Kalatium: People think men are “rock solid.” Strong. Unshaken. Providers who feel no pain. Truth? Many husbands are fighting battles they’ll never confess. Silent struggles that eat deep into them and, if ignored, can damage a marriage.
Why don’t men talk? 👉 Society says “man up.” 👉 They don’t want to look weak. 👉 Or they don’t want to stress their wives.
But silence doesn’t mean peace. Behind that calm face, here are 10 battles most husbands secretly fight in marriage:
1. Pressure to Provide Bills pile up, business slows, yet he must smile and act like all is fine. Inside? Shame and fear. 📖 “But if any provide not for his own… he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” (1 Timothy 5:8 )
2. Fear of Losing Respect Sarcasm, comparisons, and ridicule wound him more than most women realize. Respect is oxygen to a man. 📖 “…and the wife see that she reverence her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33)
3. Loneliness (Even at Home) He misses attention when his wife is too consumed with work, kids, or activities. 📖 “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)
4. Quiet Struggle With Temptation Yes, even good men wrestle with thoughts they may never admit. 📖 “Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” (Matthew 26:41)
5. Shadow of Failure Every man wants to be his wife’s hero. When life knocks him down, silence hides his pain. 📖 “…David strengthened himself in the Lord his God.” (1 Samuel 30:6)
6. Bottled Emotions Society says “men don’t cry,” so he bottles stress, anxiety, and grief, no wonder mem die early. 📖 “Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.” (1 Peter 5:7)
7. Comparison Pressure Seeing friends “doing better” quietly makes him feel less. 📖 “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves…” (2 Corinthians 10:12)
8. Work vs. Family Guilt Struggling to balance being present with providing. 📖 “To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven.” (Ecclesiastes 3:1)
9. Fear of Losing Love He wonders: “Will she still love me if I grow old, broke, or sick?” 📖 “Charity never faileth…” (1 Corinthians 13:8 )
10. Spiritual Insecurity When his wife seems more prayerful or dedicated, he may feel inadequate. 📖 “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” (Proverbs 27:17)
The truth is this: Husbands may look strong, but they bleed silently. Wives, when you understand these battles and respond with love, respect, and support, you don’t just heal your husband — you fortify your marriage.
📖 “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)
👉 What do you think? Why do men hide their struggles, and what can wives do differently?
Women do you agree men go through these battles?
Interesting takes.
A man has to share his inner feelings with an emotionally aware spouse or woman. This is why you have to be CLEARLY intentional by getting married to a female BEST friend (and they do exist) if you're willing to develop your power of discernment. There are women who would gladly emphatize with your current situation when you run into headwinds while lending you some support, BUT NOT all of them.
The razor-toothed "Piranhas" among the females would simply ditch you in no time.
Any woman who is NOT contented and in tune with a man's current REALITY as of today would simply have to get gone and kick rocks. Period.
The Federal Government has warned that 11 states may experience heavy rainfall that may lead to flooding between Sunday and Thursday.
According to a notice issued by the Federal Ministry of Environment’s National Flood Early Warning Centre, the affected states and locations are Adamawa State (Ganye, Natubi); Benue State (Abinsi, Agyo, Gogo, Ito, Makurdi, Udoma, Ukpiam); Nasarawa State (Agima, Rukubi, Odogbo); Taraba State (Beli, Serti, Donga); Delta State (Umugboma, Umukwata, Abraka, Aboh, Okpo-Krika); and Niger State (Rijau).
Others are Kebbi State (Ribah); Kano State (Gwarzo, Karaye); Katsina State (Jibia); Sokoto State (Makira); and Zamfara State (Kaura Namoda, Shinkafi, Maradun, Gusau, Anka, Bungudu).
The notice said rising water levels in the River Gongola, River Benue, and River Niger pose additional risks, warning that communities situated on the floodplains are especially vulnerable.
“Also, due to a rise in the water level of River Gongola, River Benue, and River Niger, the communities on the flood plains of River Gongola up to Numan, and also communities on the flood plains of River Benue and River Niger up to Lokoja are advised to evacuate immediately.
“Relevant stakeholders should kindly take note,” the alert added.
The notice said rising water levels in the River Gongola, River Benue, and River Niger pose additional risks, warning that communities situated on the floodplains are especially vulnerable.
“Also, due to a rise in the water level of River Gongola, River Benue, and River Niger, the communities on the flood plains of River Gongola up to Numan, and also communities on the flood plains of River Benue and River Niger up to Lokoja are advised to evacuate immediately.
“Relevant stakeholders should kindly take note,” the alert added.
The ministry also urged state governments and other agencies to provide prompt feedback and act quickly to mitigate the impact.
HealthDiary: Nigeria's hurdling queen Tobi Amusan began her Tokyo 2025 World Championships campaign with a domineering win in her 100mH heats to be among the fastest qualifiers into the semis.
