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Is she pregnant?

Mrs.Chima:
Are you sure you ready for the repercussions?

I don't think you can survive without seeing Mrs. Chima on NL.

I make your dark days brighter. I am the life of the party.

Yup . . and that's why I LIVE here sweetie

lindabon:
a successful woman is strong, independent woman, who under certain circumstances, can survive without a man

Define 'certain'

alstarmayo:
Its poverty mentality how can you say dating/marrying a man who can provide more than you need is success

Well, that's your opinion.

Poeple are still lining up to 'like' the post.

Mrs.Chima:
You got issues.
_{Hey Mr. Koyoke:::::}

What would life be without me and you communicating and discussing these issues?

you want me to walk away . . .or the silent treatment?

pendo89:
kokoye Not even a single like!!

That's what I thought.

Hence the reason for the term 'gold digger'

alstarmayo:
Only poor people defines success like that, success is not about money

Are you saying some females are poor

pendo89:
I have this on my fb settings:

A successful woman is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at her

Nice definition by the way.

But . . .So . . .how many 'likes' do you have for this definition . .e reach 36??  

as in . .you know . . when then . . .

other females are sending the poster friend requests just to 'like' the post . . .



_{Hey Mrs Chima . . .}

Some female posted this on her facebook page"

'A successful man is one who makes more money than his woman can ever spend . . a successful woman is one who can find and

hold down such a man.'


36 'likes' and counting . .all from females.

^^^

The same reason why God must surely be laughing at some people right now.

He gave you common sense for a reason. . .use it.

God bless us all.

^^^

I wont blame the pastor.

I blame the person who has decided to make the pastor the head of their household.

Mrs.Chima:
Now you did mentioned if he is angry it is better that he walk away then to strike her. My question is this why must he retort to physical violent simply because he is angry? That's a bad sign in my book.

I gave 3 available options known to men and you decided to pick just one outta the three . . .why??

You must be the one looking for trouble

lol.

You know me

^^^

I agree issues need to be dealt with.

But not when I'm boiling . . .and you are too. It never ends well

I keep quiet or take a walk to calm down.

Then when we are both relaxed . .either one can politely bring it up and we will have a decent and fruitful conversation and resolution.

Never a good thing if you are trying to get a reaction out of an angry man.

My thought.

I thought Christ was supposed to be the head of the household.

Blame the system and blame the mothers (which most of you will be someday).

The system and mothers drum it into the men to be the breadwinner or nothing else.

And most ladies consider themselves 'successful' when they find a wealthy man.

So . . who's to blame?

^^^

You did not answer the question . . of course!

lindabon:
lol, commot there, the tin go tear tear person for area abeg, too rough and though, LMAO

Have you ever told the 'naija guy' doing the downtown thing to stop because it was rough?

This is what you get when you believe the stuff posted by anonymous people online. . .mostly young boys deliberately trying to catch fun on their computers.


we can come to nairaland to have fun . . but it is what it is:


Nigerian men respect their women. . . and I am one of them.

I said men. Not boys

If your husband thinks the confrontation may lead to something out of his control, HE will keep quiet . .or walk out

Better that way in my opinion.

Choose one: he keeps quiet, he curses you out or he raises a hand on you?

You try everything to get a reaction out of a man but then you cant hadle the reaction you get . .think about it.

You never complain when those 'lips' go downtown!

stop using 'Self-sufficient and independant' as an excuse for trashy behaviour.

Lots of ladies get relationships everyday, regardless of what they have.

I'm sure a bunch of people will take this news and run with it  . . .since that is the kinda new they want to hear anyway . . .sad

This is a joke people!

You are on the wrong forum sweetie: prepare for a heartbreak.

If you truly value your relationship, I will advice you to delete this thread as soon as you can.

Every relationship is a risk . . dont base yours on other people's (saddists') experiences.

Take this from a married man in the United States.

^^^

Dont say no . .but try to become her friend . . and NO TOUCHING.

She might stop talking to you for sometime . .or even try to make you jealous.

But hopefully she will evetually learn to appreciate and respect you.

I must warn you: this is not always the case - some girl labelled me a slacker to everyone simply because I politely turned her down.

the ball is in your court . . good luck

Number 5.

On point!!

Do you want a woman scorned?

You are between the devil and the dead sea . . sorry

You cant love outta pity . . and you cant say no bluntly

So . . . choose your next words or actions carefully . . .goodluck

. . .and WHY do you want to know?

Can I cry?

The girl will shed tears for a few days and move on to the next man! _{same for guys too}

that is the sad reality.