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I am 5.4 and now I am more worried than before, girls wey I dey date no dey pass 5.1 or 2.

Where will I start from now?

Masterkernel1:
Nairaland alone gets your IP address, locations and many more information at registration, kindly check your first mail from Nairaland, much much Chinese apps.

Can you believe that sometimes, even when I turn of my data and sleep on waking up, my wallpaper will be changed by these people ?

you are very correct, I even think Chinese are spying on African especially Nigerians through fairly used and new Chinese devices.

For instance the is this silly app that is on my phone the app can't be stopped. I stopped it but it kept running... And it is of no importance to the functionality of my phone. Most Chinese products does this... I think we are being spied on through substandard devices from China and Chinese companies.

Jentilia:
So many kids here,so u cant buy phone for your girl without seeking for advice here

been there done that no gain for inside, person pikin go bank one time... Most girls are the same bro use that money and buy the phone for your sister if to buy phone dey hungry you.

Fedzuga:
Once you get her the phone automatically you have becomes her ATM machine period. If you have sense don't try it bet if you don't have sense buy it.

Let him know, that is how I once made that mistake in 100l

Pegi23:
Sure. Get her a phone

You are my kind of guy. So caring ND cute.

Pls no stage is too early buy her the phone

guy you better don't let this one fool you, when you hear things like he is caring or he is a gentle man from girls whether the one's you are dating or not it, they are trying to way you are stupid

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

That would make you a prospective ATM. If she is a very close friend, maybe best friend that would be fine but a prospective day??

AreaFada2:
True, true. If you can get Nairaland Tehns group to begin fundraising, maybe at least a little help can reach them..

Ifyalways used to be active with Tehns.

I don't know anything about the Tehns group and I don't know anything about the woman we are talking about, is there anything anyone can do about that?

The state she lives is not a strange place to me though.

micfoley:
My brother , take it easy o. Believe me, no matter how bad your story is, people are going through worse. Some people have offered to speak to you, please take up their offer.


Most importantly, please find your way back to Christ. The most striking thing about your write up is that there is no peace in your heart. I may not know much about Christianity, but I know from experience that your heart will no longer be troubled once you find Jesus.


May God bless you as you rediscover yourself in Him

You are right plus he needs the right people in his life.

Can't we go a day without seeing news that has to do with death and murder from that part if this country?

Their leaders are less concerned, it seems they derive joy in seeing people die daily.

magicminister:
She’s fucking beautiful!
If she jam money Behind up, this one na confirm!!!

hot hot!! I no know how she take miswaka go date that danfo driver

AreaFada2:
To seriously flog that mofo husband just dey hungry me.

But how did this black beauty queen get to marry one illiterate primitive mofo?

If people help out these beautiful people now, the fool will return to benefit.

if not for Illiteracy and exposure I don't see that idiotic symbol getting married not to talk impregnating her and run away.

Omo if to say money dey ni I for like take this woman out of poverty and probably help her put her religious beliefs aside let her see the world from a clearer angle.

This woman can't be a 24th century career chic and allow that agbero of a man have a way into her life.

Those eyes should be making her some real good money because it is a rare thing to come by in this part of the world.

Well sh*ts happens.

I pray they get help on time.

Unnerve:
Hot damn.

Mehn nothing trumps a good education with a little bit of exposure.
Her husband is a tortoise, a good for nothing jungle tortoise.

Just take a look at how beautiful this woman is, her smile, her lips, and then those eyes... something which exposed city girls are using all the makeup they can find, in a bid to look half as good as she does so effortlessly.

I can't get over how beautiful she is, lawwd

The man must be a native jungle tortoise.

This should be put to stop!!


Or else we would regret not voicing out. It is our right to be carried along in all proposed bill but passing such bill in secrecy mean only one thing which is there is an evil agenda and They the Fulanis are coming for our lands since the grazing bill didn't work out as planned.

If you are silent about this don't be surprised if your farm and lands are taken forcefully and given to those murders.

Why would the government want to take control of the source of water in my house, when they can't provide water clean or not. You did all that yourself and they want to start taxing or take control of it at will.

dustydee:
Let's assume they choose a gold mine in Zamfara (The value of the deposit has to be commensurate with the loan, which makes it unlikely that they can take over the mine because the mine will be worth more). The FG can enact a law that mandates foreign mining companies to pay a say 90% tax on all the value of gold mined.

and you think they would go for something like that.

Those people are not dumb like Nigerian politicians, those Chinkos would rather go for something that might be overlooked by us now but in the long run it would hold us by our balls.

