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Happy birthday dude.

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Pweety4me, that's a westernized Nigerian man for you 

You just gotta luv 'em

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I am a good nigerian man. 

lol.

dont worry. You will get the award you're looking for: most threads created in the Romance section.

Dont see anyone esle competing with you.

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OK

I gave you my own answer . . not everyone's

She has complete faith and trust in me.

Male response: NADA

I have to be physically attracted to you to start talking about a relationship, so if you are ugly in my opinion . . .sorry.

I cant get serious with you if your personality stinks to me, so . . .sorry

Nothing wrong with it if you are very single.

You dont have to toast.

Use the backdoor approach - have someone introduce you, become friends and wriggle your way in.

This is one of the questions I will never give an answer to.

Because some may not be able to handle the truth

obowunmi:
But little ones thinking of marriage at that age, absolutely maddening.

Part of the system and culture thing I talked about.

Marrying young is like a way of life in some parts and religion.

You are welcome.

I have been there so I know how you feel.

It is well.

Some power families recently got married in Lagos . .very recently

The girl wasnt really digging the guy cos she felt he wasnt attractive enough.  Not like she was very attractive herself.

Her mom convinced her to marry him because he was from a wealthy and royal family.  And this girl's dad is also a billionaire in Nigeria o! So
poverty had nothing to do with it.

Bottomline, the girl married the guy becuase of his wealth and royalty . .and then we'll start crying if they divorce in a few years.

So you can see how we think in that country.

It is the system, culture and tradition.

Sad.

This is why there is almost no hope for that country.

We need a total re-orientation . . we know how impossible that is.

Yes, this period can be trying but you need to stay strong.

You also need some strong support form your husband and your family in general . . .I hope they theyre praying with you.

Mkae sure everything has been checked out medically on both sides and ENOY YOUR MARITAL LIFE.

Use this period to travel around and have fun with your spouse . . you wont have time when the kids start coming.

I have friends who waited for up to 4 years before the kids came so . . .all will be well

Stay strong,  stay focused . .stay relaxed if you can.

We are not God . .only God knows why . . and for good reason as well . .we just dont know.

And dont let the religious bodies tell you it is a sin in your life causing it . .PLEASE

God bless you.

nonyc:
. . . .av askd her if i did somthing wrong and she said she dont know, i dont wanna make love to her cos am still a virgin. should play hard on her? i cant belive am deeply in love with her. . . .

Sorry dude. Someone else is laying the pipes.

That may be why she doesnt care for you that much anymore.

I pee standing.

ogugua88:
It's very easy for some to say they would leave. A lot of people would stay, particularly women.

Preach.

There are several things to consider.  

It aint just easy to walk away like that, except of course, you are single!  

Again, I say, set a timeline.

If the person is trying really hard to change and making progress . . your call.

If not, walk.

The only thing I would not think twice about is cheating.

Set a timeline. Try to work with the person to change (it works at times).

Take a hike if there are no signs of improvement  . .or at the end of your timeline.

But yes, some people do change.

. . and why are we counting?

I bet she told the first two she loved them most.

1 - as big as your pocket can handle . . up to you sweetie. Really meant to introduce your 'people' on both sides.

2 - Wedding gown is not for the introduction party.

3 - Dont know.

Na jail term you dey take play.

paedophile

Nothing wrong with sex during pregnancy EXCEPT your doctor specifically says not to . . .with a valid reason.

Truth it, some ladies just dont feel like it during pregnancy . .while some crave it more.

A little understanding on both sides should be.

But you cant tell me to stay away from you for 9 MONTHS for no reason.

If the doctor say no, he or she will tell you why.

as in 14 years old?

just making sure.

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You dont have to attend the wedding . .

Wish him well in life and move.

I know, it sucks but that's reality for you.

The thought of having to find out a guy's genotype before you can decide to get serious . . sad

Simple.

Give your baby Gripe Water.

That's all. Fast relief

uniqueren:
depends on who is doing th looking

if na beta person,no yawa

buh, why you go look?

So is there any crime in looking?

even staring self

why did she wear it in public if not for others to see?

Such ladies got issues.

And guess what, it happens a lot.

Some lady wore a long skirt with a million slits on a bus and people were looking (as planned . .right?). Not touching o!

Then she starts cussing and everyone lashes out @ her, even other ladies on the bus.  

So . . , why did she wear it

Such just dont know what they want. Simple.

And that's why they are easily manipulated.

poster . . so, where did you get your 'suicide' story from?