Romance › Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by kpolli(m): 9:01pm On Sep 17, 2019 |
Purfee: Good day Nairalanders,
So I had to create another account to share my story. Please I need sincere counsels from you all. Now to my story.
I'm in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now. We actually both left previous relationships to be together. In the start of our relationship we were together for few months before it became a distant one.
While we were together I know he loves me but maybe not as much as I would have loved it. We've had issues he has strived to settle and all. When it became distant, he got a job and the relationship got strained cause we weren't communicating as much as we used to. Initially he got a really low paying job but that was in the midst of guys. I still had all the attention. But when he got a job in the midst of plenty females.. Young guys and ladies I felt the relationship strained. I had reasons to accuse him of not loving me. And he says what do I know about guys in love. He loves me and all. Now I feel that I tend to love him a lot. I worry about him being close to other girls at his place of work.
He recently just got a browsing phone and I saw his close conversation with girls at his place of work and he says they are just his friends.
Of a truth all these happening has given me different causes to worry a lot. This is a guy I love so much. We don't even chat much and he doesn't flaunt me on Whatsapp at least. Since he came online he's only uploaded a picture of me once and a picture of us on the day he was traveling abroad.
Now that's another crux of the matter. He travelled after months of we being distant. He says he will come back after a year. He says he's leaving so our lives can get better and we'll achieve our goals.
His friends were telling me he will come back for me. I saw him off to the airport though.
Lemme quickly round up my story here.
I love my boyfriend so much. He says he does too but I'm not feeling it as much. I saw his close conversations and pictures of girls on his phone and he says they are his friends just barely three months of working.
How do I know he loves me as much and how do I put my mind at rest. I know his mum and family members. He knows some of my siblings too. I'm 24 and I hope to get married soon.
He says I crave for attention a lot and I take relationship too personal. He says he loves me but it doesn't sound weighty too me. And how do I know he'll fulfil all he's promised to fulfil. He's 2yrs older.
I hope y'all can put the tiny bits of my story together and advise me.
Thank you.
Ask questions too I'll be ready to answer. I have been his shoes before so I understand his point of view; but I can't give advice to someone who can't ask as herself. Hiding behind a new account means you're ashamed of asking or is your boyfriend a NLer too? |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Askia Has A Message For Nigerians Working In America. by kpolli(m): 3:58pm On Aug 26, 2019 |
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Education › Re: Can I Do Masters With A 3rd Class Degree In Europe (USA)? by kpolli(m): 3:43pm On Aug 14, 2019 |
hebenezher: Good evening guys.
I have an issue draining my life and my emotions. It goes thus; I have just graduated from the University with a degree of 3rd class in mathematical sciences(IT). It is so hard to accept but the deed has been done and I have to start looking forward. so, I want to make an enquiry if there's chance for me to do a master in the USA with such low degree or if they also accept 3rd class graduate through PDG. please I need your advice on this.
thank you all! Very possible, do well in GRE and have good recommendations and statement of purpose. |
Romance › Re: Help! I'm Emotionally Wrecked! by kpolli(m): 3:05pm On Aug 12, 2019 |
Shadbay: I've been in extreme emotional pains for the past few months. I don't even know where to start to narrate my ordeal. I do not want this experience to damage me emotionally and psychologically, that's why I'm seeking help. Please pardon the length and blunders.
Earlier this year, just two weeks after my birthday, my ex-gf (gf of almost 7 years) broke up with me. I had just visited her and left two days prior to the breakup. I went through the most challenging period of my life because I just suffered some job and graduate school rejections that period. The breakup worsened my situation and pushed me into a depression. I have never felt defeated in life till that point. She blocked me on all mediums of communication. It was too extreme. I went from 91kg to 85 kg in less than 3 weeks.
I visited her to understand the whole situation cos her behaviour was too extreme and I got a toxic dosage of embarrassments. She said she was done with me. She said a lot of hurtful things to me. The height of the embarrassments was calling her new boyfriend (barely 3 weeks after breaking up with me) right in front of me and telling him she doesn't know what I'm doing in her place. She even called some of her friends to inform them of my presence. They all sounded scared and concerned for her as if I was some kind of predator. They told her to leave her place at once and come to their place. All these calls were on speaker! This is someone I invested all these years and emotions for. I went through hell that period cos I was dealing with some other personal tribulations.
