was not in for that so it's better it ended that way..atleast I won't get that "you used me" tag

Know this now: The longer you wait before initiating sex with a lady, the higher the chance you will never have sex with her, at least before marriage.

That was my experience with ladies before I came across the red pill.

Also, kill that mentality of her being a virgin. I doubt she is. I have seen a lady swear with God's name that she's a virgin only for her to be caught a few days later fucccking a guy who she has been close with for a long time.

That your ex was just playing head games with you probably because she considers you to be a husband material. If a lady tags you as husband material, she will do her best to appear as a good girl so that the chance of you marrying her will increase. I have seen guys who married their wife because she told them she is a virgin.

The guys only found out it was all a lie after marriage. By then, it was kinda too late. They quarreled for some time over the issue but later settled it. I have seen 2 of such cases in which the pastor was even supporting the lady and encouraging the guy to forgive and forget.

The lady won. How, you may ask? Well, those ladies had it all planned out.

First, she decided to lie she's a virgin so that you will marry her.

She then plans that once you know the truth after marriage, she will bombard you with apologies. She knows you will first get angry but you will eventually forgive her. If you want to prove stubborn and not forgive, she will involve people that can control you such as your religious leaders. Once the pressure to forgive is much, you will eventually forgive her.

Shikena. She won. She ate her cake and still have it.

That is a manifestation of Law 29 of the 48 Laws of Power which states that: Plan all the way to the end.

Never ever fall for the scam of "I'm a virgin." That scam is as old as man. I'm not saying she is not a virgin but I'm saying you should confirm her claim. How you do that is left to you. Don't just fall for her words.

It seems you don't have a lot of experience with ladies. You are likely a religious guy that is easily moved by the religious appearance of people, especially ladies.

We are living in a Machiavellian jungle. Learn the rules of the jungle.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 6:07am On Nov 19, 2022
Francis95:
Yesterday at my Faculty, I saw a junior colleague seated in the stair case with her coursemate (guy). I had met the girl once inside one of the classrooms but forgot to get her contact. She is quite beautiful like very cute and tall. So as i saw her in our Faculty building yesterday I signaled her to come. She came, after exchanging pleasantries and all I asked her to give me her contact so I would call her later because I was actually in a haste. This girl told me that she will only trade her number for a chilled coke. I told her I'm not getting her any drink, she said no problem that that's what she's gonna trade her number with because the weather was really hot.
I turned my back on her and left smiling cheesy . I wasn't surprised because I know Simps have been doing that for her. Thank God for Redpill.

Well done bro. I'm really proud of you. That was a shit test you passed there.

She was testing you to know how desperate you are to get her number. Obliging to buy her the coke would have indicated you badly want her which would have shifted the power play to her. If you had oblige, she will think she can be trading her attention or even sex for something valuable from you. A lady does not need to tell you to buy her coke before she will give you her number. As a guy, you do that voluntarily when things start going smoothly between you two. That is what dates are for.

I had a similar experience earlier this year and sadly, I failed. I wooed this lady and asked for her number. She told me to promise to buy her a lunch if I want her number or else, she won't give me her number. I promised and she gave me her number. I also bought her the lunch during our next meeting.

From there, it was her asking me to do one thing or the other for her before she will oblige to my requests. I eventually didn't have sex with her after she told me I will be paying her school fees, house rent, make ups, and the likes if I want to be having sex with her. At that point, I accepted my loss and moved on with my life. This is a real life story of mine. I considered it one of the most humiliating head games I experienced with ladies.

I'm proud of you bro for not failing like I did. Ladies are good at playing head games with guys desperate for their attention. Never fall for that. She's not special. You will meet another lady.

The first "Iron Rule Of Rollo Tomassi" states that "Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are."

Frame here is a form of power. At any given point in time, either the male or female is in charge of the relationship. What this means is that either the male or the female will bow down to the control of the other at any given point in time.

At least, when you are just starting your relationship with females, you want to be the one in charge. Her submission to your frame will indicate that she is interested in being with you. A lady that resist your frame at the beginning of your relationship is a huge red flag.

My suggestion:

1. Kindly ignore that lady going forward. I assure you, there is nothing special about her. I've had romance with quite a number of ladies and I must, there is no much difference between them. She's as common as any other lady you have and will still encounter in life. Read Law 36 of the "48 Laws of Power." The law states that "Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring Them is the Best Revenge."

That law alone has helped me solve most of my problems with women. Read the whole chapter to understand it better.

