₦airaland Forum

Expanse2020:
✓ So you really believe Yahweh sent mohammed S.A.W. as Prophet too...
2. I know of iIlah, Elloh Elloh.im..amd Allah..too

1. It's not about what I believe but about what your Quran insists you as a Mohammedan should believe. Mohammed claims in the Quran that Allah sent the Torah and the Injeel, implying that Allah is YHWH of the Torah and the Injeel. If you do not at least believe that, doesn't that put you at odds with Mohammed and Allah? 🥱🥱

2. If you believe YHWH is Allah, doesn't that invariably mean that the one you were mocking earlier... calling Spartacus..is Allah and Mohammed the one who you worship is also mocked by you at that! 🥱🥱🥱

loffyloffy:
➜Well while generally the lifespan of canadian is 83 years as you stated, I don't think the lifespan of Nigerian that immigrated to Canada is anywhere close to that.
I am in the Nigerian community and we hear of a lot of Nigerians here dieing in their 50s and 60s.
➜ While I agree with you that Canadians have better diets all year round, compared to Nigeria, I must point out to you that most of those fruits and vegetables are imported from other countries. Infact with the exception of maybe apples, I doubt if canada actualy produces any other fruit. The main agriciltural output in Canada is grains and potato. Canadians by Nigerian standard are rich and can therefore afford to import their fruits and vegetables, some from poorer countries like mexico and southt american countries.

1. Oh, that's easy! Most Nigerians who emigrate do not necessarily adopt healthier eating habits as a result. Many of them retain the unhealthy eating habits from back in Nigeria. Show up at any Nigerian cookout, and you will rarely find a salad or anything green and healthy on the table.

2. Look, it does not matter whether the eggs and bananas are imported from another country. What matters and is most important is that they are available and affordable. 🥱🥱

I just went to purchase 10 dozen eggs for $0.75 a dozen this past Saturday. Do you seriously think that when I was packing up those eggs, I was wondering what country they came from? Hell no! What was on my mind was instead how many different ways I can eat those eggs before I get bored or tired of eggs. 🥱🥱🥱

Kaczynski:
➜Northeners eat lot of proteins compared to southeners but their IQ is pretty sub standard. Environment matters more than diet. Those in coastal cities tend to be more educated and experienced than others.

I am not quite certain about the northern diet, but something else I know that seems to negatively impact IQ happens to be religion, and northerners are literally born and raised steeped in religion. So, yes, I believe the environment does matter as well.

Southerners are, on the most part, not necessarily as brainwashed from childhood as the Northerners. Additionally, western style education is not as frowned upon in the South as it is in the Northern states. Add a good diet to aid in the development of strong, healthy brains and minds, and I believe there is bound to be noticeable improvements recorded in the average IQ of children and maybe even adults.

funnyDM:
Leviticus 19:28 explicitly condemns tatooing your body. So Pastors Jimmy Odukoya and that other guy parading as a pastor, are all big sinners before God.
If you like, argue with your keyboard....

Was this Olukoya a citizen of the now-defunct nation of Israel in the land of Canaan, to which the referenced statute belongs— the country, which was ceased and renamed almost 2000 years ago? 🥱🥱

Expanse2020:
➜ Is Yahweh Spartacus..🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kill them allllllllll,🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kill the infants,babies,women, men, animals and spoilt there fields, waters
But keep the little Virgins for yourself 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Christanity and their God father Isreal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

If, according to Mohammed, Allah is the same deity as the YHWH of the Israelites, does this mean then that you do not approve of Mohammed and Allah? I am trying to get an idea of how you reason Islam as one whose Allah claims to be the YHWH of the Israelites. 🥱🥱🥱

michjunior:
What do women want?
There's this girl I have known for a while and I like her really because I think she's hardworking and nice..she was just coming out of a relationship which according to her her ex cheated on her .we began as friends we became found of each other I asked her she said she wasn't ready for a relationship or that's she needs time because of how her former relationship hurts her ..that she prefers we stay as friends for now.she comes to my house,cooks and cleans for me almost every week, calls first always chats first always does everything but refusing to commit ...I told her I like her enough that I can't just settle being friends with her and that I have been patient enough over 4 months now I believe is enough time... she's refusing to let me go and refusing to commit... honestly I'm tired

