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PoliticsRe: Restructure, Let Fulani Go Their Way, Miyetti Allah Tells FG by KingAlayinde(m): 6:05pm On Jan 24, 2021
Zonex1:
nooo two go pain me for chest cum tak liver
If I takes the liver would you give me your bladder as jara?
PhonesRe: What's The Best Phone I Can Buy With About 500k? by KingAlayinde(m): 11:12am On Jan 24, 2021
Jackofall:
I want the best latest phone for about 500k. Suggest please thanks
give the money to me to help you run a business
PoliticsRe: Chai! So The Military Went & Flog Obas And Their Subjects For Refusing Herdsmen by KingAlayinde(m): 11:09am On Jan 24, 2021
ezenwajosh:
What is happening in our very own eyes and we are more concern about 2023....so the military went and flog obas and their subjects for refusing herdsmen in their villages in Yoruba land. And everybody is keeping quiet so that his region will get 2023 presidency.

Osibanjo haven't done a thing and buhari has already sent the military to secure and install his people in Yoruba communities that don't want to accept them
If cares is not taking, there is going to be war...... people against the government more worst than end sars
PoliticsRe: Restructure, Let Fulani Go Their Way, Miyetti Allah Tells FG by KingAlayinde(m): 11:04am On Jan 24, 2021
Zonex1:
left kidney for sale plz I want leav dis country...no jokes
I'm only buying the two
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye After Losing Mr Campus University Of Abuja 23 Years Ago (Throwback) by KingAlayinde(m): 10:50am On Jan 24, 2021
Despirado121:
Nigerian musician, Peter Okoye has shared a throwback video of himself during his days at the University of Abuja, Igbere TV reports.

The video was shared on his verified social media handle on the popular photos and videos sharing platform, Instagram.

According to him, he contested for Mr Campus during those days and in the video, you could see how skinny he was.

In his caption, he stated that he shared the video to give his fans and followers hope and also to inspire them.

He stated that he lost the Mr Campus contest and went ahead to reveal why he lost and his friend who he named as Tony won.

According to him, he had physical qualities more than Tony adding that the guy won the contest because he believed in himself.

He shared the video with the caption;

https://www.instagram.com/p/CKZX-QeF6Pq/?igshid=3irb9wzsdczs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RkknjEvdD48
the way he talks then and now still the same, thanks God for his grace In ya life and prays for his grace I'm my life too
RomanceRe: Zambian Banker Suspended For Sleeping With Over 200 Clients by KingAlayinde(m): 11:18pm On Jan 23, 2021
[quote author=robosky02 post=98365066]Female banker suspended for sleeping with over 200 clients[/q





this one na man wey just have woman body oo, even promising them worl
PoliticsRe: Buhari Asks Police To Shoot Sunday Igboho, Followers On Sight - Peoples Gazette by KingAlayinde(m): 4:59pm On Jan 23, 2021
Szkpytqgdcvx925:
Nice mr Buhari.

No man is above the law & no man is above fulani.

this black ugly Yoruba cannot disturb the peace of this country. Shoot them like their is no tomorrow bcs that is the language they understand.

let me watch how southerners will "RANTING" here
you be didirin walahi
PoliticsRe: Bodejo: Fulani Owns All Land In Nigeria - Miyetti Allah Leader by KingAlayinde(m): 4:51pm On Jan 23, 2021
backnbeta:
Where did they keep the jazz that turned eggs to fire and destroyed buildings according to history? You can't fight Fulani physically and win, they have federal backing...use your jazz and win them spiritually undecided
really huh will be searching for my grandpa book of soccerers then
PoliticsRe: Afenifere To Sunday Igboho: You Lack Power To Issue Quit Ultimatum by KingAlayinde(m): 11:05am On Jan 23, 2021
nairavsdollars:
https://www.independent.ng/you-lack-power-to-issue-quit-ultimatum-afenifere-tells-sunday-igboho/
this issue going to end in political disputes laslas, cos they are a judging through sentiment
RomanceRe: Elon Musk Just Made A Grave Mistake And Nobody Is Talking About It.(photo) by KingAlayinde(m): 9:44am On Jan 23, 2021
Emmadoc:
Elon musk my role model made a huge grammatical error and people are waving it off because he's the richest man in the world.
Is he not a human to makes a mistake?? Wetin be our own to talk about it..... This is jobless post.. u better find work
PoliticsRe: The Sad End Of Sunday Igboho by KingAlayinde(m): 9:10am On Jan 23, 2021
thebosstrevor1:
Sunday Igboho, Real name ( Sunday Adeyemo) is from Aladikun Compound in Modeke, Igboho. He is a political thug of Pdp and a common criminal, who will eventually be capture by the Federal government.