Competing in Heat 6, the world record holder won conveniently in a respectable 12.53s, finishing far ahead of world 60mH record holder Devynne Charlton, who clocked 12.69s, while Italy's Elena Carraro was third in 12.86s.
With her time, Amusan heads into the semifinals as the fifth fastest behind defending world champion Danielle Williams (12.40s), Grace Stark (12.46s), Nadine Visser (12.48s), and Pia Skrzyszowska (12.51s).
Having failed to reach the Paris Olympic final last summer, the Nigerian superstar will gun for an avoidance of the same occurrence by booking her spot in the final in Tokyo.
However, she will face stiff competition from other hurdlers who are also in blistering shape, as the women's 100mH event is classified as arguably the most competitive track event.
Notwithstanding, Amusan will aim to bring back her 2022 form that saw her set the world record and win the world title in Oregon.
Nigeria's hurdling queen Tobi Amusan began her Tokyo 2025 World Championships campaign with a domineering win in her 100mH heats to be among the fastest qualifiers into the semis.
Competing in Heat 6, the world record holder won conveniently in a respectable 12.53s, finishing far ahead of world 60mH record holder Devynne Charlton, who clocked 12.69s, while Italy's Elena Carraro was third in 12.86s.
With her time, Amusan heads into the semifinals as the fifth fastest behind defending world champion Danielle Williams (12.40s), Grace Stark (12.46s), Nadine Visser (12.48s), and Pia Skrzyszowska (12.51s).
dominique: Congrats to her. I hope she keeps the momentum till the next Olympics
That's the MOST important thing. As the current all-time World Record holder in that hurdles event, Tobi has to consistently stay in shape in order to win that next Olympic gold medal or (WORSE case scenario), a silver medal to crown her as a true Olympian. This is probably her last chance to do that in stellar time. May the Force be with her.
aylipple: Your response provides further insight into the status of the Eastern Ports. However, a check on the official website of the IDSP indicates FG approval has been granted with the project currently at Full Business Case & procurement stage, albeit it's taking time; hopefully, it doesn't drag on or remain at that stage for too long. See here >> https://www.idsp.ak.gov.ng/ibom-deep-sea-port-project-status.php
As for Calabar Ports, I think there's a court case (or even multiple cases) due to contract issues that has stalled progress on its dredging or functionality.
Exactly! MAKIA for instance receives high volume of air travelers & cargoes especially to and from Arab nations yet, it's still not deemed viable.
helinues: The attention seeking lawyer eventually got what he wanted.
I have never blocked anyone on this forum since the blocking button was introduced but that have to stop from today. I have targeted list of people to block
You've NEVER done that before? You indeed have enough patience... BUT it's about time you did so to put those insidious paid trolls who I see daily relentlessly cyber bullying you behind the curtain where they belong. Eniola Badmus NEVER took nonsense from that irresponsible female who cyberbullied her. The girl got arrested and charged to court.
2mch: You have perpetual victim complex and are a commpppulsive storyteller. Is this not the airport? You want everything Lagos has now, but don’t want to work for it or demand airlines use the airport. A foreigner reading your post will think it’s wheelbarrow they use from Enugu Airport to Lagos.
PulaPower: The growth started in Egba land, before anything Lagos! Ogun state been having industries even before Lagos came into existence..
What many of you don’t understand is that most part of Lagos state nah Egba land! Awori were the first settler in Eko and their progenitor, the first settler, Ogunmenufun or something was from Ile-Ife! .... This is another story that I’ll write about later on..
What Lagos is today, it was Egba land that was like that back in the days! Egba land used to be westerners trade center back in the days - it’s the major reason why majority of industries in Nigeria today are located in Ogun state. It has always been like that before anything nigeria! ... And if you check, most Yoruba billionaires are from Ogun state, even till date.
Lagos state has been appealing to Ogun Government to concede Mowe/Ibafo to them but Ogun state is yet to grant it! What’s my point exactly?:
My point is that it was Lagos that benefited & inherited from Ogun, not the other way round!
professorPABX: I didn't read your post but just observed you talk about Seaport like majority of people on this topic do out of ignorance, bitterness and for propaganda.
Country cannot force Ships to deliver cargoes to ports that are not on their routes. Maersk is at Onne Port. Ships move cargoes to and from Onne Port. Some people asked questions why DANGOTE use Lome Port during Refinery project when Lagos doesn't have the capacity to receive the 150,000 containers, they said why not Warri others mentioned Portharcourt (Abonema or Onne).
I don't want to delve into technicalities. Intel Logistics and other private investors are driving Badagry Deep Seaport. Tolaram group and others private investors created Lekki Deep Seaport. DANGOTE has announced his intention to establish a deep seaport in Ogun State. AkwaIbom governor should let us know the Private investors that are driving the IBOM Deep Seaport. Before 2023 election battle, ATIKU was always talking about the progress being made at Badagry Seaport because of Intel Logistics. Politics came and nothing heard again. We need to know those investors driving IBOM Deep Seaport.
