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This is the major reason I hate Nigeria, if we can't have a serious discussion about this back and forth with north and south Nigeria can never work.

Any southern interest is always against the northern interest, any northern interest is always against the southern interest.

What is the meaning of this grazing nonsense, not just that cow grazing is causing conflict, it is also bad for the ecosystem, it destroy the natural vegetation of where ever they graze and open the soil to desertification.

Which fool encourages open grazing in this period of global climate change? Cow has caused the north enough problem, they should stop bringing it here. Foolish people. Go and look at anywhere cow graze for a long time, the place will turn to open field after some time.

Northerners are just lazy and unwilling to solve problems that's why the people employed among them are all civil servants.
If they are not lazy some people would have come together to create ranching estates or something similar, but they are waiting for bubu to use state power to force people to do it for them. Irritants.

Northerners are not the only ones keeping livestock, we have poultry farms, pig farms etc here. People come together and create farming estate and there's no noise about it.

The stupid oil is of no use to the common man. Politicians are focused on how oil money are going to be shared among them, they don't bother about how to use it or what it's to be used for

The funniest post on nairaland.
Actually guy don't chase her like that, as far as she's not a financial burden, when you finally graduate, you will understand why I say this.

When you graduate all those your guy friends will no longer be there, they will go back to their respective states and start life afresh, even the ones living in your street after graduation will hardly have your time, everyone will understand they need to hustle.

Instead of chasing her because of some temporary relationship, examine the kind of person she is first and examine the relationship you guys have together, can you keep such for a long time? If your answer is no, tell her to leave, if your answer is yes, talk to her in a lovely way, you y still make friends and keep your relationship too.

Trust me in this life don't throw away any HONEST person that is ready to stay in your life as far as they are not a liability.

YOU CAN'T WALK THIS LIFE ALONE. YOUR UNIVERSITY GUY FRIENDS WON'T BE IN YOUR LIFE FOREVER, EVERYTHING WILL END AFTER THE FINAL CLEARANCE, LIKE A DREAM

Here we go again

I just googled it, and I have actually eaten it before. The meat dey sweet, but very rare, we didn't intentionally kill it then, a tractor step on it while clearing the bush

DoggoneDogg:
So Igboho has gotten to the US??

This comment brought me here. Thanks for saying our minds

Julianaa:
talking about misplaced priorities

They won't as they are collecting huge amount of tax from them

And getting nothing from social media, reason they want the facebook and co to build their offices here

Yes taxes and bribes

Government could have regulated this nonsense, but no they won't, it's social media they want to regulate

This is from june 21 it's very small

My babe won't let me eat snake again, so bad.

This one is big and it will be delicious

UKusedBoyfriend:
As in ehn Everytime I keep giving them the benefit of doubt but they all end up been the same. One texted me on Facebook the other day, two days in she's already demanding for MTN card. Every strange girl that texts me first are usually like that.

Don't mind them

Friendship with most girls is just an excuse to turn you to their urgent 2k provider. I don't keep any female friends, it's either we are dating or we are distance friends, I have my needs too.

A girl that find you attractive will find a way to date you after all. Don't keep me as your friend, feeding off me, while you quietly pray that I don't find someone that will appreciate me.

Tickles001:
Tell the truth. Is she below 27yrs? I've also met people like that too, but you don't see them in younger age bracket and they're usually ugly and heavily enhanced. Hence, they seem to be different from the rest.

I don't even know why people think men are scared of rich ladies. We're just disgusted at what is left of them in the pursuit of that independence, and the masculine carriage that comes with it. Most of the independent ones become so unfeminine, and that's what disgusts us.
The last one I met was well generous and independent, but she's damn ugly and not feminine in character at all. Me dating her would be like dating my fellow man, so I swerved

Lol see the joke, almost every girl get enhanced as far as they can afford it. You said the independent girl you met is ugly, I bet you may still settle down for someone uglier, mark my words. I actually agree to girls losing some femininity as they struggle towards independent, but not all of them, some of them are like that because they compete in a male dominated industry, it's just their survival strategy, they have to learn to make masculine joke, converse with several male, and not portray their feminine aspect which some men may easily see as weakness, etc.

Women are more flexible than men

Tickles001:
See, let's tell ourselves the truth. Good women are almost extinct. If she's young and pretty, don't expect her to work or be responsible. She'd rather waste her life looking for married rich men to fund her expensive lifestyle, than settle and support an average guy with just one old car living in a rented apartment.
They only seem to be more responsible if they're ugly or getting old, so they can't compete with the fine younger ones. That's the only time you see them claiming changed and different. Show me a girl between 19-27yrs that is pretty and not interested in living well beyond her income through men, then I'll show you a snowwhite coal

The only enjoyable part of this trend is that you get a lot of young fine girls to lay regularly. But it's just not worth the damage to the society

Are you saying there are no young and pretty girls doing cooperate jobs? See there are even girls sponsoring guys lifestyle, it's the part that you see, those kind of girls are just too ashamed to say it out that they are the ones spending on their boyfriend or husbands.

