₦airaland Forum

Eniitankorede:
✓ If you have not been to the court in past, stop arguing.

Stop rambling and be specific! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

What court argued this case you pretend where a woman infact promises marriage to a man if he paid her school fees? How many years of marriage did she promise? How many kids? How much of her body was included in this promise ...🤔

Promise details already!🙄🙄🙄

Eniitankorede:
✓ There must have been text messages, WhatsApp messages, witnesses who heard what happened. These are pieces of evidence.

Heard what? An "if you pay for my education, I will marry you," promise made between this supposed couple? 😩😩😩😩😩

Xisnin:
✓ Don't start what you can't finish.
I assure the other sides have more colorfully distasteful but factual banners that they can print.
The only issue is that the writer will claim "blasphemy" should everybody decide to tow the Lagos mosque line. Yes, the Lagos mosque banner is actually a blasphemy to the other side's faith.

Freedom of speech should not be trampled on in a place like Lagos State NO MATTER who or what religion is involved.

Very useless piece of work this is crafted in the same as many of the other dubious rhetoric used by politicals and religious scammers to cage the minds of Nigerians with. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Cheeryfeet:
That's the more reason I pity him, cause he just bought a case load of problems for himself. You think all will go well with the marriage. Besides the girl left someone for him. When the chips are down too, she will also leave the husband for another.qed

Nonsense assertions! 🙄

Who is to say he won't be the one leaving her or they may truly be a match made in heaven. Why do you folks cling desperately to the stewpid generalizations even in the face of common sense? What do you gain except a mountain of ignorance and misery for it on top of that which you already had? And for what? 🙄

nwirinedu:
He should have married her first, but this is what you get when you invest in a liability.

Even if he were to marry her, she could still divorce him afterwards. It is 2024! I find it discouraging that there are still individuals out there that think of relationships in terms of slave agreements. 🙄

Eniitankorede:
✓ Ask any lawyer around you. [b]You don’t have to have a written agreement. Any evidence of commitment like WhatsApp messages, photos etc, can confirm commitment and intent to defrau[/b]d.

A verbal agreement promising marriage in the case that the man paid for her education? Who made such an agreement? Where? What year?

Let's hope he takes it below the September price where all of this problem with his refinery price began. Make we start there.

Umuinyioku:
✓ Are you a Nigerian,or visitor? How do you argue on issues that's bare and accepted as a norm? You don't train a girl in school,and after the training she elopes with another man. Not acceptable practice here in Nigeria. Except you are in a different planet. Please don't continue this argument because no Nigerian wants to hear this. You must be a foreigner in Nigeria to understand the evolving dynamics in girls to be wife training!

Let me get this straight! The way you see it is that a girl is a commodity you can lay ownership to once you have paid her school fees. Is that it? In 2024, you believe you can essentially buy a girl's life by paying her school fees? 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

Umuinyioku:
✓ Ok. If you call him mumu. But many ladies lost their lives through this betrayal attitude.
✓You can't involve in your education and only to jilt me. Foul!😭

1. Are you seriously attempting to justify the murderous killing of women by possessive entities who think they can buy the life of another person's child with money?

2. Please, don't even bother engaging any other human being in a relationship with this level of social intelligence you display here.

MDK777:
ask the gods and the chief priest

How can I ask known fraudsters for facts? As for asking the gods..well, which ones?

MDK777:
✓ guy not only him, the other use his mother while other one use his sister, dey there dey wine your head

I am not winding my head at all. Just wondering how, without evidence, you willingly believe these things. 🤔

So, if this one used his mother, a second used his sister, and the other one used his father, how did the money come? Did the bodies turn to bags of money? Did money rain from the heavens into their beds? How did they go from yahoo+ ritual to money in hand?

MDK777:
ritual stuff, that's yahoo+

You believe he used his father for ritual and that is why he was able to build these two homes you claim he is as able to? In this 2024? Are you for real?

MDK777:
✓ yahoo+ are you not Nigerian

How exactly did he use his father to do yahoo+? What do you mean ?

Candreva:
" i got no pity for her Makachi" seems like what a senseless person will say in this situation.

It's fake people that say they have pity for the dead and gone. 🤔

Why didn't your pity save her from dying ? Shows how worthless it really is yet you brandish it like it is some weapon of value or honor. Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄

MDK777:
I know of a family like that here in Edo state, guess what, the man first son use his father take plus up, now the guy build two houses, one for his mom and his siblings and the other one for himself, and this guy na just small boy oo of 24 or 25years o, so parents be careful, children of nowadays are not like before again

Plus up? What do you mean?

gidgiddy:
➜I have to agree. There is something fundamentally wrong with the mind of us black people. We are more geared to destruction than building anything. Nigeria is a woeful case study. Ever since the white man left in 1960, all we have done is fight, kill our selves in the millions and achieved nothing. All the agricultural potential, all the mineral potential, all the human potential, has led us to nothing but poverty, deprivation, insecurity, destruction, suffering and death. What is that all about? What a tragedy

The only thing that I believe is wrong is the upbringing and training — the foundational education system that the average African is exposed to during the formative years. That is my opinion. The values, core beliefs, and principles of the average child raised in a black family, particularly in Africa is at the center of the problem.

justtoodark:
➜he asked which will you do.... simple question....which costs later....?? people that borrowed you money to build will not wait for later.... which would you build....??

Build a better road complete with underground drainage.

