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RomanceRe: Will He Get My Postcards? by kobarney(m): 9:55pm On Mar 10, 2022
ChimasGirl:
Thank you for your comment. He's going to check the post office just in case. Maybe you should check your post office for your missing package too.
I really don’t have the luxury of time but will try. Besides it’s a $4 package.
FamilyRe: Am I Spoiling My 7-year Old Son? by kobarney(m): 9:49am On Mar 09, 2022
Karleb:
Stay there and be forming woke.

If the mother is angry, do you expect her to talk softly? undecided

Work on an agreement with a 7yr old, wtf are you saying? undecided

Can the kid say that to his teacher?
Exactly @ bolded. Mhenn this is a fact. He won’t.
RomanceRe: Will He Get My Postcards? by kobarney(m): 4:36am On Mar 09, 2022
Should you include his post code and phone number, it should get to the nearest post office closest to his address or Local Government and he would be contacted hopefully. Most of the things I myself ordered from overseas were usually dropped off at the post office nearest to me and I was notified by my phone number provided. All but the last item bought by November and tracking tells me it’s been delivered to my local post office since January yet still no call. Anyway I consider it lost.
PropertiesRe: Heavy Rainfall Destroys Fence And Cars In Ibadan (Photos) by kobarney(m): 2:09pm On Mar 05, 2022
pyyxxaro:
Imagine say u don lie give ur wife say u de travel , meanwhile u go lodge for ur side chick house sad


this kind matter con happen , wetin u go talk when u trek reach house cry




The devil is a liar undecided
Foolish imagination
Science/TechnologyRe: Human TECHNOLOGY Still On Infancy by kobarney(m): 8:01am On Mar 05, 2022
Botking:
If wars are still fight by human soldier in the 21 century, then we are still far away from Technological advancement.

WW3 should be fight by drones and robots, then the casualties should be a damage city's and infrastructures, while human should be hiding in bunkers.

This will be the hight of human Technological advancement in history of mankind, but for now this can only happen in Utopia
I believe we will get there
How farrr?? Ukraine Russia foot soldiers still de o
PropertiesRe: How Much Will It Cost To Roof This House? by kobarney(m): 1:14am On Mar 03, 2022
[quote author=Jamesbiodun post=110653289][/quote]The poster’s aim may be to extend the building in the near future. Usually it is roofed as such
RomanceRe: My Ex Birthday by kobarney(m): 7:33pm On Feb 17, 2022
makavellidon:
that her problem av move since cos am not a simp
Lol. It has nothing to do with being a simp. People are just opportunistic and you should not be a prey. Hitting you up cos it was her birthday and you showed no concern as you should should not make her want to reignite a past union. Not fair
RomanceRe: My Ex Birthday by kobarney(m): 6:43pm On Feb 17, 2022
makavellidon:
bro 2 be sincere have never call her eversince we break up i swear with my life, even during her birthday which is febuary 15 i dont call or text her
Then it’s her birthday and boom she’s flashing you again. Lol.
She misses your gifts I presume.
RomanceRe: My Ex Birthday by kobarney(m): 6:02pm On Feb 17, 2022
makavellidon:
bro you told me not 2 text her on her birthday but today has i was charging my phone b4 i came back i saw her missed call on my phone about 3minute later she sent me a text and she said it a mistake. Am confuse is it truly a mistake? Cos it almost 5month we talk last
Brotherman. I believe you initiated the very first contact again after you both parted ways. E sure me.


Then. It looks like she was the one who ended things with you

And now. You’re still in love with her.

But let’s make some assumption. I am assuming that since your break up or parting ways she has been with someone else and you haven’t.



Man… if you love someone and they wanna go, let them go and if they come back it means no one loved them real like you did. Send them out again… they belong to the streets
RomanceRe: My Ex Birthday by kobarney(m): 5:56pm On Feb 17, 2022
Datboredberry:
Your relationship with her is dead... You're not being mature, you're going to make a mistake...

Send her a message, it's a nice gesture...

But if she's not moved on, then she might have crazy ideas...

You haven't spoken to her... Don't bother unless you want more...

Do you want to date her again? What if she's with someone else? What if she's moved on and she thinks you haven't?

Everything would be awkward... It's not worth it...
Can’t you see he clearly hasn’t moved on??
Dude just needs one person here to say it doesn’t matter.
It matters bro. Don’t send that text.
AgricultureAspiring Incubator Users And Incubator Users Get In Here! by kobarney(op): 8:39pm On Nov 27, 2020
Good day Agriculturists!!

I am running a research and also building an an incubator that would solve most problems related to the common incubators we have today.

