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People don't even talk about real success in this country as if there's none, I have a cousin that just finished law school got first class in law(bsc) and first class in law school . A company offered her 500k monthly because she's still doing her nysc and this company pays about 2million month to their staff which means after service in the next one year she will start earning 2million per month o .

How is yahoo boy a successful person?. See what this politician has turned our youths into

They've given this one the figure he will contribute for 2027 and the type of project that will help me meet up the target

But why can't they go back to their husband

Instead of refund just market the house here for sublet, some guys will go for it happily , you can even add agent fee ... people like childofthedoom i can't remember his username... will gladly add this to his profile .

doctore212:
The major problem is that I can't even rest at night. Always nosiy. My next door neighbour always come at odd hours asking for charger. And in the morning the nature of G strings I see makes me sick. Though have gone. For refunds.

Nobody could have forced her, she's not in the north

I think dividing the country might not really work, apparently it hasn't worked sine over 50 years, what people can do is leave their region for them, let them continue killing each other.

Tayorshd87:
I have said it thousands times that's security is not our problem in this country and is not about the president or party in power but the kind of people we called citizen's 🤔

If you have seen people that killed Deborah in the north that year and d way they speak and behave u will understand why insecurities can never end ..

How can a sensible kidnapper enter a health facility center to kidnap people saving people's life also kidnap a patient again 😢😢😭😢

I think is time to divide this country so all this northern uneducated senseless literate will kill themselves as they like...

If you notice that no matter how a mad person is he can't stand in front of a moving train or car 🚗

Same logic should apply here 🤔

How can u go to health care center 😭😭😭😭

Illiterate and mentality is killing our country far too much

Track IP address of their own boys ? so you think it's a joke when they say government is the one behind all these kidnaping and insuggency

Cross river governor pays cultists group leader 10milllion monthly. If you have any police officer in that state, ask him if he says otherwise, I owe you 20k cash. Its not even a secret in cross river, there are some places keke riders can't go except the keke rider belongs to cult.

HisSexcellency:
Is there no way our security agents can track the ip address of the device used to record and release this video

The fuel you will run within those 8 hours is almost or more than the shift money. My point is , don't go to another man's land to surfer, if its not working , come back home honorably then you can go again when your children are grown. Even getting a nanny is almost more than what she will earn in a month as a foreigner , this slave trade promax we call japa is getting out of hand. At the end of the day you will not sleep inside two rooms or drive two cars at the same time , and you won't eat more than your belly so what is the main goal of chassing this money at all cost.

Being a second class citizen in another man's land is not funny at all. This thing doesn't usually happen to the citizens of the country because they have extended families. at the end of the day we are not designed to leave alone, we need each other for cases like this but that won't happen in foreign country when your family and inlaws are far away. Leaving your country to another man's land to surfer is one thing I do not understand except you are on exile from your own country .

CoronaVirusPro:
Even if she was going to do that, she could have just kept the engine running. That like have come with a lesser charge and death would have been eliminated.

That’s extreme stinginess!

Went to catch a shift and couldn’t even leave the engine running.

My brother, I have fought this severally before I came to this acceptance that the whites are far better breeds of human than the black, don't get me wrong, we have our own quota to contribute as human especially when it comes to the development of the world but the fact still remains the same and It has nothing to with culture, the whites have been adopting black kids since time memoria but nothing changes, raise a black kid and a white kid from the same home , the outcome is still going to be different, the most you will get from the black kid is high grade doctor or engineer but you won't get the Albert Einstein type of brain from the child. It's a nature thing, it's just like comparing "border collie" dogs to "afghan hound" dog, they are both dogs but with different looks and different level of intelligence.

Once in a while we have some black people doing great things but come on, are you saying there are no black Harvard graduates or black MIT students, why is A.I invention still coming from a white man in the twenty first century when slave trade is long gone, why is bill gate a white man, why is telephone invented by alexander graham, why is vint cerf and Bob kahn the inventor of internet , slave trade was over and we already had black people in USA living like normal citizens !!!

Now let's come to south Africa, a black nation. Why is Johannes Henoch Marais the founder of Naspers, why is Christo Wiese and Whitey Basson founder of shoprite, why cant you talk about mtn without talking of christer hohenthal, why is it that all the three founders of Firsrand are white (gt ferreira, laurie dippenaar, and Harris something, i can't remember but i know he's also white) .... and these are the major companies in south Africa o.

