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missjo:
When i see a post like this, all i see is a guy who judges everything based off what his eyes can see.
Superficial much?

chidiebereuzoma:
See what I'm talking about

Bigcowhorn:
chidiebereuzoma means his phone is fake. He's indirectly asking for money to buy a new one

chidiebereuzoma:
Khiaa your moniker has been added to the frequently typed word in my phone. If I type kh... It auto completes to khiaa

chidiebereuzoma:
Is that you khiaa

2buffagain:
When I see a girl with tattoos, all I see is a dullard who cannot think far....a fool to be bleeped stupid and later block her number when I am tired of the Bleep.
There is no possibility of wifey or family with this person.

If she wanted to have fun, she should have done so without tarnishing her long term possibilities with such a permanent decision.

No one will take her seriously.

femi4:
It's obvious, you lack the ability to discern and make good judgement

MiVida:
I was avoiding being rude bro...

femi4:
She was.... You just expose the fact that you didn't watch it

femi4:
Olodo....It was a comedy drama.

WorWorBoy:
No I didn't,i will later tho lol.

Ilekokonit:
The church should be a place of hallowed, sober reflection and not a place to go ogle scantily clad women. That's why some churches in Nigeria do not allow ladies in mini skirt to sit in the front row obviously to keep the "man of Gods" mind focused on God and not flesh.

The word carnival comes from carnivore or carnal and the church shouldn't be a place to celebrate flesh.

Bigcowhorn:
So this is why wooing you has been so difficult? Your brain has been pregnant with all this trash. I got just 3 words for you babe....



SHUT UP, SWEETHEART!!!

Bigcowhorn:
So this is why wooing you has been so difficult? Your brain has been pregnant with all this trash. I got just 3 words for you babe....



SHUT UP, SWEETHEART!!!

Circuit3:
I am referring to the op statement that ALL prophets and priests are full of deceit. That is why i used the Jeremiah against him. You cannot say ALL. You say you put your trust in God, remember that God would still use a Prophet(Like Jeremiah) or a Priest(Like Aaron) or an Apostle(Like Paul) to perform somethings sometimes. Does it mean you now say, that when the men speak, you should dismiss their statement because "You trust God not man"? You do not need to go to church at all then!

Whenever a pastor preach, it is the Holy Spirit that dwells within you that would give u understanding of what the Pastor has said. If the pastor lied, the Holy Spirit will expose it to you. So if a pastor deceives u, u lack Holy Spirit it is not the Pastor to be blamed but you.

Remember Jesus, was a man once. If the people said "We trust in God ONLY" would they listen to him?

Circuit3:
So God who called a prophet made a mistake? God who anointed a Priest made a mistake? Afterall they are men.

Jeremiah was referring to the false prophets and priests. If the men said they would not trust in man, would they even listen to the jeremiah in the first place? Don't u trust the jeremiah that is why you can quote it?

Ilekokonit:
Culled from :- https://heartiste./the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/


The Sixteen Commandments Of Dating

I. Never say ‘I Love You’ first

Women want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart. They crave the challenge of capturing the interest of a man who has other women competing for his attention, and eventually prevailing over his grudging reluctance to award his committed exclusivity. The man who gives his emotional world away too easily robs women of the satisfaction of earning his love. Though you may be in love with her, don’t say it before she has said it. Show compassionate restraint for her need to struggle toward yin fulfillment. Inspire her to take the leap for you, and she’ll return the favor a thousandfold.

II. Make her jealous

Flirt with other women in front of her. Do not dissuade other women from flirting with you. Women will never admit this but jealousy excites them. The thought of you turning on another woman will arouse her sexually. No girl wants a man that no other woman wants. The partner who harnesses the gale storm of jealousy controls the direction of the relationship.

III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority

Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. You must respect a woman’s integrity and not lie to her that she is “your everything”. She is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.

IV. Don’t play by her rules

If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious demands and mercurial moods. Her emotions are a hurricane, her soul a saboteur. Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a pillar to steady herself against the whipping winds or yearns for an authority figure to foil her worst instincts, it is you who has to be there… strong, solid, unshakeable and immovable.

