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bizzibodi:
➜Which kinda religion is this that create disfunctional homes, social chaos, promiscuity & treat women lesser than a goat.

You can read the Quran for yourself to find out for yourself about the man who created the ideology that is Islam. Go to Quran.com and read through each chapter in your spare time this year. You won't regret it.

@DesireV, please stop lying against your Quran. It is only women who have issues and sins when it comes to divorce. That is as clearly stated in several passages in your Quran. A man can literally divorce a man without even needing to set foot in Sharia court, and he does not need to answer to anyone as far as his decision is concerned. This is according to Mohammed in the Quran you claim to follow. 🥱🥱

bizzibodi:
➜This is a mockery of marriage,this is promiscuity

It is no mockery! It is an Islamic kind of marriage. 🥱🥱🥱

Thundafireseun:
Divorce affects Children in America, Canada , East, south and west negatively….
Why is the Noth mentioned?

Stop lying! Islamic/Sharia divorce cannot be rationally compared with the Western ideal or even that which is right there in southern Nigeria.

@ Hussein27

Copied The gates of heaven won't be open for them grin
The kuffar will never enter Jannah.
"Surely those who receive our revelations with denial and arrogance, the gates of heaven will not be opened for them, nor will they enter Paradise until a camel passes through the eye of a needle. This is how We reward the wicked." Surah A'raf 7:40
The soul of kaafir will be blown away, going about till it goes back to its body.
The two angels will sit him down, they will ask who is your Lord. The kaafir that do say he's an atheist, he will regret, this day all his certificate, cloth wealth, affiliation will be gone. He has come to meet Angels where all degrees of this world are useless and can't save you.

You are right that the Kufar will never enter into the Mohammedan idea of Heaven, in the same way Mohammedans will never be able to make it into the Buddhist idea of heaven or the Kingdom of God. It is simple and understandable and simple! To each... his own. 🥱🥱

Ibrahim1985:
You made a very good point but at the same time, some kids are negative affected. What if they were neglient parents or was just a very bad influence e.g dad was not around due to gambling so kids flaunt schools or did not attend school because school fees was not paid. I know a person particularly whose parents were on drugs and lack of parental guidance almost made him a hooligan. After all , there is saying we are products of our environment

If you also look out there, you are bound to find kids who equally choose to beat the odds despite the environment they were born or raised into. For Pete's sake, others simply end their lives because they are unable to cope with it all. In the end, what matters is what one wants for self. You decide what you ultimately want for self. 🤔

Emmalez:
➜Source: https://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/02/pastor-curses-uk-based-woman-to-death.html?m=1

Na this kain... if say na Islam dem dey, dey quickly behead people. She should be glad she never encountered him in person.

Ibrahim1985:
Imagine seeing someone dad who has a drinking problem or get drunk frequently. A mum that dress inappropriate and does drugs. A dad who spend his children school fees on gambling or is very irresponsible? A how do those people cope?

You are not here to change your parents or make them better people. You are simply to focus on being better than those whom you meet. You just have to accept them as they are. 🥱🥱

amoco:
✓ Are you happily married?
If yes, then you would have known it's normal in happy normal homes.

So, your logic is that happy marriages are the norm therefore every married individual out there knows of this? 🥱🥱

And here I thought there was some sort of intelligence to engage here. 🤔

OLAADEGBU:
➜The incident, which was captured on video and circulated on social media, occurred along Whitechapel Road, near the East London Mosque, one of the largest mosques in Western Europe, according to Mail Online.

What she defended was instead the rights of everyone, including Christians, to speak up in public places where they are allowed to do so. Even Buddhists, Satanists, Pastafarians, Hindus, etc., have the same freedoms. 🥱🥱

DeDonniesHomes:
Most historical facts have some controversies.
Fatima’s story has symbolic power (for example in highlighting the role of women in Islamic history, or emphasizing Africa’s contributions to education), some of the traditional claims are viewed by scholars as having been amplified or simplified over time.
The claim that the institution functioned continuously as a “university” (in the modern sense) from its foundation is also challenged. What counts as a “university” is influenced by European models: degree granting, secular as well as religious instruction, institutional structure, etc. The gradual evolution from mosque → madrasa → university complicates drawing a sharp line at the start.
During renovations in the 20th century, a foundation inscription was discovered (on cedar wood) written in Kufic script that mentions “this mosque” being founded by Dawud ibn Idris in 877 CE. That could challenge the traditional narrative that Fatima founded it around 857-859.
WHETHER IT WAS FOUNDED IN 857, 859, OR 877, IT WILL STILL BE THE FIRST UNIVERSITY IN THE WORLD
It still doesn't matter whether it was founded by Dawud ibn Idris in 877 CE or Fatima founded it around 857-859. The only thing that matters here is when it started scholarism, and of course, that can be very controversial.

