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Bilabong:
When u realize u don't have a friend you will have peace.
People tend to associate with you when u have what to offer them.

it's sad

I don't know if this is the right section for this. I just wanna share my experience.

I lost my job a couple of months back so things were a little tight for me. One day I called a 'friend' who had just received his pay and I asked him to please lend me 2k. I promised to pay back in a little time. He said he'd get back to me. Months later, I'm still waiting for him to get back to me. Lol. It hurts because I remember when this same dude wasn't working, I did a lot for him. Even when he started work, I sometimes lend him money until he gets paid.
After that incident, a former colleague chatted me up on WhatsApp and asked me to send my account details to him. I informed him that my main account had issues ( it was hacked weeks earlier) . He asked if I had another, I said yes then he asked me to send. Few minutes later I received a message from him. He told me he sent me a little something and I should manage it. I was shocked. I nearly cried that night because I never expected something like that. This is someone I didn't even take as a friend. We were just colleagues. He said he knew how hard life could be when someone is unemployed.
The one I saw as a friend and a brother failed me while someone I didn't take even as a friend was thoughtful enough to send me money. How do I explain that?
Luckily, just a few weeks later I got another job. I'm thankful to God for the true friends I have and the ones I don't even know I do.
God bless. By the way it's my birthday.

FarahAideed:
Buhari is really immune to COVID-19..he has been exposed to all variants but he tefloned it all

as Teflon Don wey him be�

SpecialAgent:
So sorry, maybe you can try this way to check ur VIN
https://voters.inecnigeria.org

or

You can do a driver's license at FRSC office in ur state, cost around 5~6k

thanks a lot bro

SpecialAgent:
You can use ur voter card card for anything that NIMs can be used for. Even Npower

Voters card/NIM/Drivers license/International passport can all be used

yes. But I lost my wallet with voter card in it a few weeks ago

SpecialAgent:
Why do we like to procrastinate in this country, when I went to this NIMs two years ago, the place was empty. It took me less than 10 minutes to get the printout.

My advice when you are free, always go and get this things, Don't wait till you need it for something afterall, the thing is free.


Since the lockdown being eased, probably by next week

thanks bro. I didn't see the need because I had my voter card.

thankmyGod:
Check any of the banks in your town. That's where their staff are currently attending to people. Sorry for the stress. I wish you success in your Npower application. Note: I'm not a staff of NIMC. Take care

thanks bro. I had no idea. God bless you

Hello, the offices of the National Identification Management Commission has been on lockdown before the federal government imposed the Covid19 lockdown. It has not been opened since then and a lot of us need our ID's for various important purposes. I was at their center in Maiduguri yesterday and today and I met a lot of people just like me there. The problem is that the personnel we met there could not give us any reasonable information. They all say they had no idea when they would resume.
This is not fair. Even because of Npower registration, these offices should be opened. A lot of unemployed youths cannot be registered because of lack of government offered IDs.
If you are going through the same thing please comment and appeal to mods to send this to fp. I pray they open soon.

MelesZenawi:
They should settle their brotherly quarrel.

you are an idiot

jeynike:
they suspect u might injured all their boardwiser in the fridge.

lol. I don't drink habitually. I drink like once in 2 months and I don't take more than 1 bottle bro. I even went back to beg tye guy o, cuz I was so desperate. Not just for the money but to get something doing also. Seasons greetings bro

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baba no be like that o. If to say people de tell you how many times they are turned down ba, you will be thankful bro. Keep trying, something will definitely happen. From January to December I've been sending applications yet nothing. Sotey I went to look for job as a Barman, the owner of the guest house said I'm too fresh for that position. How man de survive na God. God go do am for us bro���

seanblaise:
Good evening guys, I trust you all had an amazing day.

I have a problem which has been bothering me for a while now. I recently landed a job few months ago. The pay is not all that wonderful. When I add my other allowances, it sums up to 90k per month. I have been squating with a friend for some time now so am planning on getting my own apartment next year when I save up some money.

The only beauty about my job is that it gives you a lot of free time. I can be done with work as early as 1:30pm and go home.

I am thinking of going back to school for my M.Sc in UNILAG but as it is, I am my own sponsor. I have a first degree in Biochemistry.

Should I go back to school or continue working?
Does UNILAG offer part time options for students in my line of study?

oboy u said 90k isn't much for a job that you finish around 1:30. I'm a graduate too bro I go to my friend's barbershop everyday from 8-8 and sometimes come back with nothing. Be thankful bro.