They would think and analyse before picking, unlike Nigeria politicians that doesn't think.

proeast:
Ordinarily, they should be more concerned because Islamic terrorism, be it ISIS, Al queda, Boko Haram etc. can only thrive and fester in areas where Muslims have significant local population. The SW is about 50% Muslims and another area in the South with large Muslim population is Auchi in Edo state. These are the areas they can easily infiltrate and establish bases. SE is about 99% Christians, it would be relatively hard for the terrorists to establish a presence in our region.

Having a large Muslim population in any community sulks

The way the southern Muslim think when it comes to security is different from the way northern Muslims think.

South Westerners probably all Southerners are security conscious, if they suspect you of being a terrorist they would gbab u and before the police get to hear about it, such person would have been dealt with.

It would be difficult for Al Qaeda to penetrate because the way the southern Muslim and Christians think is different from the way northern Muslim think.

You need support from a very large community for such atrocity to thrive, which is absent here.

chinoonew09:
U meant beat them..?

this one weak me..

Man U just dey struggle... I hope they would not disgrace themselves

Man U no play draw o, best dem

weIMPORT:
BBNaija housemate, Erica has opened up to Laycon that she is not in any way attracted to him physically, but mentally.

She made this known to the rapper during a discussion yesterday after he approached her to reiterate his interest in her.

Recall that Laycon had told Erica on Tuesday that he had feelings for her and cares about being in Mka relationship with her.

However, hours later, Erica and Kiddwaya had a steamy session in bed.

Seeking clarifications on Tuesday night, Laycon approached Erica to reveal her feelings for him.

During the conversation, Erica told Laycon that she is only mentally attracted to him but physically attracted to Kiddwaya.

Eric said:

“I’m mentally attracted to you but attracted to Kiddwaya physically. I’ve decided not to overthink anything with Kiddwaya ,I just want to be happy. Let’s just go back to how we were but I hate making others feel bad.”


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgGiLlj16Zs

https://lailasnews.com/im-attracted-to-you-but-not-physically-erica-to-laycon-video/

I can feel what Laycon felt.

Been there before, e dey pain o.
Had it been he has money... And he fine... She would be mentally and physically attracted to him.

Fear women.

BigBashiru:
Why won't they feel superior to you when you have contracted them to build railway for you. Notice the Chinese firm given the contract aren't looting contract funds up and down. Do Nigerians even know how to build a railway? That's why they feel superior

All these ideas of infrastructure was not brought from heaven, and I am sure Nigerians are not dull.

Would the govt give people the chance to do these things? They won't, they won't even try especially when there is no kick backs from the contractors.

They prefer to still from the excess or loot everything for their own selfish gain and borrow for what we all would enjoy thereby, making us vulnerable to all future problems.

BlackfireX:
Governor keep quiet... What is wrong with you... Must you say everything.... Always behaving like southerners.... Banza

I have a question to ask, why do the north always support anything bad and prevent people from saying the truth when it is clear that their parents, sisters, fathers, children are the main victim of terrorism? There are some northerners and some military personnel sabotaging the effort of the clueless gvt and this is what you could say?

This is not a family affair that should be kept secret, people are dying, children are becoming orphans in their own land daily...

If not for the humanity in me I would have encourage the South to keep quite and watch because it is none of Southern business, terrorism in the north us like family issue that must not be blown in public.

I was expecting you to say, those people fueling the insurgence should be revealed but opposite is the case, there must be something I don't understand about the entire populace in the north.

What is your belief, I would like to hear you out maybe I would understand you better...

I live a peaceful life but seeing news like this doesn't make me happy... Does it make you happy?

You don't want him to speak up... What is wrong with the way northerners think?

There must be a reason why you want him to keep shut when it is obvious people in Borno are being massacred daily.

Please enlighten me

So heart breaking.

RTSC:
To be honest, there is an advantage to this borrowing.

It Means the infrastructure is already there and we would just be paying for it with our revenue which is normal and is what should be done in the first place anyway.

It's better than one man embezzling our full revenues without building anything just because we don't want to borrow.

I can overlook the interests China gets if it means bypassing corrupt Nigerians who are ready to eat without remnants.

I would have overlooked it as well... For same reason but those Chincos feels they are superior to Africans, they don't see you as their equal pure racists. I can't let such people enslave me in my own country problem go dey.

BigBashiru:
Then let the Africans respect themselves and develop their continent themselves and stop being passed from one colonial master to another. Africa was first colonized by Europe and now by China. After China hopefully uae will colonize Africa too

You would have to direct this to the coconut headed federal government or organs of government in Africa not me. There is nothing I can do.

