₦airaland Forum

gift2xl:
She went on calibacy for a year plus, she want to return as a virgin! but waiting done open don open, She's going through " e be like virgin pain"

Celestialsword:
➜ Marriages are spoons before they metamophos into fork. As time goes on, you begin to know more about the person you got married to, There are many sheeps in wolf clothings in marriages. A sheep and a wolf cannot live peacefully under the same roof,as you rightly said one have to give way,and that's the sheep

Psoul:
➜Oga, let me still tell you once again that you don't know what you are talking about. Love based solely on logic without emotion is only possible in theory.
➜ Love solely on logic is just like choosing to love because you share same values, goals, or resources with such a person. It can also be that kind of love you have for someone because it is just right to love or because loving that person is beneficial to you. Or you feel morally obligated to do that. That is love based solely on principle rather than affection. In any love where affection, desire, warmth, joy are missing, such relationship will better be described as Partnership, Companionship or Friendship with benefits
➜ Without emotional depth, I will boldly tell you that it is not fully love, but perhaps loyalty, or responsibility.
➜ Emotional elements help love grow, deepen, and endure.
➜ Then, in a family where you have your children and children, please tell me how you can practice love based solely on logic without some elements of emotion? That home will look too serious and official. I can not thrive in such a rigid environment. It will look like a kind of Boss-Surbodinate official relationship.
➜ So among your children, there must be the one you feel more attached to. There must be that one that tends to show you more empathy
There must be the one that his/her presence lightens everywhere and bring lots of joy. My brother, in such environment, it will be impossible to love all of them equally. It will also be impossible to practice your so called "logical love."

DenreleDave:
Nairalanders, a friend of mine is complaining about pain after sex... She has been on celibacy for a year plus and she recently started having sex.....
1. She feel pains in the Lower abdomen
2. Recently feeling pain in the VG
Please what could be the cause of this pain and how can it be helped?

Afikoo:
✓ I once heard this in a Chinese movie. Please can you remind me the name of the movie ?

DenreleDave:
➜What do u suggest pls?

after4:
➜Sometimes shut up so that people go think sey you get sense

➜over 70% of those abroad would not have travelled if Nigeria was half as good as where they relocated to

FitCorper:
➜Bro make we pray make God bless our hustles so we won’t create thread on things that are normal to spend. Like one lady said somewhere, the man provides whilst the woman submits. Hallelujah.

thesicilian:
You're the paying partner while I'm the spending partner. - the mentality of most Nigerian ladies

Naturalgbola:
what was he doing with toy gun?

Naturalgbola:
If its not real, what's a pastor doing with toy gun 🔫??

TyroneP:
I took about four oranges at lunch time. Immediately I finished the second one out of the four oranges, I discovered I haven't encountered any seed. In my quest to understand why, I ate the other two and I found no single seed. It's surprising to me because I'm experiencing this for the first time.

Content creator who films exotic cars in Lagos captures the moment pastor Adefarasin allegedly flashed him a gvn for filming his car. pic.twitter.com/DFYlTY4i1N

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) June 6, 2025

yawadeyonline:
See video yourself is actually trending

Psoul:
➜You don't know what you're talking about. So long as we are human. There's no way you can love two persons equally. Take it or leave it.
➜ It may look to you as if you love them equally, at one point in life, you'll notice that there's one you have greater affinity for them the other. Sometimes, there may not even be any reason you can figure out why this special love. Other times, it may be cos of that child's better behaviors.
➜ My point is that human beings lack the power to love multiple people the same way.

Celestialsword:
➜let me put it better to your understanding.
➜If you're solitary, you don't mingle and socialize with people or doing things alone you would think you are Free from mistakes That in itself is a mistake.
➜ No mortal on earth is above mistakes and there's nothing like small mistakes.
➜ Some mistakes you think are small will end up haunting you in future

DenreleDave:
Dear nairalanders, Trust we are all good? How is the country doing us? Please I want to start buying and selling business with no capital. I mean I want to get pictures of items from wholesalers and advertise them through my social media handles.. Please how can I get these wholesalers to start with? Your suggestions, recommendations will be greatly appreciated

Celestialsword:
think deep

Nadingo:
➜https://x.com/StatiSense/status/1930718516874993680?t=XufrMZ2NquuUrgm9A6Stng&s=19[/quote]What about the percentage of men who had intercourse with a partner who was not their wife?

Apologize:
My question is was this vision from a divine source?

