₦airaland Forum

marieolae:
It all falls down to the stage you're in.
An 18 year old JAMB candidate, most likely won't be able to handle the emotional stress and so on.
At 28, you're at a different stage in your life, well in most cases. So I think it's more acceptable.

Ok now I get where you are coming from. Well said sha.

So in ur opinion would u advice an 18yr old to go into a relationship with her peer or not at all?

STARSHYNE:
6/7yrs

That's ok sha.

mirexxx:
is it now about education and finishing school?
In this century, an18 year old is even more inclined to marriage than most women in their 30s Lol
they ain't scared no more!

#GBAM

STARSHYNE:
I don't see anything wrong in dating Oldies
They are good lovers

How many years older do u prefer them to be?

GhostProtocol:
It's actually the same thing!

Abi oooo, that's what I tot tooo

Dygeasy:
She is actually making a valid point. An 18 year old is probably still in the University or about to enter while a 28 year old lady will most definitely be through with at least her first degree.

Tell me, Who should be more inclined towards marriage more? Given that that's where and why the reasons for dating older guys crux to. Just asking.

Well I thought the issue was just on dating not necessarily leading to marriage.

Plus really why is the age tingy such a big deal? If the 18yr old lady decides to date a 21yr old guy, it still doesn't mean they would end up getting married and live happily ever after.

Age shouldn't really be an issue in my opinion. And I don't mean some outrageous age gap like a lady dating someone old enough to be her father.

I think the major thing to consider is the reason for going into the relationship in the ist place. Young guys break hearts, Older guys break hearts.

Sex would always be sex, whether its with a younger guy or older guy.

marieolae:
Nice thread sha


Well it depends on the stage that you're in.
I agree that an 18 year old lady has no business with a 28 year old man..
That falls back to the stage she's presently in
A 28 year old woman dating a 40 year old man..
I don't see anything wrong with that.
What do you think naijaboiy?

Hmmmm, but

18yr + 10 = 28yrs
28yr + 10 = 38yrs

So I shld tink if u don't see anytn wrong in a 28yr old dating a 40year old then an 18yr old dating a 28yr old isn't such a bad tin den.

#justSaying

mirexxx:
I call u tell you that one?

No vex naaa swtii. I just did 1+1= 2.

Hehehe

mirexxx:

I don't date older men
i get scared at the mention of the word men!

U prefa boys denn. U wld play d suga mummy role perfectly well.

davseun2ta:
how I wish, these guys can enroll in your school of thought and reason the way you have just expressed your position. GMB is not the best Option, but GEJ made us see him as an option. The challenge I have with the easterners is the display of pride of what they are not sure of. They clamor for Biafra as if they know what it takes to stand alone as a nation. Go to any easterner states (Mini country)- give me one easterner state that can stand with LAGOS for instance... NONE!yet they brag of their insignificant contribution to our GDP in Nigeria. I was flabberwhelmed when I travelled to the East, what I saw made me almost wept... these guys are suffering, that's why majority of them are in other states... yet! they want to be independent... It is well

Its well bro. The problem is a lot of them think (my sincere apologies tho if someone gets hurt by this) that running a country or democracy is the same as just having a king rule over a particular kingdom.

A lot of our youths need to pay more interest to political issues around the world. Not long ago the people of Scotland who had always been a significant part of the United kingdom (which comprises, England, Scotland and wales) wanted to be independent.

There was a peaceful referendum and at the end of the day they realised they were stronger as the United kingdom and the majority voted to stay together.

CityNG:
It's the youth thing I think.

Not sure if they still teach history and social science in schools.

Lol, abi oooo. And even if they do, there are no passionate teachers anymore or rather few are left.

davseun2ta:
WELL SAID... God Bless you

Thank you sir!!

God bless you too

ireneony:
most nigerians are backward and primitive(apc)
this country is already divided by the yorubas, fulani and hausa, take them out of this contry, then nigeria will be a better place.

people easily be deceived, that the same sets of persons that messed up pdp are now in apc.

jonathan is the best president we nigerians has ever had and some youths are too blind to see this.
i weep for nigerians cos we are back to 1960.

not forgetting that this election was rigged by apc(in the north), jonathan was wise enough to succumb to defeat cos he does not want killing of of innocent citizens in the north..


fvvvk apc

When u decide or rather come to the point where u realize that we are all Nigerians regardless of our ethnicity then you would understand the concept of Statehood and Nationhood.

If a few people from a particular ethnic group do wrong, does that condemn the entire nation? And by nation I don't mean country. I mean a people who are connected by history, culture, language etc.

These kind of loose comments are the reasons why a lot of youths would never understand what it takes to be leaders. You only incite hate, violence and prejudice, just to mention a few.

Need I remind you of Hitler and how that his hatred towards the jews led him to instigate a strong acrimony of the jews by the germans. Now if you are a student of history, I don't need to remind you how he ended his life.

You seat in the comfort of your home and make hate statements as this:

"this country is already divided by the yorubas, fulani and hausa, take them out of this contry, then nigeria will be a better place."

Meanwhile you think if this results to violence you wouldn't be affected? If you have ever lost a loved one or known someone who has lost a loved one to ethnic violence, you wouldn't have typed such.

If we are all dark skinned or blacks as you may have it and yet tribalism is still an issue in the 21st century, I wonder what Martin luther would have said to you.

You say

"most nigerians are backward and primitive(apc) ,

yet your ideology and tribalism in itself is as primitive as slave trade.

I am not partisan and although I have my reservations about both GEJ and GMB, yet I am glad that we have shown the world that we can conduct our elections peacefully and that democracy isn't a do or die affair.

GEJ has also shown the world that losing an election doesn't make you weak. He is a true statesman and his name would go down in history books for his humility, courage and for being a man of his words.

Finally, take a look at the United states of America, a people with diverse culture, background, race, language etc and how that such diversity has made the nation stronger. Take a cue from them and ponder over your words.

#PreachPeaceNotViolence

Ver dumb fellow. Mtchewwwwwww!!


Next thread plzzz

DollyParton1:
GEJ till 2019, my sěxy black ašš

Oh really? Cn I tk a peep at d sexy ...........

prettythicksme:
lol jack is my good nl husband!!

Hehhehe, Nice 1. Abeg tk good care of him for ooo. He is my real Geeee

Cc: Jacksparrow

prettythicksme:
lol wat do u wanna eat?

Didn't knw u nd sparrow were married oooo

Twaci:
I am sure a lot of u have heard about being at the right place at the wrong time.....

Pls friends, I implore u to be cautious in everything u do today, especially those stepping out to vote.

Be careful, lookout and report any suspicious activity to the police or any authority u believe can handle the situation.

Go and come back in one piece dears. Goodmorning.



.........And all those I couldn't mention (hand don dey pain me )

An twaci thnks. Hp u had a grt day shaaa

prettythicksme:
I choose my partner because of his bulala

Hmmm, which 1 be bulala oooo

Lala247:
op can u explain pls i dont rlly get ur question

Lalacious mama

Sweetyie:
My dream house

U like beta tin oooo

Lol