Mr Sunday Igboho gain notoriety and popularity during the ife / modakeke war where he killed his fellow yoruba people over lands in Osun state.

On his wikipedia, it is written that he is a human right activists, in reality he is a political thug who was used by a former governor of oyo state( Rasheed Ladoja) to cause mayhem on political opponents in Oyo state. He is also a land grabber who has killed many because of land issues.

Mr Sunday Igboho is an illiterate who thinks the "yoruba nation" is bigger than the constitution of Nigeria, most of his followers are stack illiterates who also do not understand that the constitution of Nigeria guarantee freedom of movement of any group within Nigeria.

Mr Sunday Igboho isn't fighting for the yoruba nation but for his personal political interest and for his boss(Rasheed Ladoja) who is at loggerhead with Makinde( Present governorof Oyo state). Mr sunday Igboho is taking advantage of the people negative view of fulani herders to organize his illitrate followers to cause mayhem and possible ethnic cleansing of fulani communities in Oyo state.

The real issue isn't the herdmen, the blame on the herdmen for every crime in oyo state by Mr sunday igboho is just a false flag to rally the people against the governor of oyo state in preparation of the 2023 governorship election.

The backstory is that a breakout faction of the pdp loyal to Lodoja in oyo state is capitalizing on Sunday igboho popularity to spit the party apart.

Everything about sunday Igboho mass movement is an organised political power struggle to bring the oyo state government to its kneel.

The government of Nigeria are watching and any further escalation of the conflict in oyo state will lead to the end of sunday Igboho.
This is full of political settlement, op just tell us the party u belongs to ..... igboho is not Right neither the government...... Nothing wrong if u stand to fight for what's right
PoliticsRe: Salihu Lukman, Ondo Monarchs Back Quit Notice To Herdsmen by KingAlayinde(m): 5:08pm On Jan 22, 2021
Fahdiga:
We the Yorubas prefers to live with peaceful Fulani herdsmen than terrorists IPOB
mumu too dey worry you boda
CelebritiesRe: Pasuma Celebrates His Daughter, Wasilat, On Her Birthday (Photos) by KingAlayinde(m): 11:19am On Jan 22, 2021
Baawaa:
Happy birthday to her,may God bless her new age.
But she fumbled to let that "agbaya" calls Wasiu Ayinde to mess her up,
you dey there ?
PoliticsRe: Sunday Igboho Vs Gani Adams: Who Is The Real Yoruba Generalissimo? by KingAlayinde(m): 11:15am On Jan 22, 2021
bolaayenimo:
As the Yorubas prepare to defend their territory from Fulani invasion, Who is the real generalissimo between Chief Sunday Igboho and Gani Adams, the Aare Ona Kakanfo of Yorubaland and also OPC National Coordinator?
gani only follows where the money dey.... until they want to award security contract na then baba go talk
RomanceRe: Young Filipino Girl Ends Up Marrying A 73 Year Old Mayor Whom She Had Met On The by KingAlayinde(m): 11:05am On Jan 22, 2021
stupidmod2:
Internet is known for making tons of couples! People meet online, they talk, they fall in love and then get married! This is exactly what happened in this story as well but the age difference this time is much more than usual! This makes for an interesting read to be honest! Look!

Love And Boundaries
They often say that love has no boundaries. Both these words do not really go hand in hand. Time and again people marry the ones they love in spite of the differences, be it age, caste or color, anything! In this case, the difference is age. Take our word, this is a heart warming story.

Over the years, social media has become notorious for bringing people together in a romantic way. This is exactly what happened with Kit Ownen and Aiza. Both of them met online, started talking to each other and before they knew it, fell for each other as well!

