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I like the maturity of 2face, it is good to live in peace with all manner of people, not easy to be humble but too costly to be full of pride

If God did not build a house the labourer labor in vain, if God did not protect a city is in vain the watchman stays awoke

Naaaaawa God have mercy... Chai

[quote author=fernandoc post=84429456]Now you expect people to take this country serious. If you are living in Nigeria you’re in serious trouble maybe you don’t know. You will know when you find yourself in a situation where you expect due process to take its place, then you will understand that an animal in saner climes has a more secure future and dignity than you living in Nigeria.
You will understand that you have no right.
Then you will know how really f&u&ked it is being a Nigerian at this time. U are the fool here, nothing is wrong with Nigeria, people that hate this nation are the ones ruining our country, especially those of u have found themselves in power

[quote author=netpro post=84256177]He walked on his feet to court just to bleed?

Olisa Metuh will be like "small stunt, I will out do it in my next appearance".

BTW, Metuh's mortuary appearance in court still top all the charts.

Nigerian politicians and their evil creativity. [ hahaha funny funny funny you

If u are 37 sir, then am 2yrs, happy birthday anyway

[quote author=LordKO post=84237834]He's suffering delusion of grandeur, which is a major hallmark of small-minded people (no apologies) - a typical egotist. A sane person shouldn't be forced to become conscientious - sane people do so consciously and voluntarily. [ I don't know whether wisdom can be found in this forum, someone posted self righteous one sided account of her husband and without verification, u all are insulting each other over it, for the fact she brought it here is evidence she desire praise from us, cos if she had talked with her pastor, in-laws, her husband friends, and acted on their advice, she would have found solution to her problems, but op my advice to you is love is unconditional, if as u said he was a hard working caring husband, u should know that he ought to be depressed cos he couldn't provide and care for his family as he did wanted, u, his family and friends should join him in looking for other job cos his mind is not in that his small business, if he regain his balance financially, he will bounce back and only then u will enjoy him even more.. Cos u passed the test of been a good wife, he will love and care for u like never before. Marriage is for better and for worse, if u dont mean it, then u dont say it before the alter of God. the ball is in your court

[quote author=1mrprolific7 post=84180065]You ..yes..you reading this .. why aren't you making plans to leave this hellhole? Is this the news you want your kids to read everyday? Tanker explosions are no longer strange to Nigerians anymore because it's a daily occurrence.
Is this life you want your kids to become accustomed to?

Why aren't you making good plans to leave this doomed nation? You probably love it here but I demand a concrete reason for why you want your kids to go through the same desensitization to what a good life actually should be like? They don't deserve this and I'm pleading on their behalf.[is your own life is doomed without Christ not Nigeria

[quote author=LOWLIFER post=84080788]I am tired of living miserably. I see no hope. I want to go to the other side of the bridge on a beautiful Sunday. I am fading from the face of the earth.


I hope it's going to bring a relief to this pain.... Well the hope God deposited in life is eternal, turn to your maker with all your heart and he shall sustain you in his own peace till u pass this moment of pain shalom

[quote author=Elder0001 post=83921308]How’ll people believe there’s male rape when there are men justifying the act and wishing to be raped? Isn’t that utter stupidity my dear don't waste your time correcting men that can't reason as men

[quote author=LearnITsmash post=83897136]The lady is correct but trust Nigerians to bash her and run away from the truth, he never refuted her claims, he is just rambling his little life's worth, which has nothing to do with the criticism the lady laid, Nigerians and silly sentiments [ I don't want to call u a fool but u reason like one, respect elders, so that u could be an elder someday

God is always faithful to his people

[quote author=zoba88 post=83761256]The guy pictured below identified as Mr powei Cyril from Igbedi community in Kolokuma Opokuma LGA who resides in Agudama Epie was caught stealing solar light battery in Royal, so u decided to be a thief in bayalse state, my dear na sorry be your case... Land of hunger and looting

[quote author=seanjy4konji post=83738658]Make you go patrol illegal route MA.. Make den use una do pepper soup [if they are not the one aiding them... Corrupt customs officers know all the illegal routes....