You have no idea how much these things have bothered me over the years and i just had to come to the realization of how superior this people are to us particularly when it comes to intelligence and empathy, you can do all you want by contesting everything I've said, but you will just be deceiving yourself like I've done over the years. As a matter of fact, the growth of dangote today is powered by a white skinned colored person working underground but that one is a story for another day. Dangote started out almost the same time mukesh ambani started with almost the same kind of business but go and check what that guy is doing with reliance digital today while dangote is still selling petrol in 2025 when countries are already switching to self-driving electric cars. Because for him, its not about the uplifting of the people, it's about the money (black man).

The bottom line is that you can't solve a problem without knowing the course, grass root and available data. Maybe if newer generations like us who is ready to face the truth is given the opportunity to government, maybe we would make a difference but if we keep deceiving ourselves, we won't make any progress. Nigeria was even better under the colonial masters; how do you explain this to a 7-year-old. If I have access to precedency today, 99 percent of my cabinets will be white people because I know their antecedents and I won't deceive myself by shying away from the fact that my people have a very small brain.



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TheBizGenius:
Hmmmm.

Once again, I accept that your premise for this discussion is very sound especially as you have the practical proofs to buttress your points.

I maintain that culture is the problem though. Unfortunately, culture is like climate, which takes a long time, thousands of years, to be established and it takes a whole lot more to be un-established.

The culture? The black man thinks he is inferior to the whites. He behaves inferior. He will always be inferior.

The hospital issue? The black race subtly, or openly, believes the whites are better in qualitative reasoning. But every scientist knows it's just simple science that anyone can learn and master.

The problem I also noticed with the blacks is that it doesn't take a lot for the blacks to feel they have arrived. We seldom try to compete intellectually globally.

Kudos to Dangote, Oyedepo, Adeboye; people who have chosen to compete globally rather than stop when they became local champions.

Use the 50b for security cameras and attach one or two military personal to each farmer. Nobody is ready to go to farm when your boys are killing them. Solve insecurity problem first, El Salvador did it within one year.

So, someone cannot joke with you again !!! ... top three military in Africa but next to Sudan and Somalia in insurgency.

G0odharddick:
Is this a joke?

Nigeria is on that list yet boko haram and bandits are eating suya strolling around

If you don’t plan on leaving Nigeria anytime soon, I’d advise you to go for a 1- or 2-year data plan which is like 1 or 2 terabits. In the long run, it will save you money. You mentioned wanting to buy a 20k plan, I assume you’re like me, since I spend about 50k monthly on data. Honestly, I can’t afford to drop 200k or even 50k all at once, but if I had the chance, I’d see it as an opportunity to save. Buying a bulk plan upfront is cheaper, and it keeps you from overspending month by month.

That's the point o , its very hard to understand Igbos, a Yoruba man is doing a protest for your acclaimed lord and almighty Biafra savior , one would have thought they would come out in their numbers. Igbos are the most divided tribe in Nigeria. It will shock you that igbos are the reason why Kunu is still in detention, they want him to be there so badly

VillagePipu:
Na who know who send you message. Obidients want Kanu to kpai in jail. Igbos are indifferent about his plight. They were indoors all day.
So, what is your own?

I've been thinking about what the guy is trying to say , my brain is not just braining it

DeepSight:
EndSARS was "on the orders of Kanu?"
Some of you are living in lala land.

Science told us what we wanted to hear with all the "amount of brain cells" thing... it's all lies, they had initially told us the truth by comparing us to apes and monkeys, but we contested it. How do you explain that president of the largest producer of oil in African goes to France for medication because he couldn't build a world class standard 20 bed capacity hospital that could be built with less than 15 billion naira, but a militant just donated 10billion naira at an event. He's not even the only Nigerian president who travels to another continent for medications, are you saying from 1960 all the presidents are not intelligent to do this simple math. Are you saying the over 50 African presidents can't add 1 plus 2. Check the lives of black Americans who have equal right to the whites after the slave trade ended, what have they done with their lives aside athletes and music which is less than 1 percent of their entire population. Which of them created vaccination, airplane , computer ,electricity ,internet ,printing, A.I

okay oya , how do you explain that our forefathers sold us for a cup of tea and mirrors, does that not sound like what a monkey would do?

TheBizGenius:
If you know how much I am laughing here right now.

But I understand you.

Unfortunately, the whites and blacks are both humans with exactly the same amount of brain cells and capable of doing the same things.

