₦airaland Forum

GindoX:
➜If no be wetin people go talk all because say I refuse to marry enn I would have preferred not getting married. No be all of us get strength for marriage, some people would have live longer and more productive with positive effects on people around it they have remain single

Nonsense! Don't blame others for your lack of a spine! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

bigiyaro:
Faithful women trying to leave an abusive relationship.

Exactly! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

simplesearch:
➜When two people profess Jesus as their Savior but refuse his Lordship over them. It is not enough to accept Jesus as your savior wether single or married, without also accepting him as Lord.

Storyland! Even all of your lying gods of men are guilty of doing exactly that.... the ones who cooked up the image of Jesus Christ that you all worship don't even keep to their own words. They reject everything about the real Jesus Christ of Israel.

BreakingNews21:
Hmmm, she would come home and remove her underwear, the smell"
" raised by a bitter single mother"
Strong stuff in this write up!

A man who boasts of sniffing his wife's underwear after she arrives home, is the one you perceive to be in his right senses... a deeper life pastor at that? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

danhans:
➜That is just it especially this deeper life ladies

And rightly so because they are made to believe that marriage would make their lives more meaningful and fulfilled than all they had ever experienced before it all. The average deeper life woman believes marriage is her crowning glory as a woman. When this crown and glory are nowhere to be found after getting married and reality sets in, they rightly feel scammed.

EmmyMaestro:
So who is lying and who is saying the truth

. Does it matter, as both were clearly unhappy and miserable in the marriage?

richmond500:
I understand u didn't read the whole story cos it's long. The summary is that She is a manipulator though the husband has his faults too

. I don't give a sheet about your take on the story, though, so I don't understand why you feel the need to seek out my attention with it.

autoez:
➜It’s not that marriage or family becomes irrelevant; it’s that they are no longer the default measure of fulfillment. True purpose brings clarity about whether those paths align with your calling or not

. People who discover their true self and purpose no longer need these external measures of fulfillment you refer to. They no longer worry or care about what others think and the rest. They instead focus on living life on their own terms and in their own way.

lavylilly:
➜Summary PerspectiveThis is not simply a “he said, she said” situation. It is a tragic entanglement of personal trauma, alleged abuse, health breakdowns, and systemic failure (including possible neglect by religious authorities). The truth may lie somewhere between the extremes or skew heavily toward one side, but only a full legal, psychological, and medical investigation could determine that definitively.
At its core, this is a cautionary tale about the risks of unresolved trauma, the importance of psychological compatibility in marriage, and the societal failure to support victims of abuse—or protect the falsely accused—until public collapse makes intervention unavoidable.

Nonsense! Your pastors and gods of men no dey get similar problems for marriage put? Or do you think those of you who live hiding your shame behind closed doors, are somehow better than this couple whose shame has been made public? Shame no be shame again? Spin doctors at it again! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

tiswell:
If as a man,you eventually marry wrongly,you are finished patapata

There is no such thing as marrying wrongly as your choice of a partner in marriage shines a clear light on your inner maturity — or lack —and decision-making abilities at the time of your making those choices.

autoez:
Once you discover your true self and purpose in life, marriage will be so easy to manage.

If you discover your true self and purpose, marriage and breeding lose relevance.

anungangampu:
➜Na so, the wife of my bros change completely in our front. Even small issues, the family will escalate it. We didn't know all along they believe Nigeria Court will award them some properties the man acquired after they married traditionally. She was busy gathering evidence o.
It got to a point that it involved Police. They separated and they took the case to welfare.
Dem ask the girl, how much your oga dey send you, she said 40k. Dem ask her 40k no do you ? Wetin Child go need Wey pass 40k. Na so she started listing all the comfort the child was enjoying before, such as fuel everyday oif light no dey. All the TV and stuff they use to enjoy.
Dem tell am say, Nigeria welfare no be for mama. Na for child only. Eee clear her eyes. Na person wey dey receive 6k everyday plus other money on daily basis. Just pocket money. Na there I became proud of Nigeria.