She literally told you she is not interested in a romantic relationship with you. She just wants to remain friends and nothing more. So, what is the matter with you? If you don't even respect her answer to you... Don't you see that that is a you problem and not a she problem. If you are tired of being just a friend to her, tell her to leave, so she can go find herself another shoulder to cry on. 🥱🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
➜Gustave le Bon says in Hadarat al-‘Arab (Arab Civilization) (p. 459-460):
“What I sincerely believe is that slavery among the Muslims is better than slavery among any other people, and that the situation of slaves in the east is better than that of servants in Europe, and that slaves in the east are part of the family. Slaves who wanted to be free could attain freedom by expressing their wish. But despite that, they did not resort to exercising this right.”
➜ Paul on the other hand advised that slaves should be loyal to their masters, as he says in his Epistle to the Ephesians, where he enjoins slaves to obey their masters as they would obey the Messiah:
“5 Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ.
6 Obey them not only to win their favor when their eye is on you, but like slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart.
7 Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not men,
8 because you know that the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does, whether he is slave or free.” (Ephesians 6:5-9).
Yeah we know how slaves are to be treated from the Biblical YHWH! Slavery was condoned period!
➜ It is none of my own business if it is the opinions of Paul. It is part of your scripture
➜ and same Paul says in 2 Timothy 3;16 - All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness. So Paul's word are included as your Biblical scripture and his words are "God-breathed"! You can't claim it is useless.
I have quoted one of the verses of submission to slavery above!
➜ Of cos, it gave a hint which was explained in the Deuteronomy 20-22 you mentioned. The virgin girls who never knew any man were spared for the warriors. And even YHWH has a fixed %age as His share of the entire war booty of livestocks and virgins. You can read the entire chapter to confirm!
➜ It sure well qualifies you entirely though! The more you appear to know the less it seems you know!

1. Is Gustave's opinion a reason for why slavery should be allowed to continue to exist in this day and age, or something?

2. I can't speak for the man Paul or the religion of Christianity. I am only here about what Mohammed's Allah referred to as the Torah (The Book of the Law and the Prophets) and the Injeel(The Gospels) — Paul's letters are not part of the Injeel. And other collections of Scripture do not include Paul's letters or the letters of any of the other disciples. So, I am not certain why you feel those letters constitute Scripture when Allah of the Mohammedans and Mohammed himself did not seem to suggest them to be any such. 🥱🥱🥱

3. Well, it should be since in Mohammed's Quran, Allah is stated to have said that he inspired, preserved, and authorized the Torah and the Injeel. So, knowing what is not to be included is of the essence. Paul never said in any of his letters that his word is scripture— the living, breathing word of YHWH—, nor did he allude to his words being sent down from YHWH to men.

4. Oh wow! "The same Paul says..." Are you in some way insinuating that Mohammed was wrong in insisting that Allah only sent the Torah and the Injeel(Paul's letters are not part of the Injeel) as Scripture, since you allude here to Paul being the one who decided for you what constitutes Scripture and what doesn't? 🥱🥱

5. Yeah, they were spared for the warriors, and the law explained how those who were spared, both for the warriors and for YHWH, should be put to work in his temple, whereas the others who were left for the warriors were meant as work slaves or wives. I have yet to find anywhere in the law allowing for the rape of women or inheritance as you claim. 🥱🥱

6. That statement of yours there describes you to a T. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Expanse2020:
Is paining you that what you saw in the Quran contradict want you are saying Or it contradicted the acclaimed book you said prophet Muhammad copied🫣🫣🫣

Are you suddenly having a hard time understanding the English language or something?

