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Nelochukwu:
➜ .....Anyways Yeshua still told them ANOTHER SHEEP. so it couldn't have been another tribe of Israel cause they represented all tribes. Furthermore, I find it degrading u view God's people as dogs. Look hasn't ur father insulted u before. If them call u idiot or pig or animal are u one? Our fathers have insulted us out of anger doesn't make us what we are called. ➜ Didn't Yeshua call Peter a devil? How do u see other people as dogs. Yeshua still was speaking to the Jews and said don't give SWINES......does that mean the Jews are swines .....

Spare me your brain farts next time! 😫 😫 😫 😫 😫

1. You are very wrong! God of Israel, after the death of Solomon, divided the original nation of Isreal into two separate Nations[b](1 Kings Chapter 11 - 13)[/b]
➜ the nation of Judae which was populated primarily by the tribes of Judah, Levi, and Benjamin
➜ the nation of Israel which was populated by the other 9 tribes of Isreal including some Levis. (the nation of Israel was destroyed by God of Israel using the Assyrian Army around 720 BC as announced by Isaiah who was himself a Judean, and the people of that nation were scattered abroad to the four winds as the God of Israel has said He would in His Law of Moses.)

Jesus Christ was born into the Jewish Nation of Judae(not all tribes of Israel were represented in the nation of Israel). He then announced that He was sent only to the Lost Sheep of Israel — only the bloodline of Jacob pretty much amounted to sheep— the world He was sent to by His Father. Now, the same Jesus Christ of Israel spoke of having Another Sheep. Simple deductive reasoning should lead one to see He was still referring to those of the same bloodline he was sent to.

2. You people reason upside-down! Jesus Christ of Israel referred to Israelites as sheep... you don't think that is offensive but you think His calling of non-Israelites dogs is meant as some sort of insult? The Canaanite woman who gladly referred to herself as a dog did not see it that way at all - Matthew 15 vs 23-28. So, are you OK at all?

Satan is against Jesus Christ of Israel and Jesus Christ of Isreal calling Peter out as Satan at that point was to underscore the fact that Peter stood against Him in that very moment on that issue. What is wrong with that?

Rather than ignorantly engaging me where it is clear you have no clue what the book even records, I suggest you spend time carefully reading and digesting what is in fact recorded in the book.

presido11:
➜Sex worker is when sex is your worker.
➜Like in Ashawo. You give s3x in return for payment.
➜Is that what your parents do?

That is the particular definition you have chosen to give to it. But what the OP is saying is that sex is sex... it is the same sex a prostitute gives a man or husband that a wife gives the same man or husband... the only difference between the two women is in how society chooses to perceive them.

2. Remove yourself from it and reason it from a non-emotional point for a minute
➜ An Ashawo only gives sex in return for financial benefit/reward.
➜ A wife gives sex, her service as a maid, her womb for childbearing, her time as a therapist, her time for childbearing and housekeeping in return for financial and familial gain/reward.

Look, the long and short of this is sex is sex. No matter how you try to package or brand it, it is still just sex and nothing but sex.

3. You may not like it but both your mother and an ashewo submit body in sexual exchange for gain. They are both women and use their bodies and as such are not that very different. There are even women who outright marry only for financial gain out there and they are women just like every other woman out there. This is a fact!

By the way, the same goes for men too. Husbands and gigolos both trade sex for gain as well. Also, she said nothing new. Even your ancestors have known this very fact with many of them using it to their advantage too. Side-chicks and side-kicks who later transition into full-time keepers did not come out of nowhere.

Kingosytex:
➜Nope. Both believers and unbelievers shall be raised from the dead. Take a look at these passages below:
In Acts 24:15 Paul says, "There shall certainly be a resurrection of both the righteous and the wicked."
John 5:28-29 says, "For an hour is coming, in which all who are in the tombs shall hear His voice, and shall come forth; those who did the good deeds to a resurrection of life, those who committed the evil deeds to a resurrection of judgment.
➜The difference is that Christians will be raised to everlasting glory; those who will not trust in Christ will be raised to judgment.
➜You get the picture now?