You should instead be crying against the Nigerian system that insists a child should require no more than $25.17 a month for upkeep and maybe even feeding! That is an example of the worst system in the entire world. 😓😓😓😓

maxiuc:
➜I will create a topic on this and I want straightforward answers
My cousin bro got married to a woman that secret lured him into Court marriage and this is a girl that brought absolutely nothing it was my bro that trained her in university and ever since the court wedding this lady has been misbehaving and I got a clue from a closer friend of hers about her reasons for the court marriage and my cousin brother is very naive and stubborn type sometimes I used to tell him that no be to get money you get sense that's what he refuses to understand and he act to be on top the situation not knowing that the situation is on top him ,now the lady is kind of doing anything she wants to do kwatakwata if Dem divorce she will get a share from my cousin brother properties, she contributed absolutely nothing to the wealth of this my brother. now what does the Nigerian laws says about this should Incase divorce comes can she lay claim of any of my Brothers properties that she never contributed into and all this properties has been there before she came in as wife...

Stop going around telling this utterly ridiculous nonsense tale of yours. It is indicative of the level of ignorance you are packing there. Tell your cousin brother to log on to Nairaland and speak to the lawyer himself, abeg! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Negroid001:
➜Hmmmmn. One of my egbon adugbo had issues with his temperamental wife and she left and abandoned 2 kids with him. She came back the following month seeking a divorce, my smart bro only wedded her traditionally. He has custody of the kids now and enjoys the single life with many side chicks. The woman dey suffer like this. She go bite finger wey dey feed her.

Children abandoned by both mother and father... terrible situation! 🙄🙄🙄

maxiuc:
➜My cousin bro got married to a woman that secret lured him into Court marriage and this is a girl that brought absolutely nothing it was my bro that trained her in university and ever since the court wedding this lady has been misbehaving and I got a clue from a closer friend of hers about her reasons for the court marriage and my cousin brother is very naive and stubborn type sometimes I used to tell him that no be to get money you get sense that's what he refuses to understand and he act to be on top the situation not knowing that the situation is on top him , now the lady is kind of doing anything she wants to do kwatakwata if Dem divorce she will get a share from my cousin brother properties, she contributed absolutely nothing to the wealth of this my brother. now what does the Nigerian laws says about this should Incase divorce comes can she lay claim of any of my Brothers properties that she never contributed into and all this properties has been there before she came in as wife...

Stop going around telling ridiculous tales that make no sense!

Go call your cousin brother instead, make him come tell us wetin happened instead. See nonsense storytelling!

AngelahFlo:
➜Have you read your Bible very well at all Brother or you chose to see and support that which agrees with your line of thoughts?
➜According to John 3. Reading the entire chapter which is about a discourse between Jesus and Nicodemus on the subject of being born again. What do you understand of that discourse.
➜You cling to this idea that Jesus Christ is sent to the lost sheep of Israel alone and everyone has to be of that bloodline to be really born again otherwise whatever doctrine and "state of mind" fallacy they cling to is a delusion. Lemme know your take on that discourse in the 3rd chapter of the book of John

1. That is what you religious spin doctors used to be notorious for. Only these days, you have gone beyond picking & choosing, as there are only so many spins that can be obtained by that method. 😂😂😂😂

2. Yeah, well, the conversation between Jesus Christ and Nicodemus is recorded in John 3 vs 1 - 21 and in those verses, we learn that in order to be born-again, one has to have a qualified life from one's mother's womb, what Jesus Christ referred to as the Physical life, in addition to the new life which is Spiritual - John 3 vs 5 - 8. Then in John 3 vs 14 - 18, Jesus Christ explains that He would be raised in the same way that Moses raised the Bronze snake to the bloodline of Israel in the desert in Numbers 27. (The bronze snake was raised for the salvation of those of Israel — the bloodline of Jacob —condemned by YHWH— He sent the snakes against them — to die in the desert.)

