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penelope9: Hey Nairalanders, i have a friend She is married to a yoruba man from ijebu ode ogun state.She told me that her husband always tell her then, whenever they have a slight argument that she did not bring anything to the house and she should get out of the house and go to the street and stay there.And this her exhusband in question [b]is extremely ugly and his teeth is bad for there are some permanent greenish dirt on his teeth couple with low self exteem and agboro attitude.[/b]What do you guys think?

Well she should know that since he is an handicap, he wud win over the court and take everything

Plus why did she even marry him in the first place, didn't she notice the defects and attitude?

my personal advice, forget ur fiancee. . . my advice myt sound harsh but any guy that wants to get things done his own way by all means. . . even venue for marriage. . . .

Where is he from? It's only one village in the North I know that the bride goes to the grooms place to get married

Not all of us cheat

This post is 1 man's view. . . Don't agree one bit

wow

dele55: House, Please I need advise on how to regain trust from my Girlfriend. I lied to her that i have paid for an acomodation where as, where i am staying is a Goverment apartment though not too bad, but belong to my elder brother. I am presently working but not earning much. Less i forget, i also lied to her that i am doing a monthly contribution, because she has adviced me several time to try and get an apartment of my own and go into a monthly contribution inorder for me to raise money for our proposed low key wedding. Pls i want u people to understand that getting acomodation and little money for our low key marriage is no a big problem for me, but how to regain my trust. I was actualy the person that opened up to her because i wanted to be real, coupled with the fact that i love her and i wanted the relationship to be based on truth. Unfortunately, after opening up to her, she said we should call it a quit that she can no longer trust me again for lieing to her, even after we have done introduction. She is in her final year and wil be going for service by next year. I love her so much and i know she do to, because she has been so encouraging right from our childhood days. Please, i need advice on how to regain my trust from her.

Strike b4 this period if not its over oooo

Crown Prince: Please i am very serious and need at least five good advice to solve this matter.
My girlfriend is on two weeks holiday in my house. Atleast,it will afford me the opportunity to study the woman i will tie the nuptial knot soon with. Yesterday,we had a disagreement at a fast food restaurant where i have driven her down to meet a supposed agent facilitating some contract documentation for her. The snag is that she turn down all my input at the meeting shouting she cant trust me not even her mother when it comes to money...haba. I got angry and demostrated it by walking out on her and her supposed agent who later turn out to be a fraudster trying to con her. When i left,the con artist brainwashed her and told her fake story about me that i shortchanged him in one business dealing i had with him and that she should stop dealing with me relationship wise. Two hour later,she returned back to the house shouting and calling me names. She even called me a Gold digger because she is from a fairly rich home. I was so annoyed but kept my peace admist the barrages of insult coming my way. Twenty minute after she walk into the house and while still ranting,someone knock on the door alerting me that the back windshield of my vehicle has been shattered by unknown person because the said car was actually parked outside my compound. Even these incidence did not stop her as she went on calling me all unprintable names.
The koko is that after i convinced her that those her contract contacts are fraudsters and she confirmed it,she fell to the ground crying and begging that i forgive her and give her a third chance that actually she did not break my windscreen.
Please,advice me on what to do because i am losing my mind right now

Mi o gbo oyinbo

sexkillz: [color=#000030]What is the distance between the ear and the nose, and what is the speed of smell?[/color]

Let someone whisper into ur ear now n tell me if u can smell his/her mouth. . .

joeydozzy: I hate that word

Pele

CosmicJames: that will be risky. What if two of them say yes, what I'm I going to do? I don't want to marry two wives nither did I want to break anybody's hrt.

I said pick the cheaper bride price

so her ear can smell

am confused, pls someone shud explain

It's very true

From my experience, ur going to leave the good new guy for the old guy cos the new guy is good. . .

We can advice u to stick to the guy but u wud probably listen to the deception of the old guy n think ur following ur heart. . .

Hope u see the hidden advice I just gave u

mko abiola: I av been dating my fiance for a year,bt imet her as a virgin.she said she is not ready for sex until afta marriage,the truth is that I can't hold my body.moreover, I don't want to play the game outside cos of desperate ladies who might want to hold me tight.
Moreso, is there any health implication for a virgin if she wants to give birth.pls ur advive is highly welcome.

She won't be a virgin when she wants to give birth, this guy wan use scope for her sha

NOIBMUUL: #Don't actually know where to put this but i trust the moderators to re-post in the right section.#

I met this intelligent and sweet young girl like 3 months ago, 19years old, and although I'm aware she sleeps around but not in the capacity and oftenness of a prostitute/runs girl/casual sex worker. She had a child last year immediately she finished from Secondary School. While I've offered to help her with her education and even link her with an NGO for women and children just so she can live a better life, it still beats me that she's turned a deaf hear to this opportunity. Personally, I've given her money on several occasions to get her WASSCE results and register for the next UTME exam but I could fill the whole of Nairaland with her excuses. Personally, i'm fed up with her and even told her not to call me again until she gets her WASSCE result but deep inside I feel the urge to help her get back on the right track. Now, before the torrents of comments come rushing in, i need to state clearly here that I have not slept with her, though she's tried enticing me on a couple of occasions.

