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rowlandoo: Please my emergency date was approved and the only date there is 7th july which is saturday , first 7th is too early before my toefl report become available online so can I wait till another date shows up , second can I wait till another date comes up and hope it won't affect my mrv . They said the emergency date expire on 31st july

If they said it expires on the 31st of July then chill till when its almost then but no allow am pass that date oooo

Plus when will ur toefl become available then?

yomi fola: July... Letz go der...

Na great testimony we all go giv oo

amen

Wow some really fine girls are posting their pix [size=3pt]as well as ugly ones[/size] but I will still remain faceless

RIchibabe: Hello friends, i need your opinion, i meet this guy on bb chat and we have friends for about 4months now, he said he has falling in love with me, that he loves me so much but i find it hard to believe him because guyz have no truth in their mouth, but am kind of falling for him, i have heard so many people say internet dating is Rubbish, that most of all this internet dating don't turn out well, Pls how true is that ?

This is BBM dating, much more different

Kenneth4u205: Am a victim of this mystery called FALLING IN LOVE.why are we not able to decide when to fall in love.?why are we not able to decide who to fall in love with?.and still yet,why can't i decide when to fall out of love.why!! Why!!! Why!!!!.i don't really know,in short don't ask me.i met this girl last month.she's not the prettiest girl that i have seen.neitgher is she the prettiest in town.one thing led to another and we became friends.nothing more.she's just a friend.the hi hi kind of friend.guess what?.i woke up one morning only to realize that i have fallen in love with her.LOVE never took permission from me before falling in love with her.i just found my self crazy about.day dreaming and fantasizing about.why did i fell in love with her?.why cant i control the feeling?.she's not the prettiest girl in my life,yet am headlong crazy about her.stays awake thinking about her.loving and loving her,more and more.pls help me.pls help me.i need your help.how can i decided when to fall in love?.how can i decide who and who to fall in love with?.this mystery call falling in love!!!!!!!!!!

I tot ur wife just dumped u

Aza Montana: A friend of mine cohabits with her boyfriend in the city. They are both from different states. The guy said he has 3 kids by a woman staying in his fathers house back in the village but he claims he never married her as they only gave the babies mama accomodation for the past 12 years because she born him kids. He claims he will marry my friend and now has been staying in the same house with her for the past year. He has cheated more than 7 times and he likes to throw parties in his house. My friend still wants to stay with this man as she says she always talks to this mans's mom and baby momma on the phone. I personaly think this man is taking my friend for a ride and wasting her time but she chooses to think i am too harsh and judgemental. What do you guys think of this situation. Is my friend justified or is she mad. Oh i forgot to add that all the woman he has cheated with have confronted my friend and told her everything but the guy keeps bad mouthing everyone so that she can not believe them.

Please leave alone, u dunno what she sees in him

popkid: Tunji lost his job after his wife gave birth to their second daughter, for 6 yrs he could not secure another job, the wife became the bread winner of their family, it was like hell. one day, the wife came in & told her husband that there is a job interview somewhere, the husband went, among 126 applicant all they needed was just only one person for the post of assistant general manager, tunji is not hopeful of anythin good comin from here but his wife assured him that her uncle is a friend to the CEO of the company. 5 days after the interview the CEO called tunji to meet him in his private hotel room for his appointment letter, in a twinkle of an eye he got there, with joy he opened the letter, 550k monthly to start with, 2 official car, 5 bedroom duplex at ocean view, at the end of the letter wrote "note that ur appointment could be terminated anytime incase there is any mis-conduct" out of joy he picked up his phone & called his wife, to his suprise his wife's phone ringed right there in the hotel room, he looks toward the direction of the sound only to find his wife's bag somewhere at the corner of the room, what do u think he should do?:|:]xx</3 Answer me pls...."

The restaurant?

Its a movie

Nextworldnx: So sad right now. Its a pity i love my GF so much but i cant express my feelings fully to her because of heartbreaks i had experienced in the past.

I think about her all day,use her pics as wallpaper(but changes it whenever she is about to come around). Sometimes i feel like licking the very ground she walks on, i just cant believe she is mine.

But trouble is i have been taken for a fool before on several occasions for freely loving a girl and showing it. Some of them danced "alanta" and "azonto" on my head for that,and i swore never to show a girl my weak side again!

I have been bossy to her, yet she is still madly in love with me. I have treated her badly (so much that i pity her ), yet she will do anything for me.