Kit And Aiza

The five-time mayor, Kit Owen was alone and social media was his distraction to keep the loneliness away! So, he decided to date online and found his perfect companion on a dating app. He ended up meeting a lovely Filipino girl called Aiza! But the biggest hurdle between their love was their age difference!

Aiza is 30 and is younger than Kit but that didn't keep them away from each other. They chatted online very frequently and then they finally realized that they were in love and the rest is history! Needless to say, there were a lot of back clashes! Society isn't particularly sweet to the ones who do not follow its unwritten norms!

The Marriage
Kit then decided to fly down to meet the love of his life and there they started spending time with each other. Time flew by and after two years the mayor finally declared his love by proposing marriage to her in a much romantic way and she said 'yes'. But luckily for both of them, their families supported them and that was enough for them!

Update- Kit unfortunately passed away in May due to Corona Virus!
this is not news jare...... who doesn't know women can Bleep anything that hold money even if na monkey......
PoliticsRe: Breaking:eject Fulani Herdsmen Fom Yoruba Land And Face War. by KingAlayinde(m): 11:02am On Jan 22, 2021
Marine54:
Breaking: Eject fulani herdsmen from Yoruba land and face war- Fulani Nationalist movement threatens.

By Treasure Orokpo

The fulani Nationalist movement has threatened war if herdsmen are ejected from Ondo forest.

The group was reacting to recent ultimatum given to herders in ondo forest to vacate within 7 days.


The group in a statement by it coordinator, Baadu Salisu Ahmadu.


The group in a statement shared by Family fani-kayode, former Aviation minister, said they have given a counter order that "No fulani will move an inch either in Oyo, Ondo or any part of the south western part of Nigeria.

The statement read below:

"Our attention has been drawn to a decree credited to one Rotimi Akeredolu asking fulani people who have occupied some forest in Ondo state to quit.

We are also aware of another incident in Oyo state where an illiterate political thug gave quite notice to fulani people to leave the territories which are now their irreversible homes.

This is not only are irresponsible demand but a call to arms of the faithful who have been pursuing their legitimate business in these Forest.

We have given a counter order. No fulani will move an inch either in Oyo,ondo or any part of the western part of Nigeria.

On behalf of fulani Nationalist movement (FUNAM) we here by warn the government of Oyo and it's agent , one Sunday Igboho and ondo state government to rescind thier orders or face serious consequences.

It is shocking that the Igboho and Akeredolu who is beneficiary of the system is giving a stupid order that he knows no one will respect. we didn't get the forest through him and how does he expect the fulani to obey his empty order? Humans have a short memory.

The fulani will resist by all means necessary, including armed resistance any attempt to forcefully eject them from these Forest that in reality does not belong to these states alone . Some are federal Reserve forest.

We want to ask Akeredolu whether those communities brought the land from heaven.

We warn that any fulani blood that is shed further in the south west will automatically lead to up heaven in six state of lagos, Osun, Oyo, Ondo, Ekiti , and Ogun state.

We the fulani are on red alert and waiting for the call and will never succumb to any threat or intimidation by ethnic bigots.

I Baadu Salisu Ahmadu , given my new responsibility , will with other faithful Never fail fulani Nation in it Allah chosen destiny;

https://www.idomavoice.com/2021/01/breaking-eject-fulani-herdsmen-from-yoruba-land-and-face-war-fulani-nationalist-movement-threatens.html
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this people just proved themselves an animal, In a sane country with common sense leaders, they would have declared thems a terrorists by now for declaring a war
PoliticsRe: Breakdown Of Retirement Benefits Of Service Chiefs by KingAlayinde(m): 9:52pm On Jan 21, 2021
thebosstrevor1:
This is no news.

They deserve anything...i remember when the former chief of air staff( Air Chief Marshal Alex Sabundu Badeh) died like a chicken in his farm.

We need to protect these guys especially in this period where they are possible victims of attack
I don't thinks you're from this country
FamilyRe: I Just Recorded A Song With My Life Savings, Now Am Feeling Depressed. by KingAlayinde(m): 4:16pm On Jan 21, 2021
southniyikaye:
You are actually cursing yourself.
If I have the fund to enter studio now, I will and I will never regret it rather, I will be optimistic and look for ways to promote massively..
Made same mistake you are making now in 2009 and 2014..