I can't imagine treating her or anybody else the way she treated me. I NEVER cheated on her, NOT ONCE or by chance! I have walked away from compromising situation countless times because I placed her so high. I had so much respect for her. She now went on to slander my name, accusing me of cheating!!! When I asked who was feeding her all those lies, she said her friends told her. How? Did I date you or your friends? It still boggles my mind to think she'll believe them and go about spreading those ugly rumours about me.
The straw that broke the camels back was when a friend of mine told me that she said she's grateful to God she didn't contract any infection/disease from me! I couldn't believe my ears. I broke down. This didn't just break my heart, it shattered my spirit. This is someone I imagined spending the rest of my life with. My whole family (even extended) accepted her as one of us.
I had to accept that things were beyond salvaging because any attempt from me to fix things kept doing the opposite. The minute it involved my sisters I had to accept defeat.
I never harmed her or attempt to lay a finger on her. I might not be perfect but I gave it my all. The situation is far worse than I described it here, it's even painful remembering them. I loved her to a fault.
I got a text from her about a month ago after I refused to answer her calls because I had just lost a loved one. She said she's getting married and hopes I find peace as she has found hers. I stared at those words speechless. The worst set of people one could ever encounter are those that hurt you, know that they hurt you and still turn around to play victim accusing you of hurting them. If there's anything I'm proud of is my level of self-control. I know few of my friends who made fun of me being extremely loyal to one girl, warning me severally that I'm wasting my time and good looks, that my youth is passing me by. At least I have a clean conscience that I never betrayed her trust. I never went about telling other people our business. Now I understand why they say good guys always finish last.
Women don't deserve loyalty, forget all their cliche that men are not faithful and honest. I went the faithful, loyal path what did I get in return? Venom! I feel repulsed when I hear women say "Men are dogs", "Men always cheat".
I just don't want this experience to turn me into something I'm not or make me an embittered soul. I'm traumatized beyond words. This was my first and only relationship and I gave it everything. I'm in my mid-twenties and I don't think I can ever love genuinely again. I need mature advice on how to come out of this ordeal a better person. I don't want to transfer any aggressions or micro-aggressions on anybody because of this experience. Please mature advice needed. Thank you. I have been in your shoes; good news is that you're not the only one that has felt this way. Bad news is that; it's life.... Women are like that, she probably has been dating the other guy for a long time and he proposed; that was her way of officially breaking up with you. Move on; you'll find more girls you'll love more than her but they might even hurt you worse than her. It's the circle of life we live in. Always keep being you and doing your best; women who don't deserve you will be cut out. At least be grateful you didn't marry her before she started manifesting like this |
Family › Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by kpolli(m): 3:48pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
Anonymus010: I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men
NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.
Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.
Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.
Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.
Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).
After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.
Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.
Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.
Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......
THE PROBLEM:
2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.
After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.
The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).
I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.
Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.
Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors. You're still her sponsor for the green card so you can delay her travel. I'm sorry to confirm that it will only get worse when you move here. Have a one on one chat with her, try to understand her issues. If she can't change, I will advise you to leave her behind. I was with a naija boy last night that is a terrible marriage and spent the whole night complaining. Here your wife can have you thrown out of your own home with one phone call. Don't be the source of your own down fall. PS: Advice, do a DNA test on your child |
Sports › Re: Stephanie Frappart: Chelsea Vs Liverpool Super - Cup Final (Female Referee) by kpolli(m): 7:13pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
Muttee: Stephanie Frappart would become the first woman to officiate a major men’s match organised by UEFA, when she takes charge of the Liverpool v Chelsea Super Cup clash in Istanbul on Aug. 14. Frapper, 35-year-old refereed the recent Women’s World Cup final between the United States and the Netherlands in her native France.
She has previously worked in the men’s League 1 in the country and is in the pool of French referees for the coming season.