Only and ONLY! If she knew how much I LOVE HER.

she only loves u cos u treat her that way. . . . the moment u start showing her u love her, she wud start dancing "azonto" on ur head

cos nobody gets what he/she deserves

cindyrella: help dis man out he need ur advice.... A man and his lady intended to get married in 3 months time.. Suddenly she fell terribly sick and was rushed to the hopital only to find out that she has Cancer of the Blood.. Doctor says she has only about 3yrs to live and she mite not be able to give birth to a child.. Pls what would u advice? Continue with the wedding or call it off?Please be truthful

wow

2buff: And what makes you think I have never reached that point?
It's not fun being broken up with, it will no doubt hurt and your heart will ache (literally), but to want to then [b]force [/b]someone to remain with you when they no longer want to (overriding their will), in itself, is selfishness. It would show you only care about how you feel regardless of what she feels.

Nothing is better than being with someone who WANTS to be with you, not because you've tied her up and locked her in your basement.

I never said she must stay, i just insulted her for waking up n leaving for no reason at all until roki explained y she left. . .

2buff: What do you then want them to do? Stay in it and become bitter?
You cannot force someone to remain with you. You cannot force someone to love you.
And if they choose to leave, you may hurt, you may shed a tear from a broken heart, but you cannot force them.

A man needs to have other things going on in his life that bring him joy other than the woman he is with.
This is the pathetic outlook on life that breeds stalkers and the likes.

Until u reach that point, u wud not know how it feels. . . So don't make it seem its right to one day wake up n say u no dey do again, another person is involved. . .

Ollydon: answer me now guys.pls.....I got into d only school I applied to..wont d vo ask y I applied into only one skul?

Then sharply apply to another one

imperiouxx: I didn't during my own and I was fine.

Thanks

[quote author=Mynd_44]So because of Karma, she should stay with someone she is not happy with abi? If it was the guy and he felt he is no longer happy with her, he should walk[/quote]Are we still on this?
So ur saying that it's right for anyone at anytime to get fed up n walk out of a relationship abi

kpolli: Quick question, does ur sponsor need to notarize his/her letter?

Still waiting for an ans

profGinger: I wiII be heading to usa embassy by next week abuja.I am going for masters in pubIicy poIicy anaIysis.I didn't sit for any standardise text since it wasn't a criteria for admission.my schooI sent my a covering Ietter buttressing that it wasn't a criteria for admission.in My undergraduate degree I studiedied internationationaI studies and dipIomacy.with 4.1 gpa am 26yrs oId graduate 2008 and after services I got a job with the GovernmenT and am working with them tiII date.I want to know if there is any red fIag in my do.I need advice from the house.

Best of luck bro, can't see any yet. . . maybe u shud list ur documents

rokiatu: She didn't just wake up and decide ok today "I am going to break that guy heart and I will enjoy it". For a starter, she say she don't like the way he talk to her. He talk very rudely with no respect at all and he is very inpatient and gets angry very quickly. She still decided to stay and talk it over with him, he changed some of it and generally he try his best to improved but he is also very jealous and overly protective and clinging. Even if she missed just one of his call he exposed like an atomic bomb ans start doubting her. He gets absolutely furious when other guys compliment or approach her.

Now don't get me wrong, this guy is a really great guy. Everything you would want in a man. Very very handsome, ambitious with a fantastic job, smart, very socially exposed, and she confessed that he is very loving and romantic but his anger issues scared her.

If u had said this while posting the topic, I wud have asked for his number to warn him off the babe. . . Vital info left out. . . Now am in support of her, if u still need me to make the call, lemme know

rokiatu: And if she have come up and say he not the one, will he keep her hostage?

I am not supporting his clinging unto her but am not approving her just waking up on day saying that she is tired he shud just leave her. . . Understand?
I know what it feels like. . .

[quote author=Mynd_44]seriously, people change. She might have fallen for another guy or she is not just interest again. Is it by force? Would you have preferred if she started cheating?[/quote]Ppl change but always remember do unto others what u want to be done unto u. . . It's called karma

rokiatu: Kpolle what is ur problem? Like seriously not all relationship end up in marriage.


No man or woman should think that he or she owns anybody cause so long you haven't put a ring on it, the person may walk out your life any time.

My problem is that ur friend is ending it the wrong way. . . And she should never have let it reach this level cos for the guy to propose immediately then there was no issue btw them. . . They must have discussed marriage n co. cos for him to have had a ring handy like that he was made to believe she was the one. . .

Floxyluv: The babe says she is no longer interested, it's normal for the guy to be pissed. It still wont change her decision, would it have been better if she had double dated? It's good enough she has made her intention known. It takes two to tango, you know?

I wonder how the topic wud have been if it was the guy that had his way n left. . .

Quick question, does ur sponsor need to notarize his/her letter?

[quote author=Mynd_44]I still maintain that you have the right to say you are no longer interested. Is it by force?[/quote]A relationship consist of a couple meaning 2 ppl, so when making a decision, consider the other person. . . You don't know what the other person has sacrificed to be here. . . Yes I agree its the guy's fault for not knowing the devil he was dinning with but that doesn't erase her wickedness

rokiatu: I only speak of facts.

well u can't expect us to believe the facts cos she didn't end it well. . .