[quote author=1mrprolific7 post=83704429]Since Buhari has been the most mentioned name in Nigeria this past year, I think Oxford Dictionary should consider creating a space for him in the dictionary.
For example:
Buhari: /boo-ha-ree/ adjective: hard, difficult, painful , troublesome, harsh, wicked, liar, bad, thief.
.Verb: Buhari.
. Past Tense: Buharied
. Present Continuous: Buharying
. Present Perfect: Buharise
E.g:
... Some girls always like to buharise things,
.
... The test was Buharistic,
.
... I had a very Buharied week.
# Buhari: To complicate, make things worse, unbearable.
E.g:
... Please don't come and Buharificate issues here.
... The only way to reduce applicants is to Buharify the process.
... How was your exam? It was Buharific .... U better grow up, buharia is not only the cause of your predicament but every one that have ever preside over the affairs of our collective polity

[quote author=iammo post=83657611]when buhari holds you for blockus, you must piss blood[now everyone will do who be boss.. After all the cheatbeating Ghana is now doing the right thing, if u have any goods to be transported to Nigeria, u have to declare it

[quote author=Segkem2013 post=83650589]
Possibly he had to resit in order to have a certain required subject passed.
I did NECO after my OND in 2002.[ we have many unintelligent minds here, or maybe they are just blinded by hate, they fail to see that the young man had his first certificate in 1995, he had to sit for the second time cos he want to read law, this wailers self

[quote author=TheGiftedOne post=83646592]The students of the University of Benin, Benin City have taken to the Benin-Lagos express way to protest against poor management of the school and welfare of students.

The Protesters have shut down the ever busy Benin-Lagos express way causing a heavy traffic gridlock.

(The agitated students are protesting over lack of electricity and water in the school, poor students welfare, bad roads amongst others

The last of the situation is yet to be seen as the protest is still ongoing.) Is of high priority to take care of our education system especially as it relate to welfare of students to ensure conductive environment....

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[quote author=RESTMOUTH99 post=83642465]Zoo Republic where Apes leads humans.

Lebanon, Chile, hongkong, catalania, Iran,...etc are taking the bull by the horn in protest to impact good governance for their various countries. Nigerian youths are here glorifying the recycle of old and demented folks who have nothing good to offer . I want every media to be dominated by revolution ISSUE .CONTINUE PROTEST FOR THE IMMEDIATE RELEASE OF SOWORE .AND NIGERIANS SHOULD EMBRACE THE POSITIVE PERCEPTION OF "WE ARE ALL BIAFRANS"....please come out at eagle square, with your revolutionary placards, we will all square behind, don't hide under social media to chestbeat, the man in detention previously cheatbeating behind Sahara reporter, and u guys hype his ego till, he started what he couldn't finish... Democratic change is through the ballot. if u vote a bad person, u had to endure it for four years, before u can affect a change, �

The vice president’s toast was proposed at a dinner organised in honour by of the Deputy Prime Minister of the Socialist Republic of Vietnam, Prof. Vuong Hue.

Osinbajo, had earlier, at the Presidential Villa, received Hue and his team and witnessed the signing and exchange of the Memorandum of Understanding on waiver of visa requirements for holders of valid diplomatic and official passports.



The vice president, during the toast said that Hue was his long-lost brother as both of them were born in the same year and same month– March, 1957.

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“So, this visit is very significant because we will be looking at the possibility of setting up a bilateral commission between Vietnam and Nigeria so that we can concretise the existing areas of cooperation that we discussed earlier today.

“I am confident that we can build on the successes recorded in the past while we work on boosting cooperation in business, trade and investment and social and cultural relationship between both countries.

“We agreed on promoting a friendly football match between Vietnam and Niger.



In his response, Hue said that Nigeria and Vietnam had a lot of things in common.

He said that aside boosting economic and trade ties, there was need to enhance cultural relationship.

Hue said that the Vietnamese national team was a strong side in Asia and that he was looking forward to a friendly match between both male and female national teams of both countries.

In his welcome address at the dinner, Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, Zubairu Dada, said that the Vietnamese delegation, led by Hue, had demonstrated willingness to strengthen relationship between Nigeria and Vietnam.

He said that the delegation had the opportunity of meeting people in Nigeria, especially in the area of trade, commerce and investment.

“Indications are that their engagements are very fruitful and they are willing to take the relationship to the next level.

“On our part, we are, ready and willing to reciprocate; to pick up the challenge they have thrown to us.

“This evening, we, signed an agreement on waiving visa for people carrying diplomatic passports,” he said.

Dada said that the dinner was put together by the vice president ..... Well as long as it will eventually tickle down to the masses, it's a good development but if not, well it will be a waste of our money on that dinner period

[quote author=TheSourcerer post=83638776]what did your stupid Jesus do for me to accept him? Or I must blindly follow to I guess to avoid hell... Yes to avoid hell, secondly Jesus is your maker and he died for you, cos he loves u so much, if only u can love him unconditionally, he will filled your heart with the priceless gift of peace of his own heart through love... Good morning

[quote author=TheSourcerer post=83638733]please you and Jesus can suck on my Rooster Jesus loves u, just love him back and you will be filled with peace u never know how it came about. Peace of Christ love is priceless.. Good morning dear

[quote author=marvin905 post=83617526]read my statement again..
what do you mean by him being a Christian[ a Christian is someone that abide in the virtues of lord Jesus Christ, and a godly church is against sex before wedding, if u are in Rome behave like romans, if the op is not a serious Christian, the girl might be disappointed with time, this one he has started bringing their matter even before the marriage begins to the world, if he is traditionist, he should go and marry a traditionist, who will have sex after trad. It this such as this that bring house of God into disrepute.... A good Christian will not demand sex still it is blessed before God in the presence of the church as witnesses to their union... If is an ocult sect, will he treat their rules as he is doing now to sound Christian doctrine... That the point....

