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Ubdavis:
Cooked up stories. Jesus is a fictional character

You mean like Socrates, Alexander the Great, and many others are also fictional characters? Come on, people! The evidence that the man existed is irrefutable.

shinealight:
➜What He taught us constitutes the Way, the Truth and will gain you Evalasting Life …. ONLY if you follow and live according to His teachings and admonitions. We should get it right and STOP mouthing nonsense that He came to take away the Sins of the World as if your slate has been wiped clean. Everybody who has sinned will someday pay for his/her sins…don’t keep fooling yourselves and living in denial.
You must wash your robes clean by yourself through changing your ways and living according to His words. C’est fini!

His teachings were meant only for His fellow Israelites — the bloodline of Jacob

horlatunji00:
➜Who's Jesus? Is he a prophet or the creator? If he is the Creator, how can what he created nailed him ? Does the creator need to be take care of? Remember, Mary took care of him when Jesus was a child
➜ What's his real name ?

1. All human beings are meant to be cared for when they are young. Jesus Christ of Israel, born a human, required care too.

2. Where is it written in the Books of Israelite Scripture that his real name is what should matter, though?

OT2024:
Jesus is the way. Other ways are not genuine.

What proof do you have that this genuine way applies to you?

Steep:
The problem of poverty is caused by poor choices by Nigerians. We promote self centeredness and make materialism as the goal and all these is tied to the problem of Sin.

Those are the very same values promoted by religion in Nigeria. Duh! 🙄🙄🙄

tosyne2much:
➜From the dept of my heart, I'm just tired of hearing this same thing for nearly 3 decade of my life. Jesus this, Jesus that yet the country continues to wallot in poverty

Jesus Christ of Israel(the bloodline) is not Jesus Christ of Nigeria that your pastors tell you of

AntiChristian:
The reason Jesus came to the world is the same reason other Prophets like Noah, Moses, Abraham, etc came into the world! To guide to the true worship of the one and only God without partners![/b]
➜Jesus wasn't sent to everyone! He didn't preach to everyone he met! Some he just healed.
➜ He told the Canaanite woman he was sent only to the lost sheep of Israel!
➜ So Jesus's world is only Israel not Nigeria or Africa!

Not entirely true!
➜ Noah was sent only to the people of his time to warn inform— his message didn't seem like a warning at all — them of the impending doom. After the eventual destruction that came upon them, there is no record of Noah ever broadcasting any Truths to any other people after him.
➜ Abraham's particular cause was to his very descendants, particularly ensuring the continuation of the bloodline that was his. There is no report of Abraham taking the Truth of God to the Egyptians or any of the other kings he entangled with.
➜ Moses, we all know, did not bother teaching the Truth to the Egyptians who adopted him as a baby. There is no evidence that he, Moses, taught the Truth of the God of His ancestors to his in-laws, with whom he eventually parted ways. Rather, his only mission was to the chosen bloodline from Abraham, the Israelites, his kin.

2. Now this is as it is written in that book!

3. Technically, Jesus Christ of Israel did not tell the Canaanite woman that. He responded to the question asked by his disciples in her hearing.

4. Indeed!

obembet:
bedbugs is one of the fews things I hate to see or smell in the House. And one bad thing about it is that once they enter your house e go dey there dey deliver like the hebrew women. How can you get ride of it Source: obembet

Get a bed bug spray for the whole house. Make sure to treat until the problem is completely over.

Fekumzi123:
➜Don't you have a wife or girlfriend? Sponsor her business and come back and give us testimony

I have gifted sponsored gifts to others actually, and every time I have done so, I have also made certain to keep my nose and mind out of their literal business too.

OP didn't say someone put a gun to his head to force him into sponsoring the gal, so it was his choice to do so. No reason to second-guess that choice, as if OP should do as I would instead. However, that choice does not then give him the right to meddle and run the girl's business down. That he sponsored her and is supposedly dating her DOES NOT give him the right to meddle in her business.

DestinedForGrea:
.... I understand that you're trying to be logical but your desperation to show it just makes you look unintelligent and antagonistic.
You keep depending on Internet research to get information, and as soon as you find as resource that supports your opinion, you hold on to it and make an absolute conclusion on the subject matter with that research. It's as if you don't have a mind of your own to really think on a matter.You're deceiving yourself, big time!

Nonsense and eegridient! 🙄🙄🙄

Go spend your time learning how to critically reason through issues, in order that you no longer attack issues you have little to no understanding of.

DOUBLEBARREL:
Ur ability to taint your judgement lens by being partial always showsyour inability to be a jury in heart matters. 6 months means there was a planning to snitch prior to arrival, that's betrayal.