You need to study culture and belief systems to understand how a person's environment determines his or her behaviors and even aspiration levels to understand why the blacks will always be behind...

Again thanks for making me laugh.

Our results are different because we are completely different species , dog and lion looks the same with 4 legs , but they are different , africans and the whites are not the same type of human

TheBizGenius:
Heheheheheh. I understand why you would think like this but it's actually not true.

The real issue is that our society values and rewards different elements compared to their own. And as the business/management adage goes, "What gets rewarded gets repeated".

We value small thinking, oppressing your neighbors with small money, relationships without depth, the mysterious that we call "miracles" etc.

They value big thinking, legacy (long term) thinking, crowd funding to help others, clear processes for success, education/constant learning etc.

Our results will surely be different.

When I tell people colonization is not the reason why all African countries are poor. The only countries in Africa that are not poor have a mixture of whites. The black nations are poor because our mentality was created poor by God's. We are designed this way. Africans and whites are not the same type of human.

Next five years now "I can be a second wife", next 7 years, "I just need a man, any man... as long as you have a D , I'm fine "

Oga you are just a very weak man, all these nonsense you typed here without point , wetin the girl do you exactly, your uncle die she didn't cry ... which kind human being be this. YOU NEED SERIOUS HELP

KillerOfCrackas:
I met this fine fair girl in Woji, Port Harcourt early last year. I went to visit one of my guys, and she was sitting outside her compound pressing her phone. At first glance, I just saw one quiet, decent-looking babe. You know those girls that look innocent and respectful? That was her.
We started talking that day, and she was surprisingly easy to relate with. Within a week, we were already close. Everything about her was calm no drama, no unnecessary talk, always composed. I even told my guy say I don finally jam wife material.
Even my parents liked her. The first time she came to visit, my mum couldn’t stop praising her. She helped in the kitchen, greeted everyone politely, and behaved like someone raised with good morals. My dad even joked that I shouldn’t waste time before she escapes.
At first, everything was smooth. She always knew what to say, how to behave, and how to make me feel comfortable. But over time, I began to notice some strange things.
This girl no get emotion. I’m serious. If I tell her something deep or painful, like when I lost my uncle, she’ll just say “Sorry dear,” with straight face and continue what she’s doing. No hug, no concern, nothing.
But if I do something small that hurts her ego maybe I forget to call her or delay reply she’ll suddenly act emotional, start crying small, saying things like “You don’t love me anymore.” I later realized it was all performance.
She also had this scary way of reading people. She’d meet someone once and already know what to say to get what she wanted. I saw her manipulate her friend one time without raising her voice just calm words and fake sympathy.
When we argued, she’d use things I told her when I was vulnerable against me. She remembered every little thing I said and turned it around perfectly to make me feel guilty. I go end up apologizing for something I didn’t even do wrong.
Outside, everybody thought she was perfect. My friends used to say, “Guy, no let that babe go o, she get sense.” Meanwhile, I was the one dying silently inside.
When I finally decided to leave, she didn’t beg, didn’t even look surprised. She just smiled and said, “You’ll come back. People like you always do.” That line shook me to my core.
This girl taught me something: not everyone who looks calm is peaceful. Some people are emotionally cold but know exactly how to pretend otherwise. They don’t feel emotions they study them and use them.
Since then, I’ve learned that love without empathy will drain you. Some people are not violent, but the way they play with your mind go humble you.
So when people talk about toxic relationships, I just laugh. Because not all toxicity comes from shouting and fighting. Some come quietly, in the form of peace that slowly destroys you.

I thought i'm the only one who was looking for what the girl did wrong o ... your uncle die and she didn't cry for you ... see wetin people dey date.

ReacherSaidNoth:
You're not qualified to diagnose sociopathy, nothing truly outrageous in your post.

The funny thing is, these set of people always have one piece of land they’re building on, while you making huge money don’t even have a single property to your name.

I once met a man at a food store. He came to buy ₦100 worth of red oil. After he left, I asked the woman if he was using it for lubrication. She laughed and said no, he eats it with cooked rice and salt.

This man wasn’t dressed in designer clothes, just neat, simple, and looking like a teacher. Yet, they survive. In fact, they survive better. While you’re chasing rice and chicken, rice with red oil is enough for them.

I don't correct English because It's a foreign language and I embrace local language more, but this thing is "birds of a feather flock together", not birds of the same feather .... I'm tired of explaining it to people.

