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Afodot0022:
Good day my lovely people, it always good to share life with you people here. Pls I need to ask, what is the advantage and disadvantage of living together with your girlfriend under the same roof. My girlfriend had an accommodations problem, her friend they stay together kick her out for no just reason, she wanted to get an apartment and the money she was ask to bring was quite much 250k, I convinced her to come stay with me and save that money for other things, initially she opposed but later agreed to come stay.
My reasons for her staying are there..
1... I want to get to know her better cos I believe when you live with someone in the same space, that's when you get to know them better, I was once married and have learnt a lot on how ladies pretend in dating but show their true color in marriage, atleast I want to know her well before making another serious commitment of marriage.
2... She works and earn a decent salary which I think will be an added advantage for me by her supporting by we both sharing bills together, it will lessen by burden. Though I haven't discussed this with her yet but hope to soon cos I can't let her depend solely one me while she works.
3.... Ever since I separated from my wife, it's not been easy living alone as a man, the cooking ,washing ,cleaning and loneliness has not been easy, so we living together will atleast help me in these area.
To be candid, the girl is a good girl and I was the one that disvirgin her, she is submissive and respect me, but you know you can really say of a person character until you live with them.

Now my question is to those that have been in this situation of living together with a girlfriend you are yet to marry, how did this affect the relationship afterwards. Pls share your experience be it negative or positive, I really want to learn from others to see if I can proceed on this or just abort mission by not allowing her to stay any longer. Do you think it make sense I share bills with her or I should take all financial responsibility even though am not capable of that now.. pls help me to navigate this scenario

You're lazy bruh... Not ready for marriage. No wonder the last one collapsed. How many cloths do you wash? For how many people do you cook for?

That "virgin" thing always disgust me ehn. I hope this relationship fails for her sake.

interesting. Why must it be "religion"?

My deepest condolences. Don't blame yourself, you were in a position where circumstances are beyond your control.

That's the "gift" of being born in the middle-income class In Nigeria. Don't give up.. May ways open for you.

1stGenAmerican:
Your camp? Are you a registered voter? You’re asking me what do you know? Clearly nothing at all besides the baseless right-wing propaganda you’re regurgitating.
Nothing to see here.

Ah.. 😁 I say your Camp, you're also asking me, "your camp?" You don't know your camp?

In my country, yes.

I don't know how you can ascertain that I know nothing, from one post. Unless, you're some omnipresent being, which, if you are, then let me know so that I might worship you.

Can you tell me why someone changing their name makes them a bad electoral candidate?

1stGenAmerican:
I’ll never trust a person that changes their name multiple times. Multiple name changes, multiple mind changes—does Vance even know who he is?

Yeah, right. If we check your camp, I'll find folks who've changed names, and altered gender like five times, and some don't even know what gender they are. But, what do I know?

pansophist:
Yes o. I am good. Thanks for checkup

I thought you got married like that sukkot who hasn't come back from honeymoon up till now.... hahah.. I suspect, after all his bravado, his wife is now controlling him.... ohh poor Sukkot.

"in short our paaaaaaaalll is doooooooooooooomed..."


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ceqLNUow4M

Kaycee7:
Nothing wey person no go see for Obasanjo internet sha

Na why your name an "Kay cee" na.....

Kaycee7:
You just said you weren't referring to the anime. Wetin dey occur for this World Wide Web sef? 🤦🏿‍♂️

Whatever you think is happening, it's all in your head.

Kaycee7:
What were you referring to then?

That's its a very exciting anime.. Exciting in the sense that you become immersed in the character that each episode leaves u at the brink of tears... Currently on Episode 10 or so...

The character development is incredible too.. Whether sub or dub, the effect is the same.. Soundtracks are immaculate.. My God!!!!

Kaycee7:
And so the misunderstanding of Violet Evergarden continues in 2024.

how? I wasn't referring to the anime, ya know?

Najdorf:
Funny how I just decided to start rewatching it this morning.

Every episode na so so cry cry😂😂.... If you get depression, stay clear... Na depressed MF write that thing😂

tensazangetsu20:
Before you rush to do anything I will advise you to take care of your mental health. If possible you should see a psychiatrist or someone qualified to talk to. If your mental health is dead, you are as good as dead.

Facts. Such a sad story.. Something I can relate to deeply.

ijebosb:
What do facts matter? Like posting pics of Canada and saying it's the US.. what does it matter? Lol

Trump's ear over a week period. For Trump, every and anything presents an opportunity to manipulate people.

Don't democrats equally Manupulate people when they oppse Isreal actions with one mouth and claim Isreal has right to defend itself with another?

Anyway, we only have to pick the lesser evil. Whats evil is left for us to define.

budaatum:
On the complexity of free speech.

The thought a university would be fined is an absurd attempt to silence some. But then we must ask if yelling fire where there's none and where harm might be done needs silencing.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cv2gj1x11nmo

That brings us back to the same problem JP pointed out. Who gets to define what "hate speech" is.

Funny, the camp that wants gov. more involved in regulating speech is the same camp with growing numbers of "Nazis" and Holocaust deniers.

Will create another thread for this @IMAliyu2.

Baddestguyp:
Lelouch vi Britannia returns soon

I knew he didn't die!!

Currently watching Violet Evergreen. If you no cry, make i know weytin cause am.

victory36:
so what is the use of tertiary education since we can learn skills online and through apprenticeship?

