₦airaland Forum

Nairaland is not a place to bring relationship issues as matured advisers are very scarced here, most of the people here act based on impulse and that is not good for any relationship, this people have only been dating for 3 months she has not decided on what she wants yet, so if you really love her you wouldn't just dump her you will first give her a chance to understand yourselves

Besto:
updates reaching me states that she made the 1st move on him and nigga fell soft for her...

Now you see what am saying ? What if she's trying to redeem herself ? She wants to see if he really cares about her ? If he does then he can go fight for her love, but if he doesn't then well his choice, I'd stick around for a little and see what comes out of it

cruzita:
at least she told u her mind instead of deceiving u.u should be grateful .all u have to do is to show her more love and make her believe u are better and more worthy of her than her ex.my opinion

God bless you, you are making some sense here, she's opened minded and I like her for that you need to prove it to her that you are better there could be something about the ex that's making her consider him, talk to her, give her sometimes to get her shii together, love her some more and see what happens in a few months time do not rush her 3 months is not enough time to give up on a relationship except when the person openly tells you with attitude that she's not interested, guy let your friend give her some time, and his response is actually pushing her back to the ex, tell her you can better that dude make her forget him.

TonyeBarcanista:
A party is made of members. The individual members shouldn't be denied their right to express themselves. What promoters of hardline stand fail to understand is that your party members that shares your view are not enough to win election. In fact, any party that can't secure the confidence of at least 60% of the electorate is simply wasting time and space. How do you get the electorates with overly hardline and senseless rants? Are Nigerians that stupid?

What we have been for quite some times, imagine a party that plunged the nation into serious distress telling the world and us that we were behing them, instead of listening to our yarnings they thought we were going to remain stupid for ever, they made promises every electioneering period only to repeat that at the next electioneering period and they wanted us to trust them again, I joined the change train not because I have been a part of it, but I had one prayer in heart, that God should give the populace a voice, so they (the elite) will learn to understand that we will hold them accountable, and that a good performance will be rewarded with reelection whule poor performance will result to being boothed out of power, I've said it before and I will say it again, for me - will always be a patriotic Nigerian not a loyal party man. When you place party loyalty against patriotism them you are given to the whims of the individual party leader, who in most cases are just for themselves, I.e Tinubu vs Saraki

Its this same thing that injured the party in the first place n when they said their decision was supreme and this decisions were made by some selfish individuals , that started the rancour in the party that brought it down.

Descartes:
What a mischievous Op ! Haven't you heard from Buhari and Lai Mohammed that Bokoharam has been technically defeated?

Y'all talking should go and study the address or the statements with a dictionarry, and I pray Shekau to borrow you some sense, their capacity to attack has been reduced, but ofcourse we don't expect them to stop trying to fight back, remember MEND still carry out bombings on our oil facilities ? Even after the amnesty program was announced so its going to take some time to completely wipe them out but technically Boko Haram has been driven in the caves.

hinwazaka:
This government can lie. The amount of corruption currently going on under this government is mindbogglingly. There are already stories circulating in the media of Ghana must go bags lobbying by ministerial nominees. Let them continue, Olisa Metuh has already sounded a note of warning to this government of the hawk-like watchmen that will compile and submit reports on every illegal transaction done by this government. Mr Shehu, you and your boss will not escape Kirikiri once you leave that office. Unlike the APC, the largest party in Africa, the PDP does not make empty threats.

Hahahahaha we are waiting for the expose o' please bring on the facts, PDP and corruption are siblings you cannot separate them so am wondering what you are blabbing about.

But where this bloggers dey get this lie from ? that the traditional took place in Warri is a figment of the blogger's imagination because it happened in Lagos I was there in person, and what do they mean by calling it a private affair ? maybe both the groom and the bride do not pull so much weight that was why the publicity was low but there were lots of known faces there whether she is pregnant ? I cannot confirm that, but I got to know her dad is a Bishop so its possible she kept for the man.

5minsmadness:
And how did she fracture her two arms by herself? How did she inflict a cut on her own forehead to the point of piercing the bone?

Why would she put a nylon bag over her own head. Why didn't the husband remove it?

You say you knew her for years, did she at any time show signs of mental illness? Where is her file?

Her husband is a consultant pathologist in the same luth right? So his people at going to be in charge of the autopsy, right?

This doesn't look suspicious to you?

The husband does not work with LUTH but Lasuth so you can confirm that your source does not know anything about the story

Its funny how people run into conclusions on issues, people have spoken why not wait for the autopsy report before making a conclusion ? Yea your dad was a silent monster agreed but not every silent person would be a silent monster, sometimes I want to end it with my wife because she provokes me to the extend I want to hit her, I have never ever in my life raised my hands against a woman until I got married and because of that I feel marriage is not worth the worry, but of course that is not an excuse for domestic violence in relationships.

