₦airaland Forum

Abbeytoy:
➜Feel free to be a hoe and no one will beat you for it, but don't discourage or try to recruit people into your wayward life.

I am not here to discourage or encourage anything in their decisions as far as what is their body and life after all. I am here to ensure we at all stick to the facts as far as our claims and do not mislead people with lies like you and many of the others who operate under your same delusion continue to. 🙄🙄

Whether a virgin or a hoe, the fact on the ground is that relationship failures, infidelity, and all other walls that life has to throw happen to them all equally.

GiftofGod77:
➜Its not true @ kobojunkie...come on now... you know it's not true. While we are religious but some of us are spiritual and religious. It's why we are in this for life and eternity. The Wisdom, philosophy and logic God gives even through His Son Jesus Christ can never be contested and like i said earlier it gives light, life and direction. Check it out ...

Nonsense! Stop spewing meaningless religious gobbledegook abeg!

Even Jesus Christ of Israel claims He does not know you nor does His Father, YHWH, God of Israel. They both said their only inheritance in the land of men is the descendants of Jacob — the blood descendants of the man that YHWH Himself gave the name Israel to. So, stop spewing trash abeg!

GiftofGod77:
➜Christianity is not chauvinistic at all. It seems like that because of wrong perception.
➜But believe me it's not if not I would not be engaged actively and stake my life and family in it. It shows us the True nature of where we come from, where we are and where we are going. It guides and shows us our true Source and Way we all need to follow. All other paths are not like this one.

The evidence speaks greatly for itself. Christianity is a chauvinistic religion much like Judaism and Islam.

2. I don't believe you!

GiftofGod77:
➜ Well its not useless at all because there are many who rely on it and it works perfectly well.
➜Why i mentioned that my neighbour's experience is because it highlight's the will and choice we have to make in life which we will be held accountable by the One who made us one day.
➜ It is a mind thing true but the mind has to make a choice based on the kind of information it has. Even the Buddhist's too fall despite their celibacy because it is a human weakness to want to fall into sexual sin.
➜ However there is enough power to overcome in the Grace provided by God. It has happened to me several years ago. I agree with you that the young man who would hurt himself to curtail his body was engaging in sadistic sadomachism albeit unknowingly but the Grace is still there. It works for those who believe in it and obey it.

It's not useless but it has not been of any use to Christians from their beginning. Since the day I was born, to this very day, I cannot point out a single Christian for whom this grace thing has worked. Absolutely no difference exists between those who claim to be Christians and those who worship other gods and idols. So, how can a thing that works perfectly well be at the same time nowhere to be found among those who claim it works for them?

2. We are talking of A but you already flew off to B? Why? 🙄🙄🙄

3. The mind does not need so much information to decide on self-discipline. And no, Buddhists do not fall as much as much as Christians do. The term hypocrisy is used more in connection with Christians than Buddhists, and there is real reason for this. 🙄🙄🙄

4. Again, with this useles grace thing that you Christians have yet to show to be a real thing. Christianity is wrought with people who fail to meet up to the standards preached by tyheir very own religion on a daily basis. Your pastors, popes, prophets, gods of men, etc. fall every single day yet you lot continue to claim that some thing you call grace is what keeps you from failing the very standard set for you all by your gods of men. If your gods of men themselves have not been helped by this grace thing, how will this grace thing help you lot? When

Hellisreal70:
➜If you are not a virgin does not negates the fact that virginity until marriage is the best health wise, religiously, also for marital bliss. Anyone that wants the alarm bell of .... to flare up should just mention 'female virginity until marriage '

See diversionary tactic abeg! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

NSK4U:
➜Trust me, God's ways are not like man's...... celebrating virginity is not a reason to attract God's blessings......God gives His blessings to whom He's pleased with

Which God? A god obsessed with the vagina of the female portion of his creation? 🙄🙄🙄

Come on! We all know the gods here are merely men and their perverse obsession with the female vagina. Let's start being honest. From the beginning of time, no God or deity has ever been seen striking or killing a woman for not being a virgin. Instead, it has been men, most of them equally obsessed with that hole, who have placed themselves as judges and executioners over women particularly those of them who do not submit their legs to them. That is what this religious/traditional obsession with a woman's hole is all about.

Jonathan:
➜ Or deh , asking senseless question. It's a simple question ho ponu. How will you like to walk your daughters down the aisle? As a virgin or as a whoré that has been passed around by multiple guys in the name of relationships and having experience. How is that difficult to understand or answer. Except for wasted ho loriburukus

No be monitor you go monitor her vagina to conclude in the end whether you walked her down the aisle as a virgin or not? What is senseless in asking you of that since your particular pride is in asserting yourself as a monitor over your daughter's vagina and its use or lack thereof?