Hahaha... If a doctor tells you he didn't go through school, will you allow him/her gut you open?

bemeruca:
We are sure the guy who died was faking his death too. No bullet touched him.
Clown, Watch this to know how Trump got his wound

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JW7piQ_vOqk

This is crazy... 😂😂😂😂😂

bemeruca:
Feed the nation is a bold clown.

Cook 😂😂😂😂. Bold.....

I was going to say, if you unalive yourself and let him live.....

But then I saw the "I already paid...? Part..

Wow!

bemeruca:
Gaza vs. Kiev
People who enjoy freedom decided to take the path of war because they built a few holes underneath the ground

It's the Republicans responsible na.... 😁 Do you know how much power Republicans have? Enough to not win elections.

Wtf does this even mean?

idahme:
Crushers.....

You must be very disciplined to teach in a senior secondary school as a corner else you are in for the shocker of your life. Thew dusty of the teacher is to guide and mentor his students and nothing short of this should take place in that environment. I repeat those who ain't disciplined should never be found in a school environment where they have to mentor teens.

The gentle probably is more "liberal" with his teaching methods...or very playful with the kids.

Yep. High school girls, very dangerous😂😂😂...
I was 22 out of uni and teaching.... I was like, if this girl's hear my age, them no go respect me again.. 🤣.. Thank God for height nd poor fashion sense..

IMAliyu2:
So there's been leaks of Twitter's backend and it's revealed that there are a protected class of accounts, and slurs.
Guess which side of the political aisle they are on?

The account that shared this info on Twitter Just got suspended for it.

Right-wingers and Elon have stopped pretending to be Free-speech absolutists, so don't let them lie with that talking point.

Every thing's fair in Love and War!

What do you mean free speech absolutist?

ijebosb:
I generally agree with you. They are not wrapping themselves in glory.
America has some interest there, but I think we've gone far beyond just pure interest.
ex. We are attacking the ICC on behalf of Netanyahu doing something everyone with clear eyes can see.

There have been articles how the CIA and State Department have been very concerned, warning about the potential blow back and our need to recalibrate the relationship. Look it, the US does some stuff around the world, but also goes through great pains to look moral. What is happening in Palestine goes beyond that.

And this! Sir, we can agree on.. For me, I don't care who wins, because, at the end of the day, demo and repubs are same folks different coin. Both have oligarchs, both have dirty corporations backing them up.. America exist only to serve America's interest.
Personaly I can't forgive Obama for what he did to Jonathan.. Demo's(America rather) have been influencing Nigerian elections, and I can't fathom why. Any idea why the shift to APC during Jonas era?

What did Kamala do to black people though? They seem to hate her guts, especially the conservatives. Did she put them niggas behind bars that much.

ijebosb:
Christopher Wray the FBI Director testified today that it was not clear whether a bullet or shrapnel hit former Pres. Trump’s ear. It was a rather odd testimony.

Anyhow, I think it's time a proper investigation is done and all the questions are definitively answered one way or the other.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RxmqdhLxN3E

This is going to be a tough battle...

I don't know her husband, but, I'm sure I will know him unintentionally very soon😁.. All dirts on Trump are all known.. So, no new armor. But, patiently waiting for the bag of beans to be spilled..

ijebosb:
He's not wrong. The politics of this are really fuxed. A lot of money flows supporting Israel, which causes some politicians to make very political choices and not ones necessarily in the best interests of the US.

Look what happened when Obama was negotiating the Iran deal. The Republicans invited Netanyahu against Obama's wishes, Netanyahu came against Obama's wishes, a lot of Democrats went to that speech against Obama's wishes and sat there and watched Netanyahu criticize the President. It was as disrespectful as it gets.

Oh, please..."why did you commit the crime?"

"the devil made me do it" is what I'm hearing..

As if America has no political interest in the region that benefit America.. What you talking bout "The republicans?

LordReed:
Keep dancing upandan, when you are ready to answer my question lemme know.

Why assume this is related to that?

Augustine2244:
Very commendable.If you reject the devil, equally reject his works.
You can't reject him and still hold on to his gifts and works.
All these confused minded ladies are just something else.

I like this figure of speech.

Obrigardo:
It's quite complicated than you think. President Biden can decide to cut off aid to Netanyahu, but the military industrial complex which is a real group comprised of powerful republicans too won't allow that. War is money.
The President is presently negotiating a cease fire and there has been an earlier stop to the fighting albeit for a short time.

Majority of Democrats think bibi is a war criminal, and Dem senators and house members are not shy to say it.

But who are the idiots hyping netanyahu? Isn't it mike Johnson and the magats in the house?

I hope you Aint too dumb to understand the present situation and answer the question you asked to a dumb rock yourself. It is the republicans in the house, silly. That's why aid is still flowing to war criminal Netanyahu.

are the Colorado dems also republican spies? or is Biden using his mouth offering solidarity with Israel also a republican puppet?

56% percent of Republicans voted for a cease-fire, so wtf are you on about " It is the Republicans in the house, silly"?

are you saying the Dems who also voted against the ceasefire are Republicans in demo clothing? When Kamala said, "Isreal has the right to protect itself," did Donald possess her?

How dumb of you to think I'm dumb enough to believe you calling me dumb makes me dumb. Do you think your dumb ass is the only one with frontal cortex? There's a neighborhood in New York, you should visit, it's called Dumbo!

LordReed, one could argue that nothing immoral happened here..