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chyseth: I can understand. But let me please ask. Is once in a day call too much to ask for in a relationship

No its not for most people. Talk to her and find out what's ok for her

chyseth: Thank u, but I don't really understand what you mean by being needy. Me I think the essence of a relationship is to be able to understand your partner and adjust to at least find a balance in the relationship. I don't really need to be more busy than am already are. I think what I need is a bit more distraction outside the work place. I felt pity for myself after reading through your comment.it is well

No need to feel pity for yourself. If u realize what you r overdoing,it'l help you take the crucial step. Give her space. When I say get busier, its not necessarily at work. Just like u opined,distractions outside work would keep you busy enough to give her space. That's if she feels you are smolthering her. On the other hand,it could be that she's been only trudging along after you in the relationship and is now evaluating her actions. Either way,she needs space. U do too so u could move on. Afterall, life always goes on

biolabee: @kool J], coogar

Guys it does not mean he is clingy or jobless
He is just a 90s man....
Attitudes & Comments like this are what make men seem to be stone - hearted and supposedly insensitive

He may want to run some thoughts on investments, office politics by someone removed from his surroundings and get a fresh perspective on stuff


OP if it is really important to you, go for it

Are u kidding me? I've seen this time and time again. This is a sure sign of being clingy/needy. Have interacted/got quite close to a few of them that I might as well spot one from a writeup on his expectations. He ALWAYS wants her to be there for him, feels she's obligated to talk to him. Heck,he feels bad if they don't talk in a daya and u tell me he's just being old school? Lol. I don't wish u a clingy friend/mate cuz trust me,its hell when someone wants to be with/talk with u every blinking moment. It would help if he could be busier than he already is. She's prolly pissed off at him n doesn't know how to show it,thus resorting to ignoring him. Not like it really works. Lol

Advice? You are clingy. Get a life, man.

The same person should have designed her traditional wedding attire to avoid exposing the b00bies. Nice gown

What in devil's name is Annie putting on? Must she put up those mammary glands on display for all to see? Not traditional at all, what with the sagging twins.

I'd love dis but d body would be white, and d purples and blues would be cream and a light gold colour.

...And when she dies, we'll all mourn an 'Icon' who lived an 'exemplary' and 'Godly' life. Smh

abifoluwa: did you read self, u no know wetin give up ghost means?

Its u who didn get what he said. He's right on point. He went,and will never return. Thinking aint hard at all,trust me

Liela avila- can't help falling in love (with you)

Some things are meant to be...

I wonder when people will discard 'trendy stuff' and the things 'in vogue' and go for Classy wears. Fashion isn't so much the 'what' as it is the 'who'. I lol when I see girls who fixed artificial lashes fresh from sleep. Silly hare-brained,blackberry-waving,pinging-only girls.

oluwadare26: To mr Op... Y do u av to change my comment? Do i sound like Mumu who doesnt know what he's doing? I said CAF is STUPID, u went ahead to post SILLY

oluwadare26: I said STUPID not SILLY

oluwadare26: Please oooo, what changes words here

ROFLMFAO!!!!

Thread title should be: 'lil kim and Michael Jackson who wore it better?'. Well M.J did

Boyoorisha: I used to be very open! But each time I tell my plans to anyone, it won't work out. So, I noticed this after several occurrences and stopped. Now, I always keep my plans to myself and things are working in the right direction!

Same here! All those prophesies of 'speak it into existence' work in an opposite direction for me. When I sought admission,I'd believed with all my heart and even intimated everyone who asked that I'd gotten admission but although my grades were very good,ppl who had poorer grades got admission while I got stuck at home because I 'prophesied' it lol. 2day,I don't venture to speak about it and don't even so much as think about it so much lest it doesn't work

To each his own. For me,I dare not talk about anything I really hope will work out

All y'all arguing about the number of graduands from UNN...did y'all know that apart from 2 campuses and a college of medicine,UNN has another campus in aba? And an extended program run in Alvan Ikoku college of education owerri? That makes 4 campuses including sandwich program! The number wld have been more were it that UNN still runs the diploma program so pls,do some research/fact-finding b4 being stupefied. 4 campuses churned out 18,000 graduands,not 1.

Flashaldrin: Moving the motion for front page.

Seconded!

Lol. Sharpness is a virtue

Let's not flatter ourselves...both students and professionals 'teach' themselves on the internet. Yes! We don't use textbooks no more,all we need say is 'ask google'. This attitude is prevalent and while it is commendable,it becomes a backward step when all we can access is below par what is obtainable in developed countries! Students even google interviews with traditional rulers when they are asked to go home to make such research. I #facepalm for naija

Tonto killed it! Much as I'm not her fan buh her pose has an aú naturelle look, not begging to be seen. She pulled it off just as easily as she breathes and can stay longer in that pose looking mighty sexy-which cannot be said for Yvonne Nelson who looks mighty uncomfortable and stressed from d pose lol. Rukky is just there.

Isn't this jst beautiful?!

And in faraway Nigeria,...

ochallo: OMG! i need a girl like this in my life.

Hammer first or just like Jay, help build a gurl's career and she just might be ur Queen B

Who says she aint fine? Well she aint sending u either

#TeamChukwunet anytime, anyday. U ever seen a more naturelle belle? Shiite! Yeah yeah and she aint so dumbshit-she aint no blondie . Achukwunet all da looong winding wayyyy!!!

Achukwunet darling,could u dazzle us with more 'I'm all naturale' photos pls?

Oh and here's wat u get wen u choose to ignore facial 'okayness'.

#Team Achukwunet!!! Achukwunet all da way. No bo.ob/b.um exposure yet so fiiine!!! I vote a zillion times for her. Oh and tasha too.

Well I guess its just me...I've never quite been able to laugh at Helen Paul's jokes-try as I may. I'm pretty sure I look more bored after I listen to her than b4 I did.

Maybe she has a phobia for commitment and at d serious mention of marriage,she hit the roads. Yeah,she jst myt not have been d commitment/marriage kinda gurl.

gunuvi: Hahaha

Wetin naa?

mincuu: park well....before lastma go move u

Hehehe

Lolaabokoku: 9ce one