Jeromejnr:
You guys should stop deceiving yourselves. Which masses? Is it the docile ones?

That's how people will keep deceiving themselves for 20 more years and Nigerians will still be taking the suffering and smiling.

I am wondering why we can't go Xeno on those people holding this country back.

Or at least stage a protest that would shake the gvt

Fear, suffering and smiling won't let us, until it gets worse.

GODSENT253:
Liessss
If they have plans to take over,you wont expect them to tell the masses,it will be between them and those potbelly dumbasses we have as leaders


Ps- you no go like check my signature

He quoted their president's speech of 2018 and in 2020 check what is happening in Zambia and other African countries.

Lies lies lies

It is better to believe devil than believing China

It is better we borrow from west and default than borrow from Chinco and default. The gvt that is responsible for this mess won't be there to clean it up tomorrow.

Don't borrow what you can pay back because Chinese gvt is like devil you ask him for fruit if the womb, when he is ready to collect his due he would collect a full grown child in return.

Those idiots who are saying nothing would happen are useless coconut headed blind bats, they would not listen.

Go to YouTube search for Wodemaya Chinese taking over Zambia and see how they interfered with Zambia internal affairs.

I was shocked but I was not completely shocked because even in Nigeria they lock their workers up like slaves and silence them.

anonimi:
You are Africans yet you celebrate birthdays

What are you saying

I am lost

anonimi:
If you are not a fool, you would have known that there are many ways to discipline a child without flogging.
So what are you, finally

I am not suppose to say something but I have to.

When did flogging as a form of discipline become an abuse?

There are different strokes for different folks, there are some children who yield easily to flogging, while there are some who doesn't yield to other forms of discipline you have in mind.

As long you flog responsibly there is no problem... Which ever way any parent chose is none of anybody's business.

There are some children you have to combine both flogging and the other form of discipline. You can't use other form of discipline on some amazingly stubborn kids always because it won't work but when you give them few strokes just ones they would never forget.

We are Africans not Westerners, all of my brothers and sister that are doing well in life are all products of flogging, I wasn't left out because that man called my father has no time for pampering kids, no time.

My fear is that I might over pamper my future wifey when she gets heavy.

Is nor eazi to be a man

Wo!! Breast feeding is life

Both children and guys no discrimination pls

Walks out of thread

This is not a stereotype but it looks like it

If you are looking for churches where Olosho girls attends the most omo na white garment but not all girls sha... Because I am currently dating one and dated one before both are not in that category of girls.

But I don see

Lastly one silly white garment church was busy disturbing me in the middle of the night yesterday with their songs... They were busy mixing Alujo music with Asalatu and Ilaje songs, I no see sleep sleep the matter just off me.

Elvictor:
[s]the problem with you is ignorance, there won't be any cash here, the Chinese are the ones carrying out the project without paying a dime to any Nigerian. we are only going to payback after completion of the project, the worries here is that can we pay back? Nigerians don't like returning favour due to the system... read before you inflict your filthy fingers on your past glorious screen.[/s]

It turns out you are more ignorant and adamant than I thought...

What is the essence of getting educated when you can't do a simple realistic logical thinking.

You just contradicted yourself when you asked that rhetoric question. I have stated the answer clearly but I am not sure if you read or understood what you even read.

Once more Nigeria won't pay because the leaders only understand contract but they don't understand the content, they won't ask for help before signing and when they are done signing, they won't keep to their own side of the deal.

It is bad and it would affect us on the long run, so learn to read and understand before you start typing nonsense with those sore fingers of yours.

teemy:
I believe if secrecy over the loans did not exist, the fears would not have existed.

It makes sense if one looks at it critically. China supplies the loans, completes the project and in case Nigeria defaults, China 'manages' the assets they used their loan to finance till their money is recovered and then returns the assets back to Nigeria.

it can work like that and well if the amount that would be borrowed is not more than the country's ability.

Imagine borrowing to finance projects of which in the next 20 years or 30 years, we won't finish paying off even if they start managing it. Do you think China would manage such and let it slip off their fingers easily... A strong hold in Africa for that matter? It is impossible.

Unlike the way we let greediness crowed our sense of thinking those people know what they are doing. They think our IQ is low lol imagine.

OPPPS:
Even the almighty America is still borrowing.

do you want to compare Amaerica with Nigeria??

If someone mismanage the loan, stole part of it or got bribed for it in China or America, what would happen to the person?

Compare it to what would happen to such person in this country.. What has happened to those people found guilty of stealing NDDC money??

You see.. Your idiocy is legendary .an