₦airaland Forum

WondaBeauty:
➜I know night shifts are a must in the hospital or medical department but they are rotated. No one doctor or nurse is always on night shift permanently except something is wrong somewhere which no one knows yet.

That isn't true. There are also people hired specifically to work the night shifts.

eyesoflagos:
Husband Calls Out Nursing Council for Overworking His Wife with Night Shifts, Sparks Debate Online
A Nigerian man has taken to TikTok to vent his frustration at the Nursing and Midwifery Council of Nigeria (NMCN) for assigning constant night duties to his wife, a nurse. According to him, their marriage is suffering because he rarely gets to enjoy her company anymore. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
In a heartfelt video, he appealed to the council to stop giving married women night shifts, explaining how it disrupts their family life.
“I’m calling out the NMCN to please stop putting married women on night duties,” he began passionately. “I don’t enjoy my wife anymore, especially when she’s on night duty. I sleep alone, and I’m missing her. When she comes home around 9 or 10 a.m., all she wants to do is sleep!”
His wife, appearing in the background of the video, laughed and tried to dismiss his claims, saying they had just spent quality time together that day. But the husband insisted this was a rare occurrence.
“Only today! Other days, I don’t have access to you,” he added. “When she wakes up around 2 or 3 p.m., she cooks and starts preparing for another night shift. Is that even a life?” He went on to propose that night shifts should only be assigned to single nurses, a suggestion that sparked a wave of heated reactions online. Social Media Reactions

I blame women who marry this set of ridiculous individuals! 🤐🤐

dwyn17:
➜Who is **Lucifer**? Is he the **fallen angel, the deceiver, the prince of darkness**—or something more? In this **eye-opening Bible study**, we uncover the **true identity of Satan** according to **scripture**. From his origins as a **beautiful cherub in heaven** to his **fall from grace**, we explore key **Bible verses**, including **Isaiah 14:12, Ezekiel 28:14, and Revelation 12:9**, to reveal the **shocking truth** about Lucifer.
➜Did Lucifer rebel against God? How did he become **Satan, the adversary**? What are his **tactics in spiritual warfare** today? Learn about his **role in the Garden of Eden, the temptation of Jesus, and his influence in the world**. Understanding Satan’s **deception, lies, and schemes** is crucial for **spiritual growth and discernment**

Nonsense! This is 2025, and you still continue to hold on to these ridiculous stories that have no true basis in even the Scripture you pretend to quote from? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Ignorance is not bliss! Look at Nigeria today and how Nigerians have become nothing but slaves for hire to the rest of the world. Stop choosing ignorance.

Jokerman:
➜Are you for Jesus Christ or for something else?

You, who outrightly reject the words of Jesus Christ of Israel, how can you possibly claim to be for him when clearly you are for something else. 😏

lekanolas:
➜Ajuri Ngelale has to be feeling lucky — he now has a household of seven! The former Spokesperson to President Bola Tinubu and his wife Ijeoma have welcomed their fifth child, a son, he announced on Saturday. The child according to him was born on his (Ngelale) mother’s birthday following a most mercurial journey to health. The new baby joins big brothers Ajuri II, Elijah, Malachi and big sister Zoelle.

Of course, after all the loot he stole himself while helping his former masters steal Nigerians blind with his sharp lying tongue, why won't he welcome as many kids as he wants to? Let's hope the kids do not turn out as useless to Nigerians and their people as their father was when it mattered. Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

thesolutions:
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Why did you delete your question? Are you afraid to admit to yourself that the religious idea of faith, though popular, resolves to nothing at the end of the day since it seems to apply as far as every human being, even animals?

