₦airaland Forum

SUNNINO:
My wife looks more beautiful as she start giving birth. Their evil choice,fear some girls,Ogbanje at it peak and have given birth to to children in marine kingdom.

Get mental help immediately before it is too late.

fxexperts:
➜Your thought process is never right for a normal human being, so you really need to think deeply if you are truly okay.

Your idea of normal does not fit with my idea of normal. Simple!

Kingray10:
➜Yeah, but no let the man mother hear. Them go Waka both juju and church for that girl head

Nonsense! Na your mother life you dey live? What sort of ridiculous utterance is this? If you have a religiously brainwashed mother, that issue is one you need to tackle with her, not have it impact your choices in life. 🙄🙄🙄

chidiokay:
➜ thats like looking for a church in mecca ... a country like Nig. where family pressure is predominant, maybe men that know they have fertility issues sha.

Not true at all! Some Nigerian men have sworn off childbearing, some going as far as getting a vasectomy. And there are also Nigerian women whose minds are set on remaining child-free.

Kingray10:
➜We are African, not just Africans but Nigerians.

. They are equally Nigerians with some of them living in Africa with human rights, same as you, to live as they choose under the law of the land. There is absolutely nothing in Nigeria that requires you to produce children, whether as a man or a woman.

AntiChristian:
➜Being called Dog or sheep is not the issue!
➜ How about Masters to dogs as a connotation for Israel to Gentiles?
➜ This is a big wild discrimination!

1. So what is?

2. You are mistaken here since Gentiles — as used in Israelite Scripture — was used in reference to Israelites(of Jacobian bloodline) who no longer lived or had a home in their homeland.

3. If you instead meant non-Israelites, then you are wrong since Israelites are not Masters over non-Israelites. The connotation is invalid. The master's children aren't themselves masters— they are His Servants.

GboyegaD:
➜There's no need for deceit. Tell your boyfriend/fiance you don't want to have kids. There are men who are comfortable with such.

You are right, but some men would conveniently ignore the red flags, believing that marriage will change the woman's opinion on such issues.

abobote:
➜These days before you take any girl to the alter, you give her belle first, to be sure of the market you are buying.. The only thing men benefit from marriage is children, if she is not ready for that, then you can cancel the marriage

Give her belle, and when she eventually abandons you and the child after a while, you go come complain say na her fault, abi? Some of you are indeed destined never to learn from the mistakes of your ancestors and those around you. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

thesicilian:
➜Shape that will still go within a few years is what she's sacrificing her children for

. Thanks to science and medicine, individuals are able to keep their shape even until the end.

Kingray10:
➜Then what's she doing in marriage, when she is not ready to give birth. Besides tell her to also stop aging too so won't grow old.

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Exceed15:
Then she had no business getting married in first place.

Marriage has never been one-size-fits-all. There are child-free marriages out there, of which about 25% of those who enter into marriage agree to.

ruffhandu:
➜No skit, this is the 8th woman identified so far. It started with one man seeking solution to his childlessness. You may take your time and through.

Seeking a solution to his childlessness by engaging women who would rather remain childless? The problem is clearly arent the women but the man going around finding himself women who don't share the same desires he does. Why paint them as belonging to a coven when the issue here is the man?

AdolfHitlerxXx:
Lol. Most women will size you up and drop absurd conditions .. If you're unintelligent enough not to set boundaries early... you go really hear am

Boundaries for whom, though? You force a woman who doesn't want to get belle to get belle?

Talkisneeded:
➜Crazy place the world is currently,one said she only wants ivf because she doesn’t want a father figure for her children

And so? Why are you unable to handle her right to choice?

themanderon:
➜You and all these leftist satanic ideology of yours.

It isn't satanic that you think it is your place to decide for another what he/she can or cannot do with their own body, but it is satanic to call you out for being a control-obsessed? Anyways, na your kind dey know satan pass sef. That na una way, after all. 🙄🙄

Hajokexyz:
➜This is serious. Better to know your partner's stand before marriage.

No mind OP and his coven! They refuse to learn the particulars of their partners in order to spot and avoid the red flags and potential tears. Something tells me many of these womb-watchers coven members intentionally ignore the red flags, only so they can pretend themselves victims after reality hits.

Nelly4you:
➜Everybody with their own choice.. it's lame to judge people who decide what they want to do oth their lives.

You are talking here of those who have established themselves as womb-watchers coven... they decide what a woman can or cannot do with her very own womb. Fascinating, right?

alizma:
➜You forget her parents house? Send her back ASAP, over there her shape will remain same forever.

Like the man, she probably had a life outside of her parents' house before the marriage. She could simply go back to living that life and keeping her body... nothing wrong or unfascinating about that life.

sofeo:
➜Only a fish brain will trade body shape for the blessing of womb.

Blessing that has contributed so much in turning life and living in Nigeria into a world-renowned curse? You people just no dey fit learn at all. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

blackgold2018:
No man will allow that. Unless a stupid one. Then the lady is not yet ready to marry. Divorce her immediately

Stop lying! There are lots of even Nigerian men who would rather not have kids at all. And they do not forego marriage because of that. They simply seek out, date, and marry like-minded partners.

