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That's a way of making the music sounds tribal and local to a particular ethnic group.

That's they don't want to put the music in the standard of Beyonce, Eminem and the likes, so they stylishly redicule it by making it tribal

What they fail to understand is Yoruba people are spread in millions all over the world, there are Yoruba people that are not even native Africans and they recognize their root as being Yoruba

Our educational system is too poor ah ah

theForth:
Who knows if earth quakes and other natural disasters that plague the entire earth at large are caused by these technological findings?

No, disasters has being happening even before technology

Sounds like a good way to over work the planet.

This is just like stealing the rain that's supposed to run somewhere else

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Nancee4love:
I AM INLOVE WITH A GUY I AM FAR RICHER THAN.
I need a candid, serious and matured advice. I am a lady of 28yrs I stay in Abuja and work here. I am from south south in Nigeria. I recently moved to an area in Abuja and was thinking of a church to go so I went to a church closer to my house and I enjoy the service and I met this cute dark handsome guy in the church. Althrough the service my attention was on him, his personality and dress sense attracted me to him. I like slim guyz and tall guys because I am tall. So after service I went home, thinking about him and looking forward to Sunday morning to go to church to see my crush. I love the fact that this guy true loves God. One thing led to another we had to start talking and I fell even deeper inlove with him, he is a graduate and works in an IT Media firm. It's been 18 months now we have been talking and we are so fond of ourselves and absolutely we are catching feelings for each other but he has not said anything about relationship yet. I am super convinced that he has no relationship, I asked our pastor stylishly and he told me the guy is not in any relationship. This guy is a keeper, has character, treats me with uttermost respect and value. The way he looks into my eyes makes me know he has a thing in his heart for me. Note I have been to his house severally, he stays in a single studio apartment while I stay in a flat and still he is not intemidated at all. He has never asked me for money at all and never pushed for sex, and we have not had sex. We buy things for each other occasionally, like he reciprocates and appreciates my efforts.
Recently we were discussing and he Opened up to me that his salary is 80,000 and he is seriously thinking of how he can settle down with that and that's his major source of Income apart from other stuff he does. He has a registered company that he is working on already. I can see him pushing and making all efforts to improve himself. Me on the other side I make 250,000 monthly though I have not told him. I truly love this guy and I want to settle with him but on 80,000 naira income monthly. I was thinking could it be the reason why he has not asked me out yet after 18 months.
I told my girlfriends about it not relating or referring to him, my girlfriends, they said I should not settle for less I should look for a man who earns higher.
Please people here are my concerns.
1. I love this guy but he has not said anything about relationship yet, how do I make him ask me out
2. Am I settling for less with 80,000 as his salary, will he abandon family responsibility to me in the future.
3. Should I tell him how much I earn , will he not take advantage of me
4. Should I move on its been 18months but truly my heart is peaceful with him, we laugh we smile we encourage each other and we build each other.
5. Should I follow my girlfriends advice to look for someone who earns higher.
6. There is a guy who has been on my neck for 9 months now he works in NNPC, DPR has a car and comfort but I see a toxic red flag in him that's making me scared of him, yet he won't give up he is from south south as well
7. I spoke with my aunt and she said to me if she has her way she will make sure I never have contact with my girlfriends who don't understand life and who are not ready for marriage. My aunt told me that she feels the guy in my church is my God ordained husband. My mom also said the same thing that the guy is ok but she would have preferred someone from south south. My church guy is from middle belt
8. Many things are running through my mind I know I love him.
THIS ARE THE QUALITIES I LIKE IN HIM
1. He loves God and genuinely Born again Christian
2. He is sincerely and honest person
3. He is sacrificial and gives me listening ears.
4. He is very mature he seniors me with 6-7 yrs
5. He just a calm person and very organized and visionary
Please help me make the right decision by airing out your opinion.
Right now he is the only not too rich guy in my life who I expect him to ask me out and he has not. Other toaster's are super rich and they are on my neck trust me I am pretty beautiful light skin girl.