“I have said on many occasions that the potential for women’s football has no limits. “I am delighted that Stephanie Frappart has been appointed to officiate at this year’s UEFA Super Cup along with assistant referees, Manuela Nicolosi and Michelle O’Neal,’’ said Aleksander Ceferin, President of the European governing body. UEFA Referee Chief, Roberto Rosetti, said Frappart `fully deserves’ the opportunity of officiating the Super Cup.
https://all-gists..com/2019/08/first-woman-named-as-referee-in-mens-uefa-showpiece.html She was terrible during the WWC, mistake |
Christianity Etc › Re: Abimbola Adelakun Held Hostage In COZA by kpolli(m): 6:39pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Priscy01: A journalist, Aladunni Adelakun, who works with Punch newspapers, is allegedly being held at the Abuja branch of the Commonwealth of Zion Assembly, COZA, Igbere TV reports.
According to her friends, Adelakun went to the church this morning to carry out further investigations on Biodun Fatoyinbo who is currently enmeshed in a rape scandal when some members of the church recognised her as a feminist and journalist, ambushed her and have taken her to a different room, preventing her from taking part in the church's Sunday service.
Aladunni sent a text message to her friend saying the church members were acting funny.
See the tweets from her friends below;
Source; http://igberetvnews.com/832568/just-in-punch-reporter-allegedly-held-hostage-in-coza/ So let me understand this story, she was detained and her phones were taken; how did she share this information with her friend then? This drama is competing with TV shows o |
Travel › Re: Should I Still Travel To The USA? by kpolli(m): 6:29pm On Jul 21, 2019 |
Blastedholligan: There's this sweet Akata I met on fb, we are getting along well and she's thinking we could spend our lives together. She's a single mother of one, older than me with one year and a medical assistant.
Now the problem is, she doesn't really earn too much and she has accumulated alot of loans that could amount to 50k dols and she wants to acquire another to study at the University for 4years, calculating all these could amount to like 150k dols and I've not even talked about my own cos I'll have to sponsor myself through school.
Another issue is that I don't think I'm really ready to settle down cos I really need to hustle and make money to help my family if I eventually travel before marrying and I intend on doing a course here in Nigeria for Digital Marketing to help me secure a nice job.
My problem now is, I'm scared of marrying someone who has acquired these loans cos Las Las na me go still follow pay wetin I no sabi.
Please, I need a clear guide on what I should do cos I don't wanna be selfish here with her by using her to get to the USA, I'm very willing to let go of her if I have very good reasons to.
Pardon my scattered words. Guy student loan is not easy but it shouldn't be a factor for marriage. If she's responsible and knows how to manager her finances (lots of akatas don't) then you can over look the loan |
Education › Re: Is It Right To Start All Over Again From 100 Level After Wasting 5 Years? by kpolli(m): 4:18pm On Jul 13, 2019 |
Tweak2k: Am in a depressed state and am so ashamed of myself. Currently schooling in a federal university studying computer sci. Seriously I feel really bad to have wasted 5 years without achieving nothing or a degree. Even spill over still wouldn't do no good cause I don't want a 3rd class degree or every worst. Can't take the risk again.[ insult is free i deserve it]
instead of graduating with a shitty degree am thinking of starting all over again from 100lvl to study computer science or anything related in a federal university. 4 years Max
Right now i feel like an abomination and a disgrace to my family. Have tried visiting the HOD's in my school unfortunately, I was informed students from the same school can't switch to same school [Different department] i dont know why i think it's best known to them.
Mind you am in my mid 20s with no achievement or any money making skills.
I have interest in mastering programming or becoming a tech savvy guy or a security expert but i can't. aside the coding aspect physiologically am not balance. Secondly, am limited.. Am very ambitious i need help and opportunities. Am tried of fighting alone/ holding back its eating me up silently... I only smile or engage myself in a social gathering to cover up my pain.
Even if am to start all over again I'll prefer a university that offer a 4 years course I don't know which Federal university one can study comp sci within 4 years.
Please I need advice and help The truth is school is frustrating and tiring.. I need a degree my battle can't be in vain.
I know someone would have pass through my line of sorrow or even worst. Your suggestions, opportunities and help will revive me back...
