₦airaland Forum

oridavid:
➜ On Which Day Will He Die? Adam was in the presence of God (in the garden) when he received the command and when he disobeyed it. After his disobedience, Adam was cast out of the garden—away from the presence of God. Since Adam no longer experienced the "day of the Lord," he could not have died on a day he could not partake in.
➜Therefore, the "day" in the presence of God must return to earth for Adam to die on that day. This refers to the day when Christ will return in the power of God, and Adam will be subjected to death for introducing sin into the world.
➜ Conclusion: The "death" is the second death, which all sinners must undergo, while the "day" which Adam will die is the day of the Lord.

This pronouncement of yours is unreasonable at best. 😏

Let's consider this issue from the angle of reality in today's world. Imagine Adam, while living on the Pacific Coast—California— in the United States, entered into a contract agreement that stipulated that penalties for breaking the agreement would kick in 24 hours after the fact. If Adam moves to Nigeria right after breaking the agreement, would the penalty be imposed following Nigerian time? Or would it be imposed on Adam 24 hours from the time he violated the deal back California? I think the answer is obvious, right?

The terms and conditions of the commandment(along with associated penalties) were established while Adam was in the presence of God, where a day amounted to a thousand years. Adam was living at the time in the presence of the Lord— a day is a 1000 days. So, your assertion that having moved to a new time zone, the original timezone where the agreement was entered into no longer mattered as far as the punishment that awaited Adam is a lot nonsensical. 😏😏

2. Nonsense!

3. Nonsense!

Maysdevices:
➜After making her quit, he will later get resentful he has to fully cater for all her needs when the businesses fail because he wants 24hr attention, start calling her lazy down the line and fall for another career woman outside who lures him with gifts
It’s the Nigerian man script. Imagine wanting to strip a person of her job to send her to school and start a business for her like she is his kid because he wants more time for sex
A job she had before she met him. Demonic entity 😃

His comments seem geared towards stripping the woman of intelligence and maturity like she is a doll for him to turn as he wills, in this case, according to the whims of his dick. It is very sad!

Preciousgirl:
➜What happens to a man after he dies From a biblical and spiritual perspective?

From dust you -- your body and mind -- were made, and to dust -- your body and mind -- will return. This applies to all non-Israelites. 🤔

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DrFunmisticGlow:
women already sacrifice a lot in marriage. Both parties sacrifice.

It seems the understanding with the religious is that the woman has to be the one making most all of the sacrificing. OP's dick has to be served and the wife has to be willing to sacrifice her career dreams for it's sake. 😁

onuku:
✓Can you just for once give reasonable advice? Some of the advice you give are disjointed. Some folks bringing their issues here need healing, and not all these bashings from you. Be positive and get a good life.

Positivity gives a good life? This from someone who has a problem having a decent conversation with his wife? 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

I prefer being practical in all things ... You know treating others the same way I would like for them to treat me... Seeing them as my equals, etc. I understand these ideas are completely foreign to the lot of you but I still have to let you know that it is possible to live in peace with others without needing to force them into situations they are uncomfortable with, the only language you all seem the know. 😁

joseph1832:
sanity

Nonsense!

Reading through the OP and several other comments, you would almost think these individuals were talking of some Stewpid child they were raising or accommodating for selfish benefits. A woman worked really hard to build her career then chose to get married afterwards but here is the man she married essentially stating she would need to abandon all of her hard work for the sake of his dick. 🤔

oridavid:
Did they say Satan is one of those people in the book of Job? I think the context of what we see in the book of Job is that the morning stars gathered and Satan (not necessarily a morning Star) joined them.

There is no reference in that entire book indicating that Satan is some morning star. Instead, the term bright morning star is used about the person of Jesus Christ in the book of Revelation.

Allthingswork:
➜Well...there goes the comment I was hoping not to see a lady here make, but I was kind of also wanting to see it just to see if my thoughts were right about human diversity. Hehe. Only a non-christian (I'm not merely talking about religious affiliation on paper in this sense ) will make and subscribe to such a comment. Adultery is a no-no. Body should not be defiled, jareh.
Samantha don't fall your hands, o. 🙆🤭 Doesn't matter if the husbands abroad are doing it, let them drink of the cup of God's wrath alone. Why bring curses to oneself? 🏃🏃

Yet we are well aware that you Christians are notorious for saying with your mouths a whole load of things you do not adhere to in your actions and deeds. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

legacystore:
➜And red meat with alot of cholesterol is the only source of protein you know? Please go back to school

. Everything in excess is bad for you. For instance, drinking water in excess is bad. That is, however, not a good reason to then conclude that drinking water every day is bad. It is the same with red meat. Eating healthy portions of red meat every day is not bad.

Mictonpub:
➜I know that most kids of this generation are heavily influenced by what they see and watch online. Sadly, society isn't helping either.
➜The more you shout at them, the more you instill fear—not change.
➜That fear doesn’t correct their behavior; instead, it drives them to misbehave behind your back.
➜ The best approach is love.

It isn't just this generation, as the same applied to us even when we were teenagers as well.