2. Interact with more of your female colleagues. It doesn't necessarily mean you should be romantic with them, though it's best if you can be romantic. The key here is to show you are desired by other ladies. Women love a man who is desired by other women.


Modified: Read more about shit tests via link below.

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 9:24pm On Oct 13, 2022
JESHAL:
Women are smarter than men in relationships, for they settle down as their value drops, whilst men do as their value rises

I've been planning to write on this.

I recently finished a red pill book called "The Redpill Handbook"

There are many lessons in the book. One of the best lessons are the Revelations of the lie and the truth below.

I advise that you guys check the links below out to see the graph.


The Lie We Were Told
https://imgur.io/dwtTfG6


The Actual Truth
https://imgur.io/IfXNnAq


The first image is the lie everyone member of the matrix and feminism want you to believe. That image explains a lot of the reasons why some things happen in our society.

For example, the matrix will start pressuring you (male or female) to get married once you get between the age of 25 and 35.

However, this pressure is not designed with the best interest of the male at heart. Everything is designed for the benefit of females as you will see in the second image that shows the truth.

As you will see in the second image, it is at those age that females rapidly decline in SMV (sexual market value) while most men have not even attained their own highest SMV. Many men will only attain their highest SMV from 35 years and above.

However, most men, deceived by the matrix to believe the lie shown in the first graph, will already get married by then and hence, can't fully enjoy their highest SMV like their wives did hers.

The graph also explains why older men, who are now in their highest SMV stages, will be able to attract younger ladies. On the other hand, most older women won't have much luck.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 9:45pm On Sep 21, 2022
Pukkalolo:


Brother...You are so so so freaking correct: Abundance mentality is key.

Infact, Abundance mentality is everything.

Scarcity metality always mess up a man's love life....

You got it bro. The funny thing is that female naturally have abundance mentality.

Look at that guy, for example. The lady has abundance and explored her options at the expense of the guy's happiness.

She's well aware that the guy has no other girl except her and hence, he will always be at her mercy until he probably gets to his sense.

Most of our problems with females can be solved with abundance mindset.

There will always be a better lady out there. Go out and explore the world.

Just walk away once you can't get what you want or the lady is making your life miserable.

I just can't understand how this is difficult for these guys to grab.

We all have a fixed number of seconds to live in this world. Every seconds that passes is one seconds minus the total seconds you still have to live.

Why spend the remaining seconds with someone making your life miserable or someone not adding any value to your life.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 9:47pm On Sep 20, 2022
Karlifate:
The end

It's good to be red-pilled. How do many men allow themselves to be treated this way? He was cheated on, gaslighted, manipulated, and what-have-you.

I know I will face many challenges in life but I will ensure that female problem will never be one of them, especially any lady not related to me by blood.

Walking away is one of the easiest thing for me now. Once I see any slight problem with any lady, she's history.

Abundance mentality is key. The guy had scarcity mentality which is why he fell so badly for a lady that had no good intention for him.

If there is anything I will always hammer into the ear of any guy I care for, it is to have abundance mentality.

No vagina will ever worth your happiness and peace of mind. Always be ready to walk away at the slightest sign of any issue that threaten your happiness.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 6:37pm On Aug 24, 2022
Brokeloser:

Bro how do you post like this.

Type your message and edit the code below as follow:

[w]****[/w]

1. Replace **** to your message
2. Replace "w" to "u" for underlined post
3. You can also replace "w" to "quote" for quoted post.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 12:52pm On Aug 23, 2022
Babangidayaro:
...

To Babangidayaro:

Nice write up. You are on the right track in your red pill journey.

I checked your profile and saw that you may be new here. Whether that is true or not, I will strongly advice that you be very careful with whose advice you follow on this thread.

I was once serious with this page until I noticed some popular contributors here are not really red pillers as they parade themselves to be.

If you have watched the 1999 film, The Matrix, you will remember the mole in the film called Cypher who acted as if he is a red piller but was only working against the red pillers and later sold them out. He even killed some of them.

Those authorities here who give blue pill advices but sugar-coat them as red pill are like Cypher. They are different shades of blue pillers/AFCs.

You will read some posts sometimes and have to check the moniker again to be sure it was actually the person that made the post.

Some of them have made themselves authorities on this thread. Arguing with them or stating a contrary opinion to theirs will make them and their supporters come after you. Heck, one of them has even wished me bad luck before for stating a contrary opinion. He/she thinks anything he/she post here is the gospel truth and nothing should be contrary.

From my experience, red pill will not advice you to do something that can be detrimental to your life whether now or in the future. It will teach you to make the best decision for yourself.

