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politics or pastor. . .
but stop lying, na cos of money u wan be one

when i said ecstasy i didnt mean the drug. . . .
n am happy for u. . . .

so either ur high, drunk or in ecstasy. . . . being in love is not one

i wonder who broke ur heart

Juju sweet oo

so its not satani!!! how come he closed his account??

well anyhow nice poem (but honestly i didnt read it)

on the bright side, atleast she was honest with u

dstiva:
I have been in a relationship with this naija guy here in the states for about 3 months with this guy who came after me, dated me, treated me well and then after about a month, he asked me to be his girlfriend. After I did, everything was cool until after about two months, I noticed his behavior changed, he would call and text me less than before so I waited some time and finally told him I didn't like it and he promised to do better, which he did for about a week. Then the next week, he went missing for a day and then after i called him twice, he finally texted me the next day saying that he was in the hospital with his sick uncle. I didn't believe him and got mad so i sent me a text saying maybe we should just be friends. He went silent, and didn't respond. The next day, I felt bad and I called and texted to apologize, and no word from him for 2 weeks! Finally, a mutual friend intervened and she confirmed that his uncle was sick and that his dad is terminally ill in naija and so he's going through a lot since he cannot be there for his family in nigeria. She got him to finally call me a few days later and when he called, I told him I was sorry again and he seemed non-chalant and polite, he didn't really want to talk about what was going on but he seemed okay, he apologized for not calling me, said he's been busy, etc. He ended the convo with "I'll talk to you later." He didn't call me again, so after a few days, I called and texted him again and he only responds to texts hours later with a polite "i'm okay just busy". After about a week, I offered (by text) to bring food to his house so I could see him as my attempt to be supportive of what he was going through and he did not respond for 2 days. When he did respond, he said "sorry, I just got this, was out of town but wish I could have been in town, thanks for the offer, i'll holla at u later". Its been another two days since that text and nothing from him. Should I just stop calling him, i feel like i am chasing him and he doesn't want me anymore. if that is the case, why not just tell me? Should I try calling him at work? Should i try to get our mutual friend to arrange a meeting? I need to know why he's treating me so bad! Or Should i be patient and leave him alone until he contacts me since he is dealing with a sick parent? or is he just using his sick family as an excuse because he doesn't care about me anymore? I haven't seen him in 3 weeks and he only lives about an hour away from me. He's acting so different towards me and I want to know why? What should I do?

as a guy having family issues, my new gf of 3 months sends me that . . . . that can cause alot of damage. . . n we dont know how bad the txt was. . . .

my fada is ill, i tell u, then u call me a liar . . . .l com'on lets be human

^^^^ i see

well poster stop wearing high heels near him. . . .

but i dont think cos he dumped someone for u, he wud dump u for another

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=716655.msg8749267#msg8749267 date=1311110434]Has there been sex between the 2 of you

cos if you deny him sex - he'll look 4 it elsewhere

He's a Nigerian man and we cant stay without sex[/quote]190!!! behave

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=716655.msg8749283#msg8749283 date=1311110728]Get a new boyfriend

he's playing games - dump him - as soon as you dump him - he'll have an epiphany which will motivate him to remember your name. but who cares? who wants a boyfriend that you have to flag down just so you can hear his voice, regardless to what he is or isn't going through?

[/quote]may u never be in that guys position. . . . u think its easy

Goldieluks:
@OP,this sounds kinda sad,
but why don't you be patient with him,cause it looks like he's going through
a difficult situation with his dad's health and stuffs.You sounded like your feeling very hurt,which
is understandable,but just give him some time to sort himself out.And you may also wanna
text and call him less,if he is meant for you,he will always come back,but if he's not,then,too bad.

Look for other things to occupy your mind,and think less of him.Allow things to flow naturally,and
don't push too hard,cause you might get hurt in the process.

that's how i see it.

follow her advice

I hope u've also told ur gf this n u haven't dumped her

Poster ur spreading rumor. . .

If they were secret lovers, how come u know?

how come all the sources r all anonymous

Seeked attention, n got it

when everyone from Imo state leave lagos n go back to their state. . . . i will come n commend Rochas

in a forum on the romance section. . . . YES!

if i may ask, y did this question just hit u??

precisely

This dayokanu, i wonder y ur resurrecting all these posts

i feel some girls do this to prove that they mature faster than their mates, so they go to an older person to screw their brains back to size n then they run back to their mates. . . . smh

^^^^^ egbon this is not a dating site pls. . .

pendo, i beg to differ. . . . some guys dunno the first thing about starting a family or contributing to one. . . i suggest every man stays alone first (to test his survival skills) then stay wit a companion ( to learn how to accommodate and adapt to another being). . . .

just my personal opinion . . . .

n if her husband had gone thru this, he wont be this lazy

Truthfully,

She does not love him. . . .

he shud move on

^^^^^^^^^ help me ask ooo

2yrs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! . . . . . thats not normal dude

@pendo89,
thats my point. . . . i always advice couples stay 2geda for atleast 6months b4 getting married. . . so u can know how compatible u r. . . .

I hope she didn't carry ur collection of Bob Marley cds

bros i no understand u. . . . u dey provoke say she carry belle when times r good. . . . do u want it when job no dey

but guy, u get job now, y u no buy protection. . . . well lets not cry over spilled milk, u don't necessarily need to marry her now but ehn. . . . u need to do something formal atleast