Regards, You're studying Computer Science, your programming skills is what matters not what you graduated with. Finish up and master the art of building a software |
Nairaland General › Re: Drivers Rush To Grab Free ₦63m In Cash After Armored Truck's Door Opened Georgia by kpolli(m): 5:38pm On Jul 11, 2019 |
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Family › Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by kpolli(m): 3:13pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Hyacenth22: I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.
Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.
This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.
I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.
The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.
She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.
Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.
Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.
Please pardon my typos I have helped you find evidence |
Education › Re: Kaffydadiva Flaunts Her 3 US Degrees (Photos) by kpolli(m): 2:20am On Jun 13, 2019 |
Not knocking her hustle but DeVry University? |
Celebrities › Re: Flavour Poses With Andromeda Peters 'Miss United State' In America - Fans React by kpolli(m): 2:57pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
axcer: GistMore.com
Highlife singer, Flavour who already has two miss Nigerians, Anna Banner & Sandra as his baby mamas, strikes a pose with Miss United State in American.
The reactions from the users on the internet is something else as fans adviced him not to get her pregnant because he is fund of having most beautiful ladies as his baby mamas.
See more here; http://gistmore.com/singer-flavour-poses-with-miss-united-state-in-america-fans-react Is it the blogger that wrote this? |
Politics › Re: Orji Kalu, Nigerian & Vatican Ambassadors Spotted In Venezuelan Church (photos) by kpolli(m): 11:13pm On May 19, 2019 |
Doesn't he have against against him in court by EFCC? Wow he isn't in custody like the rest |
Travel › Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 14 by kpolli(m): 4:03am On May 14, 2019 |
Danikal: Hello NLanders..
Has anyone heard of minerva schools at KGI?
It's a new school, accredited though.. Yeah just recently heard of it, trying to do some research about the school now |
Travel › Re: Should I Move To The UK Or Return To Nigeria? by kpolli(m): 3:01am On May 14, 2019 |
ShyWhale: I am a Nigerian in Germany with a German Masters degree. It's quite difficult to get professional jobs in Germany as an African as we are usually the last of the pack. The only luck I ever had was to get internships, internships that takes several months to get and usually only for short periods. The high percentage of Africans even with German Phds doing menial jobs is highly discouraging and depressing. Most are trapped in the race for survival and I can't imagine myself living life like them. I feel I could do better with my skills and education that spreads across Europe's top countries.
I made the decision to return to Nigeria, harness my skills and start up a processing company. At 25 and the sole breadwinner of an extended family, they are asking me to stay put, saying that the Nigerian environment is not good for business (I feel they are only scared of losing out on the goodies they get from me).
Also last year, the family introduced me to a female in the UK, talking about marriage to her. The said lady is a Nigerian within my age range, but born and raised in the UK. [b]Though I have been to the UK severally to see her, [/b]I have made no commitments whatsoever as she is not the kind of lady I would marry all things being equal. She and the family have however given me a ultimatum to decide now.
What do you advice? So you used your money to travel to see someone more than once but you don't really like her? At the end of the day, the decision is yours.... Going to Nigeria to start a startup, your capital needs to be on point and you must be investor backed. It depends on the current leg you've in Nigeria that will make your ideas work. Staying in Germany, I can't say; I'm totally against doing menial jobs with a degree when that's not you want for your life. In UK I know people who got good jobs (not only in IT) but I dunno what you studied so I can't say the same fate awaits you. Do some research in your field and don't lose hope by having the mentality that you're at the bottom of the barrel. Make your resume stand out, add skills that their citizens don't have. Make yourself unique. So when they see your resume; they will forget where you're from. Don't marry someone who you don't want to plus don't give in to ultimatums. Plus does she want to marry you or she just wants a husband; difference dey |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Lady Schooling In Canada, Cries Out Over Alleged Suicidal Level Racism by kpolli(m): 3:54pm On May 04, 2019 |
ELVISHOT: Nigerian lady schooling in Canada, cries out over alleged suicidal level racism.
She wrote in her tweet,
"I am a black graduate Student at the University of Saskatchewan, Canada and I am calling on the world. I have experienced racism and discrimination to a suicidal level.
This has been the case for most black people in a certain department of the Institution. Please share & help".