2. Also, shouting isn't necessarily wrong. Even children throw tantrums, cry, and shout when they are frustrated. It is not meant as a way of changing others but as a way of releasing pent-up frustrations. We all do it. And yes, it could make others around us anxious, particularly kids. But this can be easily resolved through simply apologizing for one's outbursts and ensuring to teach them of better ways to release that frustration as one learns.

3. Children who would choose to misbehave behind their parents' backs do so whether they are screamed at or not. Saying fear is the reason why they choose to misbehave behind their parents' backs is ridiculous.

4. Love does not vanquish frustration or outbursts. Again, we are all made of emotions.

Mictonpub:
➜Sure. But most parents I have interviewed think it is not possible.

With absolutely no shouting? I doubt that, since we are humans after all, and we are, all of us, made of emotions. But, through careful and persistent sharpening of one's negotiating skills while learning the individual personalities of one's kids, I am certain it is possible to greatly reduce the shouting and nagging.

PuZZyNegro:
➜You’re the one that's not okay bro. If his father is expected to make it despite not coming from a privileged background,
➜ the poster should make it too by correcting his father's mistake.

You are not making any sense!

His father was well aware of the impossibilities before him before getting married. He was well aware of the impossibility of his situation before having children by his first woman and then the second woman. He knew it was not going to work, yet he decided to not only have an unemployed woman as his wife(the second as well), but also have loads of children, all while aware he did not have the resources to cater to them. Who do we blame for the foolishness of all of this? No one or the man whose decisions they all were?

2. Correct his father's mistake, why? Why should he bear responsibility for his father's mistakes?

AngelahFlo:
➜Brother now I see where you got it all mixed up. True Jesus Christ actually said He was sent to the lost sheep of Israel but remember his discourse with the disciples in John 14.
➜ He said He will send another Comforter to theM for the singular purpose of guiding them into all truth.
➜ So you saying that Jesus Cheist wasn't sent to Nigerians because they ain't the lost sheep of Israel is a lie.
➜ So as not banter argumenst back and forth. What denomination are you. I'm Pentecostal and a member of House on the Rock Church. What of you which denomination are you?

I don't follow! Are you insinuating that when Jesus Christ of Israel said He was sent to His Father only to the Lost Sheep of Israel — the bloodline of Jacob— that statement was made in error and was later changed by Jesus Christ or something?

2. Why does His having to send another comforter to them to guide them into all truth amount to the first statement being no longer valid? I don't get it. Who was the first comforter that was sent to them?

3. Jesus Christ of Israel Himself made that claim that He was sent by His Father only to the Lost sheep of Israel, and since He also indicated that He only did that which His Father willed, implying that His only people were those chosen by His Father for Him to go to. So, how could the same man have been sent only to the Lost Sheep of Israel and the same to people who aren't of that bloodline — Non-Israelites?

4. Recall, that I made clear to you earlier that I am areligious;I despise the traditions and doctrines of men. I am not a Christian, and I don't belong to any religion.

AngelahFlo:
➜Jesus only pointed the way to God. He wasn't in error when he condemned religion which as you say, are the doctrines of men. He wasn't in error neither did he lie. I'm not saying that He lied I'm just saying He came to point the way to Father who we must worship. And the only way to the Father is through Him.
➜ We're saying the same thing only that your explanation is somehow fuzzy compared to mine. So Brother I'm not disputing your argument I'm only clarifying your angle by presenting it in a more clearer form.
➜ Jesus Christ of Israel is the way, the truth and the Life and it's only through Him that we can get to God not through the doctrines of men which wad why He condemned it right from the time He was on earth as a man

Again, Jesus Christ of Israel condemned doctrines and traditions of men, describing them as abominations against the works of His Father. Saying that He only pointed the way to God is an attempt to undermine the meaning of His declaration there.

2. Stop lying! You and I are not saying the same thing. You are not clarifying but attempting to reshuffle my words in an attempt to make it seem your religious delusions remain justified when they are nothing but abominations to the Jesus Christ of Israel, whom you earlier claimed belief in.

3. Jesus Christ of Israel also made it abundantly clear that He was sent by His Father only to the Lost sheep of Israel — the bloodline of the man called Jacob. Saying He is the way, the truth and Life to Nigerians — non-Israelites — is also a lie.

omooba969:
➜Referring to Nigerian churches is immaterial, as this kind of issue is commonplace in some homes.

Indeed.

AngelahFlo:
➜No brother[b] it's your interpretation that is wrong[/b]. Jesus Christ came to introduce us to a lifestyle not a religion. Not what is ascribed to the doctrines of men. It why He said He is the way to the Father. The Truth about the Father and the Life of the Father. It might not make sense to you by my explanation but its what it is. Thats why followers of Jesus Christ (who is not just Jesus Christ of Israel but Jesus Christ of all nations who recognize Him as the Supreme Lord of Lords and The King of Kings) are called Christians

. I offered you no interpretation, so explain where you get this false idea that I did from?

Again, Jesus Christ of Israel is noted to have condemned the doctrines and traditions of men—in other words, religion—proclaiming that those who follow such follow abominations. Are you insinuating that Jesus Christ of Israel lied or was in error in making that claim of His?

kppo:
➜According to the bible that tells us that heaven is where angels are.