And holding brief for her should not be something you should consider we are all bewildered at the way things turn out, I was with a close family friend the day before the event, she called her and they spoke, everything sounded cool and we were surprised the next morning when we heard what happened, lets wait for the coroner to say what really happened, if it was a case of domestic violence am sure she would have given a fight as well and the husband would have sustained some scratches to his body, or there would have been some touches of him on the body, they said the torch she used to get the point where she jumped was seen at the scene but like I said lets not run into conclusions because of events that have happened to us, lets not preempt the outcome of the investigation.

Its a big shock to all of us.

osars:
you can't know somebody if he/she is not your husband/wife.. thats how they paint my father "humble soul" humble soul indeed. u can be his twin brother,but the way he will relate with you is different from his wife. thats how people used to see my father out there as a very generous,nice,caring man e.t.c. but he was a monster. sincerely looking at him as an outsider (he will look as an angel to u) though i was very young but i can remember the beating,d tears n settlement.he will get down from his car n drag my mum down for telling him she wants to buy christmas cloth n chicken for the children.my mum stayed in marriage for her children which i dont advice anyone now as i'm now grown up.
i am a student right now at medilag- luth, pls to correct the mistake-her husband works at lasuth not luth pls.
Dr Thomas was a doctor we as students looked up to. i dont believed she killed herself. she wont jump down and leave her two children behind -NO, she won't. she is a black woman not a white one.,she wont leave her students thats looking up to her behind.NO She won't. Someone pushed her if at all the story is correct... which i doubt. the gov should take this up, the medical coucil should take this up if her family permits.
If she can still perform surgeries and came to luth the day before her death. i dont think she was depressed to the extent of ending it.
what i have come to realize is that a woman beater will be a woman beater no matter your level of education or status in the society. as boyfriends beat girlfriends even in this century.
R.I.p Dr Thomas. your love,teaching and encouragement will be missed.

januzaj:
i dont take him serious buh i take his words serious

What do you make of a man that does not respect his own words ? but honestly white car on black tyres ? is it possible to have cars on white tyres ?

januzaj:
ok......what na happen....shey oyibo na god
Africans and inferiority complex...well Mugade was right
.
Killer speech by Zimbabwe President Robert
Mugabe:"Racism will never end as long as white
cars are stil using black tyres.Racism will never
end if people still use black to symbolise bad
luck and white for peace. Racism will never end
if people still wear white clothes to weddings
and black clothes to funerals. Racism will never
end as long as those who don't pay their bills
are blacklisted not white listed.Even when
playing snooker. You haven't won until you've
sunk the black ball, and the white ball must
remain on the table." But I don't care, as long as
I'm still using white toilet paper to wipe my black
ass I'm
happy
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the first pix is for the LASMA and the second pix is for the mod that brought this to frontpage

you and Mugabe are on the same level, who is inferior here ? the man that claims to be fighting for black superiority but is still enslaving fellow blacks, if you are to take anyone serious it should not be Mugabe that is killing his own people

redsconsult:
big dunce u are ....why did pdp not take bauchi that muazu is , what of niger and benue that all ve pdp governors guy kano also will fall whether they defect or not as far as buhari is the sole candidate from the north ... amechi headed the defection team not judas saraki... get the fact staight

You are just showing how naive you are and I really do not like when you call me names so go and correct yourself, there are states that would not have fallen to the APC if some governors did not defect take it or leave it.

muzzol:
Tinubu biggest achievement in politics is that he led an opposition force to form a party and defeated the incumbent.....built and nurtured political parties....moreover, he was in the dungeon during the fight for democracy, hence, he understands the bitter struggle to gain democracy (meaning he will not join force to destroy it).....I doubt if Saraki has ever done any of these.

The defeat of the PDP came as a result of the defection of the 5 state governors that was spearheaded by Saraki, if Saraki was not in that alliance it would have been a difficult one for the APC, its because of that influence that the APC got Kano and some other states in the North that are known as PDP states, so we should not forget that, and one of the problems this party has always had is the lack of internal democracy, we thought there was a change when they conducted a beautiful Primary election, but afterwards we are seeing different things and for those that want to take position with the Asiwaju group, what will you do if the Presidents wants to do something for the masses and the party says its not right ? our loyalty should be with the country not the party.

Lets wait and have Saraki make a mistake or go against the populace then we can go for his head so far he has done well with the constitution of a panel to look into their salaries and allowances.