Calabar is very close to ECCAS - Economic Community of Central Africa States countries. ECOWAS with Lagos as the economic hub is close to Cotonou ports, Lome Port, Tema and Takoradi ports in Ghana, Cote D'Ivoire port, Senegal port.
2mch: There is an international airport in the East, use it. Also, pressure the airlines to fly to the East. They probably refuse to because they don’t want to start being drug couriers unintentionally. Clean up your State and everybody will rush you. It’s just the truth. It’s no secret that Lagos is a major airport and the officials there make extra effort to catch drug couriers. That’s because we don’t have a high concentration of Yoruba’s trading drugs. It will be much harder in the East where local people will be afraid to catch these guys for fear of their whole family house being wiped out.
BlueStripper: There is a current trend of Chinese Tattoos on the wrist of Cyber Criminals Aka Yahoo Boys. Investigations are pointing towards the influx of Chinese and Asian criminal elements who had made Nigeria an extension of their network.
When these Criminals first arrived Nigeria, they settled for Lagos, which was bursted by the EFCC. Then they moved to Abuja and now Kaduna and Calabar.
These tattoos looks like fashion but it is a cult related initiation. You see them on their wrist and hands.
Parents and wards should be careful of these trends and stop pushing their children into fraud. Why do I blame the parents? Most of the boys who are engaged in this act confessed that their parents, most especially, their mothers are the reason why they became fraudsters.
Yes, this boys are making money from fraud because their targets are not only Nigerians but foreigners from different countries. One thing is certain, this will come back to hunt them. And when the law catches up with them, they will pay dearly for it.
While I might not be certain about the the Chinese and Asian cults being behind these tattoos, I am 100% certain that this is a cult initiation as I have seen more than 100 boys with the same tattoo. And they are buying houses and cars in Kaduna. How they got the money, I don't know. And they will never reveal the purpose or meaning of the tattoo.
In summary, the boys are rich and heartharddend. Small boys from 13 years to 40 years and the likes.
If you have noticed this trend, kindly share your experience for other parents to learn.
Please do not truncate the purpose of this thread or turn it into a battlefield for tribal or political warfare.
DiamondsAreFore: I think you're mistaking Yiddish with Hebrew. Yiddish is like a form of pigin Hebrew that was spoken by European Jews and it contains a lot of loan words from German, Polish, Russian and a number of other Eastern Europe languages.
Hebrew as a language itself which is distinct from Yiddish, is a Semitic language, just like Aramaic, Syriac, Arabic etc and it has its own script which is very different from either the Latin or Cyrillic Script which is common across all European countries.
Do you have any proof for such a claim which nobody in serious academia will waste even 2 seconds of their time investigating?
Do you know that 90% of African Americans have some degree of European genetic ancestry? Does that disqualify them from being considered black?
If you're going to play the DNA Card, you should know thar there has never been a distinct ethnic or racial group known as Palestinian at any time in the history of the world and the people who are currently using that name "Palestinian" are in actual fact, Arabs from the Arabian Peninsula who migrated to that area. You can easily tell from their names which Arabic tribe and region they come from. That's why you have "Palestinians" with names like Al Hejazi and Ibn Najd. The Hejaz region of Saudi Arabia is where the muslim prophet muhammad comes from, while the Najd region is where the current ruling family of Saudi Arabia comes from.
Any population's appearance will change if they spend hundreds of years of forced exile living away from their ancestral land. That's why African Americans are considerably lighter skinned than subsaharan Africans.
After several centuries and several generations of integration, the original phenotype will begin to change. That's just a fact of nature.
Ethiopian Jews who came to Africa from the ancient kingdom of Israel after the destruction of the First Temple (King Solomon's Temple) look very African because they have been in Africa for so long that they have lost their original Semitic appearance, just the same way that European Ashkenazi Jews have lost their own original Semitic physical appearance. But they still share common cultural and religious identities.
Please dig deeper. The Jewish language has been extinct for over a thousand years. It was reestablished by a Russian who merged native European language with the left scribes of Hebrew language.
Do you know in current Hebrew, a person from Eastern Europe can decode a “little” without being Jewish? The identity was stolen and wrapped around native European languages.
Did you research the revised bible o talked about? A revision made Israel a place. It was the name of a person prior to revision.
Let’s even go outside that. Fony believe anything I tell you. Read about the Harvard ancestral DNA research. It had a code name but in a club and can’t remember. But you will find through Google.
It pointed to the native Middle Easterner. Why the current Jews never submit themselves for such test.
Look at the whole scriptural description. Bible or Quran. Go into any reach, you will always find them the word “brown, dark, curly hair”. Those are not Europeans.