Let me burst your bubble, I too might have been a known musician right now cos I released my first single when wizzy did Holla at your boy..
I was even the one that bounced for him back then when he came with banky to royal shekina ilorin..
Listening to him sing that day couple with the admiration people gave him killed my vibe right there...
Tried again in 2014, people hailed me but maybe na village people made me loose interest..
Recorded at egbeda with lala smoke da music..

So you see, never get depressed when you do something you love doing..
I will still kick start that career later this year and I will give it all I got cos that's what I know how to do best
nice one bro
FamilyRe: I Just Recorded A Song With My Life Savings, Now Am Feeling Depressed. by KingAlayinde(m): 4:15pm On Jan 21, 2021
Iamdbull:
I decided to open a new account to post this, as I am posting this am holding tears back because am inside a bus from Lagos back to my base in Ogun state.

The last thing I want in my life is to be a public figure because am a strong introvert and I hardly go out, I just want to be left alone.

Now during this festive period I travelled to my home state and on getting home, everyone was just talking about my old song and they were disturbing me to freestyle for them.

Deep down this started making me feel like am not following my purpose in life, I started having this feeling that on my dying bed I will live to regret that I didnt following my music career and thinking about the number of people my music could have put smile on their faces. I will never forgive myself, because what is life when you cant use your talent to be of service to humanity.

When I see younger artiste like Omah lay, Bella schmurda, etc I start feeling jealous and envious and the last thing I want is to be envious of another man's success.


Now even though everywhere was a lively mood and everywhere bubbling in the studio. On going home I started becoming depressed looking at the amount of money I spent on recording ( I really wanted the best so I decided to work with an expensive professional sound engineer that worked on Wizkid made in lagos album.

I can't tell anybody about what I did because I will be mocked at home for spending such an amount on my useless music career(as they will say at home). Tears is beginning to roll down my eyes as I write this but fortunately everywhere is dark.

I am panicking and feeling the song will be wack when it comes out and am a good for nothing person. I can't hold back tears in the bus.

Below is a picture of when I was invited by glo to come and perform but I bleeped it up because I was too shy to perform well in front of the crowd, Tuface, D'banj, don jazzy, Wizkid were all present

The reason why am writing this here is because nairaland is my only home. it's my only family. I love you all
bro just keep on pushing, thinks we're sames shoes just different career..... it all about grace.... averages singers are even making it than the good ones in this country that where you God to respect God
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Goodheart Val Aloysius: "To Be Stingy With Your Pastor Can Lead To Death" by KingAlayinde(m): 1:06pm On Jan 20, 2021
nwekeugochukwu:
"To Be Stingy With Your Pastor Can Lead To Untimely Death"- Pastor Warns Members of Stingy Men Association of Nigeria

A Nigerian clergyman, Goodheart Val Aloysius, has warned members of the ''Stingy Men Association of Nigeria'' not to take their stingy traits close to their pastors, IgbereTV reports.

According to Pastor Aloysius, being stingy to your pastor can lead to an untimely death. He shared this opinion on his Facebook page.

His post reads;


https://www.facebook.com/100038855382867/posts/409097813728728/?app=fbl
abi aye pastor kofe dani huh they fed on the poor
PoliticsRe: You Are A Thief - DJ Switch Slams Lagos State Government by KingAlayinde(m): 9:01pm On Jan 19, 2021
TheStakeHolder:
Endsars don make this one turn activist overnight.

Failed DJ
oga just tell us says u dey benefits from this government..... cos she is well spoken
PoliticsRe: You Are A Thief - DJ Switch Slams Lagos State Government by KingAlayinde(m): 8:58pm On Jan 19, 2021
[quote author=TheStakeHolder post=98231600]Endsars don make this one turn activist overnight.

