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firstolalekan: Randy what?

:DRandy Orton abi na Randy Otu?

moca: Everybody is angry with me as regards that email thing. I deleted my email and nl account d same time. Sorry o.

Whenever u move to abj, let me know.
Will move back there very soon. Lagos don tire me jor. Too much stress.

Lol....ba damua. I have a place i can stay already but i have to get a job first before moving. I'm sure God would work out something soon for me. Will let you know tho.

U''ve been a sister through and through. Thank you. I appreciate.

Caracta: Hmmmmmm



Nice thread. I'm learning a few things. I respect single moms, especially the ones that live up to their responsibilities.

@kreamidiva, i'm so glad you are happy and cheerful now. May God keep the adorable kids safe and healthy.

Gracias Ma'am. God bless u and urs.

Na wah for all these people o...

She can do no wrong in my eye.....

Ri-ri, ekele m gi ooo.

moca: Hahahahaaa! I was worried about u and over and over again I ask after u.
And no, I knew tru ur posts. U randomly chip that in and I decoded. I'm not up to two yrs in nl.
Infact, at a time I traced u to culture section(igbo kwenu thread)
I sign up most times to read from certain posters and have fun, and also check on some few individuals that I take to heart. U r one of them.

D good news is u have a vibrant spirit so u will def bounce back.
We r fine.
Do u stay in abuja?
(Pardon my asking)

Awww... thank you very much. I actually tried to reach out to you but you didn't respond to my last email so i backed off.

No. I don't live in Abuja. I live in the east for now but i would move as soon as i get myself something in Abuja. I've always wanted to live in Abuja. But God dey. No wahala.

Biko where the Nemmy girl dey make i collect my own.

The guy and his pastor are busy calling you and your "spirit husband" and you are here calling the guy and his "diabolical" dad.

The guy could open a thread too wondering if you are indeed the architect of his misfortunes too since "the man from God" has said "your spirit husband" isn't happy.

Bottom line is,you guys need time apart. I don't know how you'll go about it but you have to be resolute and break away from him for sometime and see what happens.

Finally,prayer is the key.

God bless u and goodluck.

moca: So happy for u sis.
My crying was actually imagining what u passed tru. I knew b4 u were having a rough time.

So so happy for u. Wishing u all d best.

Abeg send my regards to ur little darlings

I was awake when u posted this message! Why didn't u whistle my name?

At the bolded,how did you know? I thought i was covering up well. Lol...


Na wa for you o..... i was wondering whose moniker this was until i went through your posts. YPP na wa for you. How u take disappear? At the time i woke up last night, you crossed my mind and i wondered where you had gone. Anyway it's good to know you're still here.

Remember sometime when i posted somethin like "5 years down the line,he wants me out of his house". But i edited the post and claimed all was well that it was all a joke? You were concerned and i covered up still.

Anyway,it's well. God has shown me that he truly exists.

How u dey sha and te family? Best regards...

moca: Kreamidiva, sighs.
I applaud u.
And I pray and hope u meet one who will treat u like d queen u r one day.
Read ur post and had to trace u here.

Marriage is good. Its so bad some people don't find anything good in a very wonderful institution God created and blessed.
If I find myself in an uncompromising situation, I will go too with my head held high.

U will have a turn around.
Its well my sister(big hug)
(Honestly, I'm crying)

And to all others, I pray God surprise each and every one of u again.

Abeg anytime u all come online to chat and gossip, just mention my moniker, I might be online and I will join u guys so we all can have fun together. It doesn't have to be bbm thing.

Thanks all.

Hahaha... biko stop crying o. Me,i dey kampe. The other day i was gisting excitedly about my separation with a friend of mine and my mum said "what is it about this separation that is exciting you so much?" I told her that if she had ever gotten close to death in the hands of my dad or gotten close to running mad that she would be excited just like me when she leaves.

I wasn't allowed to make friends,i wasn't allowed to use a blackberry,i wasn't allowed to use the internet,i wasn't allowed to work,to socialize,to drive. Nothing. He never went out with me. Usually came back late from work,(late as in 3am o lol)... hardly ever prayed with the kids and i,going to church was war too. Mehhhnnn! I was almost choking to death. I was solely dependent on him and that was why he always believed that i couldn't go anywhere. I would stay and take his B.S.

Like Monalisa Chinda said,she didn't walk out of her marriage. She RAN out of her marriage! Lol. I
ran for my dear life. I left when he abandoned us as usual and haven't lost a night of sleep.

