₦airaland Forum

omlueh:
So if the woman must lose her life she should still sticks to better and for worse, why are you guys these wicked, so your sister should remain and die in a marriage that is not working out all in the name of for better and for worse.hmmmmmmmmm

Show me where I implied staying in an abusive marriage. Also show us where Dakore was/is Abused.

victorian:
You asked a question, the same question my late dad asked me when late Princess Diana of England had an accident with her lover in the same car, they were driving in. And at that moment she was about leaving everything behind, her marriage, her sons and her husband the Prince Charles. But because the family of Charles could not bear the shame, people knew the accident who took Princess Diana life with her lover was masterminded. So I told my dad but why did she want a divorce from Prince Charles, they are very powerful family in England and so rich with lots of rules.

My dad said if u were in her shoes and brought up in a low class family, I will behave like her too.

He said but because I Was brought up differently with certain rules and regulations. I know I have to behave at all times. I know I can't go partying anyhow, I know I can't dress anyhow, I know I have to watch my every move publicly because I know the family I come from. I know i have to understand my husband cannot be at home everytime playing love, because he has so many commitments out there to keep the family running. I know I can't just walk away from my marriage just like that. I know I have to consider the kids and what people will say.


So if were married to Akande. I will stay.

I don't have dreadlocks

I don't party

I don't club.

I like social club, I can attend once in a while.

I don't want to be an actress

I don't like the limelight.

I'm a very private and shy person even though I appear different online.

I believe in family and I believe in increasing the wealth and stability of the family.

I'm not a lady who will get worked up if u don't call me everyday. It's not a must you do.

Im more into expansion of the family's wealth, character and strength, than calling me to say love words everyday. I don't have time for frivolities.

So for someone like me, I will be working by the side in my fashion biz and yes still stay married to him.

Babe stop all these timings you're typing. Stop misleading young ladies to hate men without basis. I'm sure Dakore wasn't forced or coerced into the marriage. In the past women prepare themselves to fit into their husband's world. Now you're calling this process being chained and bounded. Please and please be shameful. If the speculation and these news are curate, then Dakore is a bad wife and a gold digger. Simple


FYI, I will never allow my sister if she was the one in her place leave her marriage to chase after frivolous lists as obvious in the case. Of Dakore.

LongThickPenis:
I suspected when I saw her kissing RMD recklessly in the drama Castle and Castle on Ebony life TV.

Na which kind moniker be dis Biko nu very soon na juice towtow. Longlabia, congotinz, shinycongo

PerseDew:
it is only normal to guess or ask after she has asked us to guess.

Okay my sister. But don't follow her counsel. It's wrong. If I had Dakore as a sister I won't let her leave that marriage as there's no good grounds for her to leave. More signs pints to gold digging than otherwise

GamalNasser:

Ma ka na

bukatyne:
As in.

I don't see the problems to warrant a split.

God bless you o. Some people belong to the gutter. No matter how you clean them up they'll still roll back into the gutters where they belong. What a Narcissistic fool the young man married thinking he took a good wife

PerseDew:
I can't guess anything out of the usual. Pls what did he say?

You go like amebo ehn

GamalNasser:
He has been driving one old metallic range Rover forever and I know that gold digger lady will not like that kind thing

Street bro. Na code. Una too dey beg money na. O sha fe ko pa ra e. Unto street things

GamalNasser:
I see Olumide at some place in Ikoyi at times and I can assure you he is broke , i even told a female friend the last time we saw him that I have a feeling his wife will soon leave

Olamide wey get filing stations here and there. Its just an issue with fame. When one strikes an high one begins to look for the next thing to do. He's struggling with that phase and identity crisis not broke

zmpp:
kindly stop typing nonsense everywhere. misery truly loves company

God bless you my sister

victorian:
The reasons are not baseless o.

Yes alot of ladies will pray to be in her shoes but not every lady would want to be in her shoes.
For example : all through last year, suitors were coming but they all. Wanted me to close down my company and be a full time house wife.

Why? They were scared men will keep wooing me even after marriage and it's best to lock me up and not work. Just eat, fucvk, drink and breed babies.

Sighs
I was virtually crying to one old man who's my friend at my office building. I told him why are men like this?