Please I would love your encouragement by simply answering this questions. It would go a long way on my research and design implementation.

Questions
1. For incubator users. What are the challenges you face when you use your incubator?
What features and suggestions would you love to be added to an Incubator machine to solve your challenges?

2. For aspiring users. Why haven't you gotten an incubator? What are your challenges? Please reasons.


in summary.. if you use, what are the challenges you face? If you need an incubator but don't have what is stopping you? What are your challenges?


Thank you very much. Need responses ASAP. God bless
AgricultureAspiring Incubator Users And Incubator Users Get In Here! by kobarney(op): 8:27pm On Nov 27, 2020
Good day Agriculturists!!

I am running a research and also building an an incubator that would solve most problems related to the common incubators we have today.

Please I would love your encouragement by simply answering this questions. It would go a long way on my research and design implementation.

Questions
1. For incubator users. What are the challenges you face when you use your incubator?
[/b] What features and suggestions would you love to be added to an Incubator machine to solve your challenges?[/b]

2. For aspiring users. Why haven't you gotten an incubator? What are your challenges? Please reasons.


in summary.. if you use, what are the challenges you face? If you need an incubator but don't have what is stopping you? What are your challenges?


Thank you very much. Need responses ASAP. God bless
RomanceRe: Nairalandaers Pls Patronise Me. by kobarney(m): 5:07pm On Oct 05, 2020
Go to patricia.com. they buy airtime. Thank me later.
FamilyRe: My Neighbor Beats His Wife And Kids Daily, What Can I do? by kobarney(m): 7:05am On Sep 03, 2020
LegendsCoded:
Nairalanders i hail thee.

I'm seeking for help on behalf of my neighbor's wife and her kids, her husband(our landlord) beats his wife and kids everyday(I mean 7 days a week nonstop). This man is usually drunk, I'm really concerned and really pained, as i type now he's beating his wife and has locked them out. I tried some Google searches but it's not helping. Please this woman and her kids needs help, but what can be done.

Thanks
You mentioned traits of a frustrated man. I tell you.. take away his frustration and you will see a new man. Give him a job, occupy his mind and watch changes.

PS. I do not support wife batery and that man deserves any punishment for pouring out his frustrations as a failed man on his wife and kids.

Contact human right organizations and NGOs that have international backings, they should take it up from there.
EducationRe: Scheme Of Work by kobarney(m): 11:30am On Feb 11, 2020
I'm interested bro ichiejini@gmail.com
RomanceRe: She Gets Angry Unnecessarily. by kobarney(m): 11:13am On Dec 28, 2019
Lekside442:
shes just 20
hello man.. this funny and odd behavior of hers is typical of young girls here age. the reason could just be that you snapped it and didn't show her. I'm assuming you both share photos quite frequently. girls her age behave very funny, childish and confusing.. they want much petting.. it's annoying but bro... nothing spoil.. it's her time and age. doh
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by kobarney(m): 9:22am On Dec 13, 2019
yenyenyen nonsense... this Na normal level.. she hoped you'd reassure her of the love jare them you missed it.... she just pointed that you guys hadn't talked in daysss... looks she's a little emotional and over thinks.. she was just asking for attention and assurance but your didn't get the memo... no level.. obviously you don't call much... baba pick phone call all
.reassure.. spin her head on a regular... everywhere go good. trust me. babe love you still.
RomanceRe: Help, My Husband Keeps Insisting I Stop Talking To Strangers by kobarney(m): 12:54pm On Nov 26, 2019
JaneKenedy:
Thanks, I always tell him everything. Like I have been in the midst of my friends females, someone bought drinks and pepper soup for us, I didn't accept. When he came back, I still told him. The only thing I don't tell him, is the one that he was present and witness. I tell him from the beginning till the end of my daily happenings, even where I know I am wrong.
As a single, I didn't accept gifts from my male friends except the ones I can afford. Otherwise I wouldn't. Reason, you can use what you gifted me to have a better hold of me. I would replace it immediately. I hardly send my account for someone to give me money...no...I didn't, except family members, male friends, No.
So I have always been contented with the little I have and don't accept gifts any how.
Even him as my husband knows I don't totally expect things I cannot afford from him, he knows that about me and still act like someone who married a prostitute.

Once I told his brother, he was shouting and telling me he would talk to him.

I do apologise but it's becoming irritating to me that I can't talk to anybody have a discussion and part ways in and discuss my "chykers" with him.
Some people comes with a good proposal that I know if I follow up something good would come out of it...like jobs and contract even though might be small.

The problem usually starts when I tell him later of how my day went and who I spoke with or met for the day.