Reverseng:
I need help to commit suicide. It's too painful to do so, and since I was brought up in a christian background, I need help from the christian community.Help me kill myself
alas! If you kill me, that would be considered murder!
So I'd love to warn you before hand, You'd become a murderer by killing me. But you'd be helping me, so it would make you a good Samaritan.
You'd be a good killer, so you'll go to heaven
Jesus voluntarily came to die for the sins of the world, but suicide was too painful so he needed help from the christian community to be gruesomely whipped and nailed to the cross
The christian community was Soo kind to flog and murdered the son of God. They even made him a crown of thorns to feel like a King.
Who wouldn't want to be part of such a community who help people commit suicide and change the narrative after that such a person "came to die for the sins of the world"
(If he came to die for the sins of the world, would he need help to commit suicide? Or does God have to become a murderer of his own beloved son to save the world)
Welcome to the christian community. A place where you find loving suicide helpers.
Now you don't have to feel guilty anytime you sin. The blood of an innocent murdered man is there to wipe your sins away.
Author's comment:
This message is not for everyone. Pigs will prefer mud to pearls. It's for the cat to decide which milk is sweet, not the cat owner
But for those who get the message, use it as a lens to look back on what the lack of accountability has led the world to. What it has led your world to, most importantly.
Seek to be response-able and make amends for your wrong doings. You reap and you sow. If you do not want to reap, do not sow.
It's a two way universe of cause and effect. Not a one way of cause alone
But then again, Jesus didn't defend himself from getting killed, so that means he came to die for the sins of the world, right?
A girl wears revealing clothing means she deserved to be raped, right?
#100k enters your account by mistake on the part of the sender, that means it's your money to spend, right?

At least spend some of this time you have to waste on actually improving your English writing skills. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

karo93:
↪I do no deny the fact that Christianity has pagan roots as we all know that it was endorsed my emperor Constantine through and by which pagan aspects where added to the religion but none of these pagan roots changes the main stands of Christianity so any christian can dump any doctrine seen as pagan without dropping the religion or being persecuted.

A religion set up by the very dogs — non-Israelites— Jesus Christ of Israel warned that could not partake in that which belonged only to the lost sheep of Israel—Israelites— has its roots in paganism as described by Jesus Christ Himself.

BlessedGift:
United Nations has rallied $910 million for humanitarian aid in Borno, Adamawa and Yobe states.

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Fiscus105:
➜I guess you are a stranger on this forum, if not, this forum is enough for you to know who WE really are in Naija.
That's more reason , you should have little clique of friends, the more of friends, the more you endanger your life to heartless people gathered together to form a nation.

😣😣😣😣

advanceDNA:
➜...so u are trying to claim you are sharing wisdom.... Lol

I didn't make up the rules here. The law I met here and it will likely remain here even after you and I are dead and gone. We are born into society and as such are expected to order our thoughts according to the common sense laws that society is established upon and not on just our whims towards self and others.

A person who disregards the law is usually considered to be foolish— lacking in wisdom. And we see daily how society treats people such as those.

budaatum:
➜Would you understand if I claimed his sense is common? Its so common it could easily have been picked off the street.

In every society, the one thing that is common to all is the Law— well, ought to be. So, when I insist on commonsense, I at least mean that which is in complete compliance with common law —fundamental human rights of every human being on the planet included, of course.

So, as for the comments by the other poster, we clearly see that he thinks he is in his right to argue against the right of another, clearly anti-common-sense there.

budaatum:
↪Extra careful, in my opinion, requires brain use and intelligence, I'd think.

I kinda assume it ought to be common sense like making sure to invest only when you are sure of returns and whatnot.

SenecaTheYonger:
When I started hearing from Nigerian men that men are allowed to cheat in relationship, and alot of Nigerians support this train of thought. That's when I understood our punishment is actually divine. Nigerians don't respect women or women's existence.

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advanceDNA:
➜same thing.....the more reason u have no business in the marriage... because it started to become all about u alone....

You don't get to decide what people can or cannot do.The world does not revolve around your particular preferences even in marriage. Learn this and gain necessary wisdom for yourself! 🙄🙄🙄

dalitigator:
✓ Make I bring bucket?

