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Romance › Re: Girls Do U Enjoy Robbing Ur Boobs On A Guys Shoulder In A Bus?my Experience by kinglekan: 3:03pm On Apr 06, 2015
Lol
Romance › Emotional Rush by kinglekan(op): 2:52pm On Apr 06, 2015


I know we all don't like to read very long threads, but kindly be patient enough to read through this. grin

Most ladies often wonder what changed after they started dating a guy and the question that comes to mind is "Why doesn't he love me like he used to" .

The answer simply is "Emotional Rush"

Infatuation stimulates fantasies of
permanent bonding. The period of "The Chase" as I like to call it, is also where a lot of ladies seem to assume wrongly.


The Chase

This is the period a guy tries to woo a lady. There are two common mistakes ladies make at this stage.

1. Assume that if she plays hard to get for a very long time and he keeps coming back, then it means he truly loves her. Yes that might be true but its still a wrong assumption.

Men are wired like Lions. Most of them don't give up easily till they get what they want. I don't need to write too much on this though. Remember the "Player" in the movie "Act like a lady, think like a man". Am sure you do. grin

2. Assume that he would always be a gentle man. Common ladies, you keep hearing the saying "You don't get a second chance to make a first impression" .

Guys know how to keep making that first impression, as a matter of fact we just "keep the act on repeat mode". A guy is at his very best when wooing a lady, so don't assume this is his real personality.



Now Back To The Topic


You know that spark at the beginning that suddenly ignites with a new person or in a situation that has newly switched from "The Chase" to a romantic relationship.

That spark, that sparkling, delightfully sexually intense feeling when you first fall in love, feels so good, you are likely to want the feeling to last forever. smiley

I bet you do grin

Alas, it won’t. Not to sound like a pessimist, this is the reason why;

No matter how good the match, the strong sexualized draw of infatuation, its only a temporary phenomenon associated with newness and insecurity.

Ladies on the other hand are quite emotional. Those emotions they had at the initial stage keeps growing especially when they are really into the guy, while for the guy it takes a downward toll. (NB: There are always exceptions and rare cases where its the reverse).

Men are wired in such a way that their excitement level begins to reduce after they finally get the lady. He doesn't see the need to do the little things he used to do during "The Chase".

So welcome to reality. This is his true nature. He can't keep on the "act" and now the lady is wondering what's going wrong after they have been having an exciting relationship for months.

You have enjoyed the period of the "Emotional Rush". The period he couldn't do without hearing your voice, the period he just wanted to tell you those sweet little nothings. At this stage its up to both partners to "Rekindle the Spark".

(Coming up with a thread on "Rekindling the Spark" soon but I might write something on "Getting to know the Man behind the first impression" before that).

Let the comments roll grin

Danke!!!!

Cc:
Ferano
Ishilove
Lala247

Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 2:28pm On Apr 06, 2015
stephenqueen:
Na today you just knw say he don kolo
I think say na only bottle tins ooo. I nor knw say na ril mad man.

Lol
Romance › Re: Pls Help Me Advice, I Gave A Girl My Dad Number Instead Of Mine by kinglekan: 2:02pm On Apr 06, 2015
MzNelly:
How old are you?
Valid question. grin
Romance › Re: 5 Most Annoying Habits Of Men by kinglekan: 1:55pm On Apr 06, 2015
vivaciouzz:
Wearing d same cloth everyday even dia boxers.. angry
Lol
Romance › Re: Why Is It Always The Good Guys... by kinglekan: 1:50pm On Apr 06, 2015
Orijin101:
with due respect sir!

Are you alwayz this _foolish or you are jez makin a special effort today or your brain is currently on lease?

choose one sir cool
Hehehhehe, Dis Ops brain is definitely on lease
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 1:34pm On Apr 06, 2015
stephenqueen:
Na him o
Orijin don kolo oooo
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 1:33pm On Apr 06, 2015
Orijin101:
if sinaj catch me, una don die angry
Bomb dey ya head ooo padi
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 1:28pm On Apr 06, 2015
jacksparrow1207:
As in ehn. Dem don share all d NL gals for demsef finish
God dey sha
Dem go dey pack like 5 babes to demselves. Na wa oooo.
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 1:27pm On Apr 06, 2015
D1ck:
Chai, see what punanny is capable of.
E don tey wey e don dey happen. Thought it ended with "Helen of Troy".

Smh
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 1:20pm On Apr 06, 2015
stephenqueen:
Ogun the God of iron no go let her gree,u no see wetin orijin101 talk,he talk say E go stop taking origin because of kitten.
Sinaj where u dey oya report here,orijin101 don dey cheat on you
Heehehehehe, na orijin101 sef dey do sinaj??

Chaiiii Diariz God ooo
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 1:19pm On Apr 06, 2015
D1ck:
You mean you'd gladly opt outta your camaraderie because of a babe...... angry
I just dey hear dey look orijin101 with "slow motion"
Romance › Re: Characteristics Of Your 'Right Woman' by kinglekan: 1:16pm On Apr 06, 2015
Twaci:
A perfect woman does not exist, not now nor ever. But I believe that there are some characteristics that a guy looks for in a woman that will 'perfect' her in his eyes. These includes;

~Her cooking skills

~Her body shape (e.g Rokiatu grin)

~Her beauty

~Her brains

~Her money

~Her character

~Her sense of fashion, etc

So tell me guys, what are the attributes u seek for in a woman?