Why does a mere question about whether investing in someone you are in a marriage with makes her your property scare you lot?

cr7lomo:
✓ U always find a way to blame the man thats the victim....after the sacrifice.... Will u say same if a woman spent 30m to bring her man to UK and they man then dumps her for another woman?? ....

The fact that you take my simple question as a sign of blame all but cements the fact that your brain farts are not worth digging through. The poster made an ambiguous statement suggesting his wife was meant to be indebted to be by reason of his 30 million --- I wonder how many people japa-ed with her for that amount -- investment. My immediate question was why suggest she had to stay for that. All the same, you take it as blame? That is obviously a you problem not mine.

By the way, I would react the same way if a woman were to suggest that paying her man's school fees somehow meant he was obligated to remain with her arse as though he were property. But I see, you are more interested in shifting your issues onto me in this case. So, I choose to waka pass!

Ifybwoy:
✓ who hurt you madam

Ever heard the saying, "All is fair in love and war,"? I am going to guess you never have hence the reason for your question.

pquaver:
✓ U r the one WHO already did that? And i posed the reply to u...the way women are going , the Future men won't get married neither wil the render Help..soceity IS evolving..make Una continue

Are you OK in the head at all? A man insinuates that because he invested 30 million in Japa plan, the woman is not supposed to be able to divorce him after that. What has that to do with women but with the man?

fxexperts:
Always reasoning absurdly. If you were the one, you won't find a way to recoup your losses. entitled entities.

Loses? We are talking of someone who he was married to. And 30 million to Japa? How many kids did she travel with? 7? How long were they married? We don't know anything except that the man's comment reads like she is supposed the be some property because he paid for the Japa trip.

pquaver:
✓ Why dont she spend it on her self and make herself her property? The way human reason nowadays, in the next 20 years nothing like help will exist.. If u die in ur problem nobody will care because humanity has show dey have no regards to sacrifices

We don't even have background information on the man and his marriage but you already have an idea of what took place? :

GoodSpirit:
✓ Use ur head sometimes, not every time you say nonsense, someone you are married to or dating one shouldn't spend on her ? Make una get sense. ...

That is exactly the problem here. He should be spending on someone he is dating or married to. That is common to all. However, the OP reads as though by spending on her, his expectation was that she becomes property to him.

cr7lomo:
✓ Hope u know your comment only proves alfa males right.... u are making it even worse for women

Prove them right in what way? I really don't know what you mean.

Stephen0mozzy:
➜...controversial submissions that don't require reasoning

Stop bothering me wth your nonsensical posts, o'jare!

stuffs2002:
➜Can you even pretend to understand people sometimes?

I vehemently refuse to understand eejits, no way! 🙄

Fekumzi123:
➜Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoe. Try and sponsor a woman business, and then you can comment. No be every topic you go chooke your mouth

Did OP walk a mile in his girlfriend's shoe before taking it on himself to assert he has a right to help run her business anyhow? Nonsense and eegridient!

Invoke commonsense when commenting, abeg!

Tightpussy2024:
➜Don't mind them.check how alot of canteen owners are crying.even the ones that their husbands aren't the ones that sponsored it!some men will visit their wives canteen everyday and eat like gluttons and will gather their friends there and tell them no need to pay . God help you if you dare frown

Na so! And when the business goes bust, dem go come here dey complain say the woman doesn't know how to run a business. Dem no go confess the part wey dem play in helping ruin the business.

Tightpussy2024:
➜Una don start again. Attention seeking crew.lets pretend the story is true.just because you gave her the money you must monitor and choke mouth? Why can't you stay out of her business? If I were her, immediately I realize the capital you gave,I will pay you off so that you don't control it .
My husband sponsored my wig and cosmetic store business.his niece came to visit .I gave her one ombre wig (blend quality)and some makeup .the stuff will not pass $70. And when she left he immediately transfered the money to me,I told him I dash her besides she helped babysit our son .But he insisted and sent me $100,insisting business is business.
This is how you people ruin women's business.especially food sellers.husband will gather his friends (you know men eat alot like gluttons) bring to canteen and he will tell the friends no need to pay.some men visit their wives canteen everyday. If the business flop na una go still complain that she is unproductive. This is if the story is true sha

I saw a lot of that nonsense growing up! And when the business eventually goes kaput, na the woman dem go talk say no know how to do business! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

saasala:
I opened a business for my wife worth over 10m and collected 30% from it. This is because I don't want to give her complete control of the business. She is a good woman who has proven herself over and over again. She has not done anything to warrant me doubting her but you never can tell
Made her sign an agreement regarding the sharing formula.
Whatever the business makes, I get 30% on it plus I get to make important decision on the business. We both own it even tho she owns the larger percentage and manages it.

What you describe is different from OP's case. Instead of being a partner in the business, he is busy giving discounts anyhow and dipping his hands into the business profits, all because he gave her the money to open a stall. Have we not all learned by now that that is how you destroy a business from the inside?

