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Wow! This is a good one bro! Lol!

This joke always makes me laugh.

Good one !

Lol! Good one

Lol! She couldn't tell!

True leader - he cares and sympathizes for the needy in his small country. African leaders can learn from this.

Very difficult story to believe but if it is true, then it is just a reflection of the type of care you give your househelp. One of the reasons why you should educate and treat your house helps as part of the family. If she had been watching TV in the house with you, she would have surely seen a laptop by now.[/quote][quote author=chaircover] lolest! Interesting view on the topic.

yea... But growing up is kinda fun. Challenging but funny at times.

obowunmi: Don't worry - the right woman will come. Live without worry.

Always remember: there are more WOMEN in this world than men. You have an advantage. Finish your degrees, finish school, all will be well.

Chase the money, women will chase you.

He's right.

harakiri: Please, let's quit deceiving ourselves. Apart from sex and maybe kids, what else on earth do you seek from a woman? Is it companionship? Are you that unstable? Is it a soul mate? All for her to share your secrets of which even your mother knows nothing about with her friends in juicy gossip sessions? I mean, what else is there? People just try their best to attach more importance to male/female relationships than there really is. No wonder there are millions of broken hearts and disappointed people everywhere. They expect too much. I guess it's the media hype.

I think you're totally right.

dontador: Then, why won't you tell that your partner what he or she might not be doing properly? Rather than cheat on him or her.

Sometimes u may choose to keep quiet because the issue may be terribly embarrassing and sometimes beyond the control of any parter. For example, say a womans dating a guy and when getting intimate its uncomfortable because his ish may be so tiny (Manneken Pis like), that it has to be redirected half the time, which can become very frustrating.

Now you may choose to continue being with that man but you may not say anything because you feel that its embarrassing , beyond the partners control and also a very sensitive matter. Some issues are not easy to talk about, period.

Now the partner may

cap28: Well if thats the way you want to see it, its up to you but Mandela brokered a deal with the racist aparthied system in which it was agreed that a few former ANC leaders and their friends would be given token positions within the system ie positions in govt with no real power on the condition that they would abandon their previous revolutionary stance, some were also allowed to buy shares in the european owned mining companies which has led to many of them becoming multi millionaires this was done to buy their complicity and silence and it seems to have worked.

Token political power is not the same thing as economic power, look at Obama isnt he america's first so called black president (he's actually mixed race not black)but what has he done for the african american population since assuming office ?- NOTHING - and there is nothign he can do because he is merely a front man for white supremacy.

this is the same way the token black govts of namibia and south africa can never do anything to elevate the standard of living of the black majority unless they get rid of the white power structure that controls and owns all the banks, mining companies and other businesses in the country.

Mugabe tried to overrule the interests of the powerful white farmers in his country who owned 90% of the most fertile land in his country but dont you see how quickly europe and america came to the rescue of their white cousins by collapsing the zimbabwean economy ?

black africans still have not understood the score - the whites gang up against you the divided african in order to ensure that they always remain in full control of your resources and if that fails they simply invade and destroy your country and replace you with one of their approved puppets (libya and ivory coast)

.... Seriously dood! Stop using!! .

@ the Bloody mogoe ! You have ABSOLUTELY no idea what you are talking about. Just another load pessimistic LOUD mouth on NL... Anyway time will tell. But continue with that attitude and see where it'll take you and your country men. That's why you continue to suffer, because all you ever do is criticize as if you could've done anything better. Happy criticizing then . :p

I totally love your sense of humour

Interesting pic. Infact its quiet funny. But let me tell you something about growing up as a woman. You do reach a point where you want to be taken seriously, but half the time you MAY be behaving or dressing up like a tramp.

But there's hope... Because some girls realise this and they change to women of stature who are respectful,smart, humble and kind. Unfortunately some are in denial and remain girls forever. For e.g, it took me a while to accept my body for what it is (I have wide hips) . Half the time I used to dress like a skinny girl. You can imagine what would happen then

I think any person, male or female cheats when they're not entirely happy with that they've got. You might think you're giving it you're all, but maybe you're not doing something properly and the other party believes someone else might be able to do it better... Like kissing for example. Human being are interesting creatures. People fall out of love for the strangest of reasons.

daisyella: When u r through with †ђξ maths let us know, also solve why guys cheat on girls

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Interesting point . Thanks .

I'm glad the video was NOT removed. It still shows that in some countries freedom of speech is still taken seriously. We will obviously as christians NEVER understand why muslims get so emotional about they're religion because our religion teaches that God is love and Love is kind .

In Niger, child marriage on rise due to
hunger.

This really is a serious issue and its such a pity that the girl child is often the one who suffers the most in such situations. I often wish there was something I could do. I hope someday I will be able to.

I think if we all tried to make even a small contribution, we would be able to change a girl-child's future . I remember how my own life was touched as a teenager by a German lady who was working specifically with the previously disadvantaged learners at a private Deutsche Schule ( Bursary Programme). Infact I do have to give back to Society.

Rossikk: No they didn't. They sat in their vineyards and ranches drinking wine and tea while the blacks did all the work, so shut the fuc.k up.

Lolest! Rossik!!! Well I often think about that too. But the fact is , I can't imagine what would happen to the big corperations if they left. For e.g my mentor is a 50 year old Afrikaans senior manager. We need her because she is showing us, the younger generation the "ropes". If she suddenly left, my department would go under. We need the skills and experience that most of these white people have. We cannot afford for them to up and leave and I'm glad our leaders acknowledge this.

One day I'll be the "boss" and i'll owe it all to Mandela for not kicking whites out of SA.

Rossikk: No they didn't. They sat in their vineyards and ranches drinking wine and tea while the blacks did all the work, so shut the fuc.k up.

Lolest! Rossik!!! Well I often think about that too. But the fact is , I can't imagine what would happen to the big corperations if they left. For e.g my mentor is a 50 year old Afrikaans senior manager. We need her because she is showing us, the younger generation the "ropes". If she suddenyl left, my department would go under. We need the skills and experience that most of these white people have. We cannot afford for them to up and leave and I'm glad our leaders acknowledge this.

One day we'll be the "boss" and we'll owe it all to Mandela for not kicking whites out of SA.

I agree with you Totally. However, there's one area that's over looked and unfortunately there's hardly any stats for this issue. Its quiet sad that the family structure in my country is pretty much broken. One of the reasons I admire West Africans in general, is the fact that they're responsible. No matter how much we may advance in terms of world rankings, nothing compares to a child who has both parents in his life .

Unfortunately, the majority of SA men have children that they hardly play a role in they're up bringing. A mother can afford everything, but nothing compares to a fathers love.

They say a mother can try to call a child into order, but a father only needs to speak ONCE and the child will listen. The government is trying to make campaigns about males being more responsible in every way. But I wonder how many people are hearing this message.

Its so sad to grow up in a society where being a single mother is the norm even when the father lives up the road... And believe you me, I'm not exaggerating .

What kind of boys will my generations children become.. This is a major challenge.


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