[quote author=igwegeorgiano post=83593823]Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks.. Is obvious u don't deserve that girl, a godly wife is scarce in today's world, now u got someone with godly principles, u are complaining.. even if she is not a virgin as she claimed but now she is born again . Meaning she had forsaken her previous ungodly ways, so u trying to bring her back to her ungodly past is been resisted, also she trying to built a strong bond of trust in the marriage, which u should be grateful for.. Am married now for 8 years, I know what am talking about.. But if u are pissed, call off the wedding and go get for yourself a prostitute , that will be able to give u sex even without a formal marriage proposal... Goodluck

[quote author=WalkerMichael post=83599136][b]person pikin.

Just to trend. If only u know the number of foolish women in this country, u will weep for next generation with such characters as mother So bad.

[quote author=PheelzAlmighty post=83590443]Anything Arsenal disgusts me





Worst time to be a gunner my dear any one that support Arsenal is indeed a patient one, very boring, I watched them on Sunday blew clear two goals led,. Then I had to thank God am a Liverpool fan

[quote author=nabegibeg post=83531910]When you see a flood never attempt entering it[ I tireooo inshort na the keke man killed her

[quote author=psychologygh post=83514055]go and feed your 200 million poverty capital of the world citizens. Do you know the meaning of trade.It goes two ways.Did you listen to the man.Ghana will rather block trades with Nigeria and rather trade with Dubai and Europe.Already trade among West African ECOWAS members is the lowest in the world. Ghana exports gold,timber,oil,manufactured products, etc worth 17 billion dollars and out of it,just 80 million dollars goes to Nigeria. So how does a few loss not even loss cos the products can be sold to Europe and China.How does 80 million dollars feed Ghana. Tell me.It's your own people that will suffer cos you can't trade among all these countries again and no imports and exports for them thus businesses and jobs collapsing in Nigeria. Food and goods more than double in prices and majority of your people can't afford such high inflated living.You can't even feed yourself thus closing all your borders to starve yourselves and you're ignorantly shouting that you feed Africa.Despicable words.[mr man u might claim or even be a Ghanaian but since you are in Nigerian forum u better respect yourself,

[quote author=CanadianNaija post=83478198]You’ve come to this conclusion about the brother based on what the Op wrote up there?

Have you had to carry other people before? Have you been in a position where once a family member calls your account balance is reducing? Who are you to judge his brother when you’ve not worn his shoes?

If you keep pouring from a bucket without refilling, it will become empty...carry a family of 8 people including your new one first before coming here to sound off.

The Op downplayed how he used to spend on the family before he married, and how he had given money and car to the first son before now.

I guess the man should borrow and give them first before they recognize that he’s a good man.[this forum is full of unintelligent kids, this particular guy says, he want his brother back, not for personal reasons but to foster unity within his family and u guys are talking about money, dear brotherly relationship suppersede every other relationship, a person who looks down on his siblings for whatever reason is a fool, cos he can't be a good friend to anyone, nor a good spouse or a good dad or mum... Selfishness is what that his brother is suffering from... If my sibling call me, I won't ignore it, if what u ask of me is beyond my capacity, I will politely explain my self to him or her, or at least give what I can afford, my mum built it in us, so if u have but refuse to help your brother, u deserve to be alone in this world without anyone,

[quote author=enshi post=83404670]pray she doesn't see this post too

Else that's another 10 deduction[hahaha na firing straight, the girl is lazy, this is attitude of lazy, all they want is money. Less work more money

[quote author=Hope777 post=83336834]Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do. [ don't give up, continue to seek both medical and spiritual solutions to your health problems, u might be alright again yet never kill your self cos it won't solve your problems... Tomorrow is always better than our today... Hope is essential ingredient of life, without it, we lose ourselves to today's ugly experiences

[quote author=NKSH post=83317894]South East especially Abia is a dead state.

That place is like the backyard of the Nigeria.

Unfortunately, that's my state. Sorry oooo if that state is your state, but for my own state Anambra our problem is fire, so borrow me your flood to quensh the fire