Watch Video Below,
http://www.thenaijafame.com.ng/2019/05/nigerian-lady-schooling-in-canada-cries.html?m=1 Not surprised, Canada is very racist especially the non-metro cities. They did this same thing to one of our very own |
Travel › Re: Civil Servants Need Advice On Whether To Migrate To Canada by kpolli(m): 3:54pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
graceajunwa: Hi am in a bit of dilemma my husband and I are both civil servants am also a lawyer and our take home put together is about 260k per month. We have two kids of ages three and four we have a good opportunity to travel to Canada with a job offer but under unskilled worker.
Am thinking of a better life for my kids but a bit confused cos of d fear of d unknown. Will it be wise to leave our jobs considering Canada has a good education system secondly we also intend schooling when we get there so we can get better work places pls what ur advice on this we are really in a fix what ur opinion for those that have been there How much are you paying this agent for this visa? I hope it is not a scam. What kind of blue collar job is it? What city in Canada? If you and your husband have the degree; check if you'll qualify for the express entry migration path. Don't dash your money out and end up doing something you'll regret. You're a lawyer, you can also make something of your career "in the abroad" too |
Romance › Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by kpolli(m): 3:32am On Jan 29, 2019 |
Freehuman: Guy you think you are intelligent? Churches in the western world today conduct wedding ceremonies for homosexuals and there is liberal christianity.
Although I know agnostic people , deists (like myself) and atheists may be stupid , I am sure an average christian in Nigeria is a big big brainwashed fool.
Nigerian Christians be like " you are following oyinbo to do atheism" and I wonder if Christianity was invented in Africa. You write out what you think clearly that the white man(giver of christianity) deceives you(the receiver of christianity) with liberal christianity.
Is it hard to understand that they deceived your ancestors in the first place with the form of Christianity(conservative christianity) you claim to be your own.
I'm sorry if I sound rude. You're brainwashed. Yes you do sound very rude but I will let it slide, because oyinbo people brought us Christianity doesn't mean they're God. Certain people have decided to interpret the Word of God to mean something else doesn't make it right because their forefathers brought the religion to the continent of Africa. If they had hoarded His Word and were the only ones who had access to it then yes we can be brainwashed but the Bible specifically talked about homosexuality. If people think God is P. Diddy and they can remix His Word, na their business be that but as for me and my household; we will obey His Word and not what oyinbo people tell us. Shalom (or the atheist version of that) to you |
Christianity Etc › Re: #whatif: Daddy Freez Is Correct About Tithe? by kpolli(m): 7:56pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Annwrites: I don't even have time to do that.
Whoever needs answers shows find time to search the scripture on their own. Typical answer, wasn't expecting you to show me what doesn't exist |
Romance › Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by kpolli(m): 7:55pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Tonysmith4sure: Funny how you think that the people that brought christianity to his doorstep are gonna deceive him. Because the people who brought Christianity to our door steps are long dead. By the way I still agree with you that going to church doesn't make one a Christian nor take one to heaven. It's actions that matter |
Christianity Etc › Re: #whatif: Daddy Freez Is Correct About Tithe? by kpolli(m): 6:31pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
Annwrites: But Daddy Freeze is right.
The scriptures cannot lie after all. Show us the scripture that says he is right. PS Don't post bits of quotes to form a scripture |
Romance › Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by kpolli(m): 6:28pm On Jan 28, 2019 |
ogashman: I didn't go to church yesterday due to the fact that I couldn't iron my clothes because of a total black out by electricity distribution company in my area.
So,I called Bae later in the evening of same day,we talked smoothly about everything,cracked few jokes and laughed and then she asked me if I went to church.
Being the honest type,I told her the truth which was that I didn't go to church, citing my reasons.
Bae really got angry.saying that I never liked going to church bla bla bla.
That how can I call myself a Christian and feel comfortable sitting at home on a sunday.
I apologised for not going to church but also reminded her that going to church does not take one to heaven.
However I told her that one could be a church goer but not a doer of God's word.she should focus more on who I'm and not whether I go to church or not..it doesn't really matter.
There are so many people that go to church yet they do the opposite of what they stand for...it doesn't make sense to me.