He saw a guy talking to me one day like that, we didn't talk long but somehow he mentioned a business I have had interest in, I also noticed the guy is civil engineer, same school with my brother, and from my side too, I quickly collected the guy's number so that I would know more through phone instead of standing there discussing with him. I even waved at him and smiled to come and see my brother oo when I saw him. It became an issue, that I was talking with anybody I see. That day he also said I should have brought the strange person home and stay at home to discuss with him. I just met him once, don't know him much? Should have brought him home? Like....I don't understand
Hello madam again, we guys are very calculative. I'm presuming you didn't have much relationship experiences.. we guys are very calculative.. your husband knows Wassup.. he knows when handshakes are beginning to extend to the elbows. trust me.. he knows he got a sweetheart and isn't willing to share. you see that third guy... even if Na priest e be... your man go still para.. all those ones Na moves... and he just gotta find of thieves.. too bad he's feels too hyper about it.. but I'm not sure of the man who introduced gonna get furious about that drink episodes..

men will get jealous if their wives give out her numbers.
give her glass to another or what ever platonic act.

all he needs... assurance..
things I think you should do if you aren't.

1. take their numbers instead.. on paper.. when gisting him.. show him.. drop it on his table.. trust me.. there's a psychology to this

2. if you don't wear your wedding ring.. wear it.

3. if he's around you.. say things to let the third party know you're married.. like.. "meet my husband.." call him "honey".. Oga will square shoulder around you for their front.

4. " I'll discuss it with my husband and we'll see about that " then tell him like that and still discuss then get an answer.

you know... with time.. Bros is gonna relax and have good assurance..
RomanceRe: Help, My Husband Keeps Insisting I Stop Talking To Strangers by kobarney(m): 6:13am On Nov 26, 2019
my dear... you are free spirited but humans are territorial. I'm not surprised your husband got pissed That you have your drink to just another guy. Fact remains that it was a flirty gesture.

let me tell you something... There are many wrongs we may be doing that doesn't seem to scratch for us but cuts deep on our partners. we may not even realize that we are wrong but we are.

what you did was out of the ethics of your union I guess... I think you may have to relax on your ease with other males.. Understand that you are married and need to be a little withdrawn from other men. Not all gifts are meant to be accepted, not all favours are meant to be taken and done. Once married, many actions become disrespectful to your man.. whether directly or indirectly.

I hope you do apologize when he feels this way? do reassure him that you're fully his and beat down on relationships with other guys.. especially unnecessary ones because trust me... He's hurt when you do that......but what do I know? I'm just a young man whose girlfriend just stopped this act. It was irritating.

Before anyone comes to say I'm blaming just her, how about her husband... mind you, she spoke just about herself.
FamilyRe: What My Wife Does Whenever We Have A Disagreement by kobarney(m): 6:39am On Nov 15, 2019
byna:
It wasn't easy even as she got closer but I was determined to change the narrative.
Mann! kudos.. this is you being fierce, this is you changing the narrative.. next time call her in yourself for sex.. after the sex, talk!
NYSCRe: NYSC 2019 Batch C Online Registration Deadline Date Officially Announced by kobarney(m): 6:39am On Oct 21, 2019
the portal is still closed oooo.. wassup Naija?
FamilyRe: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by kobarney(m): 8:33am On Oct 14, 2019
LadySarah:
Bearing in mind that your name sounds muslim,are you sure a second wife isnt loading? undecided undecided undecided

What needs to be said.
1a.When someone says hurtful things to you during a quarell,that is wht they have been thinking about you.
1b. 5x and you always come back.You are a good woman but Its time to change tactic.

2.The house belongs to both of you.If he says leave,dont leave.If he didnt push you or your stuff out,stay.Dont give him room to keep disrespecting you.Go to the fridge,take enough food then back to the sitting room.Make sure you stretch your legs well on the cushion and watch your favorite movie.You can Play a song and sing away grin grin grin.you can also Run around the house with your bby grin grin

If your presence irritates him,then he should leave.If he doesnt come back and the house is rented,make sure you stay till the last day of rentage and go back to ur parents,thats if he refuses to renew it.
Thankfully,their home is opened for you.

3.The baby's welfare should be paramount to both of you.so,if he didnt buy it,both of you should endure the crying.Do not initiate any discussion anymore .

4.At this stage,you shouldnt think of another baby.Theres no peace here.Work on yourselves.

5.Pray.Counselling is also neccessary.If he refuses to go then let him be.
6.If it gets physical,Nne,run!!!!!!!!!! undecided undecided.