Why should I close up what makes me happy, give me joy and keeps my brain working. But why are men this selfish!
Why must I shut down my life, just because I want to marry!

It's not fair! I rather remain single ,keep running my company, meet people everyday than marry and just seat at home and keep getting fatter everyday with kids running around. Why cant I have both!

Guess what the old man said?

You're conflicting issues and confusing yourself. Answer me if you had a guy as rich as Dakores husband would you operate on the same level even after marriage?


Whatever what a lady won't accept in marriage she should turn it down before marriage. Dakore if she drops this guy for the reasons quoted then fits the description of a gold digger. Forget about white washing it. It is what it is. She's a classy gold digger who took advantage of a guys goodness and messed him up after taking all the benefits she could get

wristbangle:
Haha wetin person no go see finish for Nkairaland

You no see picture some weeks back when one ilorin alfa dey cook one gal towtow?

Raalsalghul:
Still, you can't rule out Victorian's point of view because that's another perspective to it, of course in tandem with the gold digging.

I disagree. Being u ruly shouldn't be confused with being free-spirited. Being free spirited means a person doesn't see too much rules but gives up many things without any hassles arising in the aftermath. Dakore has always being high handed

victorian:
Cutting off dada, is not trimming of hair.

Do u know how it feels to cut off that thing? Especially when the person is not ready for it? But has to do it, all to look reserved and corporate in the eyes of the public. She's more like a gypsy kind of lady before her wedding to Akande .

Immediately after wedding , she assumed a different personality .

But Just let her be herself with the hair thing, it won't harm anyone in the marriage. Don't stop her from working. It won't kill anyone in the marriage.

You don't know Dakore any better than we do before now. Abeg leave all this talk. A person from the gutters would always return to the gutters. What she treated with betrayal is what many ladies are praying for. After she has stolen clout and class she's now bailing cause the fame and razz is no longer as it once was. And you're here supporting thrash. She's a gold digger.

wristbangle:
I read the article and paused at point when the family members of Olumide Akande warned him about his choice to marry Dakore.

I now have a clearer picture of an adage that says what an elder sees that made his eyes socket deep can make a child go blind.

I congratulate male celebrities who settled for ladies with contempt and humble background.

She ( Dakore in Dubai) is advertising herself for the next maga who will finance her upkeeps. Nigerian actresses are the worst set of ladies to marry. Exceptions are Omotola, Mercy Johnson and very few to mention.

Same story for chika Ike, Tonto, etc. Pathetic, glutinous and parasitic set of hungry ladies.

She's a bad example. I'm only surprised it lasted this long. The entire Akande family saw it and her high handedness. But the dude just refused to listen. This is what happens when a guy loads up on jazzed totomycin. Their sense of reasoning gets blocked


Cc Philip0906

victorian:
Na you sabi with write up.


Anyways I know what happens in marriages from the very rich to the poor. Especially when a very rich guy from a high class family marries from a free spirited girl from a low class family.

Trust me I know the end result.

I'm from a royal home and I have mixed with both the high and low. It's just too clear to see and understand if uv mixed with both class of families

Don't mistake unruly for being free-spirited. Being free-spirited is seeing no big deal if one has to trim hair to make the marriage more conducive.

Being unruly is seeing little sacrifices that can be made to make a. Marriage work as being treated badly. You have it wrong. Stop misleading the young girls. On the thread.


Many ladies are praying for what she's throwing away rather in bad fate. Your sons will need wife and if we mislead or allow young ladies get mislead how would our sons get good wives.


Tell me is it right for a woman to leave her marriage for baseless reasons. Whatever happened to for better for worse. Babe stop supporting wetin no get head




Am I not right? LilMissFavvy

franchasng:
They said we will not rule Nigeria, if so, we will make Nigeria miserable for them until they turn a new leaf or accept our terms.


Its Igbo Presidency or Yorubas will smell the heat, I don't care how they want to do it, but its either they allow an Igbo rule or allow Igbos to secede peacefully, time of reckoning is drawing closer, wait and see

My brother leave Nigeria for hausa and Yoruba. We don't need the presidency. We only want discontentment to arise and then pursue course for referendum. What we need is how to Stoke the fires so discontentment can build up. Forget presidency. Nigeria has expired

franchasng:
Olumide is not at loss, he can still marry a hotter, younger chick if he so wishes....as for Dakore, it was expected long time ago, in fact she tried lol










Meanwhile, Goodluck empowered and enriched so many Yorubas but because of their sworn hatred for Igbos and Igbo progress, they allowed Tinubu to mislead them just because Goodluck refused to make Wale Tinubu Petroleum Minister to enable Tinubu allocate free oil blocks to himself and family members.