AntiChristian:
1. This is why i said you are ignorantly biased. The slave trade in Libya is not legalised. In fact it is prohibited under the Libyan and international laws. What is happening there is mainly due to the political chaos since 2011. But you'll always give it an Islamic coloration!
2. God said he wanted to give some people land. A land that is inhabited by people. And those people claimed the land. Don't you know that Biblical story?
3. When you do good you earn positive reward and when you do evil you earn negative rewards. Islam does legislate freeing slaves as a means of earning immense positive reward.
4. Show us what Christianity ever offered slaves if not only total submission to their masters? Once again, no texts of the Qur'an or hadiths enjoins taking others as slaves. And Islam met slavery and promoted freeing them, preserving their dignity, treating them kindly, feeding them, fair treatment and even the slave can buy him/herself off slavery!

1. What in the world are you rambling on about now? Libya and Afghanistan are both countries ruled by Sharia Law — the legal system. What does any of that have to do with international laws? And under Gaddafi, though not strictly ruled since a dictator had to dictate, Libya was also under Sharia Law. 🥱🥱🥱

Libya under Muammar Gaddafi was not strictly ruled by traditional Sharia law, although it was legally designated as a source of legislation. Instead, Gaddafi applied a unique, self-styled interpretation of Islamic principles merged with socialism and Arab nationalism—the "Third International Theory"—where secular, state-controlled policies often overruled religious law in practice.

2. I know the story from the book, but I am not certain how that has anything to do with you or this. 🥱🥱

3. Immense positive goodness? Sounds ...

92. It is not lawful for a believer to kill another except by mistake. And whoever kills a believer unintentionally must free a believing slave and pay blood-money to the victim’s family—unless they waive it charitably. But if the victim is a believer from a hostile people, then a believing slave must be freed. And if the victim is from a people bound with you in a treaty, then blood-money must be paid to the family along with freeing a believing slave. Those who are unable, let them fast two consecutive months—as a means of repentance to Allah. And Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise. - Quran 4 vs 92

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89 Allah will not call you to account for your thoughtless oaths, but He will hold you accountable for deliberate oaths. The penalty for a broken oath is to feed ten poor people from what you normally feed your own family, or to clothe them, or to free a bondsperson. But if none of this is affordable, then you must fast three days. This is the penalty for breaking your oaths. So be mindful of your oaths. This is how Allah makes things clear to you, so perhaps you will be grateful. - Quran 5 vs 89

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2. Those of you who ˹sinfully˺ divorce their wives by comparing them to their mothers ˹should know that˺ their wives are in no way their mothers. None can be their mothers except those who gave birth to them. What they say is certainly detestable and false. Yet Allah is truly Ever-Pardoning, All-Forgiving.
3. Those who divorce their wives in this manner, then ˹wish to˺ retract what they said, must free a slave before they touch each other. [/b]This ˹penalty˺ is meant to deter you. And Allah is All-Aware of what you do.
[b]4. But if the husband cannot afford this, let him then fast two consecutive months before the couple touch each other. But if he is unable ˹to fast˺, then let him feed sixty poor people. This is to re-affirm your faith in Allah and His Messenger. These are the limits set by Allah. And the disbelievers will suffer a painful punishment. - Quran 58 vs 2 -3

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1. I do swear by this city ˹of Mecca˺—
2. even though you ˹O Prophet˺ are subject to abuse in this city—
3. and by every parent and ˹their˺ child!
4. Indeed, We have created humankind in ˹constant˺ struggle.
5. Do they think that no one has power over them,
6. boasting, “I have wasted enormous wealth!”?
7. Do they think that no one sees them?
8. Have We not given them two eyes,
9. a tongue, and two lips;
10. and shown them the two ways ˹of right and wrong˺?
11. If only they had attempted the challenging path ˹of goodness instead˺!
12. And what will make you realize what ˹attempting˺ the challenging path is?
13. It is to free a slave,
14. or to give food in times of famine
15. to an orphaned relative
16. or to a poor person in distress,
17. and—above all—to be one of those who have faith and urge each other to perseverance and urge each other to compassion.
18. These are the people of the right.- Quran 90 vs 1 - 18