If you really want to go further in your red pill knowledge, focus on reading books listed on page 1 of this thread.

Watch YouTube videos by Rollo Tomassi and Alan Roger Currie. Read their books too. You will learn better that way. There are other red pillers too who have condensed their knowledge into books. As time goes on, you will find them

All the best.

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Romance / Re: A Lady Led Me On And Shattered My Emotions Abruptly by Ketapu: 7:35am On Aug 17, 2022
My reply to 300whitewolves:
It's always best to avoid romance with your neighbors and co-workers. That's because the risks usually outweigh the benefits

To be honest, the girl didn't lead you on. You were the one that played yourself.

She gave you the chance to be romantic with her but you were acting weak all along.

Everything she was doing screams FUCCCK ME but you were acting like a sissy or nice guy. There is a reason we say "nice guys finish last."

I suspect your "nice guy" attitude was why she decided to cut you off.

Ladies lie a lot. I'm suspecting she's just testing you for now. She's likely lying about telling her fiance about what happened. I don't expect her to be that foolish. She likely told you that to scare you off.

My Recommendations:

1. First, accept that you acted weak. If I were you, I would have told her I want to fucck her on that day you guys had your first romantic talk. Don't tell me you didn't want to have sexx with her. We know that's a lie. I would have just say "I want regular romance with her though nothing committed."

2. Leave her alone and ignore her as much as possible. Don't stalk her. Don't beg her. Delete her contacts or block. If she greets or initiate conversation, make it as snappy as possible and move on.

3. Find another lady, especially one prettier than her. When she starts seeing you with your new girl, she will know she ain't that important and is replaceable. Usually, she will try to get you back when she sees that another lady is now in your life. Ladies like going for what they can't have. They prefer getting guys who already have other ladies in his life to a guy who has no luck with ladies.

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Romance / Re: Why You Should Never Believe A Woman's Tears. My Experience by Ketapu: 2:29pm On Aug 14, 2022
It is called gaslighting. It is one of the most powerful psychological weapons in the hands of women.

Once you encounter a lady doing that to you or anyone else, the best is to stay extremely far away from her. Don't try to change her because it will most likely not work.

If you don't stay away from her, she will eventually distort your reality and turn people against you.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 1:33am On Jul 26, 2022
RikudoSennin:
Man comes here to lament about what he is going through while also advising folks about marriage. What do some folks do? First Judge him without listening to his predicament while also castigating him. And we say here is a safe haven for men to air their frustrations?

A red-piller telling his fellow man that he is complaining and should find a solution, which in essence means "tough it out like a man". And y'all are surprised when men don't dry their linen here.

Are you just observing this? I have realized since almost a year now that most guys here, especially those that are popular here are just different shades of blue pillers/AFCs parading themselves as red pillers just because they post here regularly and many of their fellow blue pillers/AFCs got ego boost and liked their posts.

Just observe their contributions over time and you will see contradictions that will make you check their moniker again to be sure it was the person that post what you read.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 4:33pm On Jul 16, 2022
ashewoboy:




Don't stop posting your field report. I think I read two of your field reports and I liked them.

Help me post links to all your field reports, let me be updated.

Sorry bro. I don't post or share them on other platforms.

I paused sharing them here since I realize most guys here are not ready to let go of their blue pill mentality.

Rollo Tomassi is right again: Saving these men from the matrix is not an easy job. They will rather defend the system oppressing them than set themselves free.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 1:07pm On Jul 16, 2022
teebagy:
when a woman wants to date a man 4 his money does she use her mouth to say it or her actions?. And secondly it is either u are lying or u have not slept with a lot of girls

You can believe whatever you want. That doesn't change my reality.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 1:20am On Jul 16, 2022
teebagy:
broh all d women u slept with minus transactional sex, how many did u directly tell with ur mouth dat u want to dig them and they agreed?

All the ladies I've had romance with were all through the Mode One method, which is directly telling them what I want and they agreed.

Does that make you happy now?

And what do you mean by transactional sex? undecided

Let me guess: you mean girls who are into hook up, runs, prostitution, and the like. grin

Which part of my post stated those are the girls I'm referring to?

It's a waste of time trying to help some of you guys to see the truth.

As one person once told me: Don't advice them. Leave them alone. Let them burn.

All the best with your indirect game with ladies.

To the very few guys here who are tired of the manipulative games of ladies and you want the best out of your relationship with ladies, read all of Alan Roger Currie's books.

Also, you can watch his videos on YouTube where he regularly talk about Mode One. Link to his channel below.

https://m.youtube.com/c/AuthorAlanRogerCurrie

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