1. So, in your own interpretation, Jesus Christ of Israel who said He would give Eternal Life(an afterlife/life after death) only to those who eat His flesh and drink His blood lied? Rather, both believers(born-agains ) and unbelievers(non-born-again) have Eternal life(an afterlife/Life after death).😏

2. So, your particular spin on this is that Eternal(an afterlife/Life after death) damnation as instituted by Jesus Christ is not Everlasting even though it is still Eternal(an afterlife/Life after death)? Are you certain you understand the meaning of the terms you apply here well? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

3. This picture you have painted not only makes Jesus Christ of Israel out to be some sort of liar but it equally contains contradictory claims that make it a jumble that should instead be discarded before it hurts one's brain. Do you not see that?😖😖😖😖😖

DenreleDave:
Please married people on nairaland should help we singles and newly married couple out on this.... Like How do you couples that stays together doing it raw and avoid pregnancy? Please share with us...... Ladies please feel free to help out on this.

Look at the population of baby daddies and baby mamas in Nigeria, and consider the high rate of abortion in Nigeria, then you will understand the proper question you ought instead to ask.

presido11:
That means your moma us a sex worker right?

Did your mother not have sex with your father in order to fulfill her part of the marriage deal she made with your father? 🤔

JuanDeDios:
➜She's not. It's the highest paid.

Because many women in marriage, have to double as maids, therapists, cooks, baby makers, and nannies, in addition to serving up sex to their husbands, the pay cannot compare at all when compared to the amount many sex workers receive just for sexual services.

Anyways, what she said isn't false at all. One must be able to remove oneself(ego included) from it all to see this.

Atk1nson:
✓ If sex is work, you should allow the man get help from outside for it - save the woman the stress of such low paid work

I suggest you go back and listen again to the OP so you can better understand what she said and maybe better phrase your question.

greypencils:
✓ Says the fool without any morals. How dare you reduce marriage to just sex? The US is littered with people with a damaged psyche.
✓ That is what growing up in a children's home and a single parent home does to you.

Littered with people with a damaged psyche yet Nigeria is the country with not even one LGA able to boats of basic/treated drinking water, 24/7 power supply or even a decent waste management system? Are you people sure you are OK at all? 😩😩😩😩😩

2. She grew up in a single family home and ended up a best-selling writer something you wey supposedly grow with your papa and mana no be compare to? Wetin dey do una abeg? 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

Intergrated:
what's the business of the church,?

That is a very good question actually! Politics is a major aspect of what churches in fact do — Religion is, for one, a political system. However, most Christians or sheeples would rather not even consider that aspect part and parcel of what their churches are very much into.

SamuraiXXX:
➜She has a medical disorder, that's the reason she had fallen boob's from a young age.
➜They did not come about from her sleeping around

It is really considered a medical disorder when that happens in young girls/women?

2. It is of course a myth that sleeping around causes the boobs to sag...but of course, I would not expect our Nigerian boys to know any of this because even in the year 2024, they would rather embrace ignorance and flaunt it like it is some sort of divine birthright.

redcliff:
➜Obviously her exposing her body like that tells alot about her.
➜A womans worth is mostly her beauty and sexuality. As much as you hate to hear it, it is the reality. So yes, if a woman's boobs falls down like that, she is not worthy. Women in their youth do not have fallen boobs like that. One reason for it is promiscuity, the other reasons, no one cares. So, even you who is a woman, when you have problems with her, the first thing you attack is her sexuality by calling her a bxtch. What is a bxtch. This is a female dog who sleeps around with any dog they can find around.
➜Does that ring a bell to you?
➜If she wants to go around making such statement, she should get ready for any sort of backlash she faces.

1. It tells you one thing and one thing only. She is comfortable with the body she was born with.

2. A woman's worth? What is this? The slave period when people were valued based on the arbitrary ideas of others? What makes you think your opinion of her worth or that of any woman is worth anything?

3. Can't ring a bell because I don't reason anything like you do.

4. Just like you can, she can go around making statements as she pleases. I know in your mind you fancy yourself somehow better than her but the truth is you are not even a pinch better or wiser.