If you really love him, don't tell him about your salary yet, show him love, and tell him you would want the two of you to get married, say it the best way you can. Heaven no go fall, but make sure you don't tell him about your salary yet.

Zeal0000007:
Guys I need your help here, me and my gal have been together for 6 yrs now, I was convinced that she's the one for me, so I decided to engage her late last year, at least to show that her position in my life is not taken for granted , we have really been through hell for each other even when there was nothing she was there for me, but thank God today I'm working now.

Now for the past 2 yrs, It looks as if I have been struggling to keep her, cos we have been cohabiting since I came back from nysc. Since I came back over two yrs now she has been mishaving , she locks her phone constantly, something she never did before, even if its opened the apps are lock only her can open it, if complain abt that she will respond like why will I touch her phone, asking me who does that, to touch a woman's phone even to go to social media, and she has being subjecting me to that because I don't trust her, when we are about to sleep she put her phone on flight mode, and put it under her pillow and put her head on top. Her phone is constantly on silent mode during day time so if it rings she will determind whom to pick so I won't hear and know. We can't watch movie together as partners perhaps she afraid of who will call next ,because she knows I will give her hit.

If I manage to pick up her call she will be shivering,
We have had alot of issues because of her giving in to distractions , I'm tired of talking , I don beat her tire my hand don bend. I have told her if u don't want me again and you have seen somewhere better , open up and tell me instead of cheating that will be honorable thing to do. I don tire for this gal, if I drive her away she has no where to go. The school she's going I'm the one supporting her, her family is not giving her enough support because the don't believing in education all the know is business, and I'm the only one bearing her load and i'm not doing that because i want to marry her, i'm doing it because she needs help and she is my lover.
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together so she want to keep me as potential husband and still be playing games outside , what crime did I do to go for service so I can come back and make life better for us, cos that was when she got spoilt. I deflowered her and thats not how I left her.

I have resolved chasing her away, right now I'm in offshore , I never trusted her while I was on land is it now that I'm offshore I will trust her?

Stop beating her, stop! She's not an animal that you will control with cane.

The fact is she loves you, but it's possible she met someone who treated her with respect when were away for your NYSC, and now she's still struggling to decide whether to leave your violent soul. I am saying this cause I am sure you have beaten her even before your NYSC.

She's not a goat stop beating her!
Well you can continue, let's see her die in your hands someday

Beating another person's wife? Chai, So some guys still beat women? God please guide me.


Please stop beating her

Africa and wahala

We can not always blame those girls without mentioning what men do to them too.

You as a man if you break any girl's virginity marry her!

If you can't marry her because she is not your type, please and pleas leave her alone

What's the website please

Okay

nedekid:
Anything can happen bro.
Dont be supprise you see 10 SANs defending her tomorrow. Even from this her latest interview you can see she has started getting legal advice.
The fact that girl looks helpless, young, vulnerable and extremely beautiful might appeal to some big men or woman somewhere that might decide to back her legally or even with the powers that be.
Abeg leave woman matter, especially one looking like this. Anything can happen.

And don't be surprised if beautiful girls start going around commiting crime because they believe their face will prove them innocent.

Anybody that uses physical appearance to dictate someone crime tendencies is a pervert!

saphiere:
God is own your side baby girl.

JUSTICE FOR CHIDINMA

This is the craziest thing I ever find on social media, Justice for a suspected murderer? Someone going around with a sugar daddy accusing same sugar daddy of rape?

You people should stop this gender partiality, remember you will give birth to male children too

okey4reel:
na only to dey snap pictures this President sabi, how will this benefit the common man on the street thats d issue

He is a celebrity model

easzypeaszy:
Agege to be precised 200k to 400k
Agege is another center in Lagos
5-10mins drive from Pencinema to Ikeja Under bridge.
10-20min to Oshodi

Pencinema-Oke koto to Orile is 200k-250k
National to Cement of Agege 250k-400k
Dopemu axis of Agege 250-300k
Ile-epo axis is 200k to 250k
Most estate in Agege starts from 300k to 400k for miniflat

I am paying 250k for a selfcon in Agege, please name one estate in Agege that's that cheap

They are changing this girl's story, what is wrong with Lagos? They are trying to release her, you can see from her looks that the story is fabricated. They are trying to release an already caught suspect of murder back into the society without punishment?
Issokay..