In the Last Days, those condemned to die among the people of Israel were condemned by YHWH to die because of their rejection of His Law of Moses— the curses of Deuteronomy 28 - 30 rained down on all Israel—, and Jesus Christ was raised by YHWH as salvation for those of Israel who would look upon Him and be saved from death.

3. Yawn! 🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

AngelahFlo:
➜ I don't know what you want me to see or agree with. That portion of Scripture is about a forthcoming judgment where Jesus will reward everyone according to their works on earth. The sheep's will receive their eternal reward and the goats, their eternal Damnation. This applies to all nations. There's a forthcoming Judgment. The book of Revelation shed more light on this event.
➜ Of particular interest to me thougH is this fixation on Jesus being sent to the lost sheep of Israel. True that was his earthly assignment when He was on earth but after He died and was taken up to God in the presence of his disciples, He commissioned them to spread the Gospel to every nations even to the uttermost parts of the earth.
➜ So Jesus Christ of Israel as you call Him also recognize those who ain't of His direct bloodline. The sooner you understand this, you'll not view the concept of being born again as a state of mind and mental delusions. I await more of your arguments.

This here serves as proof that it is almost impossible for those of you who cling to the doctrines and traditions of men — religion — to be expected to speak things as they are.🙄🙄🙄🙄

31 “The Son of Man will come again with divine greatness, and all his angels will come with him. He will sit as king on his great and glorious throne.
32 All the people of the world will be gathered before him. Then he will separate everyone into two groups. It will be like a shepherd separating his sheep from his goats.
33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.
34 “Then the king will say to the godly people on his right, ‘Come, my Father has great blessings for you. The kingdom he promised is now yours. It has been prepared for you since the world was made.
35 It is yours because when I was hungry, you gave me food to eat. When I was thirsty, you gave me something to drink. When I had no place to stay, you welcomed me into your home.
36 When I was without clothes, you gave me something to wear. When I was sick, you cared for me. When I was in prison, you came to visit me.’
37 “Then the godly people will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and give you food? When did we see you thirsty and give you something to drink?
38 When did we see you with no place to stay and welcome you into our home? When did we see you without clothes and give you something to wear?
39 When did we see you sick or in prison and care for you?’
40 “Then the king will answer, ‘The truth is, anything you did for any of my people here, you also did for me.’
[b]41 “Then the king will say to the evil people on his left, ‘Get away from me. God has already decided that you will be punished. Go into the fire that burns forever—the fire that was prepared for the devil and his angels. \
42 You must go away because when I was hungry, you gave me nothing to eat. When I was thirsty, you gave me nothing to drink.
43 When I had no place to stay, you did not welcome me into your home. When I was without clothes, you gave me nothing to wear. When I was sick and in prison, you did not care for me.’
44 “Then those people will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty? When did we see you without a place to stay? Or when did we see you without clothes or sick or in prison? When did we see any of this and not help you?’
45 “The king will answer, ‘The truth is, anything you refused to do for any of my people here, you refused to do for me.’
46 “Then these evil people will go away to be punished forever. But the godly people will go and enjoy eternal life.” - Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46

In Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46, we are presented with a narration of what is to happen during the time of the harvest, including the end. Those who belong to the Son of Man are referred to as His angels—sheep—while those who belong to the devil, as you can see above, are also referred to as the devil's angels—goats; they are all eternal beings, meaning they are born-again. The difference between the two groups is in the work or lack of work reported.

2. Again, you religious folks are nothing but spin doctors. Jesus Christ of Israel, while on earth, definitively stated that His Word is EVERLASTING(never changing)... that should be more than enough for any sane individual to put to rest this nonsense about him having some earthly mission that differed from a non-earthly mission. But unfortunately, religion has to continue to spin its way into relevance into the minds of those who are yet gullible, abi? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

2. Your particular issue is not with me but with the very words of Jesus Christ of Israel Himself, which clearly portray Him as a Messiah to the Israelites alone. This is in alignment with the fact that the request made by David for a King, born of His bloodline, was for the sake of His people— Israelites—, a King to sit on the throne of Israel forever, not the thrones of other nations. This is the covenant that YHWH made with David.