Let me amaze you again. Do you know the current Europeans that call themselves Jews cannot pronounce all Jewish sounds.
They are Europeans. They cannot pronounce the “Ha” sound which dwells in Aramaic and Hebrew. You surprised. While they cannot pronounce never pronounce Hamas correctly!
Please! Don’t belie anything I told you. If you do your research and find conflicts, we can address together.
Detailednews: FROM CLINIC TO CASH!!! Meet The Richest Black Doctors In America - and How They Made Global Headlines
From small-town clinics to global recognition, these Black doctors didn’t just wear white coats — they rewrote the rules of medicine, influence, and power.
In a world where systemic barriers have long stood between Black professionals and global recognition, a select few have shattered ceilings, built empires, and left legacies that go far beyond the stethoscope.
From pain management to neurosurgery, from groundbreaking medical research to multi-million-dollar biotech firms, these doctors are more than medical experts — they are global icons, change-makers, and in some cases, moguls in lab coats.
Let’s dive into the lives of 8 such brilliant minds and see what made them famous, powerful, and unforgettable.
🔹 1. Dr. Godwin Maduka — The Village Transformer
Known For: Founder of Las Vegas Pain Institute | Africa’s Tallest Medical University Building | Philanthropy in Nigeria
Estimated Net Worth: $700M – $1B
From hawking at a village market in Umuchukwu, Anambra, to building one of the largest pain centers in Las Vegas in six locations, Dr. Godwin Maduka's story is the kind that turns legends into legacy.
But wealth wasn’t his final goal — he transformed his entire hometown, building over 100 modern homes, roads, schools, markets, fuel stations, high court, churches, and even police stations.
Most impressively, he singlehandedly funded and built the tallest medical university facility building in Africa — a 17-storey, ultra-modern facility aimed at turning Umuchukwu into a global hub for medical education and innovation.
> “I was poor. I don’t want to be poor again. I don’t want anyone around me to be poor.” — Dr. Godwin Maduka
🔹 2 . Dr. Ben Carson — The Hands That Made History
Known For: First successful separation of conjoined twins at the head | Former U.S. Secretary of HUD
Estimated Net Worth: ~$30M
From a troubled Detroit upbringing to becoming the youngest head of pediatric neurosurgery at Johns Hopkins, Dr. Ben Carson is a living medical legend.
His fame exploded after his memoir “Gifted Hands”, and his surgeries became the stuff of miracles. While his foray into politics drew mixed reactions, his legacy in medicine is sealed in history.
🔹 3. Dr. Valerie Montgomery Rice — The Glass Ceiling Breaker
Known For: First woman president of Morehouse School of Medicine
Estimated Net Worth: $5M – $10M
As the first woman to lead the Morehouse School of Medicine, Dr. Montgomery Rice not only broke glass ceilings — she redefined leadership in academic medicine.
A fierce advocate for women’s health and racial equity, she continues to open doors for the next generation of Black medical leaders.
🔹 4. Dr. James Hildreth — The Pandemic Warrior
Known For: HIV Research Pioneer | COVID-19 Vaccine Equity Advisor
Estimated Net Worth: $3M – $5M
A Rhodes Scholar turned global scientist, Dr. Hildreth cracked key insights into how HIV enters cells — and later became a national voice of reason during the COVID-19 pandemic.
As president of Meharry Medical College, he’s shaping future Black doctors while standing firm on science, justice, and community health.
🔹 5. Dr. Akinlabi “Akin” Laleye — The Tech‑Savvy Doctor
Known For: Digital health reformer | Innovation in African healthcare
Estimated Net Worth: $13m - $15million
Nicknamed “Dr. Akinlade Lol Are,” this modern-day medical thinker is blending medicine, tech, and public health to reshape African healthcare.
His voice is increasingly global, pushing for scalable digital solutions to the continent’s most stubborn health problems — from data gaps to access inequality.
🔹 6. Dr. Bennet Omalu — The Truth Teller
Known For: Discovering CTE in NFL players | Subject of the movie Concussion
Estimated Net Worth: ~$5M
When Dr. Omalu discovered CTE (Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy) in the brain of late NFL star Mike Webster, he rattled the billion-dollar football industry.
His fight for truth over profit made him a medical whistleblower — and a cultural hero. Will Smith played him, but the real man needed no acting to be brave.
🔹 7. Dr. Herriot Tabuteau — The Silent Billionaire
Known For: Founder & CEO of Axsome Therapeutics
Estimated Net Worth: ~$1.1 Billion
Quiet yet powerful, Dr. Tabuteau built Axsome Therapeutics, a billion-dollar biotech firm focused on novel therapies for depression, migraines, and more.
He doesn’t crave headlines — but his success speaks volumes. One of the wealthiest Black doctors alive today, he’s proof that you can change the world without shouting.