Failed DJ[/quo



oga just tell us says u dey benefits from this government..... cos she is well spoken
HealthRe: Baby Jaundice! Help Urgently Pls by KingAlayinde(m): 7:48pm On Jan 19, 2021
kay0195:
Pls my baby was diagnosed with jaundice, at first they put him in phototherapy light for almost 2days and tested and said d level was 11.5 but for he's weight, it's supposed to be at 10.5 so he began a stronger photo light for another 24 hrs then they brought him back to me at d ward after 24 hrs and took d blood sample for testing again and later came back telling me d result is now 14. I mean how can result rise from 11.5 to 14 after phototeraphy light? Now they want to keep me again in d hospital. He's weight is 4kg, he's a week old. He feeds well and doesn't look like a baby with any issue at all. I asked d doctor about sunlight he says it doesn't work for such high level of bilirubin. I'm so stressed at d moment and need to leave to take care of my baby. Dey sound like he's seriously ill but d baby I'm looking at doesn't look sick at all to me. D eyes are just slightly yellow hardly noticeable then d skin kinda yellowish but all my children are yellow so it's hard for me to tell d jaundice from normal yellow but easy for them since they are d doctors and nurses. I'm confused, how dangerous are these levels? Is it true it's not something sunlight can work on? Help educate me pls....
try herbal medical (elewe omo) just hope u understand my yoruba..... I'm goddam too local
PhonesRe: 29 Million SIMs Not Yet Linked To NINs As Deadline Expires Today by KingAlayinde(m): 5:42pm On Jan 19, 2021
Odoogu:
them go block tire sootay e go cause traffic jam cheesy
I swear ! I'm done doing what's benefits the government that doesn't benefits me
PoliticsRe: Ali Namadi: Kano LG Chairman Dies 2 Days After Winning Election by KingAlayinde(m): 1:59pm On Jan 19, 2021
Doraty1:
https://dailytrust.com/kano-chairman-dies-2-days-after-winning-lg-polls
the fear of africa magics is the beginning of zeeworld
PhonesRe: Today Is NIN-SIM Linking jDeadline; Have You Done Yours? by KingAlayinde(m): 8:15am On Jan 19, 2021
Kingscee:
Today is the deadline for linking your sims with your NIN, If by tomorrow your sims are blocked, what will you do?
so u thinks those network provider can afford to lose millions of customers?? they'll be in total debt if they try it, cos many doesn't even care to register for that nin
RomanceRe: Help My Friend Mom Is Driving Me Crazy: by KingAlayinde(m): 8:48am On Jan 18, 2021
Whykidstarboy:
Hi guys am so happy am now a registered member of this forum after so many years of been a guest here cheers lol..back to my discussion let me start by introducing my self am a finalist of one of the best University in this country about some years ago we move from our base to a new apartment yes I mean our new site.. beautiful and comfortable! There is this particular woman whome we share the same fence with probably she will be in early 40s but am just 23 years.yeah I know this woman likes me and I like her also for being a nice and caring someone but she keep giving some greenlight that I felt it's beyond the ordinary likeness cuz she's fond of calling me my full name and she also call me oko mi(my husband) anytime we see each other with lotta smile.the woman is someone I considered a milf cuz most we see each other I do stare at her fat ass and nice breast lol and also this is also a woman I can bet she's cheating her husband a less educated man but he's okay because he's a trader and he took care of his family even his daughter is also a finalist of my school and he's someone I wouldn't like to offend in anyway cuz he seems like a family friend to us..I would be glad to know if this woman only portary just ordinary likeness or a string attached to this from those who had similar experience and I know already most of u guys would advice me to flee if I should ask about banging her so I wouldn't ask that cuz most time I see myself masturbating with her sexy ass..
bro u will need to buy sense, cos I see no sense in all ya write up....... u taking someone kindness towards u as a flirting..... it normal how the woman behaves towards u, have so many neighbor likes that too,I do chop their food tired
EducationRe: ... by KingAlayinde(m): 2:02pm On Jan 17, 2021
Masonkaycares:
E be like say dem curse you
Dem curse ya papa... Omo ale .....
EducationRe: ... by KingAlayinde(m): 12:24pm On Jan 17, 2021
KingZaddy:
Proscastination about me not joining my friends to do yahoo then ,it still hunt me till today cos most of them now millionaires,, this country doesn't favour the righteousness







10 Atomic Habits that makes your life a stagnant water



Some of these habits exhibited everyday have been overlooked but people are unaware of the backwardness of such habits, let’s have a looking at them and why they keep you stagnant



1. Checking social media during work hours

Between the hours of 7am-5pm if it’s not business or learning I ask myself what am I doing here? What are you doing on Facebook and Instagram during work hours? You don’t own an online business on any social media platform yet you sit in an office chatting and monitoring other people’s life progress.



