₦airaland Forum

We all have funny thoughts . . .what we do with them is what really matters . . .imo

So now that he knows the kinda person you are, do he still call, and what does he talk about?

If you guys still talk on that kinda level, can you tell him you think he's changed . .and ask him why?

Bottomline, I really cannot place what he really wants at this time.  But it is really commendable that you stood your ground.

And he did NOT press on after you said no. That says a lot about him too.  You doubted him once and he proved you wrong (whe he told he he was attacked).

The honest truth is tha fact that a guy politely asks for IT when you are in bed together does not mean that is all he wants from you. What really counts is what happens after you decline.

So, do you see yourself having a relationship with him . . .what are you prepared to do when he tells you his attitude change was not because of your 'no' answer . . .but something else?

I'm just thinking outside of the box for you

Good luck and God bless.

livedit:
You had me going there.  You made me waste an essay.    How could you? Lol

But on a good note, I'm glad to hear it was a joke.  Devil beans? Ant houses or whatever? Jungle Justice? I was about to say, what is this world coming to?  

I know right?  

I would never do that anyway. . . not even when I lived in Nigeria.

I have a bunch of sisters, a wonderful wife and a great mom.

Devil beans (werepe) are dried up seedlings found in some African bush that make you itch badly when it comes in contact with the skin. So there is nothing evil about it.

Ive been exposed to it a few times. Nothing palm oil will not treat.  But not water!!

Or else you keep itching and scratching till you eventually sleep off.

Hope you have an idea of what it is now.

Glad you enjoyed it

Evil spirit??

I rest my case.

M M M:
kokoye

i can provide raw acid 4 u.

But why re u lying 2 us?

I never new your GF is stronger than u.

I wasnt lying.

I'd just read some funny news about werepe use in Ibadan so I thought i'd laugh about it on here.

I am happily married . . .with responsible friends . . thank you.

livedit:
kokoye!!!

what Livedit?

tpia@:
your so-called "joke" is in extremely bad taste moreso i want to assume you're not in nigeria where you say there's no police.


anyway, its common knowledge people import juju from nigeria, so no need to backpedal.


you're using one mouth to complain about pentecostal churches, and using another mouth to plan fetish on your girlfriend [or whatever].


you're fooling only yourself.

You dont have to laugh my joke . and I'm sure I have not cursed or abused anyone in here.

Not everyone has a sense of humor

And for your information, WEREPE is not juju. . . so no reason to [i]back-pedal[/il.

Like I said earlier, please stay off my case because I stay off yours.

Respect is reciprocal.

tpia@:
see them and their juju importations from nigeria.

the same kokoye who opened his mouth to complain about his church in the religion section.


come quickly lord Jesus.

Excuse you!!

who said anything about juju??

and I never complained about my church . . I asked questions about THE pentecostal churches of today

Please get your investigations rights and stay off my case.

To everyone else . .this was a joke to brighten up your day.

whatever guys.

Anyway . . this was a JOKE!!

pls get over yourselves

and I see some poeple are stalking my posts . .an wah o.

well then, does anyone know how we can get this locally - south of the states?

This is urgent. . .

We dont want to leave any evidence . . and anybody trying to gather evidence will also itch till thy kingdom come.

Na dry ones we want o . .abeg

A buddy of mine just got his car destroyed up by a bitter ex-girlfriend.  The car was completely messed up and the girl is still promising more hell on him.

My friend needs anybody going home to naija to please help him bring some werepe (devil's bean seed) so he can show the girl some pepe.

Pls get in touch if you have some hook up.

Thanks in advance

The sessions may be bring some really good or bad memories

ask her why

^^^

another jealous and bitter neighbour.

in pele lu beee o.

You are welcome.

^^^

I will answer. It will most likely increase since you have now made it official.

But it tends to reduce once there are other responsibilites like children.

Both parties need to understand that.

Marriage is a beautiful thing when you are with the right person. But not without it's challenges though.

Bottomline. if you react based on peoples' opinion, you will never be happy.

You know you got a good man. Keep him . . and say good things about him.

and for you know who, this aint about Nigerian men or women. This is about Nigerians, period.

The poster came here to seek peoples' opinion and here we are: Nigerians still beating down on our own.

sad.

^^^

Sorry, but most women change too. They tend to ignore the men and focus on the child.

If you go on believing there's no good one, then you may never find him.

@ poster.

So your friends are goats for politely asking for your number?

takes one to know one.

Sarah,

There are bad people everywhere . . and there are good people everywhere . . you know it is true.

You know you got a good man. Keep him

It is OK for people to have their reservations about whoever but you need to stand up for your man and he will stand up for you.

Mrs Chima talked trash earlier . . .asked her who she is married to: a Nigerian, and that's why she is on Nairaland.

Stay strong and focused and you will be alright.

Let those people know you have a good man and their opinion may start to change.

bayour02:
Na waoooo. So person no fit find a reliable lady on top nairaland too. Thats very bad, anyway thank u all for your concern. And if any, pls text or cal me on 08051079700

This guy has obviously been all over the Internet looking for babes . na wah

I remember this was never an issue with orthodox churches. . .but maybe it is ok now that we have prosperity sermons all over.

God has not changed.

We have a Nigerian police officer in Nairaland . . .chats from heaven most of the time

Anyone's played with the Samsung Galaxy Tab 10.1 . . what do you think of it?

Sorry, that type does not exist.

wishes. . .horses . .beggars

I cant even push in the toilet. imagine!

^^^

Hormonal dyslexia again??

the guy never said anything about sh[i]agg[/i]ing . . so go purge ur dirty lungs