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[quote author=Sky-walker]why would you want to study in london when you are looking for a low cost?[/quote]I wonder ooo, expensive city n harder to get a job in

Kabo snoop get airline?

Sijo01: hahahahaha.
Mind elaborating on dis?

The increase in his salary made her realise that he could afford her love

franco273: Hello people, I have a little problem, back in 2008 when I was still naive and ignorant I was fooled by an agent who said he had connections @ the USA embassy, well I found the hard truth when I was refused. My problem now is that when I applied for visiting then, he filled the form as me being married , with a kid and having my own business, details like wife's name, dob, business name and kid's dob I can't recall since it was a lie, now I want to apply again as a student and thinking of putting separated as marriage details . But the form still asks for dob and previous work history which I can't recall, what can I do?

Ghen ghen

Nauttyprof: I just don't know how to put this rightly but i'll try my best just for you guys to help me out. I have a feeling for someone which I just can't suppress, I can't just explain it- I just love her so much but the problem is that I've not told her how I feel because I lack that courage & i'm shy (i just don't know how to get over this) and in some days time, I'll be leaving that area because I just have to. My friends jokingly had tried to talk to her with just my effort left in completing the rest but yet I didn't do anything (the report I had from my friends was that it was left to me and that she is not objecting in anyway). Also, should I say what made me hold back was because she was acting funny (not in a bad way though)- she could just act formal when around me which wasn't so before. I just love her so much, its just something I cannot point out as the reason I love her. What can I do? Help me out.... Your honest opinion is needed.

Omo she must have a mad shape

It's possible, ur salary myt have increased within that period

Amusaopeyemi: "I had sex with my boyfriend’s grandad and now I’m pregnant. Do I lie to my boyfriend and tell him it’s his or do I come clean?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years. He’s 22 and I’m 19. We were at school together. He’s now at university and I’m a beautician.
I’ve known my boyfriend’s family for a long time and my parents and his parents are friends. His grandfather is 58 and he has three kids – one of whom is my boyfriend’s dad – and 10 grandchildren. He is a football coach so is very fit for his age.
My boyfriend’s parents had a big party at their house one night recently. My parents went along and so did my little brother. We had a great time, dancing until the early hours. My mum and dad left with my brother in a taxi but I stayed the night with my boyfriend.
I woke up around 5am and was so thirsty I got up and went downstairs for a drink of water.
I felt some hands slide around my waist and my hair was lifted up and my neck was being kissed. I assumed it was my boyfriend but then I realised this person had more stubble on his chin.
I turned around and it was my boyfriend’s granddad. I was amazed that he was such a good kisser. We went over to the sofa and he undid my dressing gown and made love to me.
It all felt so thrilling we’ve met three times since just for the sex. But sometimes it’s been unprotected – stupid, I know – and now I’m pregnant I don’t know who the father is.
I really do love my boyfriend. Is it best just to pretend it’s his? I know I’d be lying to him but it would break his heart".

Onigbinde!!!!!!!!!!

Ismail 007: This is not the best of times for a childhood friend of mine. He was born with the proverbial silver spoon into a polygamous muslim family. Please bear with me, I am not a good story teller. The mum is a Liberian. She was booted out when the boy- my friend was 5 years old on the excuse cooked up by the first wife and the boy was made to stay with a family friend for 16 years. If not for occasional visitation, the family friend would have laid claim tO the boy as he bearing their surname already. Please note my friend is hovering around 27 years old of age. The younger brother to my friend insisted on knowing his dad's people. That was how the were united again after several years. Recently, one of the wives of the dad passed on to the great beyond and dat was looking at the direction of my friend's mum as a worthy replacement but the family of the mum have said no. The dad is now mounting pressure on my friend to convince the mum to come back and the mum too is resolute that she's not going back. Contd.

This is sad not romantic. . . .

My advice, ur friend should be happy his father is not communicating with him, good riddance

sexyzeeno: Almost 2 years now dat i've been dating this guy and I love him so much and I can do anything 4 him. I was with him last weekend and I ask if he truly love him and he said he didn't knw dt I shld not be angry is just dat he's not sure that he need time to figure it out. Am hurting pls advise me.

Somethings are best left unknown. . . . You asked the wrong question

marvelck: You are constantly maltreated, cheated on, abused/assaulted or humiliated either by your boyfriend or girlfriend, and yet you choose to remain with him or her. What kind of love is that? Some say na pity while others say na lust. And there are those who feel such foolish love no be ordinary love.

I think I know the gurl ur referring to

excel26: Hello Folks, i meet a girl dated her for a while and proposed to her recently, only for her to tell that most of the the things she told me about herself was not true but all lies, i find it difficult to believe her again after all the lies even thoungh she had opened up to me, when i asked her why d lies she said she told me all those lies then just to keep me.......
i also notice that i dont love her as much as i use to b4,
i have never in my entire life been so lied to b4.
What do i do

It depends on the degree of the lies

clementcro: Hello Everybody, Please I need your advice on my relationship,


I will be settling down very soon, so I met a young lady in my church, I proposed to her, but she hasnt agreed, she told me she would need to pray on my name and her parents too would need to do that.


So her parents went ahead and prayed on 3 names she provided for them, and my name was selected has God's will for her, but the problem now is this, she said she doesnt love me, and the person she loves, is one of the other guys whose name wasnt selected when prayed upon.