Basically, for Mohammedans, atonement for sins/crimes can be obtained through the freeing of a slave or fasting for a set number of days? And attempting the challenging path involves freeing a slave? See why I said the Islamic standard of goodness—its Law—is nothing like other laws I have seen. 🥱🥱

If I know I can either free a slave or fast(the Ramadan style) for x amount of days to receive the same reward, what incentive would I have to want to free a slave in that situation? 🥱🥱

Islam is set up so that Mohammedans have more to gain from having slaves — to trade for what you refer to as immense positive goodness — than not having them at all. Then there is also the fact that Mohammedans are allowed to use their sex slaves in fulling debaucheries desires even in marriage. No wonder! 🥱🥱

4. Christianity? You'd have to look up the Nicene agreements that established the religion for yourself. I don't argue for Christianity. Also, I am aware that much of the world outside of Islam has long abolished slavery. So, are the laws that are supposed make one right by freeing slaves in exchange for good points with Mohammed's Allah a solid reason for why Islam was designed with slavery in mind? That seems to be the case! 🥱🥱

atobs4real:
So sad for her. Taboo is real ooooooooooo

Taboo is real only when women are involved but the men are never impacted? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

AntiChristian:
✓ You said to this very day, how is that? You are the ones going to meet them! And the slavery you were talking about earlier, it was actually your community heads and leaders that sold you out themselves.
✓ All this your theory are well grounded from Deuteronomy 20 from your YHWH. Even if Christians are no more following it, we know Israel (and by extension USA) are still towing that part!
✓ Islam met slavery and Islam is the only religion that makes freeing slaves a good deed!
✓ Nowhere in the Bible will you see "masters free your slaves" but it is always "Slaves obey your masters" everywhere!
✓ That's why there was the slaves Bible!
✓ Talking about inheriting and raping women you can check Numbers 31 and see how all men were killed and virgin-girls spared for the warriors and for YHWH.
✓ Hypocrisy and bigotry!

1. Libya, an Islamic country, still trades in slaves. And those are purchased, not only by those in Libya but others. The reports are not hidden. 🥱🥱

2. Towing what part? I don't follow at all. 🥱🥱

3. Nonsense! Freeing slaves is a good deed. You would need to explain this to us because from what I have read from the Quran, Islam's idea of good is nothing like any other standard of goodness that I know of. 🥱🥱

4. That's because you have never actually taken time to read the book itself. The constitutional law of the nation of Israel in the land of Canaan which defines the executive, legislative and administrative aspects of life and living in the nation also included stipulations regarding how slaves and their freedom should be handled. 🥱🥱

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By the way, the statement, slaves obey your masters comes from the opinions of Paul, not the Law of Moses or from Jesus Christ of Israel, the law and the Kingdom if God -- YHWH. It was an opinion given by a man. Those who obey Paul are not that much different from those who obey Mohammed's opinion, you see. 🥱🥱

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5. Wrong! Slavery was instead defined as part of the nation of Israel in the Law of Moses. Jesus Christ of Israel instead insisted that in the Kingdom of God which He was King over, His followers would be the slaves/servants to do the bidding of YHWH, not men's.

So, unless Paul, for instance, referring to slaves in the Kingdom of God --- followers of Jesus Christ -- then he was definitely speaking of that which is not of Jesus Christ of Israel. 🥱🥱

6. Numbers 31 does not include any information on the inheriting or raping of women. It does describe the events that took place when the Israelites retaliated against the Midianites, killing men as many as they could and taking virgin women as prisoners. It does not state that any of the women were raped or inherited as you claimed. 🥱🥱

The closest to what you present of raping of women is found in Deuteronomy 20 - 22, where the laws about the treatment of women captured in Warare is recorded.