Stephen0mozzy:
➜The poster above. Na wah o.... You just enjoy the mentions that come from being controversial sha - especially controversial submissions that don't require reasoning. You do not think gratitude should be shown to someone who risked his own money to set up the biz?
➜ You didn't read where the op is actually helping her with sales? Where he has 90% of capital amd inflow? I hope no girl takes you serious in forming their reasoning.

You give someone something only to turn around and wan useless the thing for that person?

2. Helping her with sales by giving people discounts? Do you think businesses can easily give discounts at any time without checking to be sure they can even afford them first? Why him no open the business for himself and run am entirely on his own? Nonsense!

shibyc:
➜Guys, today I believe women are truly different creatures. I opened a small business for my babe – just something modest. She's now pulling in about 100k monthly, but ever since the money started flowing, her attitude has changed completely.
➜ Imagine, I sell her products sometimes and give old customers a small discount—like ₦100—and she starts fighting me. Argument upon argument. Then if I borrow small money from her during emergencies (just like ₦2k or ₦5k), wahala go burst. Even when she knows I have money and I'm definitely paying back, the way she reacts ehn… like I’m begging her.
➜ She forgets one thing: **The capital is mine. 90% of the customers are mine.** Everything she’s using today, I handed it to her on a platter.
Now I’m realizing that **if this business grows bigger, she might not even want me anymore. She could decide to go solo and live her own life.**
➜ So now I’m asking you all: **Is the best solution to avoid empowering a woman financially?** I was doing it with the mindset of being educated and forward-thinking—but now I dey reason am twice. What do you all think?

1. You opened a business for her, meaning you gave it to her, right? Why not remove your hand entirely from the gift which you claim you gave to her? Or are you instead a partner in the business, meaning you both own the business together?

2. Your action is wrong since the business DOES NOT belong to you. Even as a partner in the business, you do not dip your hands into business funds without approval from your partner.

3. Did she forget, or is she trying desperately to protect her business even from your entitled self?

4. Get away! When you give someone something, so long as you are not partnering with the person or sharing that something with that person, learn to remove your hand completely from it.

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

He spent the money on his own wife to make her his property? There is so much missing that I only wish the man does not actually think we are to draw a conclusion from just this.

22jumpstreet:
➜You still don't understand it. As much as you think you do...or your just in denial. Continue, probably when you grow up...you will learn more....till then,

It is impossible for me to understand what are clearly your brain farts. So, I suggest you do some real research and come back with evidence.

DestinedForGrea:
➜As far as I know, I've not seen anyone who became addicted to masturbation as a result of issues they were going through.
➜Rather, those issues came when they started masturbating. Do you think anyone who has successfully quit masturbation and gotten his life back would want to try to masturbate again at any point in his life?
➜ Not even once in a month, or a year would he want to try that shit. That's because he knows how it almost ruined his life.

1. The fact is that most people who are mentally ill are in denial of it. Talkless of a mentally ill individual who uses masturbation as an escape. There are, of course, various reasons why a person would become addicted to masturbation, but as you said yourself, not everyone who masturbates gets addicted. It is only those with extenuating circumstances who do.

If you are not aware yet, over 90% of men and over 70% of women in sane climes masturbate. However, not close to half of those get addicted. And of those who have at some point or another gotten addicted, over half of that number eventually overcome the addiction and move on to other things, or even other addictions. You need to stop wallowing in your private delusions and do some real research to understand fact from brain farts.

3. Stop lying! What you are implying is that when a person, for example, finally recovers from a food addiction problem, the person would never think to eat food again. Or that once an individual addicted to painkillers finally overcomes the addiction, that person would never again take painkillers in their life. Does that make sense to you?

Again, dump the brain farts and adopt researched/scientific facts instead!

DestinedForGrea:
➜If you asked someone who's addicted to pornography and masturbation which they would choose first between that, and food, to give them pleasure, they would choose the former.
➜ That tells you that masturbation can stimulate a greater release of dopamine as well as other neurotransmitters like endorphins and oxytocin. This is precisely why you risk addiction doing it the first time.
➜ The dopamine that comes with climaxing is too high that it overwhelms basic functions of the brain at the moment.
➜ That's why a person who just climaxed feels sleepy immediately. Is that what you're comparing food with?

This is meaningless!

2. That is not what that tells you. You need to go back and learn how to critically examine issues, since you don't seem to see the break between your first statement and this one.

3. Wrong! Please start using your brain! Think! Think!! Think!!! Based on this claim you make here, everyone who has ever masturbated and climaxed should be addicted to masturbation. But we all know this is far from reality.

4. Again, wrong! These claims do not hold as far as the reality of things and how the brain works is concerned. Stop spitting nonsense and learn the science of how your brain and addiction work, please.