🔹 8. Dr. Patrick Soon-Shiong — The Game-Changer
Known For: Inventor of Abraxane cancer drug | Owner of The L.A. Times
Estimated Net Worth: ~$5.9 Billion
Dr. Soon-Shiong is a South African-born surgeon, medical researcher, and biotech titan. His invention of Abraxane, a revolutionary cancer treatment, made him a billionaire.
Now based in the U.S., he’s mixing media ownership, biotech investment, and public health philanthropy into a portfolio of power few can match.
🎯 So What Made Them Relevant Global Icons?
Here’s the secret sauce:
✅ Expertise – They rose to the top of medicine, not by chance but through unmatched excellence. ✅ Courage – They took risks where others hesitated — whether in science, surgery, or society. ✅ Innovation – They didn’t just follow rules; they rewrote them. ✅ Impact – Their legacies are felt from African villages to American courts and global conferences.
✨ Final Thoughts
These doctors prove that Black brilliance in medicine isn’t rare — it’s revolutionary.
They are healers, builders, voices of justice, and architects of the future. And they show the world that medicine isn’t just about healing bodies — it’s about changing lives, communities, and history.
> And the next generation? They're watching — and rising.
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Rapmoney: Today marked 29 years that rap icon, Amaru Shakur aka 2Pac or Tupac died. He died on 13th September, 1996, after a drive-by shooting on September 7, 1996 in Las Vegas, Nevada, United States of America. He passed away six days later at the age of 25. The shooting took place after Shakur left the venue of a boxing match with label mate, Surge Knight.
Tupac was known for his hard poetic lyrics. He had a cult-like followership during his time. His music will remain evergreen.
Before his death, Tupac had a longstanding quarrel with onetime friend, Christopher Wallace also known as the Notorious B.I.G.
29 years gone already... It's just like yesterday.
I remember the absolute shock I got when I learned that Tupac had been shot dead. I wish he lived longer like Kool Moe Dee, and LL Cool J to see the further evolutions in rap.
Pakute: Mama diaspora, Dabiri-Erewa, not neglecting welfare of Igbo, NIDCOM replies Ohanaeze
The Nigerians in the Diaspora Commission (NIDCOM) has denounced as ‘spurious and fabricated’ allegation that the commission’s Chairman/CEO Mrs Abike Dabiri-Erewa is discriminatory in addressing the welfare of the Ndigbos in the Diaspora.
A statement by NIDCOM’s Director of Media, Public Relations and Protocols Unit, Abdur-Rahman Balogun, described the claims by one Mazi Okechukwu Isiguzoro purportedly by the Deputy President General of Ohanaeze Ndigbo, as ‘mere conjecture based on a calculated machinery aimed to distract the NIDCOM boss’.
The statement reads, “The attention of the Management of Nigerians in the Diaspora Commission (NIDCOM) has been called to a spurious and fabricated allegation against the person of our very able and amiable Chairman/CEO, Hon. (Dr) Abike Dabiri-Erewa (OON) as well as the Commission written by one Mazi Okechukwu Isiguzoro, who purportedly claims to be the Deputy President General of Ohanaeze Ndigbo, raising a false and an unpatriotic alarm on the activities of the Commission as well as its Chairman/ CEO alleging falsely and ignorantly that both the Chairman and the Commission were selective in championing the welfare of the Ndigbos in the Diaspora.
“The Commission would have dismissed such a frivolous allegation (moreso as it does not believe he represents the authentic Ohaneze ) and not waste its precious time responding but there is a necessity to clarify issues and set the records straight for posterity.
“NIDCOM is an establishment set up to engage and see to the welfare of Nigerian citizens abroad irrespective of sex, age, ethnic, religion and political affiliations. The Commission under the dynamic leadership of Hon. Abike Dabiri-Erewa has been living to expectations since its establishment over six years ago.
“Its activities, which is glaring for any discerning person with positive mindsets to see, is unprecedented and has positively brought issues relating to the diaspora to the front burner.
“The Commission sees the allegations which are not categorical and not specific in nature, as mere conjecture based on a calculated machinery aimed to distract the NIDCOM boss.
“Reacting to the same allegation, Chief Chibuzo Ubochi, Chairman of Nigerians in Diaspora Organisation (NIDO) Europe and Coordinating Chairman of NIDO Worldwide, and a proud titled Igbo man, stated thus:
“I have had the honour of working closely with Hon. Dr. Abike Dabiri-Erewa over the years. Her unwavering dedication to public service commands deep respect. Within our diaspora community, she is affectionately known as Mama Diaspora, a name earned through her consistent care and advocacy for Nigerians abroad, regardless of tribe or state of origin.
“I have seen the reshared post and am concerned by the attention it has attracted and the potential for division it may inadvertently be causing.
Speaking from direct experience, I can affirm that Mama Diaspora has always championed unity, inclusion, and the empowerment of all Nigerians in the diaspora. Her commitment transcends ethnic and regional lines, and she continues to work tirelessly to ensure that every Nigerian abroad is treated with dignity and respect.