So, for you to suggest that, against the covenant YHWH made with David, and against YHWH who sent Him only to the bloodline of Jacob, that Jesus Christ of Israel, not only decided of His own to gather even non-Israelites to Himself, this after giving His followers the the following commands in His Gospel:
⚉ Do not give that which is Holy — the Gospel — to the dogs, aka the Non-Israelites, insinuating they are not qualified to have the Gospel - Matthew 7
⚉ You must go to the people of Israel - Matthew 10

... it means you think of Jesus Christ of Israel as a point to be manipulated/twisted as you will.

oridavid:
➜We're saying the same thing, however, you and I understand presence of the Lord differently.
➜Presence of the Lord is the Day of rest, the day that has never happened on earth.
➜It's in that Day that Adam will die.
➜ And we know that Jesus will bring that Day on earth in the end. Consequently, Adam will die in the end.

How can you and I be saying the same thing when nothing of what we posted is the same? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

There is no such thing as understanding the Lord differently. Have you not figured out that your many interpretations are nothing but spins, aka lies, when put against the details actually recorded in the book you pretend to quote from?

2. Huh? The book claims that a day in the presence of YHWH is as a thousand years, so are you insinuating that a thousand years has never happened on earth?

3. Adam is recorded to have died before he clocked a thousand Earth years.

4. Nonsense! If Adam already died before he clocked 1000 years of age, why in the world would he need to be raised to die again for Pete's sake? These una stories dey ALWAYS defy the stories written in that book. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

@AngelFlo, I am still waiting for your response to the question I had asked earlier.

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Read Matthew 25 vs 31-46 and tell us what the differences are between those whom Jesus Christ of Israel — the King in the Kingdom of God — stated would receive Eternal Reward and those who would receive Eternal Damnation?

AngelahFlo:
➜Doesn't this lost sheep of Israel also include other nations too?
➜ Are you trying to tell me there's no hopen for a Muslim man who gave his life to Christ and takes part in the end time harvest?
➜ Are you saying that because Nigerians ain't of the lost sheep of Israel, every born again Nigerian won't partake of the eternal reward?
I don't know which of us is confusing who.
➜ I've gone through your presentation again and again. One thing I find confusing is what I just stated above. Anyways you ain't a Christian so I belive you won't understand the true concept of being born again

1. According to Jesus Christ of Israel, He was sent ONLY to the Lost sheep of Israel — the bloodline of Jacob.

2. Gave his life to Christ by way of your imaginary religion of Christianity? Clearly, you seem to have difficulty with staying focused. 😏

Jesus Christ of Israel condemned the doctrines and traditions of men — religion — as an abomination against His own Father, YHWH. This means that anyone who holds onto any religion or traditional ideas of men, even if he were born from his mother's womb of the bloodline of Jacob Himself, could not have any part of Him. So, what makes you think that a non-Israelite, disqualified by not being born of the right bloodline, can have a place in this same Jesus Christ of Israel by adopting that which Jesus Christ of Israel revealed had nothing to do with Him?

3. Again, Jesus Christ of Israel established in so many words that only those born from their mother's womb of the blood of Jacob qualify to become born-again. If you are not of the correct bloodline, you cannot even become born-again. What you Christians consider born-again in your religion has absolutely nothing to do with Jesus Christ of Israel.

4. On the contrary, I understood what you Christians refer to as being born-again, a mental assent(complete with excuses and copouts) of sorts born of a mental delusion which you lot subscribe to. It is a state of mind and nothing more than that, sort of like mental illness/delusions. And I have seen the way your born-again delusions work, too. However, all that has absolutely nothing to compare with born-again as described by Jesus Christ of Israel in connection with His Kingdom and His Father.