10 “You might fight against your enemies, and the Lord your God might let you defeat them and take them as captives.
11 You might see a beautiful woman among the captives who you want to be your wife.
12 You must then bring her into your house where she will shave her head and cut her nails.
13 She must change her clothes and take off the clothes she was wearing when she was captured in war. She will stay in your house and be sad about losing her father and her mother for a full month. After that you may go to her to be her husband, and she will be your wife.
14 If you are not pleased with her and choose to divorce her, set her free. You cannot sell her. You had sexual relations with her, so you must not treat her like a slave. - Deuteronomy 21 vs 10 - 14

7. Hypocrisy and bigotry are big words you don't seem to understand the meaning of. 😁😁😁

verminnel:
➜Marriage to a great deal is what u both make of it dear, why not try to focus on the good in ur hubby. like those things that made u fall in love with him rather than focusing on his flaws?
➜ What u place ur focus on so keenly u magnify.
➜ No one is without flaws and im sure if he is given equal platform he would definitely have a lot to complain about u also.
➜ You both have come this far already,please dont let the devil win.

Focus in the good... so, you are literally saying she should ignore all of the gaslighting, the bullying, and the irresponsible behaviors — all behaviors detrimental to the success of any relationship—to focus on the color of his shirt or what? 🥱🥱🥱

2. The health of the relationship is not worth focusing on in this case because it keenly magnifies the problem that has become the relationship. 🥱

3. WOW... issues that directly undermine the health and success of a relationship are to be considered flaws instead? 🥱

4. Come too far? Is the man who says he is ready to leave the marriage the devil in this case? 🥱

Why are you trying to gaslight OP into believing she is the problem with her marrriage just like she claims her husband has also been doing? 🥱🥱🥱

Lojical1:
This is a discussion that ought to be pondered on.

Pondered on in what sense? What do you hope will be gained from all of the pondering? 🥱🥱

Samirana360:
marriage is not a joke my good friend.
before u marry commit it unto God's hand
. it's more spiritual than physical

The divorce rate in your church mirrors the spousal abandonment rates of our ancestors and the divorce rates of those in countries where records are kept. Your god does not seem to be working out for you, church people, so why continue to talk him up as some solution for those outside of your churches? 🥱🥱

theophorus:
notoracism
1. Happiness is a Choice?
2. Before marrying him did you not notice these things?
My little advice stay loyal to your Marital Vows, and choose to make yourself Happy with other things by concentrating on the positives in your Marriage and Life. Shalom

No sane human being would think it sensible to live with a mistake he/she made for the rest of their life. People who do that are actually people who were traumatized during their childhood. Staying in an unhappy/miserable situation is signs that one was not raised in love. 🥱🥱🥱

notoracism:
Marriage is a joke. I have stayed in 16 years of hell, trouble, fight, arguement. My kids are unhappy. I have never stayed in my marriage happily for 3 days since almost 16 years. I wish I could end this mess, and no family member would know. Not for me anymore.
I dont know how to stay calm. My husband never smiles, he is a sadist. I do nothing right, always compalins, haaaaa. We split bills but still compalins, what else do I do? He keeps saying abroad marriages crashes, I am doing my best, I am trying, this man is so emotionally unstable. I am dying slowly, I dont have peace of mind.
If I leave, they would say abroad destroyed our marriage, but it is not true, we've been through alot, the trouble has always been there, we came here with bad baggages. My sister has had an experience with him before and she asked me how I cope.
He got a very good job, and lost it due to his negligence, he would stay and call all night without sleeping. Call all his friends, tell them about his job, send them link to the company website, despite all my warnings to remain humble.
He started struggling and lost the job. He is doing menial job now and started calling me names. The job issue is not why he is calling me names, he has always been an abusive individual, proud and impatient.
He is threatening to leave us, I dont care anymore, I would adjust and move on. Since I have not had the courage to leave if he leaves, I don't think I will ever allow him a space in my life. Neverrrr.