When I say work hours or office I don’t mean literally sitting in an office, your home could be your office, when you sit at home doing nothing why don’t you do some serious thinking how to progress, do online businesses, do a research on online jobs, be a thinker not a sleeper, stop wasting away, bro. Ladies, others are busy making profit from time spent online but you are busy uploading on Snapchat and you feeling super fly because you are getting likes and comments, will likes and comments turn into account funds?



I enjoy doing one thing a lot and it’s thinking, thinking has helped me go far with creating ideas that works, ideas that bring money and change lives. Also it depends on what you are thinking about because what you spend time thinking about will reflect in your daily life. One thing about social media is that it burns time, before you know it you have spent 5 hours chatting and fighting online, 5hours could have achieved a lot sis if it had been channelled in the right direction.



A Facebook friend once got angry with me because I don’t chat with him, that I just come online and say nothing. I laughed-the question is, why would I spend time chatting with you? What do we want to chat about? I spend time think and planning success not unnecessary chatting, I channel a lot of time and energy into thinking, planning and writing because the future is not to be joked with.












2. Comparing yourself to others

Why would any reasonable person want to do such? Even fruits on the same tree don’t ripe at the same time and considering the fact that we now live in a world where people live rich online but live in poverty offline. Sis, there’s a whole lot of fake life out there, pretenders, liars, hypocrites, inferior personalities, toxic people, these people have no purpose for their lives. You were not born the same way they were, you were not born with the same purpose and you are not destined to move at same speed. In life some arrive faster than others but do not last long as the later: because your peers are doing better than you shouldn’t make you feel depressed, they are your peers not your contenders.



Feeling worried that a young person is doing better than you should never be your concern, he is now successful and a celebrity, nobody cares, you shouldn’t bro.

Here is the problem, many young folks are busy comparing their behind the scene to the spot light of others, the truth is that you’d be grateful for your own behind the scenes if you get the opportunity to witness the behind the scenes of your Favourite celebrities. Your time will come as long as you are honestly working smart and strong, the more worried you are about the success of others the less you are able to be a successful person.










3. Complaining

Let me clear your mind on this, you can complain all you like, nobody gives a fvck, everybody has their problems to solve, the best people can give you after you complain is sympathy.

When you were born in this world millions were born too and not a single meaning was added to your life or that of any child born, only you can grow up and choose to give your life a meaning or you can choose to just be part of the worlds overpopulation.



So here is my advice to you, stop complaining and start acting, do the best with all you got. A friend once said, if you know how to do something then do it like you will die tomorrow. Potential millionaires don’t spend time complaining, they spend time thinking, creating ideas, thinking positive, studying the environment and the people with its trends, then try to take advantage of the latest trends, when there is a news or fresh trend in town consider it a national cake, make plans on how to get through the crowd so as to get your share.

Some people even have a diary of lamentations, Lol…. Maybe you should stop lamenting and start writing about progress and ideas.











4. Spending time with negative people

Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are, you have chosen to walk with them because two cannot walk together except they agree to it. Your type of friends do not only define you or influence you, they are also you. Friends should be chosen wisely because friends can turn out to be a speed to life or a total slow down- I remember when I started writing newly, I had friends who told me that I had chosen the wrong path, they said I should go get a job and stop wasting my time writing because nobody was interested in reading, I felt discourage but kept moving since the passion was strong, I discovered I loved to solve and demystify things, so I took advantage of what people around me were interested in.



In life there are three types of people, the wise, the cunning and the confused parasite, now it doesn’t matter if you are rich or poor once the cunning and the confused parasite comes into your life you’d be drained. Growing stronger we will end up meeting these folks but we must out grow them: when I was a child I thought like one, when I was a teen I thought like one, but now I am an adult I should think like one.