GoddessErica:
UK-based Nigerian man, Supreme Eteng has warned newly arrived ladies from Nigeria to be wary of Nigerian men in the United Kingdom as most of them are only out for 'free knacks’
The Nothingham Trent University graduate from Cross River State, who gave the advice in a Facebook post, said these ‘s3x-starved’ Nigerian men appear kind and nice but they are wolves seeking to prey on the innocence and naivety of newcomers.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

AngelahFlo:
➜In reference to your first point that the end time began 2000 years ago when God gathered the lost sheep of Israel. So are we still in the end times or not?
➜If you said it began 2000 years ago is it still ongoing or it has passed cos if you tell me it has passed then you're wrong cos we are still in the end times as the lost sheep of Israel are not fully at peace yet not with the ongoing unrest in Palestine

1. Always read to comprehend! Again, the time of the harvest which pertains to the bloodline of Israel — End of time — began about 2000 years ago for the bloodline of Jacob, and will end at the time when the second event, the rewarding of the works done by the workers — Eternal Reward or Eternal Damnation — is given out - Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46.

2. Yawn! 🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱🥱

The harvest, the gathering back of the lost sheep of Israel, continues until all of the harvest is gathered. Jesus Christ of Israel relayed this information by way of a parable in Matthew 13 vs 24-43

AngelahFlo:
➜If the Gospel be hid . It is hidden to those who are lost. To those who the God of this worled has blinded their minds lest the light of the Gospel should shine on them.
➜ Wish I could explain better to you but as you're not just a Christian but someone who doesn't follow the doctrines of men.
➜ Where you got your idea that the Children of the devil are Angelic beings beats me.
➜ My Brother your source of information is so delusional that if I wasn't grounded in God's word and the Bible. I would be easily deceived. Wow!!! Very Interesting!!!

1. Stop rambling! The Gospel isn't hidden at all. It was intended to be told to the Lost sheep of Israel— the bloodline of Jacob — to convince them that they should adopt it and become children of YHWH. It is hidden to those who are blind— the ignorant and the arrogant, including, of course, those who are not even of the bloodline. They are those who adopt the doctrines and traditions of men— religion — in attempts to avoid interfacing directly with the facts of the Gospel by way of the numerous interpretations — Christianity alone boasts of over 46,000 such interpretations.

2. I already explained to you that the religion of Christianity is part of the blindness —ignorance born of arrogance — that Jesus Christ of Israel condemned as an abomination against His Father's truth. Why would any sane individual want any part of that brain damage?

3. Read Matthew 25 vs 31-46 and tell us what the differences are between those whom Jesus Christ of Israel described as receiving Eternal Reward and those who would receive Eternal Damnation?

4. The deluded one here isn't me, but you constantly needing to shove religious gobbledegook at me when I made it abundantly clear from earlier that your religion is an atrocity to me.

AngelahFlo:
Remember I asked you which denomination you belong to and you shied from the answer.
1. The so called end time which you alluded to have taken place in the time when Israel was punished by God 2000 years ago isn't what you think it is. I know you won't believe me as its shown from your argument so I won't pursue it further.
2. The account of some people being alive when Jesus comes again in His Glory is very true as some people will not die but will be changed and caught up to meet Jesus and the other believers in the air.
3. According to the Bible passage you based your argument on about the second event. Is not about God REWARDING HIS ANGELS for their works because Salvation and the end time harvest is about Humans doing the work of spreading the Gospel and God commissioning His Angels to work with humans in bringing in the harvest and doing away with those who disdain the Gospel by casting them into the fire.
➜ We are in the Last days already. And the second event is what's happening currently with the propagation of the Gospel in every nation like never before. You're just being deluded into thinking that the End time has already come. If so what day and time are we in Now. Didn't the Bible in Matthew 25 talk about the end time signs? Where you got your 2000 years ago judgement on Israel as the End time beats me cos it doesn't correlate or coraborate what Jesus told His disciples to watch out for as signs of His coming.

