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It's none of my business though.

But is still baffles me why some folks believe that whatever their God-Of-Men say is the unrefined truth.

I WON'T BE SUPRISED IF THE "SACKED SECRETARY" IS A REDEEMED MEMBER STILL BEING PRESSURED TO BRING HER 10 PERCENT TO THE CHURCH OR RISK BEING TAGGED A ROBBER.

PLEASE NOTE HOW ADEBOYE CALLED THE MAN "HIS SON". cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

CHURCH GOERS WOULD AGREE THAT IT TAKES A TITHE IN 9 FIGURES BEFORE YOUR DADDY GO RECOGNIZES YOU AS "HIS SON' IN PUBLIC.


INSTEAD OF REBUKING YOUR SON, COUNSELLING HIM AND REALISING HOW BAD YOU FAILED AS A SPIRITUAL FATHER THAT YOUR SON FELT NO REMORSE DISCUSSING THIS NONSENSE WITH YOU. YOU BOLDLY CAME ONLINE TO TELL US WHY YOU ADVISED "YOUR SON" TO SACK HIS SECRETARY.

SACKING HER DOESNT STOP HIM FROM RENTING A 3 BEDROOM BUNGALOW FOR HER IN BANANA ISLAND AND CONTINUE WITH HIS MADNESS.

OUT OF THE OFFICE IS NOT OUT OF HIS LIFE.

ADEBOYE WORK ON YOUR SON!

ADEBOYE WORK ON YOUR SERMON TOO!

YOU SPEND MORE TIME ON TITHE AND OFFERING THAN MORALITY!



The Christian Bible In Romans 13:14 (ESV) Says

4 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.

"Put on the Lord Jesus Christ" = Your Responsibility

Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires = Still Your Responsibility


AND WHEN YOU ARE FACED WITH A CHALLENGE.

James 4 Verse 7

So submit to [the authority of] God. Resist the devil [stand firm against him] and he will flee from you.


So submit to [the authority of] God = Submit to the Authority of God, not your pastor. If the man in question is subject to God's instruction, he would have been tipped by the Holy Spirit on how to handle a seductive secretary.

Resist the devil [stand firm against him] = Still the responsibility of the Man in question. If he was taught how to resisit the devil and is sensitive in the spirit, he should have known how to handle the situation without running to Daddy GO.

He will flee from you = This would have been the fate of the secretary. She would run out on her own.



IT'S OUR RESPONSIBILITY AS PARENTS (SPIRITUAL AND BIOLOGICAL) TO INSTILL THAT SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY AND DISCIPLINE IN OUR CHILDREN.

It's none of my business though.

But is still baffles me why some folks believe that whatever their God-Of-Men say is the unrefined truth.

I WON'T BE SUPRISED IF THE "SACKED SECRETARY" IS A REDEEMED MEMBER STILL BEING PRESSURED TO BRING HER 10 PERCENT TO THE CHURCH OR RISK BEING TAGGED A ROBBER.

PLEASE NOTE HOW ADEBOYE CALLED THE MAN "HIS SON".

CHURCH GOERS WOULD AGREE THAT IT TAKES A TITHE IN 9 FIGURES BEFORE YOUR DADDY GO RECOGNIZES YOU AS "HIS SON' IN PUBLIC.


INSTEAD OF REBUKING YOUR SON, COUNSELLING HIM AND REALISING HOW BAD YOU FAILED AS A SPIRITUAL FATHER THAT YOUR SON FELT NO REMORSE DISCUSSING THIS NONSENSE WITH YOU. YOU BOLDLY CAME ONLINE TO TELL US WHY YOU ADVISED "YOUR SON" TO SACK HIS SECRETARY.

SACKING HER DOESNT STOP HIM FROM RENTING A 3 BEDROOM BUNGALOW FOR HER IN BANANA ISLAND AND CONTINUE WITH HIS MADNESS.

OUT OF THE OFFICE IS NOT OUT OF HIS LIFE.

ADEBOYE WORK ON YOUR SON!

ADEBOYE WORK ON YOUR SERMON TOO!

YOU SPEND MORE TIME ON TITHE AND OFFERING THAN MORALITY!



The Christian Bible In Romans 13:14 (ESV) Says

4 But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.

"Put on the Lord Jesus Christ" = Your Responsibility

Make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires = Still Your Responsibility


AND WHEN YOU ARE FACED WITH A CHALLENGE.

James 4 Verse 7

So submit to [the authority of] God. Resist the devil [stand firm against him] and he will flee from you.


