₦airaland Forum

RealityKings:
■ Where did I say I was a law unto others?

The OP seems to have her mind made on not having a child and doesn't seem to be looking for anyone to change that aspect of her decision in any way.

You may feel that your life is about procreating and all that; not everyone believes in or lives that "lie".

RealityKings:
■ All these defeats a man's primary purpose in life. There is absolutely nothing unique in life apart from bringing forth children. It also defeats a woman's primary purpose. Life is about creation. People should be encouraged to have just about the number of kids they can raise. I feel like the op aisha1314 need counselling. Also sex is very sweet...

Your personal life may be founded on these ideas you put forward, and that is all fine and good. Just that, not everyone out there values their life in the same way, and it is best you respect this since you are not the law to others.

Esinwaju:
They don't seem to be deciding much in going into that field from the obvious look of things. But the foreigners who would rather be in other fields would have to bend themselves into this particular field because it just happens to be the most certain place for a decent opportunity? Local workers don't like incentives? Should that not be enough motivation? A vast number of Japa comes through a particular field and you somehow believe there is no intentionality behind it on the path of those who made it possible? You can choose to be ignorant to these stark realities.

I finally got the response I think fits people who think as you do while watching a video on how a once closed society like South Korea is now being forced to open up its boarders to foreign workers particularly in the area of child care.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46YQQwDfpRI?si=Q_NqgjLZFIG_Em8m

40:05 - 46:30

toprealman:
■ That’s not the point. Who in his rightful mind will vote for Tinubu? If in 1929 women can come together and fight against what they see as their a major failure in governance, in 2024 ( 95years later), a group of women are gathering to beg for bread by same government killing them softly. Does it make any sense?

If you put it that way, then yes, it is disgusting!

dalass:
■ And you happen to know the money they have in their account plus what they spent on people??
■ By the way, do you even know your LG govet counsellors, your LG chairman or Vice chairman. How much is their budget for the year?
How much is allocated to your state? What is your governors budget? Who is your house of Assembly at the State HOA and their budget.
I'm sure you don't even want to know the situation of those who should be truly accountable to you yet you went no get shishi for church must chhok mouth ...
■ Continue nairaland chartered accountant

1. You don't need to look in their private bank accounts to know this as their business decisions, lifestyles, and the people they surround themselves with reveal all of this to those who are not blinded by their lies.

2. Yes! Their information and budgets are not as hidden as you pretend. That you refuse to search this out for yourself does not mean it is hidden at all.

3. Open your eyes and mind, please. Stop steeping your mind in ignorance pretending we are all in it together because that is where you remain.

Lalami3232:
■ Funny enough, one man go don invest in this babe at a point in her life but she turned down the man. Life na football, everybody go collect either today, tomorrow or someday 😁

So because a man invested in her life at one time, she should have tied herself to him against her very own desires?

Look, na your kind dey end up murdering your mates after marriage. Better rid yourself of this she-belongs-to-me-cause-I-invested-in-her mentality before it is too late. Learn instead that you cannot own another human being, not even someone else's daughter.

aisha1314:
■ Hi everyone.
I actually meant to post this on Reddit but was unable to because I just joined the forum so I decided to post here instead to see what people think.
I'm only 20 (turning 21 soon) but I've known since I was little that I don't want to have children. It's mainly for financial reasons, because I want to just keep all my money for saving and spending on myself only, not on children. I also find pregnancy, childbirth, and babies kind of repulsive. Overall, I just don't want the responsibility that comes with having children. I don't want to look after or be responsible for any living thing, I just want to keep my time, money (most important, I love money more than anything, it's the first love of my life), and space to myself. I see children as a waste of space, time, and money.
So anyway, I've been thinking about this a bit recently and I just decided to post on here to see what others think. The question is: Is it easier for men or women to stay child free over the entire course of their lives?
Personally I think it's easier for women to stay child free than men because they're more birth control options for women than men.
Firstly, because men basically (at least right now) have only two choices for birth control, condoms (which aren't really the best at preventing pregnancy if you find it hard to use them properly) and vasectomy sterilization. Woman have 12 different birth control options to choose which works best for them from.
Secondly, it's because if an unplanned pregnancy occurs, it's all the woman's choice whether the unplanned child comes into the world or not. She can choose not to have an abortion and to keep the baby and the child free man can't force an abortion on her. And, he'd still have to pay child support.
Thirdly, it's easier for women to baby trap men than for men to baby trap women. All a woman has to do is lie to the man that she's on birth control when she isn't. Or she could be on birth control, but deliberately not using it properly. And if she gets pregnant, she can choose to keep the child against his will and he's still financially responsible even though he didn't want the child and thought she was using birth control. Also even if a man manages to baby trap a woman (not really sure how it's possible though) she has the choice to just have an abortion. The man can't force her to keep the baby.
Basically I feel that women can force men into pregnancy, through baby trapping, lying about birth control use, deliberately not using their birth control properly, and refusing to abort an unplanned pregnancy. But men can't force women into parenthood. So I feel it's easier for women who decide they don't want children to remain child free than it is for child free men.
This is just my own reasoning and perspective. I'd like to know what others think about this.