Zooposki:
➜Lol, do you know how the tests were created and how many times it was done?
➜You could liken the test to the equivalent of asking Africans questions about european politics etc. or maybe you take a street person and start asking him questions about Shakespeare and calculus and then conclude he’s not smart.

These are ridiculous attempts at an excuse! 🙄🙄🙄

When the same tests are administered to Africans who have been through the educational systems in places like European and America, the results reveal the source of the problem.

YoshiMaster:
➜It’s obvious for all to see. Question though is how do we get a SET of extremely intelligent people to become leaders. In Nigeria, the majority of the people would reject intelligent leaders. See how GRV that finished from M.I.T was vehemently rejected. I just don’t know the solution, but it hurts, it really does. I am a black man, I want to have my black nation that works like France, Sweden, Germany, USA, Russia, Denmark… where there is 24/7 power and tap water for instance.
➜However, in my reality, even outside my street in Victoria Island, the gutters are open in 2024 and when I stroll, I have to brace myself to see the dirtiest gutter substances and this will remain so cause no one in power thinks covering a gutter even with the cheapest of materials is worth doing. Not to even talk of water and electricity.
➜Not to talk of driving and getting drivers to stay in lanes, that is if the road even has lanes painted on them, cause again, some people don’t see the point of having lanes drawn on roads, another agebo talk…… Sigh

Does GRV not equally have open gutters, a borehole, and maybe even a VI-pit toilet in the house he also lives in? I mean what makes you think his merely having an MIT degree means he is best for the State when the LG and community in which he lives probably have nothing better than what is obtained everwhere else in the country?

2. Victoria island has enough people who could come together to demand these changes at the community and LGA levels. But why can't or won't they?

3. Where are the Nigerians with a sense of community?

Spectrix:
➜Thanks for your feedback. I have actually tried to read the book 3years back. Cutting weight hasn’t been easy I was able to loose during my first 73kg I’m 5’7 so it was slim for my structure then but now I’m almost 80 and it’s been yo-yoing. On the outside I think people would think me sexy and very sexually active(because of the way I’ve always dressed) if they only knew.
I might check YouTube again but I don’t know how to keep my emotions in check

Work on your emotional and social intelligence then. Spending a lot of time watching and learning from the children's show "Bluey" can help you with that exercise.

Another thing is your self-confidence. Sex is a lot more about self-confidence than it is about technique. But more importantly, it seems you have too much time which leads me to wonder if boredom could be the major issue here.

Spectrix:
➜I feel so terrible and I need help. I married with a V-Card we’ve known each other for a long time and we have 2kids now my husband is not excited to be intimate with me anymore and when I expressed my concerns if it was my fault he said I should learn by watching R-rated videos. I’ve tried but we don’t even get to try often for me to practice. He said I should make efforts instead of complaining which really hurts (me expressing my fears was the complaining)
➜I’m confused I’ve watched the videos as I’m used to watching them but I don’t really feel I get much from it. How do girls become so good at it are they thought by the men or they learn from the videos too?

What do you do for a living? How do you spend your day and time?

2. Have you tried investing in building your self-esteem and reading books instead?

TossTos:
➜Let me follow one yourba adage that say " don't forsake home " .. it means do not do away from your family . As much as you mustn't take everything that'll happen to them so also don't let them be deaf to things they need to know about you .. you will just know how to go about .. not everything that happened to you , you tell people about ..
➜Decision is always yours ..

Can you seriously look at Yoruba lives in Nigeria today and say that have benefitted from that adage you quoted?

2. Everybody's circumstances and family situation no be the same!

Candreva:
Even the reporter na oloriburuku. No empathy in your stuu.pid writeup

Empathy for what purpose? Will empathy raise and support those children? Will empathy bring the dead woman back? Stop micro-focusing on meaningless things!

Ashirioluwa:
➜Your choice. Each man has his own decision to make, and I believe you are more familiar with your family than we are.

Exactly!

Stevenbright:
➜You make too much assumptions. This is not a tale. I am based in Benin city and it was the UBTH teaching hospital that went on air on both on radio and television asking for the help of anyone who can help locate the family of the man in delta state and also narrated how his wife brought him and pretended to go go out to buy something the next day. And have since not come back while the hospital have been the one taking care of the man for over six months.

I made no assumptions. You say you saw it on TV, and I have no reason to doubt that claim. What I am asking is if the man told you in that same broadcast that he regrets supposedly abandoning his family or that his wife is to blame for leaving him.

Starzo:
➜How you wan take read am when you don already dey street?...mad people don dey carry phone waka for this country?

You will know when the time comes. I look forward to hearing from you in October 2025. Till, then, good luck!

Starzo:
➜ This one don kolo finish Infact I've brought back the date to October 2025

If you are still alive at that time too, I look forward to reading your post then too! 🤔

Cousin9999:
Some of these people are sociopaths, and many sociopaths are created by trauma in childhood.
Some of these people are agents. See Neo-Colonialism and the Poverty of 'Development' in Africa by Mark Langan.

Agents raised and put through traumatic childhood by their African parents?

Umuinyioku:
➜On ground that the man wasted resources on her, only for her to turn her back on him

You mean a mumu wasted his resources, abi? Nonsense! Stop wasting space already!

Starzo:
➜There's still hope for you tho. Locate any white garment church(cele) make Dem flog sense enter your head before it is too late😂😂😂😂

Shove your hope up your arse... I look forward to seeing you post the picks in May of 2026 as you stated. I am actually looking forward to seeing it myself! 😁