So submit to [the authority of] God = Submit to the Authority of God, not your pastor. If the man in question is subject to God's instruction, he would have been tipped by the Holy Spirit on how to handle a seductive secretary.

Resist the devil [stand firm against him] = Still the responsibility of the Man in question. If he was taught how to resisit the devil and is sensitive in the spirit, he should have known how to handle the situation without running to Daddy GO.

He will flee from you = This would have been the fate of the secretary. She would run out on her own.



IT'S OUR RESPONSIBILITY AS PARENTS (SPIRITUAL AND BIOLOGICAL) TO INSTILL THAT SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY AND DISCIPLINE IN OUR CHILDREN.

At last, the woman won!



Never underestimate the power of a woman.

Growing up and minding my business is the best style that worked for me. I love it

They are scammers

Good

What a wasted Generation!

AND SO WHAT!!!

WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH THIS GENERATION?

WHY SO MUCH EMPHASIS ON SEXUAL INTERCOURSE?

EVERYONE SEEM TO HAVE GONE BONKERS.

NIGERIA'S POPULATION IS SKYROCKETING.

UNEMPLOYMENT IS ON THE HIGH.

WE KEEP ON BORROWING TO RUN THE NATION.

OUR DEBT PROFILE HAS NEVER BEEN SO BAD AS IT IA RIGHT NOW.


HEALTHCARE IS ONE OF THE WORSE IN THE WORLD.

BASIC AMENITIES ARE STILL A RIDDLE YET TO BE SOLVED.

ANSARU TERRORISTS, A FACTION OF ALQAEEDA HAS RESUMED OPERATIONS IN NIGERIA. THEY KILLED THE UNIMAID STUDENT.

ISIS, ALSO KNOWN AS ISWAP IN NIGERIA HAS BEEN KILLING, BOMBING AND KIDNAPPING PEOPLE.

KIDNAPPING, ARMED ROBBERY, OCCULTISM, INTER COMMUNAL CRISES, FULANI - HERDERS CLASHES ETC

ALL THESE PROBLEMS RAVAGING THE COUNTRY, YET THE YOUTHS FEEL COMFORTABLE DISCUSSING SEX ALL THE TIME.

General Muhammadu Buhari was not wrong afterral.



I FEAR FOR THE FUTURE.

When they say "Marriage is not for kids", they weren't making reference to Adults who have lived longer on Earth but Adults who understands the fundamentals of being married and staying married.

Unfortunately we are living in a time where all a woman knows about marriage is having a flamboyant wedding ceremony, dancing like a clown and walking down the isle with 200 brides maid. Or should I talk about those who see marriage as an escape route from poverty?

What about the man who sees marriage as an opportunity to show his friends that he has arrived?

90% of marriages in the 21st century are sham marriages. But don't worry, it's for a reason.

danny56:
They will tell you Islam is religion of peace with their mouth, but their heart is saying kill them all.

They think they're serving and doing God favour by killing Christians.

Demons got Islam real big.

Demons did nothing. Humans with extreme religious beliefs did it all

A happy Man is a man who finds true love.

See how happy and relaxed they are.

No Tribalism.

No Religious disparities.

No Sectarianism.

No Ipob.

No Afonja.

No Nyamiri.




But if it were the gathering of poor frustrated people, the opposite would have been the case.


I won't sit besides him because he is a Catholic.

I won't sit besides him because my holy book admonished us not to be equally yoked with unbelievers but eat their political rice and Groundnut.


I won't sit besides him because he is an easterner. A Biafran.

I won't sit besides him because he is a Shiite.




Truly, mediocrity, segregation, hatred, wickedness and envy thrives in the gathering of POOR PEOPLE.



Let's learn to love ourselves as HUMANS FIRST!

cococandy:
In your mind now you’re sleek with insults right

What if you’re a fool?

I am a fool as long as It makes you a better woman.

Thank you.

cococandy:
Yes I am woman. Thanks for clarifying that to me.

But the thread specifically asked for the positives. Hence I am prepared to read posts that exalt the wives and husbands of the posters. Like showers of praises where applicable. It can (and maybe it should) turn into a competition if possible. It’s a good thing.

Every reasonable adult knows that there’s no smooth ride in any relationship. You don’t have to add that for us to know. But with sad stories swarming the forum, the OP was looking for uplifting comments.

Theres no need for the unnecessary misery olympics and toning down the happiness to make sure no one gets offended. Mostly to please folks who will rather wish for you not to have it all.