She told me to look for another girl or even we should be ordinary friends


I have met with the parent, the mother to be precise i told her about what her daughter told me , but she told me to neglect that, that her daughter must surely marry me, cos i am the one selected by prayer.

The mother even went to the extent of calling me when she was with the pastor that prayed on the name, and the pastor also told me to be patient that the girl will finally marry me.


But this girl is not responding very well to me, although she picks my calls, and we do talk attimes

Please what should I do, her mum is assuring me that i would be the one to marry her, that i should just be patient , but the daughter is telling me that she doesnt love me...


I need your advice, what should I do? should i be patient like they said , or I should look for another lady to be in relatinship with,


Please ur urgent advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

She took 3 names to pray on or to a jazz man??

Guy marriage is not about all these things, first have a good relationship b4 praying about it. . . . U just met her, next thing na to forward ur name to the alter. . . Kilode?

I don't blame her, if u now marry her n she cheats on u, na another topic for NL be that

Scash: I was on my way home today and then someone drove past... He slowed down as he was moving so when he parked a few meters away and waved for me to come over, I felt he was someone that knew me or somthing. So I walked n even jogged over to where he was and the next thing... 'I want to see you'
First dt line was disgusting and second, why did he have to park so far away making me trek under hot scorching sun. I just had to hiss and walk away. But after I did, I felt bad that maybe I was too rude.
Another guy actually stood at the other end of the road one time like that and told me to come ova... I acted rude too...
So now, am like is there a better way to act to guys that feels to big to walk up to where you are. I don't want to get beaten up one day

Nope u were not rude, u acted well

Stantiques: It was a mistake here . Wen will dey reply me . U sent them email before

Never sent them mail before

Stantiques: I sent email to sevis here , mjfee.SEVIS@dhs.gov. Please is this correct .

fmjfee.SEVIS@dhs.gov

You forgot the first f

Stantiques: @House .

Rescue me , I paid sevis fee for an M-1 visa catergory last year but did not go for the interview , I want to know if I can switch the fee for my F-1 visa now coz my interview is next week . Need some real advise

Yes, I think u can. . . follow this link http://www.ice.gov/sevis/i901/faq7.htm

Explains better

sexybol: Hello House,
Can someone please give a true picture of my fate. I recently applied for a visa to Italy(Schengen) and was refused with only a comment "Dubious and insufficient documents". Honestly at that i point [b]i av a strong feeling that the Bank statement i used may not be real or unconformable.[/b]I was going through the forum to see where i went wrong with my application when i came across the UK Visa Ban thing. Is this rule applicable to schengen too, House have i been banned from applying for schengen ?

Did you not get it from a bank, how won't you be sure?

Dyt: dat depends on ur level of communication b4 meetin
i kissed kpolli d first min i saw him

O babe, we did more than kiss

bittyend: That was what I told him to do.

The stinking attitude of naija girls make them more attractive.

Their drama is the best

ur playing with heart break

kilokeys: Hmm. I happen to b on the altar behind the piano at every service , so i hv a good view of the on-going activities in church (we r permitted to keep our eyes open to see what we are playing na!).
If i happen to notice any drama esp. from girls , whether its the anointing o, or demon leaving thier body o. I wld never woo talk more of bleep that babe. Am I being cynical?

MFM?

Lovers already on the first date

Nigerian girl anyday anytime

New week, new lie

Jamb past question. . .

So r u asking us whether u shud help the guy by disvirgining him?

logicboy: How stupid can people get when they claim that Nigeria is more morally upright than the USA. I noticed this opinion when reading comments from the Creflo Dollar assault case. They were saying that American society is not good for bringing up children. The scientists/Bill Gates/Steve Jobs/religious leaders that are from America, were they not children before becoming adults?

https://www.nairaland.com/959135/creflo-dollar-arrested-choking-daughter
https://diaryofahollywoodstreetking.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/creflo-dollar-arrest-mugshot.jpg


Morality is subjective. The simple answer is that both countries are morally corrupt and we all are too by various standards. Nigeria is number 1 in corruption while America is number 1 in xenophobic imperialism.


Let it be clear that if you think one country is more morally upright than the other for children, you are a biased fool judging on your own parenting style when there are other parenting styles that work as well, if not better than yours.

Is Nigeria moral at all?

u didn't go wrong anywhere. . . . u did what most good men would do. . .

Ur fiancee is just being unrealistic and selfish a bit. . . . For even comparing u to her ex n u stayed. . . kudos bro

penelope9: Hey Nairalanders, i have a friend She is married to a yoruba man from ijebu ode ogun state.She told me that her husband always tell her then, whenever they have a slight argument that she did not bring anything to the house and she should get out of the house and go to the street and stay there.And this her exhusband in question [b]is extremely ugly and his teeth is bad for there are some permanent greenish dirt on his teeth couple with low self exteem and agboro attitude.[/b]What do you guys think?

Well she should know that since he is an handicap, he wud win over the court and take everything

Plus why did she even marry him in the first place, didn't she notice the defects and attitude?

my personal advice, forget ur fiancee. . . my advice myt sound harsh but any guy that wants to get things done his own way by all means. . . even venue for marriage. . . .

Where is he from? It's only one village in the North I know that the bride goes to the grooms place to get married