Goodmarlian:
I had a dream this afternoon I remember toasting a girl i knew in real life she was a teenager,in the dream and she started insulting me I was totally conscious of what was happening my thinking faculty was still active ,I remember telling the girl I am not her mate that I will first report her to her parents before beating her I remember holding her hands and her skin was smooth and soft it seems our brain has a portal to another realm of existence.

You had what is referred to as a vivid dream, typically a result of your brain not being completely switched over to sleep mode while you thought you were sleeping. If it is a sign it is of potential sleep problems you may be having. Usually when you confront your emotional and mental stresses, you can resolve these assuming this is still in earlier stages. Otherwise, strap yourself down and enjoy the sleep disorder ride that is loading. 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

Nelochukwu:
➜My boy. I will not disown you.
➜John 6 vs 51b I'll try my best to be dropping some scriptures cause I know you don't know scriptures. Y would Yeshua say His giving His blood for the WORLD. Case study1

You and I share no bond, not even where Israelite scripture is concerned.

Read what He told you about the world to which He was giving His Blood in John 3 vs 14 - 16. I already posted comments on this before now. https://www.nairaland.com/7110397/gospel-minddump/4#127011501

rickleye:
➜We aren’t as rich as you bud. OP asked a direct question about Temu.

All the more reason why NOT to buy low quality like those sold by these trash-outlets.

Kelklein:
Some of the beautiful adverts you see are not what they seem.. But like someone pointed out read the reviews, also take your time to read the description of items posted.. If they advertise centre carpet, take note of the measurement before they send you praying mat.. If they advertise storage drawers, Note the measurement, most items are way smaller when you see it in physically but the measurements are actually stated there but most people don't take time to read them

Quality-wise, they are all subpar. So, I would not waste money if I didn't intend to keep spending money at the same time over and over.

rickleye:
➜I’ve ordered a ton of stuff from Temu and SHEIN as well as Alibaba. All these companies are cousins or nephews . Mind you … quality is suspect but it will do the job for a while .

A more sensible thing to do would be to save up and by what my old friend would consider one-is-one... quality that will last for a lot longer than a few uses, days or weeks which is what Temu/Shein/and others like them offer.

Sp1ritHusband:
➜Temu has relatively good quality.

I completely disagree!

motionarena:
Who has ordered stuff online from Temu. I have been seeing their ads online and they have some cool affordable products. Who has order From dem b4 do they deliver to Nigeria. Advise appreciated

I wouldn't recommend you order anything from Temu. These products are typically of very low quality. And I am talking of the items they have sent us here in the U.S. If all they had to send us here amounts to trash, imagine what you would end up with out there in Nigeria.

I would suggest you instead save up your money and purchase quality from other places.

makavalley:
➜Nobody made me believe it should be this way . Remove the politics and negative things you see from such body and commend the good work here first than just condemning the good gesture.
➜Because few persons in a community is bad does it give me the right to say the whole community is bad ?
➜have I met all of them to condemn them anytime they are being mentioned ?

You are insisting that he remove the politics and negatives — all part of the package of what is presented — in order to find something to commend? Isn't that being dishonest?

2. Few persons? If I am not mistaken, it is not the individuals but the brand— RCCG, the company— and what it continues to represent that those who have spoken have been against. So, why do you so wish for people to turn a blind eye to all of that so they can maybe commend something that in the end is empty?

3. Why do you feel one needs to meet all of them to condemn them when the head honcho himself, the man who is at the top of the totem pole is all one needs to focus on? When you go to decide whether to invest in a company or not, do you go looking to meet all of the people who work at the company or do you investigate the man running the company and the decisions he has made to direct the company over years?

Sp1ritHusband:
➜I know lots of older people who are miserable because of their spouses and children. There are no guarantees in life my friend and, the surest is to find happiness for yourself.

😊😊😊😊

ThothHermes:
➜The curse of Sisyphus. It's the human condition. Family won't fill the emptiness either. However, a wife and kids might make it more tolerable.

