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Ileke-IdI:
Still wondering whadaell you ppl were doing in Mexico

I have been to Mexico just once . . . .Matamaros (a lot of americans actually live there).

I just found the 'kokoye' name funny the first time I heard it and decided to use it as my handle on NL.

Ileke-IdI:
There's another ekiti [DapoBear] on NL today, he's in San Fransisco. Is that you or someone else? were you banned?

This is and has always been Kokoye!

The mexican ekiti from oke-imesi 

^^^

My parents and uncles and aunties are all typical ekitis and they have never called a senior 'oga mi'.

Olumogun, e be like say na you go be the NL ekiti teacher now o . . cos ur ekiti lyrics are tight!

Wumine:
In the Nigerian context, Inlaws! If only they'll mind their business,

i hope you are referring to in-laws from both sides?

In case you guys dont understand what's goin on, this guy is on the verge of losing his job.

How many of you have stayed all alone in your house for three full weeks and not talk to anyone?

I'm not pestering him or talking about the loss . . .I have lost a child before so I know how things work.

No matter how much we hurt, life goes on. Whether he likes it or not, his life must go on.

I just dont want him to lose his job . . .or hurt himself.

I'm the only person he's picking calls from at the moment so I cannot ignore him.

He needs help.

For all you f.ools posting your contact details, the thread was created over three years ago.

The poster has 3 kids already.


get over it

^^^

Not bad at all.

Martin Lawrence said he'd lick in-between the lines

ZIM DRILL:
simple i want to know you guys

OK. So now that you have known the likes of MOBO444 and concluded, generalized and categorized all of us as loud,

what are you still hanging around for?

ZIM DRILL:
nigerians all thieves conmen since wherever they go the decieve and con people

FYI. This site was created and is managed by a NIGERIAN.

What the heck are you doing here?

^^^

It is sad but the honest truth

And this is part of the reason why some men will stop at nothing to be rich (kindappings, 419, POLITICS, army robbery).

lol

funny.

being taken for granted.

^^^

I thought you said earlier that I could be getting him irritated.

See now why I am concerned.

money.

whatever floats ur boat.

The fact that stuff works for some couple does not mean it will work with you. Like the other poster said, sit down with your spouse and decide between you how best to take care of your home. You dated for a while so you should be able to understand and accept each other's shortcomings.

Good luck.

^^^

But you will agree that overnight, unrestricted intimacy is the best. And that is hard to accomplish is she aint sleepin over

If you think you are going to get any reasonable person to go against your mom in this case, you are making a mistake. That is what mothers do.

- What you need to do now is to assure your girl that your mom really cares for her and takes her as her own daughter - that is why she did what she did.

- Then talk to your mom as well. Let her know how you feel about this girl and that you are both matured people (tell her this in a nice way though). Then let her know you would have preferred if she'd let you get the evacuation notice across to her girl.

Your mom will be cool as long as she is confident that you will do the right thing and make the right choices. 

But for your own good and that of your relationship, you must agree with her (your mom) that it is not right for the girl to be staying with you b4 marriage. At least give your mom that feeling. 

Good luck

^^

Thanks and God bless.

I will try . . but I really feel concerned for this person.

He's locked himself up in his house for 3weeks . . no work, nothing. He's all alone holed up.

he's not even picking up other people's calls.

Like I said, I know the feeling so I have stopped calling for a few days now.

But I am truly concerned.  I know him very well to be a cheerful person . .now locked up on the house for 3 weeks . .alone?

I also dont want him to lose his job. Businesses dont care after a while.

I have loved a lost one before (child) and after a while I felt better with close friends around cheering me up.

But I guess we all different.

^^^

Three weeks indoors and not wanting to talk to anyone??

I am truly scared for him.

@ post.

I can only try. Just sad when you know a close friend is hurting terribly and you are trying to help but theyre pushing.

The person lost a loved one. He's kept to himself for over 3weeks now.

Na wah for this spammer o

This person in question, I believe is in pain and being very defensive about opening up.

I am trying really hard to get the person to open up as I believe this might help heal some of their pain.

Dont suggest reference to a therapist of phychologist as this person will not move an inch at the sound of the shrinks

lol.

funny but wont work with a headstrong type.

How do you force a conversation out of someone who is bent on just giving one-word answers?

Not a good teacher . .sorry.

Ask and I will answer

am sure the pix aint real . . but funny all the same.

Ileke-IdI:
Wow. . . . Is this ekiti for real? Couldn't understand it. What does "buoda" mean? Does it mean "wait".
Gotta ask my mom how to say it, the tone of it.

'buoda' or 'booda' is how they call 'brother'

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'Buoda mi, ka bi e wa . .mo ti j'oko si b'eee la taaro.

Ugba wo le ma de beee?'
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my brother, where are you? Ive been sitting here all day

when are you going to arrive now?