Creamypie:
➜When she don turn 45, whether she born or not, make she come dey maintain shape for who. A woman, no matter how she put herself in shape, dey begin loose alignment, ball joint, rings and pistons go weak, same as chain and sprockets and plugz go cold. Buttom plate for oil go begin lose nut

Lots of women are doing exactly that, keeping their shape and maintaining it well into their 60s/70s as well. A woman's body is not a baby manufacturing machine. Yes, it can be used to manufacture babies, but she is not obligated to do so with it. That is her bodily freedom with it.

Chetas81:
➜you're not solving this problem,you're creating more, break up is the best

There is no problem to be solved given that the woman's choice is exactly that... not to have babies even in marriage. If you, as an individual, would rather have babies, then you should seek out only those women who would like to have babies with you. Simple!

ruffhandu:
➜They are talked into it after marriage, not really before

A woman who looks forward to having children before marriage would suddenly change her mind about them after marriage because someone talks them into it? Come on naw!

themanderon:
➜They are preserving something that will soon be food for termites? Ain't that foolishness? This generation is so vain n empty. We seek after vanities that will eventually leave us whether we like it or not.

Preserving? It is merely about making choices like every human out there does, and nothing more. We will all die someday and become food for worms, but that does not imply we should all have children. Two different things entirely.

ruffhandu:
➜Nigerian married women have gone Haywire: This One Is Unheard Of
Caveat: You don't need to watch the video, I'll summarize and give you even more context.
This is the first time I will hear a Nigerian woman desisting from giving birth to a child in Nigeria because she wants to maintain her shape. In Nigeria of all places where childless women are called barren just after one year of marriage, where they face immense pressure from their family, the man's family, and the society at large. A society where they are shamed and looked upon as having lived filthy lives and, in most cases, nobody ever looks the husband's way, the woman is always the first to be blamed.
Now here, a cult disguised as a club where only married women are members. They are coached on how to prevent themselves from getting pregnant so they continue to look elegant and beautiful. Some, like the lady in this video, did not only rely on pregnancy-preventing pills, she did other forms of family planning just to be double sure she doesn't get pregnant.
The reason why I tag the club a coven is that these women are so wicked that they not only pretend to their husbands to be innocent , they most times initiate the moves to go with him in search of solution. The sucker in this act is that it elicits more trust from the husbands and and blinds them from even reasoning clearly. Imagine one of the women prays 3 hours every night for the fruit of the womb, the man was hooked

Are all Nigerian women expected to have babies or something? Why you come turn yourself into womb-monitoring police for these women, abeg?

Thazard:
✓ Because I now understand what it takes to wear his shoes.

You are now producing children you cannot fend for like your father just as the OP's father continues to? What possible reasonable excuse-- assuming you think these ideas you have are --- is there for such?

eROCK247:
✓ Marry and raise your own kids then come back here. You didn't state any reasonable facts up there. Your dad accused your mum of his debts? Why? You didn't state. All I see is a bitter adult blaming his father for all of life's woes.

He is poor and cannot feed himself but here you are suggesting he gets married and have kids who will be trapped in an even deeper level of poverty than what his father did to him. Isn't g that a clearly foolish and wicked suggestion coming from you? Why do you folks reason like pure zombies?

GoodSpirit:
✓ Women make uns go work ooo, its not a man's fault that you are not rich or wealthy, since yiu guys are alien to accountability why won't you be entitled and be blaming? No one owes you anything in life apart from giving you basic educating, not doing this id what will bring the government against you. Think like an adult and be responsible for once
An illiterate woman who may never have the opportunity to even go past her illiterate cycles is being taken off from the village by someone higher in status but for somehow its the man's fault because the woman is a minor or physically challenged to change her financial status isn't it? Okonjo get two heads abi? Ir is it okonjo's husband that sent her to school? Make una get sense for once

Do these women put guns to the heads of the men who marry them and make mothers of them? Did the village miss who OP's mother decided to bed place a gun to his head? A woman does not impregnate herself. The man actively seeks her out to produce babies with her . Blame the men too.

AntiChristian:
@✓ You skipped the word "dog" in all your write-up!

I don't follow?

By this point, you still haven't explained your particular problem with being compared with a dog. Is it better to be considered sheep than a dog?

Commentor:
✓He has no excuse now.

Excuse for what exactly?

Thazard:
✓ I remember I went through that stage. Now I'm giving excuses for his every mistakes.

Why excuses?

AntiChristian:
✓ Where did you even see Jesus preaching to the Canaanite woman? You are just answering a different question here!
The woman asked Jesus for healing o!
The disciples talk say make he chase her away!

I am wide awake at this point in my day.🤔

Anyways, the woman initially asked for mercy that was the son of David...and it was this that caused Jesus Christ of Israel to initially ignore her given that YHWH's mercy via the son of David belonged only to the Lost Sheep of Israel. It was after this was revealed that the woman then revealed that what she sought was instead the crumbs that fell from the master's table as his children ate of His mercy for them.

shinealight:
✓ I also do not care about whatever conclusions you have been misled to arrive at.
Your belief will lead you to wherever it must inevitably lead you….either Heaven or Hell.
That would have been the choice you made with wide open eyes and a supposedly functional brain between your ears!

My conclusion is based on explicit statements made by both involved entities declaring that their one and only concern is the bloodline of Jacob.