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soul_glo: I am not judging anyone who decided to move on from a spouse that cheated just once but I know that that would not be enough for me to end a marriage. I don't think I could ever I have seen a good woman get stupid and send out naked pictures which is the same as cheating. Yes good people can do a bad thing but do you forget all the good things that he/she has done

well, we have a different perception about sex, so I would not expect you to understand my view on this subject matter. But one aspect of your reply that I don't support is you calling a woman who sends out her nude pictures, a good woman. Why on earth would a woman stoop so low to that extent? Is she auditioning for a role in a porn movie, or what else would make her act that way? Only animals like to be seen nude, not humans! Yes people make mistakes, but the mistake of sleeping with someone else in my opinion, is like her drinking a deadly poison and telling me to come and kiss her! Like I said, we have different views on this. Let me rest my case here before someone that hates the truth comes to starts whining at me.

@op, To every deed there is a root. Those are the roots to the actual cheating.

Well thought out.

@op Wow, what a nice write up! No wonder those ladies have things to gossip about, because they are simply talking about guys like you. On a serious note, what else those she want from you? You asked her out TWICE and she turned you down TWICE, for what reason -- she does not like you -- later kept flashing the person you don't like and you "mumu-ly" (sorry, I am very angry at you!) called her back, for what? Why is she torturing you? And I can't blame her because you gave her the privilege. Let me ask you one further question, who is a friend? I know a friend is not someone that flashes you ten times a day, so keep a friend in her rightful place. One thing I know is "nobody is 'indispensable", so all those your I like her so much is just a statement. You are a man, so act like one! Look around, and see that there are so many options -- you can tell her this. The longer she lingers around, the more you miss out on that real person, not this mirage you are hoping to date. Pick your solution from my rants, because you are an adult that does not need to be spoon feed.

soul_glo: @ Pagan I disagree with you. Cheating should not always lead to divorce. I know men and women who have forgiven a cheating partner and their relationship got better. They had to put work into it and it but when the partner that cheats is remorseful and patient with the healing process that marriage can heal.

As for the OP it is safe to say most of what he said is nonsense. If someone cheats and follows his advice they will likely be married but looking over their shoulders forever. The kind of women who stay with a man with his mentality are the ones who do not think that there is a solution. They end up bitter and resentful. When such people strike back we usually end up seeing it in the news. It never ends well. Not today.

And I know so many marriages were cheating ruined everything. There are so many instances I can state, but I don't have time for that. You must have heard or seen or even experienced the ugly part of this.

In one sentence, a woman that sticks with a man that cheats is a f**l! What the hell is she doing in the relationship.

Obiagu1: Nawa oo, this virgin thing seems to be on the rise!

Who told you girls that guys like virgin girls?
I'd rather send a virgin girl out to get a little wild and get some experience before I consider dating one ever again.

In one word -- a LovePeddler!

GentleMimi: Hmmmm,na so.It takes outstanding grace for a man or boy to be faithful.Its not a matter of man or boy.

Yes, a boy can be called a man as soon as he behaves like one. No age restriction.

Iaz93: . Mouth action? No!
Na d condom wey you dey use na im dey tear na.

tear ke! I have never even used one before.just read that they aren't that safe, so I zipped up.I won't allow some 10 mins enjoyment ruin me.

obyrich: What's your definition of God-fearing? There is something whorish about your display pix though you exude appreciable intelligence in your posts. Sometimes good girls, in a bid to look trendy, inadvertently project unpalatable images of themselves thereby attracting unfaithful guys who mess them up and they end up concluding that ALL men are WICKED. There are millions of faithful guys all over the place. You can only attract your kind. My take!

nice one.

GentleMimi: I believe some are capable of being faithful....but they are sooooo rare! Its like,if a guy is a player,he gets more respect and recognition from his friends.But a gentle and faithful guy is often made mockery of by his friends...na those ones them dey call ''mugu''...abi na lie? I have seen it happen!

You have seen it happen to boys, not men. Because a man would stand firm with his decisions.

Iaz93: Condom still full market

Condoms can not give you maximum protection. Don't you do mouth action on the "girlsssss" and condom sef they slip or tear.

Guidette: Did you have to abuse me? Nawa o. Why are you so pained? Because I just described you up there? lol
If this isnt news to you, let me tell you. I can survive without a man. Infact I would rather die a spinster than to marry the wrong person just because I wanted to answer Mrs....

There is hope for the Nigerian woman!

Hmmmm! Guys be very careful, because "she-he" MIGHT be out to scam you. I have said my own.

In addition, no followers.so are the people that pm-ed you? You can now come out clean.

Nice trick. One thread. Just joined. Attached a fine girl's picture to your profile. My guess is you are a male and the only thing you are after iya traffic to that your website. Your trick worked cos you must be having those hits by now!

Obiagu1: To marry a virgin is a punishment already and for a virgin to marry a virgin, kai, this is like two blind men walking down the street.

Both of you will remain naive even after years of marriage.
Two mumus under the same roof.