V. Adhere to the golden ratio

Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more. When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. When she emotes, you emote less. The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold — it establishes your greater value by making her chase you, and it demonstrates that you have the self-restraint to avoid getting swept up in her personal dramas. Refraining from reciprocating everything she does for you in equal measure instills in her the proper attitude of belief in your higher status. In her deepest loins it is what she truly wants.

VI. Keep her guessing

True to their inscrutable natures, women ask questions they don’t really want direct answers to. Woe be the man who plays it straight — his fate is the suffering of the beta. Evade, tease, obfuscate. She thrives when she has to imagine what you’re thinking about her, and withers when she knows exactly how you feel. A woman may want financial and family security, but she does not want passion security. In the same manner, when she has displeased you, punish swiftly, but when she has done you right, reward slowly. Reward her good behavior intermittently and unpredictably and she will never tire of working hard to please you.

VII. Always keep two in the kitty

Never allow yourself to be a “kept man”. A man with options is a man without need. It builds confidence and encourages boldness with women if there is another woman, a safety net, to catch you in case you slip and risk a breakup, divorce, or a lost prospect, leading to loneliness and a grinding dry spell. A woman knows once she has slept with a man she has abdicated a measure of her power; when she has fallen in love with him she has surrendered nearly all of it. But love is ephemeral and with time she may rediscover her power and threaten to leave you. It is her final trump card. Withdrawing all her love and all her body in an instant will rend your soul if you are faced with contemplating the empty abyss alone. Knowing there is another you can turn to for affection will fortify your will and satisfy your manhood.

VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary

Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. Apologizing increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your contrition, like a cat expects its meal at a set time each day. And then your value will lower in her eyes. Instead, if you have done something wrong, you should acknowledge your guilt in a glancing way without resorting to the actual words “I’m sorry.” Pull the Bill Clinton maneuver and say “Mistakes were made” or tell her you “feel bad” about what you did. You are granted two freebie “I’m sorry”s for the life of your relationship; use them wisely.

IX. Connect with her emotions

Set yourself apart from other men and connect with a woman’s emotional landscape. Her mind is an alien world that requires deft navigation to reach your rendevous. Frolic in the surf of emotions rather than the arid desert of logic. Be playful. Employ all your senses. Describe in lush detail scenarios to set her heart afire. Give your feelings freedom to roam. ROAM. Yes, that is a good word. You’re not on a linear path with her. You are ROAMING all over, taking her on an adventure. In this world, there is no need to finish thoughts or draw conclusions. There is only need to EXPERIENCE. You’re grabbing her hand and running with her down an infinite, labyrinthine alleyway with no end, laughing and letting your fingers glide on the cobblestone walls along the way.

X. Ignore her beauty

The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His apprehension and self-consciousness will melt away, paving the path for more honest and self-possessed interactions with the objects of his desire. This is one reason why the greatest lotharios drown in more love than they can handle — through positive experiences with so many beautiful women they lose their awe of beauty and, in turn, their powerlessness under its spell. It will help you acquire the right frame of mind to stop using the words hot, cute, gorgeous, or beautiful to describe girls who turn you on. Instead, say to yourself “she’s interesting” or “she might be worth getting to know”. Never compliment a girl on her looks, especially not a girl you aren’t fucking. Turn off that part of your brain that wants to put them on pedestals. Further advanced training to reach this state of unawed Zen transcendence is to sleep with many MANY attractive women (try to avoid sleeping with a lot of ugly women if you don’t want to regress). Soon, a Jedi lover you will be.

XI. Be irrationally self-confident

No matter what your station in life, stride through the world without apology or excuse. It does not matter if objectively you are not the best man a woman can get; what matters is that you think and act like you are. Women have a dog’s instinct for uncovering weakness in men; don’t make it easy for them. Self-confidence, warranted or not, triggers submissive emotional responses in women. Irrational self-confidence will get you more pussy than rational defeatism.

XII. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses

In the betterment of ourselves as men we attract women into our orbit. To accomplish this gravitational pull as painlessly and efficiently as possible, you must identify your natural talents and shortcomings and parcel your efforts accordingly. If you are a gifted jokester, don’t waste time and energy trying to raise your status in philosophical debate. If you write well but dance poorly, don’t kill yourself trying to expand your manly influence on the dancefloor. Your goal should be to attract women effortlessly, so play to your strengths no matter what they are; there is a groupie for every male endeavor. Except World of Warcraft.

XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little

Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all. Don’t let a woman’s faux indignation at your boldness sway you; they secretly love it when a man aggressively pursues what he wants and makes his sexual intentions known. You don’t have to be an asshole, but if you have no choice, being an inconsiderate asshole beats being a polite beta, every time.

XIV. Bleep her good

Bleep her like it’s your last Bleep. And hers. Bleep her so good, so hard, so wantonly, so profligately that she is left a quivering, sparking mass of shaking flesh and sex fluids. Drain her of everything, then drain her some more. Kiss her all over, make love to her all night, and hold her close in the morning. Own her body, own her gratitude, own her love. If you don’t know how, learn to give her squirting orgasms.

XV. Maintain your state control

You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. She will not drag you into her chaos or uproot you. When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over her.

XVI. Never be afraid to lose her

You must not fear. Fear is the love-killer. Fear is the ego-triumph that brings abject loneliness. You will face your fear. You will permit it to pass over and through you. And when your ego-fear is gone you will turn and face your lover, and only your heart will remain. You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.

***

The closer you follow the letter of these commandments, the easier you will find and keep real, true unconditional love and happiness in your life.

Kayoderebel:
You referred to his posts as "hate speeches", okay we agree.

However, you requesting him to be banned is what ?
If you see a post you ain't comfortable with, all you gotta do is move on. Or as I'm not comfortable with this your thread, I should request you get banned too ? Clown

Ilekokonit:
Discuss

Ilekokonit:
Why would a woman KNOWINGLY waste a guys money knowing fully well she has no intention of dating him ?

It seems that the spirit of cheating / ripping off people / reaping where they did not sow resides in most women.

Ilekokonit:
Or to start envisaging a future stress free life with a woman

Ilekokonit:
Discuss........

Ilekokonit:
These scantily clad, tattooed, immoral, shameless and haughty Jezebels are responsible for birthing and raising the next generation.

God help us all as the future looks bleak.

Ilekokonit:
Discuss

Ilekokonit:
There is so much evil aura around black women that men of all colours will eventually cross the road to the other side on sighting them or move away from them quickly if they approach. When this begins to increase in its occurrences, remember you read it here first. Call it a prophecy or whatever but it has already started happening.

Ilekokonit:
I want a woman who will be offended if I give her money not one who expects me to pay for every thing she needs while she gives Bleep all and deception in return.

Circuit3:
So what is your point? Every Prophet and Priest in the world is full of deceit right? You realize the Jeremiah you are quoting was a Prophet too so lets say Jeremiah was full of deceit.

Nonsense. It is annoying how people read the bible as though they are 10 year old kids.

Ilekokonit:
Proverbs 7:10 NIV
Then out came a woman to meet him, dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent.

You call your self a decent or married woman yet you dress like a prostitute and you have the audacity to enter the house of God and the evil spirit in you still allows you to keep a straight face as if you have done no wrong.

Does your own bible not say in Proverbs 9:10 that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom ?? You obviously don't fear God that is why you can dress like that to church in order to distract men who have come to seek God.

You can choose to cover up your breasts and wear longer skirts or not so tight fitting trousers or you may decide to continue with your satanic assignment to distract God Fearing men who came to the house of God to worship [/b]and see if you will not end up in chains in the dungeon of hellfire like your father the devil.

Repent of your evil ways before it is too late for you and you end up where Matthew 8:12 says there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.

[b]Let her who has ears hear what the bible says in Proverbs 7:10, Proverbs 9:10 and Matthew 8:12.

Ilekokonit:
Before you set a woman up financially make sure you have set yourself up first.

Life saving financial advice someone should give all boys before they reach 15 years of age.

This advice is more valuable to a man than any degree.

Have you ever seen a blood sucking parasite leave its host animal better than they met it

So err on the side of caution and BEWARE and BE WARY of these opportunistic, dishonest and deceitful parasites called women before they abort your financial and emotional destiny.

The devil comes to steal, to kill and to destroy which is why great men of the past and the current times are regularly being brought down to prison or suicide. Just focus on international news stories of rich and successful men who are brought to their knees and disgraced and you will see the foot prints and finger prints of a woman in the men's down fall.

Helping or trusting these evil parasitic creatures called women is a one way street to poverty.

He who has ears let him hear.