PLS,Thankfully you work.Stop these arguments.Ignore him when he tries to provoke you.Dont watch warroom grin grin.Pls make yourself happy.You owe it to yourself.Dont let any human define your happiness.
ladysarah, I thought same about the name part. Dear OP, it looks like your husband feels he alone has to make the decision and wants to call the shots. whilst you were young did you by any chance see young kids play football? the owner of the ball was always the coach and captain of both his team and the opposite team. you foul him he says..."give me my ball", you don't allow him score... Give me my ball.. you don't allow his friend play.. GMMB.. you score too much GMMB, you insult of laugh at his skills? what! how dare you.. leave the pitch.. in fact you're not playing my ball again.. Give me my ball! ..then what next? please na... sorry na... he'll not do it again.. just so they can all play. but once another boy gets a ball... everyone leaves Oga GMMB to the new ball boy.. they've had enough.. and new ball boy surely won't be as hard about GMMB like his predecessor. Even when the team plays the old ball.. Oga will not be so hard on them anymore.. why? there are two balls now. the more the balls.. the lesser the "give me my ball" act.

the trick here is.. Oga seems to be the owner of the ball... take care of stuff yourself.. trust me. things will be different. like ladysarah said. don't leave when he asks you to.. take care of your child and self.. do your stuff you do normally... like all you used to do when things are smooth... most importantly... get your own ball... no matter how small but first... Pray.
RomanceRe: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by kobarney(m): 3:09pm On Oct 06, 2019
Surgery please. thanks and God bless
NYSCRe: How Do I Replace My Lost Nysc ID Card by kobarney(m): 9:48am On Oct 05, 2019
my friend who lost his reprinted his on his own and it works... the qrl code and all... reply me if interested so I can help you reach him.
RomanceRe: Are There Benefits Of Platonic Relationship/friendship With Women? by kobarney(m): 9:26am On Oct 01, 2019
it's not all parasitic. friendship is friendship.. if your friend needs, help. I once had a friend in my hostel while in school... she really didn't have much and I never turned her down when she needed help I can offer.. we did talk and laugh a lot. even about our separate relationships.

for some others... I stopped saying hi and they did Too... but too many are parasitic... never "do you want", always. "do you have".
just know sha that free food sure having a female friend lol.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Who Plans To Marry With His N400k Paying Job Loses It by kobarney(m): 8:15pm On Aug 22, 2019
but no be by force nawww.. do small one. which kind pride sef. ??
RomanceRe: Ja5nagala2 La1nga5ga2 4nalaya by kobarney(m): 5:09pm On Mar 15, 2019
ka4ba1rana2ya ha2ra2
RomanceRe: Hello Nairaland! My Wife Just Gave Me A Bouncing Baby Boy by kobarney(m): 10:25am On Feb 28, 2019
congrats man.. more blessings
RomanceRe: What Could Be The Reason? by kobarney(m): 11:22am On Aug 13, 2018
cheesy
Uglymugg:
The rings on her toe was to steal your destiny, but you didn't have any to her greatest disappointment.
cheesy
Uglymugg:
The rings on her toe was to steal your destiny, but you didn't have any to her greatest disappointment.
lollzzz.. you no just get sense.. hahahahahaha
RomanceRe: What The Most Memorable Thing U Have Done For A Stranger by kobarney(m): 12:28am On Aug 11, 2018
So.. University of Benin, these rainy days.. I think last year or so, I walked hurriedly through the back gate into the Villa (student off campus area-Ekosodin). I noticed a pretty young girl struggling with 2 heavy bags, it just rained and everywhere was wet. I walked briskly passed her and along the way something delayed me, she struggled past me and after I was done with my business I walked on.
I met her again this time I felt pity.. as the struggled with her bags, I walked close and said.. "lemme help you". initially she looked surprised and speechless, it wasn't an uncommon thing there perhaps she was a fresher. all that one no concern me sha, I was just tired of seeing the girl suffer with no one helping.. I took the heavier one and asked for directions.. fortunately I could take that way home too.. that's how I carry bag for stranger reach her gate.. I didn't ask for number, her name sef I can't remember. PS she was as pretty AF. but I just didn't feel like that. I just left after asking her name..
for some reason It felt good I helped sha.. till day I don't even know who she is.
PoliticsRe: PDP Senatorial Campaign Rally In Katsina (Photos) by kobarney(m): 9:17pm On Aug 09, 2018
kwankwansiya movement.
someone should please enlighten me on that
FoodRe: “yorubas Cook Jollof Rice Better Than Igbos” - Nigerian Man Says by kobarney(m): 6:11pm On Aug 04, 2018
nobody argue.. abeg close this rotten thread

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