Now look at how the former Yoruba billionaires are crumbling like packs of a joker card, from Olumide's billionaire father to GLO Adenuga to Kola Aluko and so many others I cannot list here.


What goes around comes around, you say you will continue to fight and betray your closest brothers from the east in order to serve your known enemy from the north, e concern me, 2023 will teach una more lesson about Nigeria

My brother. Don't be this way Biko nu.. De de

LilMissFavvy:
How many husbands continue to look good/hot far into marriage? The answer is few, very few, yet their wives still loves them, and are faithful. Why can't the men reciprocate same? That woman who you think is ugly can get a young fresh guy to service her far better than her husband, but she prefers to be faithful.

Chum chi.

Raalsalghul:
Baba na as I see am na him I talk.

Women and gold digging Ehn. Chai men have suffered

Idaraobong5:
not surprised....
Nollywood actresses don't want to be tie down by any man for long.

Thereby misleading the younger ladies

[quote author=victorian post=85684053]I'm not surprised.
I was expecting it anyways

I'm surprised they lasted this long!

.when a carefree woman is overly controlled in an aristocrat marriage, just to please everyone in the marriage especially the parents of the man. Just give her some few years, all hell will let loose if the parents of the guy, do not wear off their hold in the son's marriage.

Red flag I saw : She cut off her dada, that one alone ehn? It's finished in that marriage. Even though she agreed to cut it off. One huge part of her died already on that spot but the husband will not know the damage he has done to her inner being, just to please family and make her look the ideal wife in the eyes of the public.

Then making her a full time housewife? When she's a busy bee? So someonelse will not snatch her from him? I laugh in Chinese!

So tell me, Was she not snatched in the end? She couldn't even wait to be divorced properly before dating another guy, whom I believe will be a free spirited guy.

Guys what you fear most in marriage and try everything possible to make sure it doesnt happen, will eventually happen. It's life. Don't allow your fears over take the running of your once loving and smooth relationship before u guys get married.

All I see here is a free spirited woman who has set herself free from bondage called marriage. She thought she will be free like when she was single. She didn't know she will tied to all sorts of rules and regulations by the family. What a shock for her!

She's not going back to that family again she's gone for good.

Everything is not all about money. [/quote



I'm also not surprised but I don't agree completely with you.


Was she seeing another guy even before divorce . Victorian answer me fast fast abeg you

SangoOlukosoOba:
We are done with them.

Funke Akindele's marriage is next

Hahahahaha. The funniest comment I've ever seen in my life... " We are done with them "

Raalsalghul:

"Many factors were responsible but Dakore became tired of not having enough money to throw around. Her husband, Olumide, who is one of a son of billionaire businessman, Harry Akande, is broke—the money isn’t flowing like when they met, courted and married."

The above quoted depicts Dakore as a gold-digger.

I've always known you as a wicked soul

Modern Nigerian woman and her inability to stay put in a marriage. Tueh

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

What do you mean by competition with your family. Let's start from here before we take it further

FrLukas:
Wow. Like someone suggested, write a post about your experience with them and anytime anyone googles their name they will read your negative review about them.

That's the best we can do under the circumstances, really.

I'll make out time and write a review about my experience with them

FrLukas:
I just did. And I tagged the state governor, Babajide Sanwoolu too. Let's hope they come to her aid.

I really wish the policemen were discharged from their duties and the hospital closed down. I hope the perpetrators of this dastardly act suffer worse fate in their lives.

Primus almost had my mum killed about 15 years ago and are famous with unprofessional conducts. I'm shocked they haven't been closed up till now

uncleDk50:
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thanks.

How is this going?

nairamaniac:
So in your mind now, u think the way such cars and its passengers burn to ashes, there would be time to use Fire extinguishers??

U have a lot to learn.

Na so. You staged the whole accident abi. Ode