Negative people are ready to keep you in your comfort zone for as long as possible but you should know that a comfort zone is a place where potentials will never grow and talents will remain in the dark. We are not only affected by negative friends, famous people can also be a negative influence in our lives, the type of musicians populating the planet today are majorly instigators of negativity in the lives of young folks today, drugs, fraud, gambling and sex are the top contents being injected into innocent and vulnerable minds and once they become addicted there is no going back, in some cases it will take a rehab to help change the damages.

The peer pressure from negative people is enough to make one bend especially malleable and low self esteemed individuals, this is a reason why you should flee from them, people who do nothing but criticize your dreams, abuse and mock your skills or talents will always make you embrace the comfort zone.







5. Saying ‘Yes’s to everything and anything

You have a big problem at hand if you grant request to every person even to your own disadvantage or detriment, be ready to be the free ride of cunning and ungrateful people.



When you learn to say No and stand with it, people will see you as a person of solid decisions but when you say yes to every thing even if you don’t want to, everyone will read you as weak and the weaker you are the more they look down on you but the stronger you are the more they look up to you because only the strong are decisive.



Saying yes to every request or opinion of others shows a high level of weak will power because you don’t control your will, you are being submissive to the choices of others and ignoring yours, living to please others and any man who lives to please people should be ready to live in discomfort all his life.



Will power is a powerful potent and to wield it you must understand it, practice it and master it. Being wilful and not submitting easily to the demands of others, live life not minding what others think or say. Lack of will power shows weak control and you surely won’t be likeable because people love strong people and not the weak ones, if you are weak you would be seen as a joke to be messed around with and be a subject of bullies .



The man who says yes to everybody is nothing but a public puppet, weak willed people will affirm the opinion of others even in matters that concerns their own life. One big way of making will power strong is by making your own decisions and learning from your mistakes, never be afraid to fail, how does one learn new things without failing. The only road to perfection is to learn from the failure and mistakes of others.

Note: I am not saying you should turn deaf ears to every advice or opinions given, the point is learn to make your own decisions and don’t let people run your life for you because of your weakness.








6. Sitting in the comfort zone

Do you want success? Yes of cause… that would be the answer of every person but how ready are you to work for it? Obviously you’re not getting it from your comfort zone because the comfort zone is a lazy zone, a place where you grow fat on laziness, where talents remain dormant. If you want success then leave the comfort zone now! Working from home is not a comfort zone, you can work from home but you will have to be a quick thinker and a content creator, you will have to be active and sharp, whether you want to work online or offline you must leave the comfort zone.

Let me educate you a little, money and peace are two important potential in life, if you are in a hurry to make money you might end up losing peace after getting money because there is no quick way to success, the only quick way is diabolic and dangerous. Also if you are too lazy or too dumb to work for the wealth you want then you will enjoy enough peace but with poverty as your best companion, but so you know you can have both?



There are a few things you must do to have both, you must master the art of patience and understand that no matter how talented a man is, in life some things just take time, you must learn to think up ideas, create solutions, there are so many things we want but don’t know it yet until we see it.

Patience and smart work are two keys you’d need because we now live in a world where hard work will only make you work harder, work smart and you will earn mighty, if you wish to be above your employers you must first break out of them.

I know persons who can sit down all day criticizing the government and fellow youths instead of thinking and planning, they sit down wishing for the best of life but are not ready to get up and take a step to achieving such-and-such if wishes were horses beggars would ride them to death. Do not be like these people.









7. Bragging about resolutions before they happen

You see the thing is, nobody gives a damn about your resolutions even if they are the greatest in the world, you should remember that action speaks louder than words which is the more reason you should shut up and act.



Those who brag about resolutions are the American as those who throw big parties when they achieve little success in life and I usually tell people that the greatest hindrance to success is not failure but previous success. Before you know it they have spent everything and there is hardly anything left to invest for bigger success, why is this so? This is because, a man who brags about his resolutions in public will have parasites gathered around him waiting for his success so they can devour.



If you make a decision to quit smoking, do not brag about it, keep it to yourself because the more you brag about it the more difficult it will be to keep to that decision, if you make a decision to invest in a business or start a big business keep it to yourself and don’t brag about it, be warned.