I knew it would only take one post for that to start happening. Like y’all will quench if you stop and be happy for yourselves or someone else for a second.

Ok, enough said.

Let's keep moving forward. Life is beautiful and so is true love.

My Appologies to all.

May our Marriages Last longer and May the foundation of our homes remain firm and strong.

May our children be a source of joy to us and may they succeed in all the good things they do.

cococandy:
See how yours is the true love story but the other lady was trying to portray herself as the luckiest ?



No be today.

Like I said, no woman will ever tell her the truth.

If you had read my post, you would have seen where I said "Marriage is not a smooth sail". What if you have comprehension issues?

If you had compared both posts truthful, you would have noticed that there is a big difference. What if you have a microscopic Intelligent Quotient?

Or better still, you are a just being a WOMAN THAT YOU ARE!

For the records, my story is not a true love story. It's actually a MARRIED MANS EXPERIENCE IN WRITING. NO LYING, NO HYPOCRISY


Lalasticlala

RoyalRoy

Vyolet:
Your post is contradictory, I wish I know what side of the fence you belong.

There is nothing contradictory about my post. I told you the truth no one, including women like you will ever tell you.


And I also shared a bit of my marital experience with you guys.

Whenever such questions are thrown to the public, there is always a woman like you who tries so hard to convince the public that she is married to a King, perfectly designed without errors, doesn't bite or bark.

Vyolet:
When you are with a guy who is handsome facially with good physique, beautiful eyes, well behaved, not stingy, respectful, overall sexy and most importantly crazy in love with you. You will never want marriage with any other guy even if you come to this world ten times over.
So I will choose mine over and over and over again.

I knew I would meet your kind.

This is not a thread to breed competition or promote hypocrisy.

You woman are good at dropping lines like these in order to portray the luckiest woman on Earth.



I have been married for over 3 decades and I can say "Marriage is beautiful if both of you love each other truthfully" and are determined to make your marriage work. Though it's not a smooth sail but with a determined spirit, you will conquer all.


You will sometimes fight your extended family because of that woman you love and cherish. Marriage is not for the feeble heart.

I remember one time, I looked straight in her eyes and I saw a helpless woman. I stood up to my late uncle's and told them never to insult my wife again or I stop bearing their surname and cut ties with them forever.


I could remember when i slumped, my wife was crying like I child. I woke up to her screams and tears.

I love my wife and I am without any doubt that she loves me too. I married her because I couldn't imagine living so far away from such beautiful soul. I wanted to have her all to myself and I succeeded.

Today, I don't see the curves (Of course I wasn't interested in all that when I married her) and she isn't seeing the albs, afro hairstyle etc but she is still my "Sexy Amigo".

I will marry her over and over again if given a chance.


PS: Don't even think money brought us together. I was still trying to find my place in this world when I met her. She told me "I believe in you"

After my mother, no one else except her said those words to me.

I held on to those words and today, it's all history.

And this is news!

Well it's a forum.

After fvcking her Sha, I hope you will still stay behind and walk her through the process of conversion from an Introvert to an extrovert Sha.

Remember, there is ways a stage of excitement Sha.

That's the stage you Currently rocking Sha.


A time will come when she will make alot of friends and many mistakes (Excitement Stage).

Would you still hang around?

Thinkandwin:
What planet are you from?

The planet where your generations will never be given an opportunity for dual citizenship even if they have breath. Because in that planet, being able to breathe is not the only prerequisite for Citizenship. You need a very high IQ, Common sense etc


Child of perdition.

Birds of same feathers!


Modern Day Con Men who hide under activism and revolution to exploit their people and amass wealth for themselves.


Idiots who scream "Kill him" as long as there is an assured brown envelope.


Very soon, the spirits will raise Nigerias own "Flight Leutenant John Jerry Rawlings".

I have been assured that it will happen in my time.

I cannot wait to hear the words of that chosen one.

#Thegreatrevolution

Yes they are.


It's either they lock up or there would be a merger.


Watch out.

Prophecies From a chronic Adulterer! Who shameless divorced his wife on a Sunday service.

I guess he has had a Good "new year" sex with his South African Concubine after abandoning his wife in the USA. And out of excitement he opened his mouth to PROPHELIE!

For everything he has said, if you are very vast in international politics and economics, you will know that they are just permutations. Nothing spiritual.

Prophecies From a chronic Adulterer! Who shameless divorced his wife on a Sunday service.