DrPrickson:
Long and short of the matter is that the whole process of PVC was tailored to favour the APC . Jega is compromised.
My only problem is that PDP should have seen the handwriting on the wall long before now and correct it.
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PVCs and the temporary voting cards should be used to give every Nigerian a chance to vote.
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GEJ till 2019. whether the Devil , BH , or Jega like it or not.
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Nigerians don't need somebody that has not been able to CHANGE his life for better since leaving power 31yrs ago.

What you are saying in essence is pdp appologies do not want someone who couldn't steal to be president not Nigerians because for me and ma household it is change we want of all the talk I still wonder why people who want to vote wouldn't go and get their pvcs I went on the first day of distribution and I got mine so what happened to those that have not collected theirs they did no see it or they went to inec and they were denied ? That should be the questio

ayukdaboss:
When Sanusi alleged that $20 billion dollars was missing, Madam NOI refuted his claims and stated that the money missing was not $20 billion dollars but $10.86 billion dollars.

What every sensible Nigerian should've been checking out from this report is a breakdown and cue as to how the money ($10.86billion as confirmed by Madam NOI) was spent/got missing but alas we're being told that the cash missing is less than $2billion .

What's is even more pathetic is the fact that you're castigating APC instead of this fraudulent government without any sense of reasoning.

They are so blind they would not see anything, its unfortunate and annoying is the $1.48 billion not enough for an indictment ? and come to think of it this report was supposed to be ready since September what kept it till now ? I will not be surprised if there was any kind of manipulation we have to just open our eyes, #IHAVEDECIDED anyway.

shalompeace007:
Boko haram, apc militia. May God punish and destroy dose apc occultic men, sponsoring boko haram. Amin. Buhari said 2015 will be bloody, he's fulfilling his promises, he said d baboon and d monkey will be soaked in d blood. While his children re all out of d country. Den who re d people hez referring to? Guess and pray it is going to be apc supporters. Amin

May. God forbid your ignorance in Jesus name

slimmy05:
Absolute nonsense. Lets watch as see how GEJ will embarrass your lame, blood sucking general.

I refuse to come down to your level it shows your level of frustration just keep it up as its a good sign for GMB

Omooba77:
That is your hypocrisy,dont just say we didnt warn you,Egypt dey bit fingers now.

Like I said we can all settle with our sentiments but one thing I know and the majority of Nigeria can attest to is the fact that GEN has failed us

[quote author=MovingMax post=30364216]when you use political rally crowd to jugde who will win in an election, you make a very wrong calculation. Most of this crowd are under aged, Almajiris & other neigbouring countries immigrants without PVC. We are not yet politicaly mature in this country, only blinded by ethnicity & hatred[/quote)
There was a time PDP were comparing o now that its not falling on their side crowd has become UN-important dereis God

Owliver:
Tinubu is now a good man? Very interesting

Dude its not just about Tinubu and honestly Tinubu is better than alams bode george and kashamu buruji

I just feel sorry for PDP that has refused to see the writing on the wall, dem no just try at all, call him what ever its your choice against mine, one thing they fail to understand is that Buhari has been known to carry good people along with him therefore giving him an edge, was reading somewhere and the writer claimed Buhari should not take credit for the WAR AGAINST INDISCIPLINE AND CORRUPTION but his second in command and I wondered why GEJ did not get a second in command that will deal with corruption, if Jonathan had people like IDIAGBON in his cabinet we would not have been asking for GMB to come back and I guess he would not have had the impetus to come back, but we have tried people with degrees and they have failed us so we are all going to fail them come #Febuhari its our turn to make sense of leadership.

Vote4change
#Ihavedecided

camplenigeria:
We dey vex!

on the metroline http://factchecki.ng/question/did-buhari-cancel-the-lagos-metroline-project-due-to-any-malicious-intent/

and other of your lies check here http://africanspotlight.com/2015/01/28/el-rufai-debunks-lies-ait-jonathan-buhari-documentary/

This Change you are afraid of will one day catch up with you, continue running but you cannot hide, we want a better Nigeria not the one that gets better only by the books, we want purposeful leadership hence our stance on Buhari.

Sai Buhari Sai Baba mai gaskiya

#Febuhari14

cnanu:
May God Send Buhari Spirit Into Your Generation Starting From Your Children, Say Amen And Vote Buhari, May Your Children Treat You Like Buhari Treated Nigeria, Insha Allah, Amin.

Amen and amen and Amen

I will rather have a Buhari that will prone everything that is going to make me miss heaven than a Jonathan that will tolerate just anything to remain in Power.

Swiftboy:
I dont know about Rotimi but Ahmed left PDP along with his boss Saraki.Please get your fact right about why they left!

They all left when PDP said they were not wanted, they were the people that formed the New PDP that the courts did not allow including Rabiu Kwankwaso , Nyako and the Sokoto state governor