₦airaland Forum

SmellySperm:
Bros now wey u don dey find woman to fvck u get money?

sinaj:
Wow! Nice one.

I thought he would have lavished it on drinks. Dude is really smart.

victorian:
As long as the beautiful girls are still alive, they can be saved and their destinies taken away from those Yahoo boys.

Just bring any lady he wants to marry to my church and her destiny will be given back to her. As long as she's dedicated to our church programmes, her story is easy as ABC.

obembet:
You see reason why Nigeria might never be great. A fraudster who has duped many innocent people. There is probability that some.of his maga has commit suicide.

Saffi:
The reason why it works for him is because he is stinkingly rich, the submission will always be there. This can’t work for the average joe, just saying.

Emperor2463:
Today I'm celebrating 4 days of no masturbation

2buffagain:
Ladies and Gentlemen in Naija, I'll be 100 with you...

If you are dating someone and they are trying to migrate to USA with a non-immigrant visa, and they say they are coming back for you....chances are you are better off just freeing them and remaining friends while you face your life where you are.
I bet you neither you nor them knows the challenges that will have to be faced along this road.

Not every US Visa is a migration Visa. There is schooling visa, visiting visa, etc.
And visas are very restrictive about what you can and cannot do, and if you can even be allowed to apply for any other visa.

When a person has at least a green card, that is US permanent residency, and they are on a home run to US citizenship.
A green card means a person has no serious limitation within the US besides voting (you can do that when you become a citizen).
It is also at this GreenCard level that your trans-atlantic lover can BEGIN the process of sending for you.

But the road to a green card is long and uneasy if you didn't win a US diversity lottery..
Seeing as Nigeria is one of the countries banned from the Us Visa lottery (a program whereby people gamble to win a US greencard), no Nigerian as at some years back can get a quick GreenCard through that route. They have to go the looooong route.

There are various do-able long paths to the US greencard e.g:
- Naija -> School in US -> OPT -> H1B -> Eb2/Eb3/Eb4 employment based GreenCard
- Naija -> School in US (PHD) -> Lots of exploits -> extra-ordinary person Eb1 GreenCard
- Naija -> Have $500k - $1M to "invest" in the US -> Eb5 Investor Greencard. The higher you spend the more the priority (tief tief agbada types love this one)
- Naija -> marry a US citizen or Greencard holder -> Marriage based Greencard.

_{each '->' sign can mean any where from 2-10 years!}

But all these things have been made longer and even sometimes down right unattainable by Trump.
Now, companies that had once hired people through the H1B won't even look at you unless you have an OPT, which means you have more time to "try to get" an H1B.....which you might still kuku not get.
Also, you need to basically be Elon Musk or Bill Gates before you can come in through the "Extra-ordinary person" route.
If you thought you had money before, Trump wants to raise the $$$ range for investing, so the #BigAgbada will probably have to tief more.

The insults are so bad right now that in the US, Trump is trying to fight their 13th amendment so as to prevent people who visit the US to give birth from having that child become an automatic US citizen.

Now if the UK was your target, it's even worse because Theresa May and her people are mimicking Trump's US anti-immigration agenda to the point of them going further by trying to deport black UK citizens with Caribbean origins(https://www.npr.org/2018/05/02/607652305/caribbean-immigrants-to-u-k-threatened-with-deportation).


The only thing still left open that these rulers have been unable to touch/complicate yet is Greencard by marriage...and this is where we continue our thread from...

Your boo will mostly have to marry someone there....but it's not that simple.
This process also takes SEVERAL years before they get a greencard, trigger a messy divorce, rebuild themselves, before then being able to START sending for you.
However it is important to keep in mind that:
- Marrying someone purely for a greencard is a scam and is thus a very serious punishable offense worthy of deportation and a ban from the US.
- The safest thing, is to simply marry for real, live in the same house, etc.
- Sensible marriageable people can smell a potential marriage scam from a mile away now and don't enter marriage with guys/girls who don't have papers.
- Since the prime marriage prospects avoid you, You'd probably have to pay someone with a complicated life to do the marriage deal with...and these persons are usually crazy in some way...as they would have to be to collect money to marry someone they don't know.
- There is also the risk of the person you are married to taking advantage, asking for more money midway and/or sometimes even cancelling your greencard application...meaning it was all for naught and you'd then have to go back home anyway in failure after all the suffer.