None of this has anything to do with gender to begin with. The choice not to have a child is a personal one and it is for the individual to have to deal with on his/her own. No need to try to make it about others or consider what others would think.

A man can easily get a vasectomy if he indeed wants to go childless if he does not wish to give up on sex entirely. A woman can also get her tubes tied or donate her womb either to science or to another recipient if she wants to go childless but not forego sex altogether. It all a personal choice.

AllBlack:
■ Abeg leave those manipulative creatures. if VDM suya fall for ground, dem go say na their prophecy.

How would his suya fall for ground abeg?

Onewazobia:
■ What if his way are pure, will Jah kill the just because of a Man?

What do you mean pure? Who pure? Mouka?

DmonSlayer10:
■ They "Overate" themselves,huh? Try them and see!!

Try them who? Your scammers-in-the-lords?

Wainey:
■ I find it very insane that christians who believed in the story of Daniel in the Lion's den won't believe in the woman who met a lion that waved her goodbye.
Also the woman who divided the river just to pick her bible is asinine but the man who divided the sea so the Israelites could cross made sense, Seriously? I think it's safer to believe the testimonies from "the chosen" cos at least these people are alive and there is physical evidence of their existence. Even if you don't believe, in the next 500years, if any christian hears this story, they will believe it just like you believed in all the stories written in the bible.
That is religion, it's a believe without evidence, only insane people believe in it

The problems with your claim are numerous but the major thing here is the stories in the Bible are written around the Israelites and their God of Israel. The God of Israel is written to have sworn that His one and only people are Israelites — those born of the bloodline of Jacob from their mother's womb. The same God of Israel declared a sealing of the prophesies and visions— His Old Law of Moses — some 1900 years ago.

So, rightly when a Nigerian — a non-Israelite whom Jesus Christ warned should not be handed that which is Holy — proclaims that the same God of Israel granted him or her some miracle, it is right to doubt the claim. There remains no direct or indirect connection between the deities of Nigeria with the God of Israel.

dalass:
■ Do you know how people are on health benefits and education scholarships and people they feed and clothe plus shelter in programs organized by Catholic, Baptist, CAC, Aladura churches Methodist, RCCG, Red Cross, Winners, TREM and thousands of other churches
Those things your governors and LG combined can't even do for the society. Just continue and frustrate them from their missions ... The heads of those people who are on their programs will swear for you if nothing else
By the way, what have you done for anyone? How many people have you helped im your life?

See person wey swallow scam! So, if a pastor collects more than Naira 1,000,000,000.00 a year from his sheeple and then uses Naira 10,000,000.00 to sponsor a handful of them, he has done a thing greater than your Governors and LG councilmen who equally steal from you and play the same scam on you all?

success4me:
■ @officialwdhtv: some of you and most nairalanders don't watch or read before you start posting tribalistic comments. What she said in the video is that: I want this Country to be great for the next generation including my kids, not someone who will just be wiping booths.
■ Listen she's not downgrading or taking a dig at any migrant worker, no migrant worker is even mentioned here. She said she want the Country to be great for the next generation including the so called migrant' s kids.
■ Please let's always listen or read very clearly before misquoting people for your own alterior motives. I am against tribal wars on nairaland. Ire o

Did you bother reading what you wrote though?

2. She is downgrading the importance of the "bottom wipers" who according to some in the UK are mostly foreign workers; Don't they too deserve a great country to work in? Why should considerations not be made for them in this country she dreams of for her kids?

3. Nonsense! The country can be great even as it continues to provide jobs for migrant workers since those jobs are only available in the first place only when companies are not able to fill them locally.

Agba7617:
■ Pls help me if u can

I already did by telling you to go out now to begin protesting/campaigning against the criminals who have stolen from you.

Pat081:
THIS is what they will use to get the vote in year 2027

Let's be more informed in our claims abeg! LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra on behalf of Tinubu. 🙄

Sirianese:
They all voted for their tribesman, their father because he was gonna take care of them Abi shey na statistics we go chop?!