Hellisreal70:
➜I don't support sexual immorality for both boys and girls. I support virginity until marriage.
What iam saying is that the result is physically glaring for the girls and also damaging to their private parts at the same time. But in case of the boys even a female prostitute can hardly detect

This talk about religion/tradition for you lot begins and ends with your perverse delusions regarding the female and her vagina, isn't it? 🙄🙄

EndBuhariNow:
na me tear your toto ?

That there is the beginning and end as far as your religion.🙄🙄🙄🙄

Abbeytoy:
✓ I got married as a Virgin to a virgin about 20 years ago and that was the standard I believe is normal.
✓ But let me ask you, are you hoe? Why do you feel attacked when I mention Virgin?

As far as I can remember, Virginity was not even a standard anymore even in the 1980s Nigeria. So, where in the world is this standard you quote of value? In your mind?

From where I sit, it does not matter whether a one married as a virgin or a hoe since infidelity and life's suffering happens to all of them the same. So, these petty preferences mean absolutely nothing at the end of the day. That is what life teaches us all. Of course, those of you who choose denial out of fear either dig yourselves deeper or you finally accept reality as it presents itself eventually.😁

GiftofGod77:
➜hahaha the Grace does not fail it's only us who refuse it and decide to fall for the temptations. ➜No man on their own can use self discipline.
➜ There is one of my neighbors who told us while we were chatting that anytime his konji rises he will carry candle or lighter and burn it! So I asked him if has he stopped sinning completely and become a saint. he could not answer me.
➜So we still need the grace always boss...

What you are saying is that so long as you can choose to fall for temptation then the grace is useless, doesn't that then mean that mentioning this grace thing altogether is of no meaning?

2. Millions of Buddhists use basic self-discipline to keep themselves from temptation of the same kind but you reject this because you need it to instead seem no man can use it?

3. This story of yours no enter at all. The man lacked self-discipline and resorted to what seemed more like a masochistic approach there. Buddhists and others with self-discipline do not need to go to such extreme measures since they understand that the problem comes from the mind and not the body/literal flesh.

4. Your grace thing cannot help you if you are not willing to choose temptation yet a majority of you cannot claim to have been helped by this grace — you all claim to be sinners aka those who fall often to temptation. So, what is the essence of this grace you claim again? 😂😂😂😂😂

irumole1975:
➜I saw a post where a man offed himself because an American mandated him to start paying $15,000 every month to his wife who want to leave him. And Nigerian men were crying about how this is evil. I mean I’m suprised to see Nigerians crying and complaining here about sainier clime. Same sainier clime with a perfect system. Same sainier clime where people don’t die because God isn’t capable of killing peopje three once they japa there. Same sainier clime where their women are better than Nigerian women and men should endeavour to marry them instead. Same clime where things are cheap and no one pays rent?

Why complaining? I think Nigerians are just ingrate. Dying in the sainier clime and losing all ur money is worth it. At least you didn’t lose it in Nigeria.

Turns out the amount was closer to $1900 per month and not $15,000.🙄

Bodydiialect57:
➜True. I was once working with a machine when it ran over my thumb giving me a deep cut and blood gushing out. A girl working close by exclaimed that the thumb can never be the same again. I answered her that she lied as she will see the thumb healed and restored. Two weeks down the thumb was restored as if nothing happened.
➜The way God wired our body, positioning every part to function so well even in cases of accidents and emergencies is truly an amazing miracle.

The opinion of a fellow machinist became the basis for your belief?

2. Rewired your body, how? So, you did not get a doctor or anyone to tend to the wound, and you did nothing to the supposed deep cut but it repaired itself in two weeks?

GboyegaD:
➜Now, it is clear why he lost his license and the likely reason he took his life.

He lost his license because he was going through a divorce? Wetin concern AMA and state board with marriage abeg?

hosemujica:
➜Not at all really. But from a personal perspective, I will not marry into this family after going through her father’s facebook page . Not happening. But I guess it’s his decision and it ended well for him.

Never heard of the saying, "Different strokes for different folks?" 🙄

The family did not pull the trigger to off him; this man did it to himself according to the story. Let's not take this where it should not even go.😩

hosemujica:
Does it mean that the Dr. with all his smartness did not investigate this family before diving in?

Investigate the family to what end? Na the family decide say him go pay $1900 every month for his own child?

APOPTOSIS:
➜Exactly. Meaning he's no longer in pains or conscious of events around him. But those left behind will suffer it, no matter what. It will never be the same again. They lost an indispensable character

Abegi! Allow the woman make she move on make she find herself another man —abi na ATM una go tag them — o'jare! ... this man chose to kill himself. 🙄

APOPTOSIS:
➜He has entered the state of permanent sleep. He is sleeping as we chat....and that's the fact we know. Every other thing remains postulation 4now until proven.

