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Please don't slut shame us please

You know that your opinion of us is the only thing that matters. If we are not approved by you, you that wields the holy joystick, what will our lives amount to? Haven't we become useless?

Please. I dey use Baba God beg you.

I was also told that the day I love a man is the day I would die

That men don't need love in any way. All they're there for is to provide for my needs. Never give love to your husband, else he'll take you for granted and give you shït to eat. Rather, respect him, and make sure you never spend a dime on him.

Lol... Everybody thinks they've got the opposite gender all figured out

Live by your rules and your rules only.

okotv:
the society

Again. Have a nice day sir

okotv:
You too. Thank you but is isn't our fault.

And its whose fault? Ours?

okotv:
its a mans world

Typical statement of a Nigerian man. Have a nice day sir

okotv:
though men usually don't get raped but we get sexually assaulted all the time.

Yes but are you men blamed for it?

okotv:
I must be living in space then or are things now this bad

You don't have a vagina nau

okotv:
What percent of Nigerian men is represented here.

Quite a lot actually. The same rapists and rape apologists on nairaland and other social media, are the same mad people in real life, running around, destroying people's lives and turning back to ask what they wore and why they went there.

It is the reason I cannot go out alone past 8. I must have at least two of my male friends with me. Yes. Most Nigerian men are rapists.

okotv:
Proof or...

This thread and any other rape thread is proof enough.

Sekxy they're all proving your point

okotv:
Most males in the country aren't Rapists .

Lies from the pit of hell.

Pataricatering:
There is nothing wrong with a girl going to a mans house for a reason ! All in a bid to make men blameless we start asking what did she wear , why did she go . Men need to learn that sex is not an entitlement you are supporting rape if you blame the victim .

You dey mind dem? Most of them think of nothing apart from sex. As if they are animals. Slaves to their joysticks.

Sha. God pass them

prettyboy5:
I hope girls would learn from this:

1: When a guy asks you out and you said no, please stay off him.
2: Stop keeping guys as "just friends" squad, you don't know which one among them might be a rapist.
3: Babes, please stop going to a man's house who is not a trusted friend or relative/sibling to charge your phone.

Girls can't have guys as friends?

In my opinion, respect comes with being a husband or a wife. You both respect yourselves and each other.

Lol... How funny

Go to the other thread my guy. Countless guys are of the opinion that financially independent women are arrogant and all.
Now we want to do as men want, go after the rich men that will not see us as a threat, the ones that our brokeness will feed their ego and you dare call us confused?

Lol.

Safiaa was right

sekxy:
hmm..what is 15k.

is better he doesn't even give me that

My sistah

I been think say na only me dey reason am

Yawns....

The Christmas red. Christmas isn't celebrated in my house, but I found two hats

Yawns.

Paulosky1900:
HYPOCRISY EVERYWHERE IF IT WERE TO BE A GIRL THEY WONT ASK WHEATHER THE GIRL WEARS INDECENT DRESSING..THEY WILL RAIN CURSES ON THE RAPERS..UNA TYPE DERSERVES BEEN SLAPPED CONSTANTLY INFANT THUNDER WEY GO FIRE UNA TYPE STILL DEY DO PRESSUP.........BALDERDASH

Shut the fùck up. All these useless menists
I have said it before and I will say it again. You cannot be exuding sexuality by dressing or looking provocative for that matter, without expecting to be raped.

Look at his mouth like infant thunder. Bomb dey your head!

Spits.

eyinjuege:
Because she likes sex?

How does that make her a hypocrite?

Not all feminists are lesbians, infact most are straight. If she's not a lesbian, then why are you surprised she had sex with a NLder?
Or is the guy in question a Yabaleft escapee, underage boy? If he's an adult with a sound mental capacity, there's no crime there na.
If both of them enjoyed themselves, there's no story there na. It might only be a story if she was sleeping with the guy for money, then you can shout fake feminist.
Or if she claimed to be very religious, yet she was having premarital sex then you can say she's a hypocrite.
Infact, most feminists have a very exciting sex life. They believe in the sexual freedom of a woman, and have no apologies for it. There's a movt by feminists about sexual freedom in the 70s or early 80s sef.

You haven't been following the story. He's a troll. A stupid one at that. Ignore him.

Yawns...

MISSCONGENIALITY:
So me guys are good at that. I remeber when I was in school we went for a picnic in a river. My depeartment got there to and met another group from another school or so. But when we were in the water, a guy grab my blobs and I was pissed because I didn't know exactly who did it. Was just standing in the water whicj was up to my chest level when I felt a hand on my boobs. I manage to move to a less concentared and waited for my turn that I will pay back. My friend said I should just forget it but I told her guys are not the with monopoly on molestation. The thing pained so much that I knew the only way I could heal was to pay back. When the time came for to do them back I seeped my hand inside tha water with the target of pulling at anything that came my way, but unfortunately it was the unlucky guys ass, I pressed it the wast someone pressed my breast, hard and quick so that he would think it was a dream. They I look away before he raised his head to know what happened. The sencond target was perfect.
My course mate who went there with her boyfriend was molested and she was lucky to see the guy. She gave him a slap the changed his life and I was happy.
Ladies are molested everyday and nobody notices it . They only notice it when they have been raped to death

You don't know how this your story is making me laugh right now

Don't do it bruh

Modified. Pay no attention to the animal below me.

What is your husband saying?

Horse shit.

He was trying to become a bad boy.. Abi guy. How do they even put it sef

amprat:
I would have agreed with you if he was taking care of his mother or if anyone calls for help except the last child and mother that keeps hoping and hoodwinked with mother's love, he is the one that calls out of the blues trying to know what is happening to everyone and their future plans like a monitoring spirit,and making promises he never keeps, like you need to change your job, I have contacts or you should further abroad I can sponsor it, or you should work on your talent I'll talk to someone people, blah blah blah

It could be like you said. He honestly doesn't care. Maybe those times his wife or something else might remind him of his family and so he calls and tries to act like a loving sibling.

Some people just don't care. Remove your mind from the guy

I think it might be to your benefit, your sibling is simply training you to be as independent as possible.

With or without your support, maga go pay

Smooshchn

Please come and continue your thread