It's a hard long risky road, one that you in Naija may be totally ignorant of.
In fact sometimes one could deduce that if the same amount of time, hussle and abuse-reception to get a greencard was spent building themselves in Naija, they probably would be farther in life themselves with more human dignity.

All that said...
The easiest thing for your boo to do is to marry a US resident FOR REAL (you don't wanna fake-marry someone you don't see yourself living forever with) and forget you so he/she can move on with their life. After marriage to a good person for a couple years, there will always come that strong urge to just BE DONE with the trans-atlantic wahala and move on with life, forgetting you in the process. Putting out the bad karma of Divorcing, then waiting to recover, and then the beginning of another battle just to send for you...is a serious long ting. You are basically baggage.

There are still some fairly easier, civilized countries to migrate to right now: e.g Australia, Canada (prepare for cold), etc. But if boo's plan is US or UK, and they didn't go as residents, just move your life along.
Don't stunt the development of your life waiting for all that. If you find a functional stable relationship where you are, go with that and free each other to face your chosen destinies untethered and without baggage.

There are many people in Naija who enjoy life to the fullest more than yankee people sef. Focus on being one of those people.So in all these, are you married to a green card holder?

Leriebloom:
Awww. What love can do.Its cool that you are supporting him but there is always a limit to everything. Never dedicate everything you have to a guy who isn't your husband because when he dumps you it would hurt like b!tch. Just be careful, advice him to get a partime job, that would help too. He wouldn't have to be running to you everytime when he needs money. Btw. I am seeing the way you defend this guy, you mus9t rly love him.

Saddist:
. Love has turned dis gal stupid... How can u give such amount of money to a guy u aren't even married to... U're such a big fool.. . Madam shine ur eyes well...stop thinking with ur emotions... Ur bf sef nor get shame... He dey ask for money from he gf... shame suppose catch am.... Boyfriend my foot... mtcheew.... May God give u sense... Amen

YomzzyDBlogger:

Nmeri17:
Yes, her responsibility is impressive. But you know she can still end up as one, right? The only Nigerian glitzy marriages that have survived are those of Mercy Johnson and Omotola. Notice they've both got responsible, cultured husbands? Not quite the kind of attributes you'd ask of a bartender. Inasmuch as I'd have wanted the best for her, a similar fate to Lillian Esoro awaits. Sad.

EweduAfonja:
my boo

sinaj:
Some people can beg for Africa ehn!

Saff:
The mods knew what they were doing when they put this on the front page. Anything to bash a woman. He is over 18, not a minor. Their life, their business. Smh

Elayna:

BillgatesMaigad:
I would love to hang out with you

That's if you don't mind

sinaj:
His village people finally got him.
Rip to him

sinaj:
His village people finally got him.
Rip to him

Yambee:
My morning devotion.

May all the Ebri's in our lives be compelled by a power above them, to change their evil plans towards us.

sinaj:
Who him masho epp

Millenniumlady:
Chimooooo I feel for them though but men can be heartless atimes

donigspain:
Manage it or try unemployment.
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I started my professional career in 2014 on a salary of 25k. I needed to learn new skills which were not taught in school and the experience of working in a corporate environment.

Six months down the line it was increased to 50k because I proved myself. Another six months (2015), it doubled and has continued to grow since then. Today, my tithe (if I dey pay am sef) is higher than the 42k we are talking about here but I started from somewhere. I now have four years of active experience and a developed skill set.

If 42k is not enough for you, TRY UNEMPLOYMENT which pays ZERO as salary.

vanida6:
I dislike his eyes

the guy is not good in singing

Elayna:

Millenniumlady:
Why would you say you ffucked when you know that you'll smash me and I'll smash you At the end of the day we both benefit from it...... I mean it is what it is