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Blebleswag:
Do I hav any contribution? Don't tink so, u ve said it all.
Its like u talkin abt me though.

jacksparrow1207:
U don hear magun before? Kills faster than AIDS

jacksparrow1207:
For your back? what's actually happening? U don dey go do things behind my back

jacksparrow1207:
she go shower

prettythicksme:
jack don go work

jacksparrow1207:
Which kind work this time? I be arm robber?

jacksparrow1207:
Alert!!! Act of woman wrapping found in your post

falconey:
you are one abi? O fe ran idi ati ormu gan!

jacksparrow1207:
brilliant write up

falconey:



# THE MOST TRENDING threads are woman wrappering threads.


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jacksparrow1207:
Hahahaha. No sir! She still follow for list

ronald4lif:
Good read and very interesting follow up comments. Thankfully, the weed smokers and distributors haven't found their way to the thread. Makes it even more interesting and educating.

OP like you rightly said, the chasing period is different from when the relationship kicks off. The chase period mostly reeks of fables - it's make believe. If a guy want to keep up with the things he did, the positive impression he created, during the chase period when a relationship sets in then I'll advise he quits his job maybe. For that will be completely tiring and time consuming. I always tell people that relationship in itself it's a full time employment. Lol

The constant messaging, long repeated calls, outings etc is unsustainable when a relationship kicks off. You see, I think this could be one of the reasons many women are of the opinion that their man no longer care about them after a few month of dating. Probably because their expectation are high. You know, like if he could do all those stuffs, be that nice and caring when he was after my love, he should be more appreciative now that I'm all his. Sadly, it doesn't work this way. And this could also apply for married couples.

Women should know that the fact that a man is no longer all chatty or caring like during the chase phase doesn't necessarily means he doesn't care or love them anymore. Generally, in life humans are innately excited by new acquisition, and once days, weeks and years passes-by, this excitement most times diminishes. This is not comparing women to goods, sorry but that's how humans are program to be. Again, it was a good read.

jacksparrow1207:
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diddydiva:
Slow and steady wins the race. be able to read people's thoughts, actions and expressions. it helps a lot

jacksparrow1207:
Why do I love u?

Orijin101:
make i give you some?

Psalmwise:
chai lazness no go kill me......

i sense its a 9ce write up...weldone bro

AlienStar:
I really don't hv d patient to read dis long post coulped up wt d fact dt it's on rltshp... but ds is my own quarter r we saying dts dere is nofin lyk true love & dt guys do pretend to impress ladies... u guys r really gtn me scared!

Twaci:
Nice one OP!

Av learnt a lot from this!

ERCROSS:
Han-ahn broz ... Must u tell them everything, now the relationship no ho dey sweet again...
Mtcheeew

Orijin101:
which kind d!ckless traitor you be sef ?
abi you sef wan use style snatch sinaj from me

Orijin101:
no be only the 2 of them na

mirexxx:
I haven't read it yet! i will comment when i do

Orijin101:
sinaj will only believe you is she doesn't trust me! why una dey lie for my head na? what i do v?

DarkAngel86:
You're proofing the op right. This is what he is talking about

No! I will not fall

DarkAngel86:
I'm sad and shocked because that explains why we always feel like we've done something wrong. The worst is when men do this after the deed is done ($3x) we always feel used and we push the man away. So are you saying we shouldn't push the man away? Or are you saying we should just deal with it as in it is what it is?

Pls tag me on your follow up threads on this matter. Im intrigued.

P.s. brilliant write up

mirexxx:
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Afeezoladapo:
9ce write up!

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]Incredible write-up Op. Let me just share my thoughts

In your first point regarding the chase period, you said that most ladies wrongly assume that a guy is in love with them because of his relentlessness in trying to win her heart.
Although I would agree with you to an extent but I believe it depends on the reason for which he is chasing after her.
I believe if a guy truly loves a woman, he wouldn't give up in pursuit for her love.
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missclasssy:
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I also don't agree with your second point because although guys always tries to make a good impression, especially when they see a lady they like, that doesn't mean every character a guy expresses when he meets a lady he likes for the first time is a facade.
Even if a guy decides to pretend, I believe there is a level you reach in concealing your true character.

Everything just boils down to the personality of the individual and his true intentions for wanting to go into a relationship in the first place. [/color]

missclasssy:
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Finally you made the statement that men are generally wired in a way that their excitement level begins to reduce after they finally get a lady and for ladies its the opposite.....
Well I would say you are wrong. I think that's just how humans are, whether male or female.

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DarkAngel86:

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]Incredible write-up Op. Let me just share my thoughts

In your first point regarding the chase period, you said that most ladies wrongly assume that a guy is in love with them because of his relentlessness in trying to win her heart.
Although I would agree with you to an extent but I believe it depends on the reason for which he is chasing after her.
I believe if a guy truly loves a woman, he wouldn't give up in pursuit for her love.

I also don't agree with your second point because although guys always tries to make a good impression, especially when they see a lady they like, that doesn't mean every character a guy expresses when he meets a lady he likes for the first time is a facade.
Even if a guy decides to pretend, I believe there is a level you reach in concealing your true character.

Everything just boils down to the personality of the individual and his true intentions for wanting to go into a relationship in the first place


Finally you made the statement that men are generally wired in a way that their excitement level begins to reduce after they finally get a lady and for ladies its the opposite.....
Well I would say you are wrong. I think that's just how humans are, whether male or female.

Thanks[/color]

sinaj:
lol