Some of my friends have asked me to let her be but i don't think i share their opinion. So i beg the question, should I just let her carry on with her life or still continue to persuade her?

Are you her father or an NGO? Wetin concern u? let her be

First u claim to be "Thugnificent", then u embarrass the name by asking this dumb shiiitt. . . . I should have trademarked the name when I had the chance to

Congrats on starting ur NYSC

So what's the poster asking us?

Eeya

sanadeb001: @Kpoll my father is sponsoring me. Do i need a sponsorship letter for that again
The transcript you mentioned is it a WAEC transcript or which one. i got some people who applied before and was granted with out toefl and sat.

You still need a sponsorship letter no matter who is sponsoring
Nope I think more if sec skool transcript since ur going for b sc. . . . Plus its not compulsory, its just a suggestion by me

sanadeb001: @Kpolli I'm not that satisfied with my former degree i did education economics and i intend doing business economics. i face a challenge when i went for a seminar in Ghana, and i felt I'm an half bake graduate that is why i want to go for another undergraduate degree so as to be able to meet up. I'm not that interested in writing my masters now...
The Document i have with me now are
My I-20
Admission letter
MRV receipt
Sevis fee receipt
Statement of Account
My Ds160 form
Appointment confirmation page
4 passport photograph
And my supporting document, my result, NYSc cert, that all

Well did u try finding out if with ur present B.Sc. u cud do a masters in Business Economics? On a side note, I do not agree with ur seminar that makes u feel hal-baked. . . .

Well for ur docs, u also need
Sponsorship letter
Toefl n SAT
Transcript
WAEC ur going for B.Sc

payne4real: Pls,is it important to write standerdized test b4 one can get UG admission in usa.i also want to kw if standerdized test is a prerequisite for getn a student visa.pls nd response ASAP.tnx

It's not compulsory nor important but its adviced. . . Some schools don't require it but the VO myt refuse u based on this or he myt not even ask u for it at all. . . It's by God's Grace

stephen121: I went to my cousin's house for the holid, my cousin is married and six months pregnant. The husband came back 4rm work and she served him dinner ..beans. After taking two spoons, he became furious and started shouting that my cousin did nt fry the beanns. Well I decided to keep quiet because it was a family matter. Suddenly I saw him hitting my sister with a stick, i told him to stop hitting her because of fried beans and he slapped me. I was angry and Ileft the house that night, even though my cousin begged me to stay. The next morning I got a call that my cousin was in the hospital. On getting there my cousin was lying on the bed badly beaten. What should be done to this man... Advice please

And you didn't organise boys to beat him

RIP Naija's best leader ever

People are now copying you and calling it Democracy, Your legacy still lives on

RIP my Nigga

sanadeb001: Good day all, i have an interview at the American embassy. What and what will i take along and what are they likely to ask from me. I'm going for an undergraduate degree. Please i really need your help in dis forum.
i already have a degree in education and going for another under graduate degree in business economics. Please i need and urgent advice as my interview is next week

So ur asking for a crash course b4 ur interview, OK what documents do you have with u and can u defend ur reason for choosing usa, ur skool n this new course (instead of doing a masters)

stephen121: kpolli
so you dont know its 190

Tell me ur joking?

I personally know 190, so now am shocked

sexkillz: [color=#000030] What's your age group? Middle teens(15-17), late teens (18-19)or early twenties(20-23)?[/color]

From her write up, middle teen

nikki 26: Hello Nairalanders, am a single lady in a relationship of two years. Recently, we had to part because of his work. I met this new guy and he's swept me off my feet. Against my will, am beginning to fall in love with him. I enjoy every second we spend together,I feel much more comfortable around him as we play and chat like kids.
My boyfriend is ok, but he's more touchy and sensitive. I have to watch every word I say to him cos he just flares up at the slightest provocation. I find myself loving him less and less every day.
The new guy is asking for my hand in marriage but am scared. He's had series of girlfriends in the past and am afraid of contacting a disease, yet I miss him whenever we are apart. We agreed. never to have sex till we get married. Am confused

I agree wiv Flora's boy, this is a lie. . . .

You parted ways wiv ur bf cos of his work, ur a single girl in a relationship,

Then u fell in love with someone that myt have staphylococcus. . .

And as Flora's boy said, no so called player wud buy a car without test driving

So either ur lying or ur new guy is pressing the right button and u wud soon pull down those skirts. . . So better manage ur touchy bf like that

[quote author=Lord_Reed]Your spouse/gf/bf constantly tells you they have dreams of you cheating on them meanwhile nothing of such is going on neither have you any such plans.

For me I think it hurts to be constantly under suspicion.

What do you think?[/quote]Dreams come true