Stop going around telling people this lie. Family does not have to mean a wife and kids. Family could simply be your biological family or maybe even a bunch of dogs. A wife and kids are, in most cases, additional burdens that could exacerbate the feeling of loneliness.

I don't know about centering one's life around a particular company. Jobs don't really come with a lifetime guarantee and just one illness could rob one of a career, so I wouldn't recommend building one's life around a career or a company. 🤔

Suicideboy:
➜ What’s the point of all this wealth and status if, at the end of the day, I still feel utterly alone and unfulfilled?

If you do not like your current life, you can change it up. Get yourself a relationship or even get married. But if I were you, I would first consider reconnecting with existing family— maybe nephews and nieces first— and patching things up with them first. See how they are doing and see if maybe that is what you need to fill that loneliness you feel inside. Try getting a dog or fish to raise... I think considering a relationship and then marriage should be only after you have tried everything else.

That said, yes, it is quite possible to be happy without marriage and children. That is a fact! 🤔

jay0:
➜If a parable is explained for someone, it means the bride price of the mother was a waste.

A parable as told by an imbe_cile, right? Because obviously, you don't seem to know what a parable is.

makavalley:
➜ The word brainwashed! Gullible has suffered in you people's mouth. First commend effort before showing how frustrating life is dealing with you.

Not trying to hold brief for the other poster you were responding to but I had to comment because of this insistence of yours in the latter parts of your response that he should first commend the post before commenting. Why do you feel it should be this way? Or who made you believe it had to be that way?

AngelicDamsel:
What a life! Lord have mercy

Life is actually very beautiful once you abandon all of the lies fed to you by your religious slave masters.

ajailer:
➜Even ladies divorce their spouses due to lack of performance in the other room.

Yes! Sex work is part and parcel of most marriage contracts as she described.

Bobodee09:
➜Don't engage him at all.....just play along. When is time for renewal send 150k, tell him that what you have and if he reject tell him to send your money back, then he has to give you 3months to get another place. He wont have any choice than to take the 150k trust me.

This is bad advice @OP

Thinkingtru:
You said something about the kids passing through what I am passing through twice. I deliberately did nit write this on the initial post The eldest child once aske me what I was thinking when I married someone like this
NB We live oversea now.

Just so you know, the problem here isn't just your wife but you. You claim you have been playing endurance husband for 10 years all while neglecting the mental and emotional wellbeing of your children. You are part and parcel of the problem that is your marriage today. So, my question is what do you plan to do? Endure for yet another year while waiting for... I don't know... an award of some sort to arrive in the mail maybe by then?

gidgiddy:
➜She left one important thing out. A sex worker has shelf life. No matter how beautiful you may be as a sex worker, your customers will dwindle with age. No man is going to hook up with a 60 year old sex worker when he could easily find a 20 year old one, even if it's free.
➜However, with marriage, a man commits to you for life

1. Not entirely true at all as it mostly depends on the sex worker. She may not get as many customers as she gets older but she decides when to quit the trade. A similar thing tends to happen also to many married women at that point. Sex is no longer as regular for them as it may have been when they were younger and this depends.

2. Commits for life? LOL 😏

ajailer:
➜Trash talk. Are women in marriage being forced to have sex with their husband?
➜These days, the ladies are even the ones keeping tabs of their sexual activities with their husbands in a marriage, lots of them initiates the move with their man. So where is the pay for sex here?

Sex workers are typically not forced to have sex with their clients either.

2. As long as they are married, isn't sex typically part and parcel of the deal? You rarely, for instance, read of married African men who are comfortable in a marriage that excludes sex.

Tallesty1:
➜Or maybe the guy did something to her, something so bad that he feels he deserves the punishment. Because why will someone he loves treat him this bad for 10 solid years and he keeps trying? Dey gum him? Dude has been suffering for the past ten years, that's around the same time Buhari became president 😔 😔. He's a strong man.

Did the children also do something bad to her to deserve the same punishment? Na the children wey dey in the middle of the toxicity suffer pass...

Goodnewsforlife:
your parents failed at parenting by raising an imbe_cile like u U will die miserable, I know u have heard it countless times but I am adding to it

Again, stop reasoning like am imbe_cile!