“At NIDO Worldwide, our guiding ethos is to uphold, value, and respect one another. I therefore appeal to all Nigerians at home and in the diaspora to remain focused on the principles that unite us, rather than those that divide.
We are stronger together as One People, One Diaspora Family, with One Homeland: Nigeria. Above testimonial from an Ndigbo Chief and a Diasporan aptly summarised it all.
“In all our operations, engagements and interactions with Nigerians in the diaspora, there is no such instance of segregation, selective treatment based on ethnic or religious background.
“From time to time, the Commission comes to the rescue and aid of any Nigerian in distress irrespective of ethnic background and religious affiliation.
“It is on record that the Commission had specifically intervened in the cases of distressed Nigerians miners in Central Africa Republic, Mali, Ghana, Libya, Morocco, Lebanon, Iraq, South Africa UK, Canada, USA, UAE, Saudi Arabia ,Bosnia Herzegovinia, Ukraine , Sudan and several other countries.
“Crime has no federal character and any Nigerian who commits a crime would serve the penalty while the numerous Nigerians worldwide excelling in their fields of endeavour would always be celebrated.
“In the words of Mark Twain, “ a lie can make its way around the world before the truth can even put on its shoes.”
“Let anyone make no mistakes that the nuisance of ethnic bigotry is a dangerous albatross, and one we have been burdened with since our independence as a nation. To politicise this flammable issue today demeans our humanity as a nation.
It is past time to elevate our discourse, reject balkanization, and set an example that leaves our children a unified Nigeria.
“We cannot remain trapped in archaic ethnic rivalries and divisions. We are not crabs in a barrel—we are proud Nigerians , at home and abroad, with a duty to join hands with President Bola Ahmed Tinubu to build a united and prosperous Nigeria
BenuePolitician: Benue State Governor, Rev. Fr. Hyacinth Iormem Alia, in company of the Minister of Works, Engr. Dave Umahi, on Saturday officially flagged off the construction of a multi-lane flyover at the Wurukum Roundabout in Makurdi.
The long-awaited project follows the recent demolition of the famous Food Basket monument that once stood at the busy intersection, a move the state government said was necessary to pave the way for the new infrastructure.
The minister’s visit is part of ongoing federal efforts to assess infrastructure needs across the country, with particular attention to road networks and housing projects in Benue.
Speaking at the ceremony, Governor Alia described the flyover as a landmark investment to decongest traffic, boost commerce and enhance the capital’s aesthetics.
He expressed confidence that the partnership with the Federal Ministry of Works would accelerate delivery and bring lasting economic benefits to Benue residents.
Minister Umahi reaffirmed the federal government’s commitment to modernising critical road networks across the country, noting that the Wurukum project aligns with President Bola Tinubu’s agenda to strengthen transport infrastructure and stimulate development nationwide. Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/09/13/gov-alia-umahi-flag-off-wurukum-flyover-project-in-makurdi/
RevenuesBoost: How do people do this gentle parenting thing?🤦 Because honestly, I haven’t even started and I’m already raising my voice!🙆
I’ve had to stop Baby Light so many times from unintentionally hurting her cat. Sometimes I’m screaming for the cat’s safety, other times, for my daughter’s.
Wherever you find Baby Light and Kitty together, just know that some rough play is about to begin. They’re inseparable—even when I try to keep them apart.
But Light can get a bit too rough, and I often find myself yelling—not out of anger, but from panic.
I have a fearless daughter who sees loud noises as music. Sounds that should startle most kids? Baby Light hears them and starts dancing, smiling wide like it's a celebration.
Some people say I share stories about my family for attention. That made me laugh. The truth? I use Nairaland as an archive. I've even recovered lost images from it before.
I still wonder why some people are so quick to judge and downgrade others. But I guess that's how they are.
alphonsoolajide: Eight construction workers narrowly escaped death on Friday evening after a four-storey building under construction suddenly collapsed in Alagomeji, Ebute-Metta, Lagos.
The incident occurred around 8 pm, trapping workers under tonnes of rubble. Panic spread quickly through the neighborhood as residents described hearing loud cracks before the structure came crashing down. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
“It all happened so fast. One moment the building was there, the next, it was on the ground,” an eyewitness recounted.
Workers Rescued Alive
Authorities confirmed that all eight workers—adult males engaged in construction work at the time—were rescued alive. They were rushed to a nearby hospital for treatment, with injuries ranging from minor cuts to more severe cases requiring intensive care.
Heroic Rescue Efforts
Emergency responders, including the Lagos State Fire Service and the Lagos State Emergency Management Agency (LASEMA), led the painstaking rescue operation.
Rescue teams used specialized equipment to lift heavy slabs of concrete and extract workers carefully to avoid further collapse.