The guy has been gaslighting you into remaining in the marriage so he can leave first and probably abandon you with the kids with nothing while you sit back claiming you will never allow him space in your life after he leaves? 🥱🥱

If you do not have a source of income, I suggest you go get one asap. Start saving up as much money as you can to get yourself a place and a life outside of married life. Make an appointment immediately for mental counseling(start working to rid yourself of some/all of the baggage from the last 16 years, which seems to be holding you back). Check your credit score to know how much it has been impacted by the marriage. Make sure all of your documents are in order. 🥱🥱

You say you don't dare to leave, yet he has already made clear that he will leave. So, you should probably spend your time better preparing yourself for the inevitable. 🥱

lawani:
✓ The topic is about why Canadians live longer than Nigerians. Not specifically about food affordability.

Canadians do not live longer in Canada because rent is expensive, do they? The reason given by the OP is access to nutrition .I.e. affordability. 🥱

IbileIfe:
Let us pray the Lord's prayer in Aramaic as our Messiah Yeshua prayed.

There is no record that Messiah Yeshua prayed that prayer, let alone doing so in Aramaic. So why live your life according to ideas that are baseless? 🥱

lawani:
✓ He talked about rent. It is not wrong to respond to him. I don't think that should be counted as derailing the thread. And the topic is not about food affordability! Check again

It is about food affordability if you read the OP. Affordability is the primary reason why the average Nigerian considers getting spaghetti and rice instead of maybe meat or eggs on it instead. 🥱🥱

lawani:
➜Minimum wage earners are struggling in any country and in high income countries many can not afford rent. The struggle is everywhere. Rent is only expensive in only a few cities in Nigeria while other places are very cheap. Some can be as cheap as 50k per annum for a room. Nigeria is very informal too and most people have more than one source of income. The average family in Nigeria can fully own their home by the time the couple are in their fifties. There is safety net in high income countries but there is no government revenue for that in Nigeria yet. The safety net is what makes the big difference

A minimum wage earner can afford to eat well in many developed countries thanks to food assistance programs that provide them enough for them to obtain nutritional meals daily. This topic isn't about rent but about food affordability. Let's stop with the numerous attempts to derail from the important issue here. 🥱🥱🥱

ebubeson:
Marriage was created specially by God to be enjoyed. It is not a place for complains, bitterness, disobedience, evil etc, though it comes with its challenges.

Now, if you ask historians, intellectuals, professors etc, or if you go to search online, you may never see any period where there was high divorce rate like today. So for thousands of years, you may hardly find any period where there was massive divorce like of today.
High divorce rate probably started from early 2000s.
With what you see today, do you still believe in marriage? I believe in it.

High divorce rate have been the norm since the time of your forefathers. However,they hid these facts by different means including demonizing divorced women, shaming them into living as outcasts in community so all blame fell on them and never on the men who wronged and divorced them. 🥱🥱

decisive:
It is a good question that is answerable in two ways:
1) If only the woman enters paradise without her husband. In such case.the woman has sweetest answer to all her desires and she is in the world of goodness nobody has been before.
2) If her human husband also enters paradise,she will be joined with her husband and she will be superior to the virgins Allah presented her husband with. Remember,she will have been beautifully transformed by Allah. That is bounty from Allah.
Wallahu ahlam!

WOW... you people hate women, but shy away from admitting it. So, the best way for a woman to get the best package as far as Islamic heaven is to ensure her husband does not make it in with her. Will she be able to have her own 72 male virgins and the libido of 100 women at that point??