12 “I happened to hear a message. My ears caught a whisper of it.
13 Like a bad dream[a] in the night, it ruined my sleep.
14 It frightened me, and I trembled down to my bones.
15 A spirit passed by my face. The hair on my body stood up!
16 The spirit stood still, but I could not see what it was. A shape stood before my eyes, and there was silence. Then I heard a quiet voice:
17 ‘A person cannot be more right than God. People cannot be more pure than their Maker.
18 Look, God cannot even trust his heavenly servants. He sees faults even in his angels.
19 So surely people are worse! They live in houses of clay built on dust. They can be crushed as easily as a moth!
20 From dawn to sunset, people are destroyed. They die—gone forever—and no one even notices.
21 The ropes of their tent are pulled up, and they die before gaining wisdom.’ - Job 4 vs 12 - 13

Taiwojon:
✓ You are the one saying mumu talk here ooooo

Remymaa:
➜Hello,My marriage is ending and i am devasted. I got married at a very young age and we have two amazing children. I always say marriage is my biggest achievement but that is falling apart and i dont know how i will be able to live on.
My husband is muslim and im not. In the begging this has never been an issue. We had a great marriage. My husband started getting more religious which caused some conflict for example he wont watch certain movies or listen to music. I love romatic movies and rnb songs. He also complains about dressing etc but i think we always managed to find a balance somewhat.
🚩 He expects sex nearly everyday if we dont then he gets angry and says rude things.
🚩 He wants constant attention even when we sit down together 5 hours he will still say i dont give him attention.
🚩 I dont have many friends in our town so rarely go out. My family is in another town so i call my mum and family. When im on the phone too long he gets angry and says i dont give him attention, im a bad wife ,and its better we are not together
🚩 We have some good times but once every like 2 weeks he gets very angry over something very little and says really rude things that are hurtful like i am not a good wife.
🚩 Yesterday i woke up at 6am and i had a text from a friend who was worrying about something and i responded. He got angry saying how can i wife text at 6am- making it seem like im cheating when im not which i found degrading. He has my phone password . And he always checks it. I am 100% loyal.
➜i said to him i will respond to my friend who needs help at any time. He said well then we shouldnt be married if you dont listen to your husband and accused me of being disrespectful When he gets angry he threatens me with divorce. This time i had enough and i printed divorce papers and completed them. I never thought i would get divorced. I am so sad and devasted.
i love my husband but he has changed so much. i feel like he is always disapointed in me. Nothing i do is good enough and puts me down. I feel like my husband now wants a different kind of wife not me and hence he is always disapointed in every little thind
My family is my whole word. But i guess thats not enough. Not sure how i will move on

NothingDoMe:
Your laws do not supercede the constitution of Nigeria. Na jungle justice naim una dey do so. Somebody go soon enter prison.

Chilipepper:
Wetin woman no go see for marriage? 😩 Man allegedly steals the N2m his wife hustled for their sick child, uses it to gamble and lodge side chick.

Preciousgirl:
✓ Is there a spiritual version of sleep paralysis?
If it is the work of foul spirits, what is their objective in the course of the paralysis? Why do victims struggle to speak? Why is of often Jesus the victims try to call?
Thanks

Danisaint112:
✓ Sad how some people have comprehension issue. I know what you are. I shouldn't have wasted my time educating you on this issue.

descarado:
✓ That's harsh and extreme.

Taiwojon:
✓ So your mom is a deeper life member Yet you have hatred for God and it people. Wow! What an upbringing. What happen to you bro?

remember:
➜Not possible to love all your children equally due to many factors:
1. Personality differences: Unique personalities and temperaments can create varying bonds.
2. Behavior and character: A child's behavior and character can influence parental affection.
3. Appearance: Physical resemblance to loved ones or personal preferences might affect parental bonding.
4. Intelligence: A child's intellectual abilities or achievements might draw more parental attention.
5. Law of attraction (gender affinity): Parents might naturally bond more with children of the opposite sex. Opposite sex attraction each other, the father will like the daughters more than sons while the mother will like the sons more than the daughters
6. Mood or situation at birth: Circumstances surrounding a child's birth can impact parental feelings.
7. Individual needs and circumstances: Different needs, health issues, or challenges might require more attention.
8. Growth and development: Children might receive more attention during specific growth phases or milestones.
9. Shared experiences and interests: Parents might bond more with children who share similar passions or experiences.
10. Parental biases and expectations: Unconscious biases or expectations can influence parental relationships.