My advice to all the men in Lagos is they should be careful the way they deal with women, if you have being following the trend here in Lagos you will notice that, they mostly have similar flow where the women will be set free at the end despite clear evidence, they will find a way to change the story.

The feminist are very powerful in this part of Nigeria trust me, they have taken over the case of this girl

TripleOh7:
In the same nation? I doubt.

How does USA ensures that states like California and new York are not over crowded, why is it that Philadelphia is the base for junkies and the unemployed.
It's simple just make it unaffordable for them and make laws to protect the indigenes

TripleOh7:
The problem with this thought that south west region will develop rapidly past this stage in a regional government is the fallacy that others will remain in their regions and not flood southwest.

Whatever progress is made in Yorubaland, be rest assured that the rest regions of the country will drag them back by dumping their huge population on the southwest even as we see it occuring right under our noses.

The only way true development can come to Yorubaland is if Yorubas have their own nation and regulate who comes in. That's all.

Other than that, don't expect much from this union because the constitution guarantees the right of freedom of movement and the freedom to live anywhere you want in Nigeria.

There are policies that can be made to discourage, jobless people from flooding and not look like xenophobia

bjdon:
All of these are just noise used to deceive the gullible masses. We had 3 regions then 4 in the first republic. There was corruption and strife. We had 12 states. There was corruption and strife. We had 19, then 21 then ....all the way to 36 states. There is still corruption and strife. We have had civilian, military, mix military and civilian, presidential system, parliamentary system....in all these there has been corruption and strife.
When will Nigerians finally understand that the problem is not the system of govt, it is the practitioners of that system. If you have regional autonomy tomorrow, you will still have Tinubu's in the SW, Kalu's in the SE, Ibori's in the SS, Gado Dollar in the NW.... Nothing will change. Untill the rule of law is firmly established in this country nothing will change.

The argument is some people will eventually get it right at some point. Look at Dubai for example, Dubai is just a single province in UAE, but it stands out from other province and set them on a race

You can as well say every guy is a rapist. Seriously when I see comments like this making men look like devils, I get very angry, if you know what an average lady can do to men that's not their lover, their child or their sibling you will fear.

There are very wicked women too, sexual rape is not the only evil thing in life what about the people that those women have raped emotionally, and even raped their future?

Use the same energy you use to bastardize male to female crime to bastardize female to male crime.

Stop making men look like devil, we are not the same

She said choke me baby not kill me baby.



Anyways the female gender has taken a reputable number of men's life during the act than it has been otherwise

Serious question, how much tax does herders pay in this country? Why are they so important? Imagine if it's the north that contribute the highest revenue?

The southern leaders don't really know how to embarrass them, they should have organised some poultry farmers association too and let them be responding to them. Let's make it a joke of the regime

Okay maybe, she won't even bother poisoning him or pray for his demise, since she will always have her way

They will pass this bill and still out a clause to protect themselves, pack of 419s

YorubaKinging:
The end is near

Sunday igboho, though has good motives, took the wrong approach

You can't fight the Government

That said... The freedom of the great Yoruba nation is nigh

Verily I say unto you. ... YORUBA nation will be achieved without any bloodshed

After then War.. war.. war..

But who will call upon the name of the Lord will be saved for salvation will come from Zion

Yoruba, the tribe of Judah

Please stop this, we are not related to any Judah or whatever

Actually most ladies will say yes to anything marriage, except the olosho ones sha

Is this how south Africa treat their heroes past? A Nigerian governor role model for that matter

Let's kuku make it life time na, we should know once you graduate, you have already signed up for life time slavery. What is even the life expectancy in Nigeria self

If SA is like Nigeria, Zuma would be celebrated like "our heroes past"

But no bill to improve it right? Why is Nigeria always about revenue sharing?

Some people are weird, women are everywhere looking for husband to marry them, and yet we have people that do this?

He should be castrated