God is indeed faithful.

grayht: jealous ones still envy

Lol.... btw,i like how u wrote ur signature downside up.

eagleonearth: y som peeps dey lyk drink panadol for other people's headache...nawao

Just the same way u are drinking panadol extra on top my post!

hensben: so u dey wear bra b4 u enter kitchen cook, either pregnant or not

I enter the kitchen to cook with or without bra but i DON'T upload braless pictures on instagram since my bwesties are already romancing my stomach!

rozzay: My mail doesn't work, I just removed d working one from my pm. Tomm many stupid mails. Here it is ill remove it as soon as u r done -

Seen.

rozzay: Ok kul, hmmm am tempted to ask many questions buh don't want to do dat in public

Lol...i know.

rozzay: Awwwww I can imagine. God bless u nd dem. I just put mine on my profile he s 11. Urs

Yeah... just checked u guys out. Handsome dude with his mischievous smile. Lol...

My daughter is going on 4 next month and the boy is going on 2 in January.

rozzay: Yes I am, I have a lovely son

Awwww...how old is he?

Got this gorgeous girl and adorable boy.... They light up my world.

rozzay: Naso o, if uve put ur pin alredy remove it asap. Btw is d group interesting

I dunno my dear...I'm still trying to join but we'll see..

Are u a single parent?

rozzay: I would love to join too but I dey fear to put pin for here o

Exactly o...

I got the op's number from another thread and sent a message instead. I've even started receiving invites from ppl i don't know...

?......

Well,make i join kwa.

. Pls add me.

Does that guarantee a happy,successful and blissful marriage

Op,face ur work!

leo1234: Your bolded didn't work

Lol.... don't mind the rubbish

amakufrancis: Lol come agbor make una make marriage arrangements, u go b second wife?
na uni illorin u dy ba?

Nooo!!! I be naija babe. Nwa Igbo for that matter. White girl no go come for my country come chance me kwa!! Make she take second wife na be suppose be first cos i don dey eye the guy tey tey tey!!!

Man wahala....

I like the girl......


Is everything in this world about marriage

Hian!!!

Pounding yam?

This is 2014 not 1914!!!!


I love the way her bwesties are staring at the mortar and pestle in shock!!!


Dem come snap pinshure without bra put for instagram. Anyway,ara dara ada obugi na nke ya agwula...

And i was busy eyeing the man as second husband o.

Kai! All these white girls sef!



Looks like Eddie Murphy in "Coming to America"....

tchidi: Nooooo!!!!!!!!!
The only reason I watch Fashion Police .....
[b]Kostiopo...warefa and that purple haired peacock-y lady [/b]are just not enough motivation.. And Giulliana is not always around..

RIP to the dead.

Lol at the bolded .... this lady sef.

eyeview: This is a woman who at her age should have drawn closer to her maker but she instead uses her show to make derogatory statement against God and Jesus christ. A woman who at her age should have been contented with her looks after countless plastic surgeries,but she keep subjecting herself to more plastic and enhancing surgeries. Its sad that she never made it alive from this last one, its sadder that she died at the peak of vanity. It would be saddest if she didn't make peace with that God she fondly mocked while her other vain friends and transgenders laughed.
I would have said Rest in Peace but I would be lying if she didn't know God.

Chai!!!!! Maybe she didn't know that "there is God in everything we do".

ephee: kreamidiva u ar a strong woman.God bless u and ur wonderful kids.some men ar not just wort d effort.luv u for taking d bold step. some women ar in worse situations nd cant take a bold step til they find their bodies 6ft below.few monts later they start fucking another babe

It took God to make me take that step. I wondered what people would say. I wondered how i was going to cope because i wasn't working and didn't have a dime on me. God showed me mercy. I left and have not looked back or regretted leaving....

Nna,but i saw plenty o.... Kai!

[quote author=ephee]av been seprated for a while now.mine was due to deceit and domestic abuse.i saw it coming but stil tried to make tinz work instead my hubby was irresponsible nd violent.i was depressed and lost my self esteem.
since av been out av neva felt this relieved nd happy especially wit my angel around me/quote]


I've been separated too from my husband for some months now and the peace i feel deep down is second to none.

I have two absolutely wonderful kids. The best things that ever happened to me.I was severally abused physically,emotionally and verbally. I lost my self-esteem,became depressed and suicidal i was gradually losing my mind but still stayed for the kids.

Then one day,my daughter made assertions to the fact that daddy was always shouting at me. It then dawned on me that i was only fooling myself if i was staying in the fluke of a marriage because of my kids because as young as my daughter was,she knew daddy was not treating us well. I decided that i wouldn't allow her grow up with the mentality that what daddy was doing was right. (In fact, i told him what the little girl said and his response was "I'll shout at you in whatever way i like, whenever i like and wherever i like"!!!) Hahaha....And after one last incident,i left with my kids.

He has not asked about us and i don't look forward to him doing that because i am in a happy place. I am no longer worried about what would cause the next fight or who he's sleeping with at the moment or who he sleeps with when he abandons the kids and i for weeks and stays in hotels in the same town! Lol.... The deceit, the lies..... smh!

At my age, all that flooded my mind was death! But now, i want to live long to see my kids grow up to be the best that God has made them to be.

Op,be of good cheer. I don't know about divorces but hopefully,people who are conversant with it would come in and give you the best,much needed advise.

It is well.