NB: Pls don't tell me 'all of the above' because that will make her a 'perfect woman' (and there is nothing like that tongue)
1. Must be cool like Twaci

2. She must be sexy nd endowed like Lala247

3. She must be a talker like Mirexxx

4. Must have cutie eyes like Tandullceblog

5. Must be a fashionista like vickybee

6. Must be as pweety as Marieolae

7. Must be as eloquent as Missclasssy

8. Must be as creative as sleekyshuga


OP you said "attributes" oooo, so I didn't go overboard. grin
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 1:01pm On Apr 06, 2015
Orijin101:
tank you my broda. . .

Adaobi12 don't know i lowf her plenty plenty cry
No wori she go gree grin
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 12:58pm On Apr 06, 2015
Adaobi12:
.


I will if he denounces ORIJIN publicly
Orijin101 u dey hear ur babe sooo??
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 12:48pm On Apr 06, 2015
Adaobi12:
. hmmmmm. start .by denouncing it publicly.
Orijin101:
Ehm. Ehm. . Ehm. . .

I orijin101 promise my new Babe Adaobi that i will never take any drink called orjin again till i die embarassed
I'm doing diz coz of the love i have for her cry

counsel of the elders, you are needed here cc: stephenqueen
kingtom
alberto2k
2dice
chimerase2
fulaboy
kinglekan
acekid4
*singing Marvins crew's Adaobi*

On behalf of origin101 smiley


Ada Ada Ada, O sweeti Ada, baby oku Ada!!

Mighty sweet formular ooo, Doro fine geh ah, doro fine geh.......

*******Modified******

Ada biko consider Origin's love for u oooo.

Love wantintin
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 12:43pm On Apr 06, 2015
vivaciouzz:
Me embarassed embarassed
Nice pix
Romance › Re: No Guts No Glory (upload Ur Pretty Faces Without Makeup) by kinglekan: 12:42pm On Apr 06, 2015
mirexxx:
mine tongue
See my baby's chubby cheeks ooooo

Nne u r fine joooorr smiley
Romance › Re: What's Up With Some Guys And Under Age Girls?! by kinglekan: 10:58am On Apr 06, 2015
Ayoolajumoke:
It isn't really bad, to me ni o
I was 18 when I'm in 200l
Now 19, still in 200l sha, I'm sure you don't expect me to date a 20year old guy.
Swthrt u aint underage ooooo
Romance › Re: What's Up With Ladies Been Attracted To Deep Voices by kinglekan: 10:56am On Apr 06, 2015
firstEVA:
there are usually no broke girls.
Yeah swts. Dts d annoying part of the whole thing.

A babe who leaves in a one room with all her father, mother and siblings would just be claiming I don't do broke guys.
Romance › Re: 10 Facts On Masturbation You Need To Know by kinglekan: 10:52am On Apr 06, 2015
Tooo long nd seems like Cr**p. Sowi OP
Romance › Re: Must You Always Know Your Partners Location All The Time? by kinglekan: 10:40am On Apr 06, 2015
Insecurity at its peak!!!


On the other hand it might just be a subconscious question that just pops into his or her head. Some ppl just get their convo going afta asking some rhetorical questions.
Romance › Re: How To Make A Romancelander Fall Inlove With You.( By Man Of List) by kinglekan: 10:17am On Apr 06, 2015
Lala247:
Yes like a baby smiley

Neway getting bk to work .. Will b bk later c ya
Okiesss. Ciaooo!!!

smiley
Romance › Re: How To Make A Romancelander Fall Inlove With You.( By Man Of List) by kinglekan: 10:13am On Apr 06, 2015
Lala247:
Win ke ... Im a human bring oh .. Not prize grin

Anyway morning hope u slept well
Hehehehe.

Morn dear. I sure did, hp u did too
Romance › Re: Pls Urgent Advice!!! by kinglekan: 9:47am On Apr 06, 2015
OP why are u carrying a "Horse" down dere?



Go look for a lady with a tunnel for your size.
Romance › Re: What's Up With Ladies Been Attracted To Deep Voices by kinglekan: 9:44am On Apr 06, 2015
firstEVA:
It's cool for a guy to have a deep sexy voice, but by the time you meet him and realise he's either extremely broke or very Fugly, that likeness may die a very natural and instant death.
REALLYhuh

D babe must be really loaded then. Cos I don't see reason why a BROKE A** babe wld be calling a guy Broke.
Romance › Re: Why Don't Girls Like Dating Broke Guys? by kinglekan: 9:39am On Apr 06, 2015
Here to read lies and bul**sht
Romance › Re: What Have You Gotten From Your Relationship by kinglekan: 9:35am On Apr 06, 2015
sinaj:
d weather iz vewi cold embarassed
Eeeyaaa, sowi.
Romance › Re: How To Make A Romancelander Fall Inlove With You.( By Man Of List) by kinglekan: 9:26am On Apr 06, 2015
Lala247:
Is this a joke cheesy
At least I don't need to be all that to win Lalacious.

Hehehehee
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Always Climbs On Me, Infact She Lives On My Body, Drives Me Nuts!! by kinglekan: 9:24am On Apr 06, 2015
*yawns*
Romance › Re: What Have You Gotten From Your Relationship by kinglekan: 9:21am On Apr 06, 2015
sinaj:
m jux finkin of how to wash diz plates sad
Lazyy geh. Hehehehe
Romance › Re: My Conscience Is Haunting Me For Having Sex With A Teen by kinglekan: 9:15am On Apr 06, 2015
Davidolives:
rotfl guy you are the wickedest person i don see for NL
Ah ahhhhh, haba am not naaa.

grin

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