Islamic women married to so-called pious Islamic men are f-ked here on earth and over there in Islamic heaven, is what you are saying. She gets to share his attention here with other wives, and even more women out there in Islamic heaven with such a man? Walahi... there is nothing honorable in any of this for women. 😥😥😥

sherif4owo:
The reward of men is not limited to the highlighted above. Allah promises all our heart desires. We get all what we ask for.
"And for you therein is ALL that your heart desires; and for you therein is ALL that you ask for..." Fussilat:31.
Allah Knows Best

Mohammed said Allah promised men all of their heart's desires, including 72 virgins, while women only get all of their heart's desires, excluding 72 male virgins of their own with the libido of 100 women package. Abi?

Mohammed said Allah knows best, yet even in his heaven, Allah continues to low-ball women... why? Are you insinuating that women remain second-class citizens even in Islamic heaven? Why not make their reward as explicit as Allah made the reward that awaited men? 🥱🥱🥱

dotunibrahim7:
In Nigeria people only eat protein during festive period

Exactly! And usually one day out of the entire festival period, too.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Probz:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y1D7oUGBHwY?si=icFtngxVMGOjKUds
That’s just a direct exemplification of wetin I-dey talk.

Carbohydrate + Carbohydrate = unbalanced diet. 🥱🥱🥱

Rep9jaCom:
➜Reports circulating on social media from Voice of Warri, a local media and gossip outlet based in Nigeria confirms the death of a woman identified as Madam Rita in Udu, Delta State, under controversial circumstances.
https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/wife-dies-after-confession-having/

Aren't we sick and tired of all of these nonsense stories at this point? What illness killed her? What is the likelihood that she was eventually poisoned by her husband after confessing to the affair? 🥱🥱

Pukkalolo:
✓ So it’s no longer “two heads is better than one.”
It’s now: two heads that genuinely like each other and truly want to support one another are better than one person who just wants the title of wife.

Marriage before now was always one head, though..the man's while the woman was a slave. (One head using the woman's head to benefit itself) That is why men went around tagging themselves the head of the family.🥱

Coolis:
You are hard on me but l can understand. Not trying to paint her in a bad light. Still very much interested in her. I will take your points to mean there's no red flag yet. Thank you

You were interested in her? I didn't get that at all from your post. It read more like you were trying to conquer her while spending just enough from what you typed up there. You entire OP reads more like a Nairaland how-it-went for someone who took tips from one of the toxic characters in this section. Those tips only work on hookup gals and not on real dates. 🥱🥱

By the way, leave this gal alone if she already rejected you. Like you, women want men who are interested in them, not trying to rest or size them up while hyperfocused on nickle-and-diming their interactions.🥱🥱

When you want to date someone, your mind needs to be interested in the person and not how much the person should spend or not spend or your money. Think carefully about that for next time. Maybe you should consider dating someone who is well within your bracket. Someone who will not mind mama put instead of an expensive joint, etc. 🥱🥱

thesolutions:
✓ Marriage was cultural and religious obligation.
But it has become something else now. The married believe responsibility starts when you are married.
Religion and culture maintain that two is always better than one. But civilization has so much destroyed both religion and culture that the statement now reads 'two good heads is better than one '!. Who spoiled the heads?

Marriage has not changed at all. Rather, women have. Women no longer accept the standards offered by their fathers and grandfathers to their mothers and grandmother a. And that has sent men scampering. It is finally dawning on some that they would have to bring more than just a a body and promises of financial support to the table like their fathers before them used to be able to in exchange for a lifelong commitment from women they then used and abused to their heart's content. 🥱🥱

LagosG:
Those who dont have a cap have a working head while those with many caps are headless.

No be me talk say a fool and his money are soon parted. It is not my place to insist what you have to do with your money but if I had that money, I would import clothes from Vietnam and household items and some car parts from China, then let the money work for me instead of forcing myself into a society that will not accept me, chain me into their economic machine while loneliness will become my middle name.

Are you currently accepted and left without chains in the Nigerian society where I assume you currently live today? 🥱🥱

You think loneliness only happens to those who leave the shores of Nigeria? What about the millions of lonely individuals who were born and raised in Nigeria? Is their plight of no significance because you need to ignore their existence to pretend to win against the others? 🥱🥱