[quote author=High_Chief]Sometimes people think you can jump in and out of someone's life at will. What has such a guy done wrong for your friend to jilt him, prolly she has an eye for another dude.[/quote]@Mynd_4 note this

rokiatu: Matter of fact she is one of them chic that is not money greedy. Infact she buys gifts for them and look after them well. And she was really in love with this one, so she treated him well, infact the dude believe he have found the perfect perfect woman and now she wants to run away.


I am not saying this because she is my friend, but she is the kind of woman when you get, u will go "Thank you lord"

Beautiful, nice, kind, intelligent everything. And the dude seems a bit starstuck by her cuz she way too beautiful and nice.

Now u have told us her good side but that doesn't clear the reason y she just suddenly woke up n decided to leave him. . . N yes u r showing her off

walex57: Please i need an urgent advice...on my ds-160 form under employment i filled my dad's construction company and i work there...but checked on the "does not apply box" for salary....i finished service last year October and immediately applied to the school that gave me admission...i no dey earn salary as i was hoping my admission will pull through which actually happened....with a good TOEFL score and GRE waiver letter from the school and registration of my dad's company with CAC...do i need to print out my own personal bank statements as i no get any thing for inside ooo and moreover i never dey earn salary...just assist my dad with his construction company....what do i tell the VO should incase i'm asked about my employment and salary or monthly income...pls reply gurus....thanks...Gboyega D, Imperoiuxx, Kpolli, chi town base and co pls..thanks

Hmm, IMHO. . . . Does ur intending course of study have anything to do with construction?? well as ur not sponsoring, ur statement is not compulsory but its something u can still carry along with the little in it. . . Good u indicated that u don't earn cos they wud have asked for payslips. . . Well explain to them how u said it here, its ur father's company n u wanted to gain working experience while waiting for the outcome of ur admission process.

nevawory: @ gboyega, @ imperioux n gurus pls i nid a chronological details of how the interview will go
in lagos
...... how do they do biometrics?
---- wen u get in wat first?
----- will you be sitting down?lol
-------will the VO be talking to u across counter like rev father?
-------wat is the chances of somebody who does not get funding frm his sch n he is using his uncle as a sponsor?

walex57: just less than a week to go for my interview...prayer and fasting on due course! Let's all go with confidence and pls pls and pls don't forget an important document to take along with you and that is the "Favour of God"....wish all of us july pals the best...na testimony we go gather!

Goodluck bro, God's favour wud go with u. . . Amen

belamour: Is that a problem for you ?

No oooo
Am strongly behind u, can I attend the wedding?

[quote author=d_baba]Hello guys How are we doing? All July interviewees lets get ready

Interview coming up shortly but now I have a problem. My sponsor's account is presently depleted below the amount stated on my I-20 but he usually has funds flowing in and out of it. I'm worried 'cos I don't know if the VO will just look at the balance or go through the activities on the account. I have my own personal statement I will be taking along as back-up but I don't know if this is gonna be a problem.[/quote]If there was a period this month were he had enough cash for it, then tell him to get a statement btw 6months and that day IE back date it

[quote author=Mynd_44]I don't see the need for the insult. The guy has probably been doing things which to him were right but she could not take. Is it a crime to want to walk away. Would you rather the girl cheat on the guy?[/quote]In this era where girls say no more good guys. . . . So the men who lose interest are basstards and players but the girls should not be insulted too, pls abeg!

rokiatu: LMAO!!! I am still laughing but my friend is in deep sh..i...t. She have falling out of love with her bf for many reasons known to her. She said she just can't go on with him anymore. She decided to explain everything to her bf, all the reasons she's not in love anymore all but the dude is proving difficult. He says, he just can not let it go. He just can not. And he is serious. He seem too in love to quit. Infact he proposed on the very day she broke up with him. After she said everything, what he had to say was "will you marry me" with a ring out of the blue. He was extra romantic to her, and he didn't even seems to care about the break up. He say that he haven't done any wrong to just let it go like that. I told her to cut all communication with him, but he turns up everyday, to her house. My friend is beginning to get scared. She don't want to call the police on him because she don't want to be that cold. He embarrassed her at social occasions cause he poses as her bf. He keeps calling her "my woman" "my baby" etc etc.

Please people, give me your tips, strategies, and views on how to handle this lunatic before he drive my friend insane.

Your friend is a fool and deserves the worst. . . . Blind ppl who don't wanna see the light. . . hiss

Another 80 something yr old marries a 21 yr old boy

Us wey no fine, make we continue to dey remain faceless and anonymous