You are not making any sense, though

The verse you quoted simply says Jesus Christ of Israel saw Satan as lightning fall from Heaven.
⚉ It does not say that Satan was/is an angel,
⚉ nor does it say that angels alone can come from Heaven.

And the statement could also have been a figure of speech for something else. We know technically lightning does fall from heaven. So, comparing Satan's fall as being similar to — simile — lightning falling from Heaven is not far from a possible reasoning of what Jesus Christ said.

Also, Jesus Christ of Israel came from Heaven, yet He is not described as an angel. So, again, where does this conclusion of yours come from?

xareal:
After serving you in spirit and in truth you nor give me virgin marry as reward na ashawo.. Nor be so ooo

Why in the world do you all consider virgins as some sort of reward? Just imagine for a second, how one person, himself a virgin, desires above all to be rewarded with the virgin private parts of another human being? That whole mindfuckery that plagues your religious libidos is sick!

kppo:
➜Luke 10:18 KJV And he said unto them, I beheld Satan as lightning fall from heaven.
The above verse talks about Satan falling from heaven where he was an angel.

This conclusion of yours is according to?

Smilleydr:
➜okay!!! We don hear your father story, it's your turn now, we already know you were born poor, so my brother you don't need to die poor, the ball s in your court now let see how you are goin to play it.

Are you telling him that, being born in generational poverty without opportunities, he can magically save himself from poverty? Reality is that, no matter how hard they struggle and push themselves, 10s of millions of Nigerians... probably over 120 million of them, will live their lives stuck in poverty until death. So, please don't address people who are poor so lightly. No amount of motivational speeches will change this.

G0odharddick:
➜First sign of a uselezss and entitled kid is refusing to accept responsibilities and blaming others for his failures in life.
➜ Your dad has lived his life, perhaps he missed it and didnt get it right...now it's your turn to get it right. Dude, sit Ur azzz up and start hustling. It's now or never otherwise Ur kid will say the same thing about you

Rubbish! He is actually on the right path by acknowledging the failures of his parents before him, rather than internalizing or ignoring them.

2. OP's life is also a result of the choices made by his dad and his mother. Over 130 million Nigerians today find themselves stuck in abject poverty because of bad decisions made by their fathers and mothers before them. Ignoring this fact is not going to solve the problem.

MrHandsome2013:
➜You see why I blame him, he knew he was from a poor background, he still went to marry from a poor background. He knew he was from a polygamous family, he still went to marry from a polygamous family. He knew he was from a family where dey hate each other , he still went to marry from such family. That seed of hatred still exists among our siblings. Baba this man is evil and worst than Lucifer

Don't forget to include your mother and your father's other baby mamas in all of this. They have their share of the blame.

PuZZyNegro:
➜Did his father leave any wealth for him as you expect him to leave for you? If he was born in a poor background and you are also born in the same poor background, then do what you expected him to do so your children will not be born in a poor background too.
➜ You're blaming your father alone, what happened to your mother? She's also an adult with complete body, so she's capable of working and giving you the good life.
➜Sometimes people don't think. I'm sure you're an adult already so get up and create the life you desire and stop blaming your father.

That makes no sense! Are you insinuating that if one's father did not leave any wealth behind for his own children, he therefore cannot be expected to do otherwise? Are you OK at all?

2. Definitely, the women who reward these bad fathers with children they are aware will not live a life better than theirs are equally to blame.

3. He can still live his life while ensuring he places blame where it belongs, which is with his father and mother failed at being better parents and providers.

Lighterx:
➜Oga no need to hate your father. U sef go born U sef take responsibility. Nobody is perfect, you didn't know the problems he had as at then. He did what he did with the limited knowledge he has then.

If you don't draw the line on that which is completely unacceptable, is it that you intend to see a repeat of the very same in your own life?

MrHandsome2013:
➜A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s. He Worked 12 years being single before getting married. That 12 years he worked was useless. He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife. No house of his own, no property, No car , nothing. What did he do with those 12 years. Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities. This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working. He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
➜Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married. Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement. Some men don’t deserve to married. My dad is an evil man seriously speaking, He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school. He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering. Is this not pure witch crafts

This story is sad but very common. But I believe in fairness, so let's not stay silent on the part played by women who reward such men with children who will, in turn, live a life of suffering for their terrible decisions, i.e, your mother and now this illiterate village girl.

The notion of Satan and demons as fallen angels was fabricated by those in the religious circles— the doctrines and traditions of men; they are responsible for propagation that myth for hundreds of years.

OLAADEGBU:
Pastor Kumuyi Challenges Pentecostal Pastors on speaking in tongues

Wetin this one dey talk? Power is courage and strength? Where is this nonsense recorded, abeg? He actually thinks his version of gobbledegook is better than the Pentecostal version? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

RealityKings1:
➜Quick question, where do we come from?

From dust — your body and mind — were made and to dust — your body and mind will return when you die.

Righteousness2:
➜A young man without Understanding. Sorry unto you

Get away!! The old man there refuses to die because he is enjoying the earth too much. How is he any different from the young man? Fraudsters! 🙄🙄🙄🙄