After everything, Bae was still angry which led to talking to me in a rude manner and i had to threaten her that I would hang up the call.. She dared me to...I did..because I was fed up with her nagging about church.
I hate pretending to be who I'm not.....I'm a liberal Christian. I go to church most times but not all the time and I hate people wanting to force me to just because they feel it is the right thing.
We have not communicated since yday and I have decided not to call her(knowing she did be waiting for me to call) because I don't think I was wrong in this case.
Pls,My people am I wrong in this?or my girl is just over reacting ?because I see this as a non-issue really. You're right in your thoughts, but there is nothing like a liberal Christian; God's words are not confusing... You're either a doer of God's words or you're not.... The light does not mix with darkness, so there is nothing like a liberal Christian.... Don't let oyinbo people deceive you |
Politics › Re: Atiku Agreed On A Bribe To Sell Off NITEL - Henry Shield (2017) by kpolli(m): 6:04pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Was Atiku vice president in 2015? I'm lost here |
Business › Re: Jeff Bezos And Lauren Sanchez Sex Chat Leaked, Led To His Crashed Marriage by kpolli(m): 6:37pm On Jan 11, 2019 |
CastedGist: It has emerged that the richest man in the world, Jeff Bezos’ marriage has crashed and a serious divorce in the loom.
According to report, the Amazon Boss and his wife are separating over his affair with a mistress who he reportedly exchange sex chats with during the time of their relationship.
Among media exchanged between the duo were shirtless selfies, a photo of his genitals, steamy text messages and more to married Lauren Sanchez while they carried on an eight month affair that sometimes saw them hook up in both their marital homes, in hotels and in private jets.
The relationship between Amazon billionaire and his mistress, TV host Lauren Sanchez, has been going on long before Jeff Bezos and his wife MacKenzie decided to divorce.
Jeff Bezos and MacKenzie seen in September heading to Senator McCain’s funeral
Jeff, 54, and Lauren’s relationship involved private jet rendezvous, intimate dinners and sleepovers at each other’s marital homes, it has been claimed. They also stayed in hotels together, including one in Boston hours after the rest of the Bezos family had left the hotel.
It was claimed the family was in town to attend Bezos’ son’s graduation from MIT. While they were at the ceremony, Sanchez, it is claimed, was put in a room in the same hotel where they were occupying a private suite. Once the family left, Bezos is reported to have stayed and loved-in with Sanchez until the following day.
The National Enquirer magazine followed the love birds for four months after snapping Lauren Sanchez and her sister getting off Bezos’ private jet in October.
The Enquirer claims that Bezos only announced his divorce on Wednesday morning because he knew they were about to expose his affair with Sanchez.
The magazine also alleges that Jeff Bezos desperately tried to stop them from running its series of photographs which document their affair, and he even asked one friend: ‘Can’t I buy the story from them?’
MacKenzie, Jeff Bezos’ wife of 25 years, uncovered the affair between her husband and Lauren Sanchez when she looked at her husband’s plane’s flight manifest and found Sanchez’s name was the only one on the passenger list.
According to the Enquirer’s sources, Bezos is ‘in love’ with Sanchez and has told her:
It was also revealed that asides meeting in each other’s homes, Bezos once booked a private bungalow at the Beverly Hills Hotel for them to spend the night in just five blocks from his marital mansion.
It has also emerged that the pair exchanged steamy text messages, dating back to April last year. Bezos sent raunchy text messages to Sanchez, who is married to Hollywood mega agent Patrick Whitesell and has three children (two with him and one from a previous relationship with an NFL star).
In another, National Enquirer claims he said:
Others are more X-rated including one where he is said to have told the former TV host:
In another, he allegedly said:
Another is said to have read:
Other remarks he reportedly made to her include:
In addition to shirtless photographs he took standing in front of mirrors, including one in a steamy room where the magazine claims he was wearing just a towel, he also sent Sanchez an ‘unsparing’ photograph of his genitals which it said was too graphic to publish.
It was previously reported that Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez didn’t start dating until they were both separated from their spouses. But National Enquirer says they had been dating since June, months before Lauren separated from her husband, Hollywood mega-agent Patrick Whitesell, and nine months before Bezos announced his split from his wife, MacKenzie, on Twitter.
