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You're very HEARTLESS and WICKED!

You're asking us how to beg your wife for forgiveness?

When it's obvious you don't even want to ask for her forgiveness!!!

You had the time to type plenty story but you can't structure a simple I'm sorry for her

You must be very heartless.

FvckAllMods:
Shut up if you don't know

I say keep quiet ;

Find someone who your husband respects very well and tell the person to talk to him.

Your husband is a boy, sorry to say. He needs to grow up.

Go through someone and tell your friend.

Don't allow your friend know.

Save your job.

Your friend may want to rope you into the matter and end up soiling your image.

Be wise.

Help but don't fall victim.

FvckAllMods:
Shut up if you don't know

You shut up upper uppest

The OP lady is just looking for attention.

I have read through and now I know what's at stake here.

Don't feel bad.

Focus on the 2 months not on the price added.

Who does that?? Return electronics after 2 months!!!

And you returned the first one, yet they're not grateful.

Na you sabi sha.

FvckAllMods:
Bobo say him like you, you dey play hard for him and he block you who's fault here

Na wetin dey kill most ds girls be that dem go gara like ote$ pikin lol you better grab and hold tight the guy wey show you love.

Look e no easy to show love to babe for this streets o

Truth dey choke ...now play me cigarettes and Cush ft stormzy, khelani & Lilly Allen

Lies

Liessssss

Show proof!!!!

Dottore:
When you see some boobs outside bra you will cry?

A female's bum, boobs and poocy looks great only when confined under nice tight fitting fancy clothings.

The bitter truth is that when u finish your round of sex and take a look at her Unclad body again, you'd have a rethink whether all the efforts u put in place to get laid are worth it.

Females know this that's why they are insecure and very conscious of their looks they'd try all manner of manipulative ideas on men to get what they want before sex.

The competition amongst the female folks to outdo each other to garner men's attention is another topic. I don't want to talk about the disgust of flappy bums, folding skin at the back stomach region, stretch marks, sick poocy, bleeding poocy or smelly poocy.
The frustrated ones become feminists and anti men campaigners. This life sha

Is this thread about sex??

Why can't you Nairaland boys rest small?

Even me wey be konjiboi de respect myself here

Relax, gee...

No be every time you go de attack women

Kettle calling pot black

Very good!!!!!!

This is stupidity of the highest order.

Were you married to her when she was in school?

You have a lot of growing up to do.

This is a boy talking, not a man.

Even if I advise till tomorrow you'll not understand the childishness you just displayed as it's obvious you're hellbent on revenge for a past you were not part of.

Enjoy your revenge while it lasts.

God bless you.

Try real estate.

Market houses and land and get paid 5% or 10% of the value of the property.

Become a millionaire in 6 months or even 1 month if you're hard working and lucky enough to get a serious buyer.

Then resign after making cool cash.

How to get buyers?

Run Facebook adverts.

I wish you wealth and abundance.

God bless you.

Try real estate.

Market houses and land and get paid 5% or 10% of the value of the property.

Become a millionaire in 6 months or even 1 month if you're hard working and lucky enough to get a serious buyer.

How to get buyers?

Run Facebook adverts.

I wish you wealth and abundance.

God bless you.

Mstravelindiva:
Yes, I’m happily married!

Okay o...

Some people will start begging her for job now

Bloggers will pretend that they didn't see this one.

Na to spread lies and scandals dem sabi.

You can't stand the shame of calling off the wedding

Be ready to stand the shame of constant beating and countless abuse.

Brace up and be ready.

As you lay your bed so you'll lie on it.

OP is not 100% truthful with his views.

Any thing involving upfront payment is often a scam.

Be kiaful.

Or be careful.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

There's a way that seems right unto a man but the end thereof is destruction.

Be wise.

God OVER BLESS the OP of this thread.

This generation needs to hear this.

What the landlord did is unlawful. Personal eviction is unknown to law.

But you sef, put yourself in your landlord's shoes. You leave your things in another man's house and disappear for months meanwhile you're owing him.

Is it fair? The man has tried jareh. Go and see him and reason things out with him naturedly and peacefully.

izuch:
20 minutes too much, how can I become a governor for just 10mins?

That state go just de grounded

Preamble: Before you do any of the following things I'm about to suggest, make sure you have picture evidence of their chats. If you can, use your phone camera to snap it. But don't forward it to yourself with your wife's phone; she may see it from the chat history.

1.) Who does she listen to?
I mean does she have a mentor figure who she listens to?
Somebody who if he or she calls her to order she will straighten up.
If there is such a person, talk to him or her and specifically ask such person to talk to her. The person may be her father, mother, an uncle, aunt, friend, etc. LST such person make her understand the foolishness of her actions and the stupidity of the flirting pastor who is married and ought to know better.


2.) If she doesn't listen to this person or she continues with her bad ways, call that flirting pastor and speak politely with him one on one along these lines (you can adjust it to suit your style):

"Mr. .... I am very much aware of your chats with my wife all these years. And I believe you know what is called emotional affair. And I presume you know that it is wrong both in the eyes of man and before God. And I also presume you know that you're violating the vow my wife and I signed before God. And I hope you know that many premarital affairs that happened started from emotional affairs.

Think about what you're doing by flirting with my wife. Think about the harm you're causing me. The damage you're sowing into my marriage. The destruction you're about to bring into a family of ... children and then me and my wife.

As you think about this, also remind yourself that you're a married man. You have a wife and children. How will you feel if another man is doing all what you're doing to my wife to your own wife? How will you feel? Happy? Excited? Unconcerned? What you sow is what you reap. Don't think that because you're a man of God then grace will cover you. If you wreck another man's home, your own will not be spared. I respect men of God but when a man of God begins to abuse pastoral privileges he is no longer a man of God but a wicked and heartless fellow.

I have called you peacefully. I will not warn you to stay away from my wife but if you are wise you will get my message and mind your business and ask God for forgiveness.

I have said enough. Thank you and GOD BLESS YOU."

(End the call. Don't argue with him on phone. He may want to DELIBERATELY provoke or annoy you but I REPEAT don't fall for his trap. Maintain your cool and say what you have to say and end the call. Listen to whatever he has to say but don't argue with him. Just say your own and bring the call to an end.)

You're in a wrong setting.
Change circle.

Mstravelindiva:
Yes, I’m happily married!

Okay, my sister.
No need to toast you again

Trusting God for a Godfearing woman to marry.
I know it will happen soon

emae009:
So Fathers sleeping with their daugthers that's now like a Yoruba bragging rights on Nairaland is what I should used to judge all of Yoruba land??

and you're supposed to be a learned colleague.. SMH

Stop inventing rubbish. Read his post very well. Nonsense.

Read Tim Lahaye's books on temperament.

Nairaland is not a place for correct relationship advice.

Some people will give you junk counsel.
Also, pray to the Holy Spirit.

Keep giving her attention and lose your job!!!

What sort of stupid question be dis
You see fire de go pit your hand inside!!!
De pamper her you hear, as u no wan get sense.

Nonsense

Give your life to Christ