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ladiesreject:
This nonsense don reach J-town?

baba tey tey o. Boys just de waste themselves but Dem no fit confront Fulani terrorists

Officialgarri:
Hausas are not cultists. They rather confront you with matchete or sword and then settle it there.

What I'm trying to say is, keep your rugged things to your region. Do not take your disease to the north

and who d heck told you Plateau people are hausa?

Honestly I love both Davido and Wizkid. We the fans need to stop this unnecessary beefing. Both guys have reached places majority of us can only dream of

BTW, I love the jam with Breezy

Naija to the world

SLAP44:
There's no anti fulani campaign anywhere. People are reacting to many years of silence over a people who have brazenly invaded people lands and started to trample on their crops and desecrate their drinking waters.

And please stop mentioning igbos who earned everything they own by dint of hard work, buying and renting every space they live and do any business.

The fulani should buy, rent and lease their own living and business spaces instead of threatening the rest of us into parting with our tiny spaces to accommodate their personal business.

leave the man, he doesn't know what he is saying. Money de blind them, that's why they talk shiiii all the time. We Christians have no leaders. As he was saying that nonsense, shey Fulani de massacre people for Plateau even now?

StillX10:
They will be released

That is if they have not been released already

NotGuiltii:
Rema & the rest!

word

gambia:
Serious club, unlike useless Arsenal.

and Man United

success1smyn:
I suspect lies.

keep suspecting lies unril we all burn. Sometime back in the same Plateau, a police doing saw a herdman with a gun. He confiscated the gun and the herdsman left. About 15 minutes later he received a call and was ordered to return the rifle back to the herdsman. The Fulani man came back and collected his gun. Anything is possible

Iykopee:
They should have known from the onset that anyone who doesn't love your presence on planet earth shouldn't have your vote either. Buhari won in Plateau state and the Governor willing approved lands for Ruga implementation. So why now are they kicking against Buharis policy?

The vote they gave him is nothing but a manifest of acceptance. They should submit wholeheartedly

something is seriously wrong with you. Get well soon

Iykopee:
After voting for buhari you want to reject Ruga? They haven't seen a thing yet from the terrorist president

who voted Buhari? Plateau people didn't. Get ur facts right. Even if they did, is that enough justification for them to be slaughtered?

czarina:
Plateau is on the list?


Interesting!

when we have a daft bastarrrd as governor, someone who says he can die for Buhari what do you expect?

Juliusmalema:
So this animal called Nnamdi kanu still have the mouth and temerity to talk.

He should direct his press statement to his fellow criminal European gangsters.

Ipob is a terrorist organization and remain proscribed


SE governor's should use village vigilante to check mate this fulani herdsmen terrorist.

That someone or a state is in South East, doesn't make them Igbo in anyway afterall same herdsmen has endorsed Ebonyi state Governor for president 2023.


Same way Ohanaeze endorsed obi their son is the same way Miyetti Allah endorsed umahi as their son.

na ur papa be animal

NOC1:
My first time of coming across the name (country).


Let Nigeria succeed

it's not a country. They are still fighting for independence

I've seen Joshua's fight a couple of times and he is impressive, especially his win against Klitschko. I've also seen Wilder fight and he is a monster. I love AJ because of his Nigerian connection but honestly, I don't think he is a match for Deontay Wilder. For example it took Joshua 7 rounds to get a win against Dom Breazeale, but it took Wilder a little over 2 minutes to know him out. And we all saw what happened to AJ vs Andy Ruiz Jr.
So boxing fans, who do you think will emerge victorious if a fight were to happen between AJ and Wilder?
God bless

Elesta:
Hello family, I have a long post about my terrible marriage. Please bear with me, I just have to pour everything out because it's killing me slowly.
I am in my mid 30's ,got married to this man in his mid 40's who has never been married before.We attend the same church although different branches, so the pastor of his branch and the pastor of my branch brought us together. We started dating and he seemed head over heels and started talking about marriage immediately. At first, the way he was talking and his reaction to things I wasn't interested and I even told him, but he begged me and the pastor begged me so I overlooked and continued especially considering my age. If I wasn't in my mid 30's and if I hadn't done fibroid operation and so, eager to take in, I won't have made this terrible mistake. We also work in the same place so everything seemed perfect.