“We were worried that the building might collapse further, but the rescue team did an amazing job. They risked their lives to save others,” a resident said.
After hours of tense operations, all trapped workers were safely pulled out to the relief of their colleagues and the community. Investigation Underway
Ogabi Olajide, Deputy Controller General of the Lagos State Fire and Rescue Service, confirmed the collapse occurred at 333 Borno Way, Alagomeji, Ebute-Metta. He assured that all emergency measures were swiftly deployed.
The cause of the collapse remains unknown, but officials have launched a full investigation.
Experts say the incident once again exposes the dangers of poor construction practices and weak enforcement of safety standards in Lagos. The city has witnessed multiple building collapses in recent years, often linked to substandard materials, negligence, and regulatory failures.
Eight construction workers narrowly escaped death on Friday evening after a four-storey building under construction suddenly collapsed in Alagomeji, Ebute-Metta, Lagos.
The incident occurred around 8 pm, trapping workers under tonnes of rubble. Panic spread quickly through the neighborhood as residents described hearing loud cracks before the structure came crashing down. Eyes Of Lagos reports.
IamCookieStraw: Kindly ignore that person . Everything the government does get criticized unless they put peter Obi there . Unnecessary bitterness pervade their minds because of politics. The present administration is doing well in terms of reforming the way government works and its institutions. Widening the tax net toward improving the revenue base is cool ... allowing for more govt expenditures to attend to our infrastructure deficits.
@IamCookieStraw,
Well said. I sensed the negative vibe from him, so, I had to make a sharp detour.
I appreciate your EXTRA insights on this important taxation topic as well. The irresponsible, relentless, daily toxic criticisms on this discussion forum show the CLEAR intention of some of these paid troll farms to derail threads and deflect attention from the FACTS on the ground without getting to read the body of an article or a post properly. Just puerile preconceived notions on display.
The brilliant Professor Akin Abayomi, the Commissioner for Health and his team responded very well during the COVID-19 lockdowns.
There have been upgrades of hospitals, new equipment and new vehicles as well over the years. However, there's need to take off the road any government vehicle that's out of shape from the roads for refurbishment or the outright purchas or lease of new ones.
iLegendd: You visited the rich man that wants to marry you and you saw this frame in his living room, how will you feel as a Nigerian woman who loves to explore?
ogugwa1992: NUPRC Reports Crude Oil Losses at 16-Year Low, with Daily Losses Cut to 9,600 Barrels in July 2025
Nigeria’s upstream oil sector has achieved a remarkable milestone, with crude oil losses from theft and metering inaccuracies dropping to their lowest levels in nearly 16 years, according to the Nigerian Upstream Petroleum Regulatory Commission (NUPRC).
In its latest report, the NUPRC revealed that daily crude oil losses in July 2025 stood at just 9,600 barrels per day (bpd), the lowest since 2009, when losses hit a record low of 8,500 bpd.
The data, covering trends from January to July 2025, highlights a dramatic turnaround for Nigeria’s oil industry, which has long grappled with significant losses due to theft, vandalism, and systemic inefficiencies.
Over the first seven months of 2025, total losses amounted to 2.04 million barrels, averaging 9,600 bpd, a 50.2% reduction compared to the 4.1 million barrels lost throughout the entire 2024 calendar year, which averaged 11,300 bpd.
The progress is even more striking when compared to 2021, the peak year for crude oil losses in over two decades. That year, Nigeria lost a staggering 37.6 million barrels, averaging 102,900 bpd. In contrast, the 2.04 million barrels lost in the first seven months of 2025 represent a 94.57% drop, highlighting the effectiveness of recent measures to curb oil theft and improve operational efficiency.
The NUPRC attributes this sustained progress to reforms initiated under the Petroleum Industry Act (PIA) of 2021. The act has provided a framework for addressing systemic issues in the oil sector, leading to a consistent year-on-year reduction in losses. In 2022, losses fell to 20.9 million barrels (57,200 bpd), followed by a further decline to 4.3 million barrels (11,900 bpd) in 2023. The downward trend continued in 2024, with losses contained at 4.1 million barrels (11,300 bpd).
“This significant reduction in crude oil losses reflects the Commission’s commitment to eliminating theft and inefficiencies across Nigeria’s oilfields and pipelines,” said NUPRC Chief Executive Engineer Gbenga Komolafe.
“Our collaborative efforts with security agencies, operators, and communities, combined with strategic regulatory interventions, are yielding tangible results.”
The NUPRC has employed a two-pronged approach to tackle oil losses, combining kinetic and non-kinetic strategies. On the kinetic front, the Commission has strengthened partnerships with security agencies, oil operators, and local communities to enhance surveillance and protect critical infrastructure. Meanwhile, non-kinetic measures have focused on closing regulatory loopholes and improving transparency in the sector.