1. This conclusion of yours is wrong! The Gospels instead record that the end of time—time of the Harvest, i.e., the gathering back to God of the lost sheep of Israel — began about 2000 years ago. You would know this if you actually opened your own eyes when reading through the books.

2. Nonsense! Stop spewing religious nonsense, please!

3. Try to open your eyes when reading the book next time. Jesus Christ of Israel Himself specified that those who belong to Him are referred to as children of God, aka Angels, whereas those who are not of Him are children of the devil - John 8 vs 31 - 49. In Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46, the children of the devil are referred to as Satan's angels. All those who are born-again are transformed into Eternal beings - John 3 vs 1 - 8 -, and become angels either of God or of the devil. That is what is recorded in the books.

4. Again, the Last days of YHWH's judgment against the Israelites according to His Law of Moses happened almost 2000 years ago. The End of Time — Time of the Harvest — began immediately after that. And the second event described will, according to Jesus Christ of Israel, take place at the end of the harvest. So, the children of Israel are currently in the End of Time, and once all the harvest has been brought in, the second event will take place.

abbey621:
➜You're simply selfish and one sided! You think a woman's entire existence is to satisfy you and raise children? Did you even consider that her fixation on work is to escape the children and the stress that comes with it? Did you ever consider that your sexual appetite is way beyond what she can keep up it?
Your idea of business is a good one but can you also give her monthly allowance and hire a maid/nanny? Remember a woman that's stressed and unhappy can never ever priotize freaky freaky over the things stressing her!
If you want to win this battle, you have to see things from her point of view, it's the only way to tackle the root cause rather than the symptoms!

A good one in the same Nigeria that we all know of today, abi na for some fantastical place somewhere?
Also, his woman is having to work herself like a horse for the sake of her career— maybe she is expecting promotion of some sort —a career she worked hard on before she met him. Why does she need to let it go for the sake of his dick?

MaziObinnaokija:
dnt be tired/RETIRED nor let her quit her job.Some biz are struggling/some are making it. Be sweet,E GO BETTER

How many are making it compared to the number that have gone bust in the last 5 months of this year alone? Imagine suggesting business as a replacement for what seems to be a stable job in the current economy?

YemyTemmy:
➜Getting urself a side chic isn't cheating...Abi u wan cheat nature Abi u wan make prostrate Kee you....if you kpai, ur wife and kids will move on fast.... Ur case is similar to a neighbour who is a pastor, he was sex starved, he no dey nack, he just died of prostrate cancer

. Abstinence or lack of sex causes prostate cancer? It is 2025, yet this useless myth is still being used to deceive the gullible into throwing it all away for the sake of sex. WOW!

DeipTruth:
you're a foolish man, w home breaker. Omo. The number of failures I see in this comment ehh advising this man. All I see I pure self-centredness. No woman ever ever wants to work herself to death. That man clearly doesn't earn enough for the home. This man still doesn't understand why the wife needs financial security from him. He has definitely said things that threatened her security and she's not going to play with it. Y'all are wicked for your foolish advise. Let him go ahead and destroy his home. You know God walks in mysterious ways. Na better and richer husband go marry the wife.

Interesting detail to all of this.

Deepspirituals:
Ask your Confusion and Usual Unfounded Controversies ...

Look who's talking! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

dkidd:
➜What is sad is the short sightedness of most of U supposed ladies which is appalling cos it's just a reflection of the sort of ladies we have in society. It's always about U. The only thing y'all can pick out from the man's complaints and frustration is his dick? Shallow and empty and I'm not even surprised

But that is his major concern after all. He is not worried about his kids or his wife's health and safety but his dick! Look at the numerous comments instructing him to either get a side-chick or a second wife, all in order that his dick may receive regular servicing. So, why are pretending it is all not about his dick here? 🙄🙄🙄🙄