It is believed that Lauren Sanchez met Jeff Bezos through her husband Patrick. Sources tell The Enquirer that the affair has ‘blindsided’ Sanchez’s husband Patrick.
Over the last several years, Jeff and MacKenzie Bezos and Patrick Whitesell and Lauren Sanchez have been photographed together at glitzy events including the Vanity Fair Oscars party.
Bezos reportedly propositioned Sanchez behind her husband’s back while they honored the Oscar-winning film Manchester By The Sea.
He whispered to her: ‘You can’t fight chemistry’.
Amid the relationship saga, it has emerged that Sanchez was voted ‘Biggest Flirt’ by her classmates at Del Norte High School (Sanchez left in 1987).
Gist from Gistmore - http://gistmore.com/see-sex-chats-with-mistress-that-crashed-world-richest-man-jeff-bezos-marriage Contact being sent to shows Jeff but the text in blue shows he sent it; which kind of poorly packaged text is this? How can he send a text to himself telling himself he loves you girl and he is cheating? |
Family › Re: I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help by kpolli(m): 6:05pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
Alpha001: Happy new year NL. I am posting this here because i really need help and i know a lot of people visit this section. Please i need urgent help as i don't want to continue like this in this 2019. Don't come and start insulting me please.
My problem is that i easily get angry and my anger doesn't go away easily. Very little things make me angry. Things that are not supposed to make me angry. I can live in a room with a person for one year or even more without saying a word to the person just because he/she angered or did something bad to me.
I'm a quiet guy. People say i'm an introvert. I always try my best to avoid trouble. I am in my mid twenties buy have never been in a relationship.
This my problem of easily getting angry and keeping malice has been troubling me. I don't like it but still can't stop it. It is affecting my relationship with my family and close friends. And how can i even go into a relationship with this issue i'm having. I find it very difficult to completely forgive. I always envy those who are sociable and who don't easily get angry. I always wish to be like them.
Please i need your help/advice. Please this is not a spiritual problem, so don't start telling me about deliverance. I would appreciate if this can be moved to the front page. Thanks. You need to pray more and learn to let go of things.... I used to be like you but have learned the more you let things go, the more at peace you're |
Politics › Re: Billionaire With Private Jet/ Yacht To Pay Luxury Taxes From 2019 - Federal Govt by kpolli(m): 10:38pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
Dumb move, you want rich people to move their money abroad abi...
That's what yankee has been complaining about |
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze: "Meet NIMROD Whose Birthday Christians Are Celebrating Today" by kpolli(m): 3:23pm On Dec 25, 2018 |
A1PHA: This argument about the origin of Christmas should not be ignored.what many Christians believe is that it's the celebration of the birth of Christ But there was no evidence that early Christians and apostles celebrated it. It was made popular by the Romans the have a reputation of paganism and the fact that the date coincides with the day of a pagan god makes it dubious. I agree with you but please ignore the ignorant (Freeze), putting gifts on and under trees is what Nimrod is associated with not the day Christmas. A simple google search and weeding out blogs, we get this info. |
Travel › Re: Payment For Trolley At Murtala Muhammed Airport, Lagos by kpolli(m): 5:04pm On Nov 29, 2018 |
In lots of foreign airports, you pay for trolley. |
Politics › Re: Saraki Says Kayode Ogundamisi's Body Should Be Cremated Over Leaked Audio Clip by kpolli(m): 9:42pm On Nov 18, 2018 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Rwanda Genocide: A Survivor's Heart Rending Testimony (Pics) by kpolli(m): 5:17pm On Nov 01, 2018 |
Saddest story I have read
What's wrong with us? I can't even cry, I can't be angry, I can only wonder.... This was purely inhumane, we need to step up as a people.... Worst part is we are capable of doing this in Nigeria if the same situation arises |
Politics › Re: Ibe Kachikwu Now U.S. Citizen by kpolli(m): 6:59pm On Oct 26, 2018 |
Dear Poster/Blogger,
Being given an Honorary Citizen of a State in US doesn't make you a US citizen.
Kindly correct your story
Signed,
Kpolli
For the Man dem! |