Naive ke? In this present world were there are books, audios, videos and so on about sex education? I won't be surprise if one can get live training on it! Lol.

@op I believe everyone should go for what they want and they should not settle for less, under any circumstances.

Segeggs: stop acting as if you are one of those decent girls that only need love from a man and not material things. Girls like you jump from car to car, taking pics at the passenger's seat and uploading on fb. All you want is MONEY!MONEY!!MONEY!!! Such that when a broke guy with a bright future who can only afford flowers comes your way, you bullsheet him and yet you come here with a cooked up persona.

Haha! Na fight? Please take am easy and respect the lady.

HisRib: It's NOT something just prostitutes do. It's becoming common for all women who don't think they will find the right man in time to have children.

Women aren't like men. When it comes to having children, we have a biological clock. A man can become a father at any age.

As I mentioned earlier, I know a lady who tried to do it, but her bf caught her. She is no prostitute. She's a good woman with a promising career. However, she's 33 and keeps going from one failed relationship to another. She wants kids.

Why shouldn't she consider adopting a child? There are many kids/babies without mothers and they really need one. The fact is, not every woman would get married!

kulyie: they dont care about all that.they are only in it for the money.ask baby mamas,pimps,those who own prostitution rings/cartels and prostitutes

That is why I pity this country. We all just have to wait for the repercussion of the decisions we have made collectively.

martronilla: Wow! those women should stop it o.... if they continue, they are just gonna create a generation of Bastards...

Nice once jare. what does a sperm stealing mother expect to give birth to?

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I am not in supportive of this action, because I myself was just planning on subscribing to their pay-for-2-months-get-one-month-free package, but at least I am thankful to them for the ones they have allowed me to use and the one I am using -- we all should. I even read from Kayswag100's thread that those of us presently on the plan are given the privilege to expend the plan û what else can we ask for?

NB: The above statements are my honest and personal views and I would not condone any invective against my person.

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
I have resolved we will never date again. But she's disturbing me with calls. She calls me every now and then begging for forgiveness.

block her calls, then.

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
Should I forgiver her?

No! I didnt want to comment before, but you just ruined your whole write up with that singular question. Forgive, for what? Are you guys not scared of AIDS? In case you don't know, condoms are not that safe and one of my uncles died of this disease once, and I think he is not foolish enough not to protect himself. You have done well so far, but you still have some lapses in the handling of the case. Please "no Bleep up o"!

tpia@:
abeg sharap!

seems like you have comprehension problems, na oversabi dey worry you.

i even went through your posts and saw where you called women prosti.tutes.

for your mind you said something abi?

yes, if you do your so called dna test, dump the child and then the child turns out even better without such a lousy presence in his life, what will you do then? And if your dna test is positive yet the child turns out a ne'er do well like yourself, who you go blame?

That is why people like you deserve to marry those prostitutes i was taking about, and I think you must be one of those ******, who would like to put his shot at success in his children hands. Work for yourself and stop looking for a life line in children. I stand by my point that a prostitute mother ends up giving birth to bastards. And many of this children are the ones that terrorise the community.

tpia@:
it would be nice if you did the dna test, it came out positive, then you did it again some decades later and it came out negative. But the children are millionaires by that time.

or vice versa- the dna test came out negative, then some decades later you got a positive result but the kids are CEOs of a fortune 500 company.

I wonder who would be smiling then?

What are saying gan? Do you mean you can father bastards, because of their uncertain future? What if they turn out to be armed robbers, or kidnappers? Suck it joor!

Midax & Phoenix:
As much as we can't verify the source of this info --XYZ , na wa for ghana media when we thought that sahara reporters, premium times and the sun hold the aces in rumour mongering and junk journalism, we just have to savour the news.

Most of these episodes play out in nigeria too, particularly during visa lottery stuff (To prove paternity).

I have resolved and be it resolved to do paternity tests for my children immediately after birth. Without the knowledge of my wife though!

Its not that I don't trust you dear, I just want to be sure the nurses or doc didn't swap the baby!!

In the early 2000s ,Most of the first child in nigerian marriages are bastards abi na illegitimate child dem dey call a̶̲̥̅♏.

How many union start with ''will you marry me'', most of them start with ''I'm pregnant and I can't abort it''

I have a friend that met with a lady 5 days to her wedding claiming they are doing send-forth!

What if that last minute free-kick produce a goal?

lol. point taken man.thanks for the invaluable advice.

IAMBREEZY: like seriously?well i don't think she is that was just her opinion.

Maybe, but her posts made me come to that conclusion.

IAMBREEZY: alright you need a girlfriend then,or you don't date guys?

She is a feminist and most of them always end up as lesbians.

Sarah a: I have crush on a guy for good 8years , but this guy no even notice all my green light.Just last year I gave up on him.

8 years, and you could not tell him? Can you still call that crush? Think it through.

This is what I have been saying, is she not a prostitute? Trust me, her boss is just one of her so called "maga". You are now free op. Because of money, they are willing to sleep with ANYTHING!