Fatima Al Fihri never existed. There is no evidence outside of Mohammedan narratives, which were cooked up centuries later, that such a woman ever existed. Evidence dug up around the area instead reveals the original builder of the mosque was a ruler named Dawud ibn Idris in 877 CE. Now, after that time, and we are talking centuries later, it was turned into a house of religious scholarship.... not a university in the sense of the word.

One of the biggest challenges to this story is a foundation inscription that was rediscovered during renovations to the mosque in the 20th century, previously hidden under layers of plaster for centuries. This inscription, carved onto cedar wood panels and written in a Kufic script very similar to foundation inscriptions in 9th-century Tunisia, was found on a wall above the probable site of the mosque's original mihrab (prior to the building's later expansions). The inscription, recorded and deciphered by Gaston Deverdun, proclaims the foundation of "this mosque" (Arabic: "هذا المسجد" by Dawud ibn Idris (a son of Idris II who governed this region of Morocco at the time) in Dhu al-Qadah 263 AH (July–August of 877 CE).

Remember, this is during the time that Islam was still very much in its infancy in the area.

Deverdun suggested the inscription may have come from another unidentified mosque and was moved here at a later period (probably 15th or 16th century) when the veneration of the Idrisids was resurgent in Fez, and such relics would have held enough religious significance to be reused in this way. However, Chafik Benchekroun argued more recently that a more likely explanation is that this inscription is the original foundation inscription of al-Qarawiyyin itself and that it might have been covered up in the 12th century just before the Almohads' arrival in the city. Based on this evidence and on the many doubts about Ibn Abi Zar's narrative, he argues that Fatima al-Fihri is quite possibly a legendary figure rather than a historical one.[26] Péter T. Nagy has also stated that the uncovered foundation inscription is more convincing evidence of the mosque's original foundation date than the traditional historiographical narrative.

By the way, the "University" was initially a mosque, probably some centuries after it was used only as a mosque, until about 1963 when it was turned into a university.🥱🥱

Scholars consider al-Qarawiyyin to have been effectively run as a madrasa until after World War II. Many scholars distinguish this status from the status of "university", which they view as a distinctly European invention. They date al-Qarawiyyin's transformation from a madrasa into a university to its modern reorganization in 1963. UNESCO and the Guinness World Records have cited al-Qarawiyyin as the oldest university or the oldest continually operating higher learning institution in the world.

amoco:
✓ Smart men support their wives at home in everything.
That is what beings stability and peace at home.
You won't have to force love and submission from your wife as it will flow naturally.
Forget all the hot false takes you see online. This is a normal thing for many stable and lovely homes.

There is nothing normalized about what op described. Hence the reason for the question. 🥱🥱

Fiscus105:
If your wife is heavily pregnant, can you Watch her clothes and do house chores, pending the time of her delivery?

If a man thinks it beneath him to wash the clothes of a woman he expects to be seen as his other half -- whether pregnant or not--- , then such a man does not deserve a woman who cares for him any more than he cares for her, let alone one who does not equally consider it beneath her to wash his cloths. 🥱🥱🥱

Exceed15:
Marry her anyhow but know the day you invited her aboard, ur trouble has started.

He does not need to invite her abroad to know that chaining himself to her will not end well for him. Ask the other men before you who attempted the same trick that you are attempting to have him play how it ended for them to learn that you are not even as smart as you begin to reason when it comes to these things. 🤔🤔

Gerrard59:
https://www.britishfertilitysociety.org.uk/fei/at-what-age-does-fertility-begin-to-decrease/
The graph shows that on average there is a decline in female fertility starting in the mid-thirties, with lower fertility especially after the age of 35. Women’s fertility will continue to decrease every year, whether or not she is healthy and fit because the number and quality of the eggs decreases with age. Even if a woman is not ovulating (for example if she is taking the contraceptive pill, or is pregnant), the number of eggs continues to decline at the same rate. How quickly a woman’s fertility declines will depend on a combination of genetic and lifestyle (e.g. smoking) factors.

Clearly, the information you posted DOES NOT provide back up for your earlier basic biology claim. 🥱

So, what now? Should women aim to have kids in their teens and early 20s without the financial resources necessary to feed and train said kids, while at the same time ensuring they do not end up burdens on and to those children? Or are the Womb-watchers Boys(not men)Association not done with monitoring women and taking it on themselves to determine when women can or cannot have children? 🥱🥱

Gerrard59:
➜According to basic biology, those are some of the best years to have children.
➜ This topic has been talked about for too long, and OP is correct. If women desire to have children, it is better to have them early.

