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These Koreans are fast, even in dribbling.

I don come back o . . . had to go grab my lunch

See I missed a goal . . how fantabulous was it??

Cristalz:
Nor dey vex naw.
The negative energy will affect the Eaglets' performance.

I am hopeful ojare.  That was a wonderful shot / goal though.

lol

kokoye:
Nigeria has a better, more experienced team.

I take this back  

bijorium:
thanks guys. I am at work and cant watch. Would you guys please update ASAP so I dont cringe on this seat

1. 0 in favor in Nigeria.

ola_two:
fink the keepers GWOOD

Sorry I meant 'more' instead of 'much' . . for you nitpickers

Em, how does FIFA calculate experience - Is it by how many times a nation been to this stage of the tournament  . . and how many times a nation has won the event?

 Is it not also obvious that we have more control of this particular match?

I stand corrected.

T@meD0:
is it me or is it that the Koreans seem reluctant  or scared to play?

this is not the same Korean team i've seen play thoughout this tournament o

Nigeria has a better, more experienced team and the crowd is not helping matters.

Go figure.  

you need to calm down!

Let us pray.

Lord, please bless the eaglets with some game;

More goals than the Korean team.

We shall come our victorious at the end of the day . .

. . and the celebration @ the Obudu Cattle Ranch will be well deserved and enjoyed.


Amen

A lot of people use the 'strong black successful' phrase as a reason for a break-up . . . that pisses me off. _{anybody seen Roscoe Jenkins?}

bawomolo:
If you get a derogatory / disrespectful answer, then you are in the wrong relationship. Move on . . . I don't know why people persevere in abusive relationships.

Right on.

With regards to this thread, what I now cannot stand is some people blaming such a break-up (as we stated above) on the fact the guy cannot handle a strong successful woman.

It's not because you are successful or strong - both good qualities.

The other party left because your attitude stinks!

Tanzos:
just for kicks guys try askin your babe for money sometime that youre broke, youd be amazed!

If you get a derogatory / disrespectful answer, then you are in the wrong relationship. Move on

michelin89:
If you feel your woman is belittling you because she has money, WAKE UP SLEEPING BEAUTY: SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!

Word.

Like I said earlier, you got no business being together. A lot of poeple originally get together for the wrong reasons.

Divorce is legal and cheap . . also not a sin in my own opinion.

michelin89:
@ Kokoye

But I think every man feels the need to protect their women, when they love them of course.

Is that a bad thing?

michelin89:
OK: if MOST men---But you won't deny that ALL men do feel they have to protect their women in one way or the other, because they somehow see them as fragile.

See. you just edited your post as well. it's all good though

YES. I will always protect my wife and children is EVERY way possible - simply because they are part of me. And it ought to be vice versa

In protecting my family, I am simply protecting myself.

michelin89:
OK: if SOME men---

lol.

michelin89. You have really evolved.

How many people would take a correction like you just did . . . without any trouble??

My respect for you is up one level.

Over a long period (back in the 80s), my mom made more money than my dad and nobody new anything about it - even I got to find out a few yrs ago.

Reason: Simple, there was mutual love and respect between them regardless of status.

There will always be problems as long as one partner thinks they are in competition with the other.

michelin89:
I got the idea that these guys were sort of linked to me from your comment below (Why did you edit your post?)

Fact is the poster is not talking about those who are in a relationship but she also brought up the cases of women who are unable to settle with a man because they are successful. If men would learn to see women as human being rather than the weaker sex they'd live a better and stressfree life.

See, therein lies there problem. You automatically assume every man is like that. Have you been reading my posts?

I never saying anything negative about women since I have 4 sisters and also happily married to one - also have a wonderful mom.

I just cant stand it when some people bring others down to make themselves feel good.

talk about sticking to the topic

michelin89:
Ahahahhahahah! Right on point but you missed something: I never said I was with him.

Do you know how many times I have read on this forum: "Is that the way to speak to a man?" "Don't you know you must respect men?" etc

Sorry but either men or women respect must be earned and money isn't equal to respect.

I never said you were with any guy - I only answered your question.

Again, like I always also say, some men / women are fools and not worth being involved with - like those men you mentioned above.

Respect ought to be mutual since we are partners and we should be one.

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Bottomline, if you cannot respect a man / woman regardless of their status, you have no business being with him / her.

Bottomline, if you cannot respect a man / woman regardless of their status, you have no business being with him / her.

Fhemmmy:
hahahahahaha . . . . u mean they able to deceive themselves, Lol

Yes now. cos there are some others like them on this forum who will support them.

So they actually tend to start believing their lies.

Thank God there's a forum like NL where they can come n lie to make themselves feel good.

My main issue that some ladies now tend to blame the fact that they're still single (or not in a relationship) on their being a strong black successful woman - or that the guys who simply dont fancy them are gay.

Self-denial of course.

Thank God we have strong black women who got married when they had nothing, still married now that they have it all and going strong forever.

Thank God I am married to one of such. _{My head is swelling just thinking of her - bless her}

Secretz:
Na waaa ooo. . . .

Now please someone, define the meaning of a 'successful' woman?

I don't think men are afraid of 'successful' woman, they are afraid of women with a bad stinking attitude and is 'successful' at the same time, because she nor get no shame and will continue to remind him of how useless and 'unsuccessful' he is.

What you said is not funny. It is a good advice for some people.

It goes both ways: Some men believe they ought to be the provider, while some women believe the man ought to be the provider. When these roles gets reserved and there was true no love n respect from the start, such problems arise.

I am one with my wife - I make money, we both spend it; she makes money - we spend it together as well. We threw the 'my money' idea out of the window way back since we realised we had the same goal.

What's up with all these competition you people are bringing into a marriage - what is that supposed to do other than break the union??

Admit that you hurt and ur family urself when u hurt ur wife and vice versa . . . that will be the no.1 solution to these problems.

I thought marriage was meant to make a union out of two people in love. But I guess not.

That's what you get when you marry for the wrong reasons.

"Strong black woman"

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-2578.0.html

Some people (with low self-esteem, self - denial and inferiority complex) come to NL to make themselves feel good.

. . .and the truth shall set you free . . . if you allow it to.

Only 5:0

pere

the NZL keeper na apere ajase

the guy dey cry . . sorry