Sleeping or decaying aka becoming food for worms?🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

janeedema:
➜ Don’t mind their analyisis. People forming that they are wiser than the Person who created sex and prescribed that it should be in marriage. Most of the issues we have in relationahips today stem from disobeying God’s instruction to abstain before marriage.
➜A couple who knows nothing about sex have nothing to worry about 2 minutes man or sexual compatibility.
➜They accept themselves the way they are and learn the process. The way some people prioritise sex these days is just appalling. Ladies in the olden days married as virgins and God helps you if the bed sheet you consummate your marriage on doesn't come out with blood stains This way, ladies stayed chaste and marriages were fine. No issue of sexual compatibility or 1-mimute man. Today with all the advocacy of sexual compatibility and testing the product before marriage, more marriages are in disarray. We can't be wiser than the manufacturer.

Where do you get your own statistics from? From the mouths of your scammers-in-the-lords, many of whose marriages represent the very picture of failed marriages?

2. Wait a second! Is this a ploy to disregard the fact that the majority of those who decide to wait until marriage to have sex do so believing that somehow marriage will resolve all of their sexual frustrations, built up over the years? And the vast majority of them, it seems, end up disappointed in the end. As it turns out infidelity also occurs among those who remained chaste until after marriage.

3. Stop lying! Infidelity also occurs in many such marriages. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

heavenhills:
➜ Help! Are you speaking in tongue?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

cococandy:
➜Crazy isn’t it?
I don’t make cardiologist money but I’d gladly pay $4000 a month for two kids because that’s what is needed for the other parent to even begin to break even. The parent who’s keeping the kids is often at a financial loss. Can’t believe he did this for $2k. What a shame

Very sad and disturbing story.

cococandy:
Don’t be surprised she’ll get married next year

Abi oo!

GloriousGbola:
➜the man did not lose any license . i googled him and his wife. this is the latest from the Dad . i had said before that everything about this story is documented. in the end it is the reputation of the guy that will be smeared in the mud
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/2/he-klled-himself-to-avoid-paying-1900-francis-van-lare-alleges-his-daughters-partner-who-took-his-life-was-a-dead-beat-dad-denies-report-of-15k-per-month-child-support.html

$1900 not 15k because he has a special needs son. he was asked to pay child support , not alimony because the daughter is self sufficient. he had restraining orders

He did that for just $1900 a month for his kids? He killed himself for just $1900 a month child support?

EndBuhariNow:
According to bible marriage should be for young virtuous virgin maiden... Now even olosho dey give conditions for marriage

Stop lying! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

papyjaypaul:
➜You clearly don't understand traditional rites and culture so don't worry with my sickness.

Of course I expected you to raise the chauvinistic standard of your religion(tradition) as justification for this nonsense. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It is only when it is in your particular interest that you lot can be expected to reason outside of the box that is that delusion.

MrIcredible:
➜ Teaching that to your sisters and daughters. How would you like to walk your daughters down the aisle? As a virgin or a Whørēs?

So you will monitor her vagina to be sure you walk her down the aisle a virgin abi?

Hellisreal70:
➜Premarital sex is the only cause of marital sexual Incompatibility.
➜If both of you you are virgin, the private parts will not be too short/long, too wide/deep, too fat/tiny, etc. That is why a girl needs to be a virgin until marriage because the evidence will be glaring

For real? This claim of yours directly defines reality much the same as every other claim made by you religious folks seems to.

2. WOW... this is a very simple-minded statement that announces your ignorance. Religion/tradition has really done a lot of damage to your mind. Immediately get help!

Hellisreal70:
➜Nothing like sexual Incompatibility if both of you are virgin, both of you are learners.
That is why a girl should remain a virgin until marriage,
➜if not she should go and look for the person that disvirgined her to marry.(Detronomy 22: 28-29)

So, a girl should remain a virgin but the boy should not?

Does the boy also go look for the person that dis-virgined him to marry her too? or does this nonsense only apply as far as a girl?

Agunesinjaweola:
➜It baffled goodness why Adam and Eve choose not to wait for proper marriage before sex 🤔

What in the world is proper marriage? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Bibleteacher:
➜That is why Bible has to be preached normally 🤣 .

Normally? You mean the same normal that has created over 45,0000 different doctrines(denominations) all of them pretending to be according to what is written in the same book which they each directly contradict? 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣

papyjaypaul:
➜A girl with home training should not ask you for anything until you marry her. This was how it was in the past, if she came from a good home, they will tell her to return any gifts he gave her. He also came to her house, under supervision, she no de carry her leg go another man house. Men want to eat their cake and have it, then complain about expenses.
Only a hungry girl without father figure will bill you before marriage. It is an insult to her father to ask another man outside to take care of her needs without the dad's consent.

A girl with home training should not ask for anything but a boy can require that the girl take care of him—cook, clean and even wash his underwear — before the man can then decide whether she is worth it or not. 🤣🤣😂🤣🤣

Many of you folks —religious and traditional folks combined —are just sick in the head! 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂

Snowx:
➜I can never support sex before marriage..despite being involved..it's breeds infidelity after marriage especially those that had it with many partners

So, in your mind, those who marry as virgins don't equally cheat after marriage? 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