Let's be more informed in our claims abeg! LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra on behalf of Tinubu. 🙄

toprealman:
They had to come with military folks to ensure that order is maintained. Same people will still mortgage their future for two slices of Agege bread in 2027. Man shall not live by bread alone, please balance the ”diet” at least 😎

Let's be more informed in our claims abeg! LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra on behalf of Tinubu. 🙄

Charly68:
■Now that the military are winning the battle ; why calling for mercenaries..in any case it is a call for wake up to the military authority. We have given them too much resources to clear the menacing boys since this war started . I could feel the senator's pain . ■ Let's keep praying for the khaki men .

Winning what battle? When? They showed you pictures of 3 or 4 bandits they killed in a month out of more than 2000 groups, and somehow you declare they are winning the battle? Think carefully about this declaration of yours abeg!

2. Nonsense!

Agba7617:
■ Lol.. hunger dey abeg

Exactly why you should go out and protest against the government causing the hunger.

motionarena:
The Mega City he Built

He built almost nothing in that state. I lived in Lagos before Tinubu showed up and most of the necessary infrastructure was already in place, some improved by Marwa who came before Tinubu. Tinubu did nothing for 8 years.

Also LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra to install Tinubu as President. 🙄

Racoon:
Just imagine! Rice or bread miserable palliatives; which side do you want it? It certain all those ronu miscreants are on those line. This is how they have weaponised poverty to be using it to afflict the populace. Wicked souls.

Recall that LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra to install Tinubu as President. 🙄

Jostoman:
Lagosians are enjoying Bread instead of Opportunities.

LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra to install Tinubu as President. 🙄

Bliss4Lyfe:
Odabe! Very Good! Next time you will know election is abour policy and manifesto not tribe. Tinubu is sitting in Aso driving Cadillac Escalade and 100million dollar King Jet he just bought with your money. He is waiting to recieve his Mega Yacht, you are fighting over bread on t he street in 2024 like animals. ;DVery

Let's be more informed in our claims abeg! LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra on behalf of Tinubu. 🙄

BigYash:
Who ever is giving them bread shop stop. They must learn a lesson..

LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra. 🙄

uvie66:
.... this means APC regime in 2027, all he has to do is to distribute 5k

LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra. 🙄

Olatayo0103:
Effects of tribalism 😆😆

LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra. 🙄

Kasdat5:
These people will still vote who improvised them , even if election were to hold tomorrow.

LP won the 2023 election in Lagos State before INEC came in to do its abracadabra. 🙄

Glimpsetv:
A large crowd of Lagosians was filmed in a long queue struggling to collect a loaf of bread. To maintain order, several military personnel were on the ground to control the crowd. This has triggered a lot of reactions online.

See what Lagosians have been reduced to all thanks to the man who supposedly built Lagos. This man built nearly nothing in all of 8 years as Governor of Lagos State; instead, he established a tax regime to ensure the people continued to pay for corruption in the system, and installed agberos as an arm of government to intimidate and bully the opposition.

DmonSlayer10:
■ I hope you are not a BASTARD!(someone who grew up without a father). Cos only Bastards will call a great Man of God like Pastor Muoka a FOOL. Even if you're an Idol worshipper,an Islamic radical or someone who believes that there's no God who created him and the Universe,at least be civil and respectful to persons and authorities higher than you! I ask again; Are you a BASTARD!!! can you dare call any big Islamic leader a fool? Or call any of those your yahoo-yahoo witch-doctors a fool?? Very soon,hand go start to the touch all of you demon-possesed agents of the devil who're out to destroy our Churches and their leaders!!

Stop fuming in the mouth abeg! Your scammer-in-the-lord Mouka was declared a thief who comes to steal from people, kill the fat of them, and destroy their very futures with his many lies and deceit. He is no better than your Nigerian politicians who equally lie to you, rob you all of your mandates and futures and then tell you all it is for your own good.

Sacchi1162:
Nigerians and hyping nonsense

No be small things! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

zombieHUNTER:
Mouka is not the church . Christ is the church All these mushroom "churches" embarrassing Christianity will fade away "Lion carried you, and later waved bye bye when it dropped you " SMH If CAN should abolish Tithes and offerings in churches, 95% of the churches will close shop ,Tinubu the tax master should be taxing these churches, that's if Adeboye would allow such

Wetin this one dey talk abeg! How can Tinubu do that when his friend Adeboye needs to chop his own portion of the loot, clean mouth hiding behind Tithe and God of a foreign nation— Israel?