No point since Nigerian litigators according to you are not even worth that. 🙄

Wizzy13:
Girls have this hate for the Mr. Nice guy cos they are too weak and easy to be manipulated. I hate seeing grown up men simping around in the name of being inlove

You are free to fall in love with those nice guys for yourself you know? Girls do not need to like what you prefer.

galserv:
Olod*!Romans 1:21-22
21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they(Kobojunkie and co) became fools,

Did you know that the fools referenced in that passage you quoted are those who followed religious leaders— the Pharisees and Sadducees who were equally political in their reasoning — and were deceived by them? Kind of like you! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

galserv:
Olod*!Romans 1:21-22
21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they(Kobojunkie and co) became fools,

Did you know that the fools referenced in that passage you quoted are those who followed religious leaders— the Pharisees and Sadducees who were equally political in their reasoning — and were deceived by them? Kind of like you! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

advanceDNA:
➜Nobody is arguing body autonomy with you ..
➜But u shouldn't wait to be taken court for divorce after u decided to switch to a sexless marriage with a partner who still wants sex.....thats selfishness....u should take ur sexless marriage out of the marriage....
➜U cannot change the MO of the marriage and expect the marriage to remain the same and how you want it

Shoulda, coulda, woulda arguments no dey tire you?

2. Are you a child? People don't usually have to do anything in your interest. Their interests usually come first and they expect you to decide whether you will accept them as they are or make changes appropriately. You should instead learn to protect yourself when you are not happy with a situation. 🙄🙄🙄

3. Yes you can change your MO whenever you wish. We are all human beings and change is a constant with us. What is out-of-character is pretending we will always remain the same throughout any situation or condition. 🙄🙄🙄

galserv:
Olod*!Romans 1:21-22
21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they(Kobojunkie and co) became fools,

Did you know that the fools referenced in that passage you quoted are those who followed religious leaders— the Pharisees and Sadducees who were equally political in their reasoning — and were deceived by them? Kind of like you! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

advanceDNA:
➜U have a right to ur body..... once u cease to be a sexual companion in a marriage to ur husband or wife who wants sex, should u be told before getting your sexless àss out of the union??

There is NO LEGAL FRAME that allows for such cessation of that right in the case of marriage. So, whether a person is in a marriage— even in the case of a sexual companionship— or not in a marriage, that right remains — bodily autonomy — remains intact. That right to say NO remains under any circumstance is recognized by the Law. Going against that is going against the right of an individual and hence the Law itself.

galserv:
Olod*! Romans 1:21-22
21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they(Kobojunkie and co) became fools,

Did you know that the fools referenced in that passage you quoted are those who followed religious leaders— the Pharisees and Sadducees who were equally political in their reasoning — and were deceived by them? Kind of like you! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

advanceDNA:
↪The context of this thread is obviously not about two pple agreeing to to have sex...so whats all these ur marriage with no sex about??

I was only pointing out there that marriage/companionship is not as one-dimensional in scope or definition as you seem to assume. As a result, in a situation where two individuals agree to marry without explicitly specifying no sex, they each continue to hold on to their bodily autonomy rights.

So, even if you chose to marry a prostitute in order that you can Bleep her brains out, in the end, she retains the right to say no to sex whenever she chooses to. And you are also well within your right to divorce her at that point too.

galserv:
Olod*! Romans 1:21-22
21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened.
22 Professing themselves to be wise, they(Kobojunkie and co) became fools,

Did you know that the fools referenced in that passage you quoted are those who followed religious leaders— the Pharisees and Sadducees who were equally political in their reasoning — and were deceived by them? Kind of like you! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

FreedomfromtheT:
↪Your ignorance is that you think salvation from a life of sin and religion are synonymous.
Your hate doesn't change whom pastor Kumuyi is and his divine approval.
I am proud of Nathaniel Bassey and pastor William Kumuyi.

What salvation? Is it courtesy of Kumuyi and this Nathaniel man? both of whom are men whose kingdoms are right here on earth? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

advanceDNA:
➜If u don't want to have sex...then in the first place u have no business in the arrangement called marriage where sex is part of being a companion...

There are many couples in asexual—no-sex —marriage agreements out there. Not all marriages are defined in the way you assume they are as people define companionship differently. So, for you to suggest that those who do not want sex should have nothing to do with marriage is absurd!