Kobojunkie:
They say, "Birds of the same feather, flock together." OP has simply realized and found himself exactly where he needs to be.

You can't use full name of badie to check her on tiktok.... that didn't add up

folake4u:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

The whole thing is funny.

where is unilag

Pray, and God will give you a life partner. I’m not even a religious person, but I can assure you that when it comes to serious relationships for marriage, the quickest way is prayer.

Sometimes we think we’re too handsome or have some money, so praying for a life partner feels like it’s only for the old or broke guys. But trust me, if you pray for a life partner, it works like magic.

Just make sure you pray genuinely and be sincere in your purpose. Don’t say you’re looking for a life partner while still keeping a ‘friends with benefits’ on the side....your prayer may not be answered that way. Marriage is an institution created by God, so if you truly want to enter it, you have to ask Him first.

OnlineBusinessC:
Is Dating Sites Still Working In Nigeria For Singles To Find Love?

I'm wondering if we still have legit dating sites where NIGERIANS can meet FELLOW NIGERIANS for love or friendship that can led to love.

Recommendations that has worked for you will be helpful tho.

Let's move this to the FP because it will definitely help hundreds of thousands of Nigerians that wants to consider dating sites.

The heart wants what it wants, Nations have gone to war because of woman. Jeff Bezos lost over $20 billion dollars to his ex-wife just to be with a new partner; that is more than five years of Nigeria’s national budget. There’s always someone you’d risk it all for. Until it happens to you, don’t be quick to blame those who do.

Sorry bro, but it seems you’re the one missing the point here. Seyi Makinde is a big deal. Oyo State is one of the largest in Africa, and historically it was once an empire. Whoever governs that state automatically commands serious influence. The people of Ibadan are very united, and I can assure you that any governor of Oyo will always pull a massive crowd.

Makinde himself was already very wealthy before becoming governor. Do some research on Makon Oil, he owned a fully functional oil company long before politics. I personally grew up knowing about Makon Oil, years before he ever became Oyo’s governor.

CoronaVirusPro:
When Seyi talks, it’s always a comedy!

Who are those deceiving him that he is important in affairs?


This is just a kid who was opportune to have had access to Oyo state treasury, and feels he has become a force or gained relevancy.

Someone should tell this political minion the truth. As it stands today, VDM and Portable are still more politically potent than he will ever be.

If you work , it will show, nobody talks down about Fashola several years after. All tribes talks well about him , No Lagosian would say fashola didn't do well, but its not the case for Peter Obi, I don't even know what to believe at this point, if some of your own people claimed you didn't do well as a governor, then how will you do well as a president

He's just joking with her, he gives her way more than that... money wey no fit reach 100k. Its just a joy of spending your mom's money again.

That's the point, the igbo people wants presidency but they will never present a good candidate .

IduNaOba:
Una no go rubbish our daughter for us.
Let other tribes take the asọ roack seat.

That's why we can't grow as a nation because a lot of people like you will always support corruption.

How is donation of 10billion naira an official thing , what happens to setting up a security unit and employ jobless civilian, if you decide to pay one thousand youth 500k per month for the next 2 years that money will be enough and they will secure anything securable with their live if given this kind of salary , but he chose to donate it for his fellow politicians to embezzle and you are siding him

Enddy50ty:
That's what he's being paid for. Remember, this guy is a federal government contractor.
He got the contract to secure the oil and gas pipelines and facilities.

Yes, you answered wrongly. If you find a lady who is willing to struggle with you, don’t let her down, but first make sure you truly love her before allowing her to go through that struggle with you. on the other hand, It’s still people like you who later come back with long complaints about how women only like self-made men. Many of those women once tried building with someone, only to be disappointed.

Even marriage itself is not expensive. I can advise two broke people to marry each other, but they should do everything possible to avoid having kids until their situation improves. The most successful couple among my friends is one that had a simple parlor wedding with just six people present, even we, their closest friends, didn’t know about it. Today, they own two houses in Ajah, three cars, and have recently relocated to Canada.

iLander:
I lost my job sometime this year and i have been struggling to get another job. Along the line i also lost my GF ( she left), i met this girl, first we became friends and then lovers. She has been very helpful in every way you can think of, but she is also struggling and schooling too.

She asked me this question and i quote "Babe if someone comes along and say he wants to marry me, should i go ahead and accept" I told her yes because right now, i can give her the life she deserves. she started crying and refuse to speak to me. Did i answer her wrongly?