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ivyy:
So freaking mad at you mister

Been so bored these days, a single mention from you on this thread coulda done alot

Now I gat to walk in here n find the place all dry Damn!
Y you gat to treat me this way mister

laykhorn:
Oga I don land o
These days, reality always wants to go on a date with me.

Moana:
hehehe amen

ivyy:
Yes

nellyme:
A friend of mine just put to bed a bouncing baby boy. I went visiting and we got to discuss a lot of things. She told me a lot of things...(I'm keeping ma mouth shut)....what got me concerned was that she said she had intercourse with the husband cos he insisted. At first I was shock but I feigned ignorant of that...when I left her I got to do a lot of research and decided to share it here cos I think der might be people in similar situation.
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Here are some questions I considered:
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Is a mother able to have intercourse with her husband while she is still nursing her baby?
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What effect does the mother's milk have on the child if she has intercourse while she is breast feeding?
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How long should she wait after birth before she can have relations with her husband?
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***i also heard somewhere that a woman doesn't dare give milk to her child once she has begun to have sexual relations. If she does it, the child will become sick and even die***
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The answer I was able to deduct from my research was : "Yes, a mother is able to have intercourse with her husband while she still nurses her baby, providing they wait for a few weeks after birth until her organs are back to normal."
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REASONS:
1. It takes from 4 to 6 weeks after birth for a woman's uterus to return to its normal state. There is a red discharge from the uterus after the baby is born which is called the lochia. It lasts about two weeks and tends to flow most when the mother is nursing her baby. Later the lochia becomes a lighter colour and then it finally stops.
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2. The father's sperm cannot enter into the milk and cause the baby to get sick.
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MY ADVICE:
The best way a father should show his love to his child is to love the baby's mother. Mothers Please don't abstain from sex totally during breast feeding because it pushes the impatient husbands to infidelity and fathers do not rush your wives, give them time to heal.
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CLOSING REMARK:
It is even true that mothers who breast-feed their babies are more interested in returning to active intercourse with their husbands as soon as possible after birth. They want to express the love and gratitude which they have in their hearts for the father of their child.
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Cheers!!!
I rest my case
But what do you think

McEwen:
I surrender

wristwatch:
Lmao. Yeye bro

Kingtom, come see wetin some of ur dude dey perform here.

McEwen:
Na my package be this na
You don reach here

pinkycute:
You might be right Babalawo at making

pinkycute:
You might be right Babalawo at making

MzNelly:

McEwen:
How far?

pinkycute:
So what can keep a man?

pinkycute:
Smh

francizy:
Werey! No wonder you don dump ggrin...




OP true that.. There's more to a healthy relationship/marriage than beauty.. Though the beauty is an added advantage.

These things can easily ruin relationships:
Lies
Infidelity
Lack of respect from both parties
Lack of understanding
No input/sacrifice from one of them, etc..

MzNelly:

Aminat508:
scentmarlc iwo ati Ipledge ati jacksparrow1207 ati KingTom hmmmmmm masesege meewa funyin. Gbogboara mini mafibayin ja...

alberto2k:
charging up. . . . 61%

kinglekan:

Charity!! Chaiii thunder kiss u for lugbe ooo

*sobbing*

alberto2k:
*uploading pics of them with different guys everyweek


with captions like "chilling with king tom"

"me and my boo king lekan"

"had a great day with zi ck"

"me and fabde don. . . love u sweery"

"stephe nqueen and I, love u boo"

Moana:
you need me to get u the acid too lolz

Moana:
in fact how much recharge card u want? Make i buy am for u. You better come back and post it on NL o

Moana:
i have been here o but u are still forming baddest guy ever liveth for the NL girls

kinglekan:

Ronald4lif u see my predicament so.

Oga Charity too greedy jooor. Btw, oga Tom dem suppose replace Oga Charity with immediate effect for gross misconduct and money laundering na?

Abeg make dem find beta person put for that post jare.

Moana:
[size=25pt]i have never eer asked any guy that i have dated before for even $1 airtime[/size] why will i start depending on a guy imnot related to?

ggrin:
tcheeeeeeew

ggrin:
u be gay!!!!!

laykorn:
*ponders*
I will definitely find the needed materials in Sambisa Forest.

kinglekan:

Yesss oooo!!!

E be like say topic don finish for NL. Oga lala dey enjoy our gist, him wan nack am put for FP.

kinglekan:

Oga mii!! Dis ministry work is very demanding oooo!!

As the Permanent Secretary of Women Affairs, I have a lotta ladies to cater for.

Na humanitarian service my brother. Infact I don't know why I have not been accorded any national award yet.

My selfless service is undeniable. . Something tells me my "Oga at the Top", King Tom - the Hon Minister of Women Affairs has just been pushing my recommendation underneath his irrelevant docs.

Oga Doc, God is watching you in black and white. *sniffs*

kinglekan:
Laykorn u own don be oooo!!
Oya I wish u all da best in ur ultimate search.