8. Creating excuses

There is a saying that, he that is good for making excuses is hardly good for anything else: 90% of failure comes from those that give excuses.

People see giving excuses as a way of pushing away certain responsibilities or procrastinating, looking for a better moment to do something that they ought to do now but what you do not know is that there never is a better moment to do it but now.



People who spend time giving excuses are basically those who are very good at procrastinating actions and duties. One thing that enables people give excuses is “Comfort”, take away their comfort and watch some of them get into action. Feeling very comfortable, enough to eat and drink, spend time watching TV and celebrities, one can easily forget that he or she is old enough to be independent but are still dependent on parents or other people, these are things that fuel procrastination.



Your excuses are the reason why your life looks like stagnant water: you don’t have the money to start, you don’t have the tools you need to start is not enough excuse neither is it good enough. Take up a pen and build up your life on paper, that is the first step, start by working on areas of success that do not need money.






















9. More time with reality TV show and celebrity gossip

Imagine if your favourite celebrity spent 10 hours out of 24 watching reality TV, I am sure that you know that they wouldn’t be your favourite celebrity today because they wouldn’t even be celebrity in the first place…



If you know you are old enough to be an achiever but still under achieving then you shouldn’t be spending time watching reality TV shows, you should be reasonable enough to know that you should be build a life of independence. If you are pursing the same career as a certain celebrity, it’s okay to watch them, learn from them, follow them on social media so you can learn from their experiences but don’t spend most of your day monitoring their lives, remember you have yours so always fall back to it.



In Nigeria, some of the major trends for ladies are Keeping up with the Kardashian, Korean TV series, Indian TV series, big brother show, people can spend an entire day watching TV shows, eat and sleep, in this way your life is a stagnant water and you probably wouldn’t see it at first because you are comfortable in your virtual world but then reality comes knocking at 25 to 30and you begin to realize that you got no plan.

Young men spend time watching soccer, playing games, gambling, all these In excess are time wasters and you won’t realize to quick that your life is a stagnant water.
























10. Worrying about things out of your control

As time counts down on us certain reality begins to unfold in our lives, a man cannot get a baby in one month by impregnating 9 women, you’d still have to wait for 9 months for all the babies to be born. In life certain things just take time, it doesn’t matter how talented you are or how much of a genius you may be, it just takes time. You don’t plant as mango today and expect to eat it tomorrow morning, you will have to wait for its maturity. Many of us become too worried when certain expectations are not forthcoming quick enough, it is not in your power to bring these things to come, only time will unfold them.

This is why I advice people to start up early in life, discover yourself and directions on time and start acting, the earlier you start the better for you, but one problem is that black men don’t read books, recommend a book for a black man and he’d never go into that book. You know that popular quote ‘when you want to hide something from a black man you put it in a book’.



Many people are too lazy to read books which is why they live with too many regrets, inside a book are ideas and treasures that even the best directors cannot interpret on TV, please be a reader. If Nigerians were readers we won’t be facing certain problems today



You are feeling worried that your peers are doing better than you, okay so what exact lii you do you want to do about that? There is nothing you can do to stop their moves, all you can do is build your way up there because nobody is going to do it for you.

























11. Trying to make sure everything is perfect

You must be living in the virtual world of Disney if you think everything can be perfect because in the real world imperfection is the order of the day, nothing and no one is perfect. If everything was perfect then evolution wouldn’t be taking place, even the universe is constantly expanding further into emptiness.



It can never be perfect but can always be better than the former, if everything is perfect then there would be no learning or new knowledge because everything will be known but perfection is an impossibility. The more you know the more you want to know and the more you know that there is so much that you don’t know, the more you have the more you want because you will be needing more to sustain the one you have. Our wants are insatiable, we are always wanting more, when we stop wanting more and are satisfied with the current achievements then that could be perfection.



In life you cannot always get what you want, the way you imagine certain things are not the way reality will bring them to pass. When you expect too much from life you could end up getting very less which is why you should quite worrying about perfection and live life without expecting too much. Even life is so imperfect because it can turn out to work in favour of the bad and even kill off the good ones.



Peace brothers… xoxo ladies

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