Now we started making wedding plans just after one month of dating and we got married 4months after because of church process. It seemed blissful but I stumbled on his messages with a lady he was saying before me and eventually at the same time with me. I discovered he kept begging n begging her even while me n him were dating .he kept telling her to agree to attend his church or dey can be going to their separate churches but the girl kept insisting that they should attend the same church. I. e. he should leave his church and she will leave hers. Don't get me wrong, if this had happened before we started dating, I wouldn't have gotten angry. but all these happened while we were serious and even after he came to see my father, I discovered he was still pleading with her as per church matter. Who does that?? So what if she had agreed for the church matter, he would have dumped me n embarrassed my dad??

I brought it to his notice and he kept saying he never meant it, he was just using it as an excuse not to marry her.

Now in the marriage, emotional abuse never ends. Just fewonths into the marriage, he started behaving somehow bcoz I hadn't taken in. all kinds of insults oh. one day, he said if he knew I couldn't have children he won't have married me. this was just 4months into d marriage. any little thing he complains. on weekends, he expects me to get up by 7am m start preparing his breakfast oh. weekend which is supposed to b for resting since we work Monday to Friday. Every little thing, he keeps saying if he knew he won't have married me.
I still remember how he slapped me several times, he insulted me n i insulted him back, that was what caused d slap. even when he saw me crying he wasn't moved. I have complained to family members and friends ,they have spoken to him, he will change for a while and later go back to his terrible ways.
I have never seen this kind of acrimony between couple. I am not a bad looking person, I have dated people in d past, they didn't treat me half as badly as this one. I was just too unserious. I want to leave this torture. but we work in the same place and I am trying to avoid wagging tongues. I just tired. I have seen and experienced mutual love and it's not like this. I long to share love with someone that loves me just the way I am. I don't deserve to be with this animal. When it comes to food, he eats so angry if his food isn't ready on time.

Please I need advice. he went for test n it was discovered he has low sperm count. that made him humble for some fine but recently he started saying again that if he had married a younger lady, d lady would have been pregnant by now. just imagine this kind of torture. God knows I have absorbed so much from this man

both you and your husband have no sense at all. How can a woman in her thirties and a man in his forties be begged into a marriage by another man only because he is a pastor. You said you want to be loved, do you love the man? Mtchew. Una never see anything

KendrickAyomide:
Only Bellends and idiots think rhema is Better than wizkid. Rhema is not even the hottest thing in Nigeria now. When wiz came out, he was the hottest thing in Africa. Davido never even dream to blow that time. Sometimes i go just they relax remember some wizkid songs, I'll be like damn this nigga get songs.

Dude what I know for a fact is that Rema's voice is a better version of Wizkid's. When Wizzy started, he got all the love. Why trying to deprive a young kid of that love? You said Davido never dream to blow when Wizkid started, yes it's true. But don't forget that in just under a year, Davido became the real fucking boss.

Kimberlykay:
How is he an A list actor huh

If there is anything beyond A list, that dude deserves it. The fact you don't watch his movies or understand the language he speaks doesn't mean you should be disrespectful. That man has more fans and has made more money than majority of the Nollywood actors you know and he has been doing it for over 25 years. So yeah, he is an A list actor. Have a nice day

ledamaster:
the Yorubas supprting Buhari will not click on this one. Shameless bunch. The blood of these people shall be on your heads. Thank God very soon similar things will happen in South west.
in.the guest For power you rather remain silent and even come here to diffuse the serious security crisis the whole nation is in. Your only concern is 2023. Well like i posted earlier, You all shall surely drink of this cup. Ask an average Yoruba man, he will speak as if all is well. Make excuses and claim they are doing their best, take a look at Journalist hangout and most media they control, all in the name of replacing Buhari. But not to worry let the killings and take overs continue time shall come you too will partake, when you wont have any choice but to call for help too and then we too shall remind you how you claimed Buhari is doong great.. Whole Villages are ransacked, Families and clans wipped out, but Yoruba man has his eyes on Presidency, let the whole nation born down, as long as Buhari will hand over to us. Every other sensable ethnic groups down soutb and middle belt rooted for Atiku a moderate that can resolve all the clashes, someone who can put his foot down and call hisbpeople to order, not a tribalist or fanatic like Buhari, but no Yorubas wont have it. He is a thief, he is corrupt, he will sell Nigeria, but funny the same Yorubas are telling us Gbajamilia a convicted fraudster and criminal is ok for speakership and qualified for the job! Thesame people are following a known drug baron and Certificate forger Tinubu. Well this tree you people are back, shall surely fall on you. It wont be long. many days for the wicked, but when the judgement of the most high will come down, the wicked shall beg the sea to swallow them up, and run to the moutains and beg they fall and cover them. Not to worry soon and very soon una go shout for Odudua eve more than Ipobs do Biafra.

God bless you