According to what basic biology? I want to know what your source really is here, since I don't know of any basic biology telling women to have children before they are financially stable enough to care for their brood. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Why is this best of a woman about her having children before she has succeeded enough to be best able to take care of the children she intends to have (if at all)? 🥱🥱🥱

ayoncox:
You are going after a lady whose frontal lobes aren't yet matured, you will pay badly for it when it eventually get matured based on your approach

No mind Dem! 🙄🥱🥱

LabStores:
18 is fine, as long as she and her parents are okay with it.
The age of consent around the world today, even in many Western countries is below 18.
What age did Omotola married her captain husband?

Every woman is now Omotola whose husband did not leave back in Nigeria to fend for herself after marriage ooh. 🙄🙄🙄

And let me guess, every man is now omotola's husband, abi? 🥱🥱

Wealthyonos:
Laugh wan finish me for here. It's like keeping unripe banana inside a nylon for sometime with the hope that it will not ripen before you return. The Introduction Ceremony alone is a license for her to become promiscuous because she already knows that marriage is sure for her.

What guarantee exists that the OP is not himself intending to engage in promiscuous acts of his own even after the ceremony? If he can, the woman can and should, too. No one person should made to carry the weight that is commitment in a relationship(whatever type is assumed) on his or her shoulders alone. 🥱🥱

Zoomx:
✓ i 'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.
There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.
I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .
✓ Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.
P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

She is way too young for you to tie her down to your whims abroad. 🥱🥱

2. Ok! Clearly, you are not serious about this gal, so I suggest you please break up with her before you leave. If after you have been abroad and maybe come to realize she is still the only one for you, then and only then should you attempt approaching her again.... assuming you have matured at that point for marriage. 🥱

Kalulu44:
Honestly, only you know what's biting you cus I really don't get what you're yapping about

see this one! You had no idea where this was going but felt quite on injecting yourself into it anyway...if attention is what you want, seek it elsewhere. 🥱🥱

bluefilm:
Still on still, I will never bow down to any European idea of God

You should never bow to a foreign idea, including an Arabic one**, since that is equally foreign. Also, you should be able to put to the test the word of any deity you adopt to prove it is, in fact, what it claims. 🥱🥱

** The Arab language spoken in parts of Africa today is a result of Islamic colonization; Arab was not a language spoken anywhere in Africa by Africans. Arabic became a language in Africa after colonization took place from the Islamic Arab world. 🥱🥱🥱

ahmedio2017:
✓ How? Can you explain why it is nonsense

Look up the meaning of the term inheritance if you don't understand it well. 🥱🥱

ahmedio2017:
If your parents has sponsored your education up to university level, you have inherited everything on earth....

Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

EmperorIsaac:
Jesus is actually all we need....He is the source of our sustenance.
Mine left me with Jesus, and oh, no better inheritance than that!

Nonsense! 🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
✓ You don't seem to get him. He said the main religions he knows which are Christian and Muslim, both have the same idealogy about God which is true. And he's basing his comments on both religion

Stop yapping this nonsense about main religions already. Most of you merely reason they all have to be the same and you spin your arguments from within that box. And that is the major cause of your blindness and ignorance.🥱🥱

BAILMONEY:
You are neither here nor there. What's your religious belief and what denomination of Christianity are you practicing KOBO

Have you, in fact read the Quran yet? Or are you just content with living as yet another brainwashed human driven and controlled by religion/cult? 😩😩😩

Anyways, for the umpteenth time, I have no religion and hence no need for any of the gobbledegook-ry of it. 🥱🥱🥱

Magnetic010:
➔Religion does not interest me that much I think you can seduce that from my respond to the original post...Hence I don not care to read many religious books I only speak based on the ones I have read or better still the religions I have been able to study(based on what and people around me) I have not been to Asia so I no nothing about their Buddha or shiva or whatever...But two most popular religions are based on similar ideologies...There is a supreme being who is the maker of everything we both see and do not see
➔ He made man and gave man dominion over all things. That ideology is what I think is just humans feeling self importance.
➔ My stand is any religion that tells you or makes you somehow believe that God created the whole earth and after that he has nothing else to do other than to listen to humans whining(prayers),praises and punish those who refuse to do this or that is just rubbish..because clearly what they are telling you is that humans are so important that God spends every minute of his life doting on us..which makes no sense

1. You don't need to visit Asia to learn all you can of those religions or any religion. You could simply pick up at least one of the thousands of books out there on the subject to start yourself on any religion you wanted to learn of. The main thing is to at least start. Don't go around pretending! 🥱🥱

2. This particular story here is from the Torah's idea of creation. How did you come about concluding that all religions have this same narrative as far as the creation story is concerned?

3. You said any religion, meaning you think your religion is different from all of the others?

jesusjnr2020:
What Shocked Man Back To Christianity After He Left Christianity For Imenala
https://www.facebook.com/100053832907580/posts/1435758054895278/?app=fbl

This is a very stewpid write up by a silly man who never really got anywhere outside of the box that was the religion he was raised in. How can anyone attempting a new religion approach it in this manner? No be brain damage be this one? 🥱🥱