A cornerstone of these efforts is the NUPRC’s comprehensive metering audit of upstream facilities, which ensures accurate measurement of crude oil production and exports. Additionally, under Komolafe’s leadership, the Commission has approved 37 new crude oil evacuation routes to bolster security and reduce opportunities for theft.
The sharp decline in crude oil losses signals a turning point for Nigeria, which relies heavily on oil revenue to drive its economy. The reduction in losses is expected to boost government revenues, enhance investor confidence, and strengthen Nigeria’s position in the global oil market.
Industry analysts have praised the NUPRC’s efforts, noting that the sustained progress could pave the way for further reforms in the sector. “The numbers speak for themselves,” said Dr. Aisha Mohammed, an energy analyst based in Lagos. “Reducing losses to this level in such a short time is a testament to the effectiveness of the PIA and the NUPRC’s proactive measures. However, sustaining this momentum will require continued vigilance and investment in technology.”
In its latest report, the NUPRC revealed that daily crude oil losses in July 2025 stood at just 9,600 barrels per day (bpd), the lowest since 2009, when losses hit a record low of 8,500 bpd.
The data, covering trends from January to July 2025, highlights a dramatic turnaround for Nigeria’s oil industry, which has long grappled with significant losses due to theft, vandalism, and systemic inefficiencies.
Over the first seven months of 2025, total losses amounted to 2.04 million barrels, averaging 9,600 bpd, a 50.2% reduction compared to the 4.1 million barrels lost throughout the entire 2024 calendar year, which averaged 11,300 bpd.
The progress is even more striking when compared to 2021, the peak year for crude oil losses in over two decades. That year, Nigeria lost a staggering 37.6 million barrels, averaging 102,900 bpd. In contrast, the 2.04 million barrels lost in the first seven months of 2025 represent a 94.57% drop, highlighting the effectiveness of recent measures to curb oil theft and improve operational efficiency.
ariesbull: Two of them are Igbo soups ...the original name is Okwuru! The tree that stands
While it's Ogbono... Area or thing that is skinny or draws
You people should appreciate the Igbo for this ....
1] "Ila" is the standard Yoruba name for Okra. Kubewa is the Hausa name for Okra.
2] "Apon" is the standard Yoruba name for Ogbono.
3] "Ewedu" is the standard Yoruba name for Jute leaves found around the world
4] "Ewe Woroko" is the standard Yoruba name for Fluted Pumpkin leaves or "Ugu" found around the world.
5] "Egusi (Egunsi)" is the standard Yoruba name for Melon seeds.
These crops have naturally been in EXISTENCE for centuries in different countries of the world and the FIRST two soups for instance have been eaten by different distinct ethnic groups in the South of Nigeria and North of Nigeria for centuries. So how are Ibos the originators of the two soups of Okra and the one made from the "African Bush Mango?"
Matter-of-factly, these vegetables used to make these soups are found growing naturally in a lot of especially tropical countries of the world in the Caribbean, Asia, Latin America, and Africa.
We4all: It depends on the type of swallow. Pounded yam is great with ogbono, while amala tastes better with okro. You can also combine the two if you can't choose between both of them.
The combination of both soups is even better... "Obe ila alasepo" goes fine for pounded yam and more.
Ofunaofu: The prices of food items have crashed across the country, according to Minister of Agriculture and Food Security, Senator Abubakar Kyari.
The Minister said this when he featured on an ARISE TV programme on Friday.
He said President Bola Tinubu’s interventions on food security have started yielding results.
He also defended the administration’s strategy of combining production support with temporary importation to address what he described as deep-rooted structural imbalances in the agricultural sector.
“There are tools if you want to take care of the structural imbalances in the agricultural sector,” Kyari said.
“I have said it before—even the former President of the African Development Bank during his tenure, he also imported. There are tools to manage what you already have.
“President Bola Ahmed Tinubu came at a time when there was huge structural default in terms of food security and that is why he had to declare the clarion call and emergency on food security in July 2023.
“Food availability, food security is a matter of entrepreneurial availability, supply and demand. In Nigeria so much availability and demand were not there, and part of the reason for the intervention was to ramp up production and at the same time import to make up the difference, because we do not have absolute production for all food crops that we have. Rice, for example—we have about 15% gap in what we can supply and what we have in the country.”
Kyari clarified that the temporary importation window introduced by the government was meant to stabilise prices without discouraging local farmers.
“The importation window was only for six months, and it has come and gone. And that was the amount that was demanded. When you look at the global demand field, it is not enough to make farmers discouraged with agricultural production,” he said.
“For example, while that was going on, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu ordered the Central Bank to release 2 million bags of fertiliser to the Federal Ministry of Agriculture for onward delivery free of charge at zero cost, and that was done. So at the end of the day, when you look at it, there were so many interventions. We had so many programmes that supported farmers with fertiliser at 50%. So, there was a lot of production in 2024.”
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