Girls in the cooperate service industry, especially those that are in the senior level, have issues with men alot go and make your research. We guys are scared of dating girls that are too independent, especially if we are not older than them with some high margin, that's the solid truth, I myself I once had one around last year, she earns more than me very well, she kept disturbing me, but because of the financial differences I had to find a way to x her quickly

Girls in their circle believe if a guy is not spending money on them then they are the one forcing themselves on the guy, so they don't tell their friends or the public that they are the one sponsoring their spouse. Their friends with use it to mock them

Tickles001:
In that case. It's evident that paranormal girls greatly outnumber the normal ones. The girls of today cannot afford the kind of life they want to live. So they depend on men to achieve and maintain that level of living that they desire. Any woman you see living within her income(the one she earned), is for one reason or another unable to do otherwise.
And it's not about the internet. I travel a lot(within the country though), and I've observe a lot of families and people in real life.

Yes sure paranormal girls have taken over, they are now the one setting standard for other girls with their fake, borrowed or stolen lives.

But I have actually met a few, and I noticed it depends so much on family upbringing, most women that grew in an average income home tends to be contented with an average lifestyle (not all though). Some women are very flexible they adapt to the lifestyle of the person they love, so if you go about giving them all the juicy lifestyle from the beginning be ready to maintain that lifestyle. It's better you look for a girl who is ready to work passionately, there are girls that have ambition outside of being model, makeup artist, actress and all that

Tickles001:
No. What they fear most is a broke husband. They'd rather cry in a mansion than smile in a one bedroom and palour apartment.
But I completely condemn beating a human being to death. It just doesn't pass for me.

Notice the adjective "normal" most normal girls actually believe in themselves than they believe in the financial security of their husbands, lot of girls can work for their money and feed themselves and their children, don't believe the internet stereotype of women, some are true, some are not

One thing normal women fear most is an husband that beats, in fact they fear it more than anything else

iamadonis2:
Honestly I feel like pausing any self development agenda in Nigeria. My entire focus right now is geared towards a life that’ll give me the chance to relocate to one small village in Iceland where I can:

watch the aurora each night.
Read books.
Listen to great music.
Keep a great family and make great friendships.
Then I die.

You all in Nigeria can keep using Benz and iPhone to tension your statistically short lives.

NB: Life expectancy for a Nigerian is 52 short years

Truth expressed in a bitter way, guyyyy

AutoChick4U:
Are u people even OK? She probably knows d guy will flip hence d secrecy. God answers my prayer and brings a helper my way I shouldn't collect because of one guy struggling to pay 45 percent? Let's b rational

You women will be putting your hands inside fire and be thinking you are being smart. You think it's all people you can play and be calling them helper.

Someone either want to date or fvck you and he is already sending you money while you at the back of your mind believe you are smart and you won't give him any of what he desire from you, you think you will go scott free if he finds out he is being played?

You are hurting a man ego and you think he won't want to treat your Bleep up? Yahoo boy for that matter. Many of you are just madd.

I just hope she doesn't create unnecessary enemy for the innocent guy.

Tomorrow someone will kidnap your child or even rape you and you will be shouting men are evil.

If you can't be loyal to the devil, don't dine with it!

Ahmed0336:
If Na naija dog now, e go first run leave the owner. Then, the rattlesnake will now turn into a Python and swallow the owner.

Lol calm down, I have aseen several cases of dogs attacking snakes to protect it's owner very well, if you have lived in the village you will understand well, I have even seen a cat attack a snake that wanted to enter the house

You are following billionaire and he can't help you pay 380k and you no move, she got what she is looking for, funny thing is a young guy can do more for those ladies than what sugar daddies do for them

Always the same story, God save men oo. If you bring a woman home and she didn't agree to your advances just let her be, if it's late already, sending her away immediately the day break.

If this is true it is not funny and it's not something to take lightly

G7 are taking over, is okay. I still trust Chinese more than those Europeans sha

Africans are funny, after Catholics introduced Christianity to them, now they believe Catholics are not the real Christians and that they are

Na una industry dey encourage them na

AlhajiBitcoin:
The guy lacks marketing skills...

He lacks wisdom

Sharia country

I like this guy, that's a good way to escape unreasonable conversation. Well trained Yoruba boy

Bring this to naija now, especially Lagos

They fit each other die

Wait what about the girls that do this to us on a regular, promising us sex and not coming after collecting money